Official T-Misc Girl Help Thread

[RealCodyWayne]

So I still kinda miss my ex. Shes dating a guy I know and sort of cool with. But we talked and she said there is a possibility of us dating again. But how do I fully cope and go. I'm interested in another girl who has had a crush on me all year. Shes cute 4,10 and fun personality. Are you guys going through a similar situation?

Any advice you can give me?

[q2foou]

So I still kinda miss my ex. Shes dating a guy I know and sort of cool with. But we talked and she said there is a possibility of us dating again. But how do I fully cope and go. I'm interested in another girl who has had a crush on me all year. Shes cute 4,10 and fun personality. Are you guys going through a similar situation?

Any advice you can give me?

This is a very interesting first you probably don't want to get back with your ex you guys broke up for a reason. My advice personally would be if you haven't already talk to the other girl and find out more about her and once you get to know her get some

[jontetans]

So I still kinda miss my ex. Shes dating a guy I know and sort of cool with. But we talked and she said there is a possibility of us dating again. But how do I fully cope and go. I'm interested in another girl who has had a crush on me all year. Shes cute 4,10 and fun personality. Are you guys going through a similar situation?

Any advice you can give me?

slay them both, then dismiss them and acquire aesthetics

[Qorx]

Problem: Go to all boys school, no real interaction with chicks due to work/gym/school. In year 12, 17 years old feels like I'll never have a companion/girlfriend be around girls. Any tips, kind of annoying because all my mates have girlfriends and when we go out (I don't go out much as I drink minimally) I'm single and I'm not the best around girls. I feel awkward and not confident to talk to them, but my personality when not around them is loud/outgoing/don't give a puck attitude.

From straya, and I'd say i look decent apart from my ugly mug.

[Topp5Fitness]

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[Studentgymnoob]

I don't know if this question was asked before in this thread but to many pages lol
just wondering how to keep a convo with a chick going? it's easy to like introduce yourself but what to talk about after? what things should you ask?

[Scrincher29]

I don't know if this question was asked before in this thread but to many pages lol
just wondering how to keep a convo with a chick going? it's easy to like introduce yourself but what to talk about after? what things should you ask?

Just ask her about herself . It could be anything . Take help from surroundings . Also ask open ended questions like " what do you think about x movie " rather than " do you like x movie " .

[420Layers]

Hey brahs I go to a small high school with absolutely 0 hot chicks. I fukn hate it but what can you do brahs.

Should I just go up to hot girls I see and ask em for their #?

[Xhuljan01]

Hey brahs I go to a small high school with absolutely 0 hot chicks. I fukn hate it but what can you do brahs.

Should I just go up to hot girls I see and ask em for their #?

just f.u.c.k those ugly chicks LOL

[Xhuljan01]

Just ask her about herself . It could be anything . Take help from surroundings . Also ask open ended questions like " what do you think about x movie " rather than " do you like x movie " .

if you'r shredded you can get away with anything bro hahahah just show her your aesthetics

[Xhuljan01]

Problem: Go to all boys school, no real interaction with chicks due to work/gym/school. In year 12, 17 years old feels like I'll never have a companion/girlfriend be around girls. Any tips, kind of annoying because all my mates have girlfriends and when we go out (I don't go out much as I drink minimally) I'm single and I'm not the best around girls. I feel awkward and not confident to talk to them, but my personality when not around them is loud/outgoing/don't give a puck attitude.

From straya, and I'd say i look decent apart from my ugly mug.

dont get sad bro those things happens just try to find someone the world is full of chicks

[MikeDerr]

What to do when there's an akward silence? When you two don't have anything to talk about?

Make an excuse to leave. Try talking again later and as time goes on conversation will flow easier the more times you talk to her.

[MikeDerr]

How would you guys approach a girl that dislikes/hates you? She used to be quite friendly towards me but then my friends started being immature and she just acts annoyed when around me/us. From the few things I have seen we have commonalities when it comes to interests I just don't know how to approach her to talk about it because they rarely come up in conversation. I tried ignoring her for the longest time and I think this could be what pissed her off. First day of school she kept looking at me and I acted like she didn't exist now she gives me the ignoring treatment. I didn't mean to ignore her just was too scared (pussy) to look back. We always got along and I feel extremely comfortable around her we just didn't talk too much just sort of shared looks every now and then.

Sorry for rambling.

[wez2145]

How would you guys approach a girl that dislikes/hates you? She used to be quite friendly towards me but then my friends started being immature and she just acts annoyed when around me/us. From the few things I have seen we have commonalities when it comes to interests I just don't know how to approach her to talk about it because they rarely come up in conversation. I tried ignoring her for the longest time and I think this could be what pissed her off. First day of school she kept looking at me and I acted like she didn't exist now she gives me the ignoring treatment. I didn't mean to ignore her just was too scared (pussy) to look back. We always got along and I feel extremely comfortable around her we just didn't talk too much just sort of shared looks every now and then.

Sorry for rambling.

approach her like nothing happened and focus on it as if it were a fresh start srs. if she shoots u down keep trying the same approach for a couple days and if it still happens apologize and explain the situation truthfully and go from there

[Kanvus]

Why do teenage girls keep playing their stupid games on us? when or how do I make that **** stop.

NC or keep going thru?

[NattyNation]

How can I approach a girl I've never talked to in class she sits behind me and I've never really talked to her except for a group project but that was a while ago and before I liked her

[Mason614]

How can I approach a girl I've never talked to in class she sits behind me and I've never really talked to her except for a group project but that was a while ago and before I liked her

Find something she likes and then make fun of it. Don't be a pussy about anything. If you show weakness she will think you're just another "nice guy". You don't want that my guy.

[kwong2]

Alright, here's my situation. Me and a girl have been dating for around 2 weeks now, but recently it's gotten kinda stale and dry between us. Now i've recently heard from her best-friend (coworker) that she'd been ****ed up bad by her ex that she was with for 2 years, and that she is just holding back her feelings to not allow herself to get hurt again, (she also confesses major feelings towards her best friend but not as strongly as to me). Question is, should i just give her time and space to come to me, or should i at least nudge her a bit into spending a little amount of time with me.

Note: keep in mind, she doesn't like to initiate anything - what coworker/best friend told me.

any advice is appreciated.

[kwong2]

How can I approach a girl I've never talked to in class she sits behind me and I've never really talked to her except for a group project but that was a while ago and before I liked her

I'd say start off with a question you have about an assignment and be like "hey, you know how to do this ****?" Then lead into talk about maybe school (if shes that type of girl) and dig around in her interests, hobbies, or just generally what she's passionate about and you can take it from there.

[F3N4]

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[JaceBu]

I thought this said t-girl

[7Ryu7]

so tmisc,there is this girl who i liked at gym and sometimes i caught her lookin at me.so i got motivated and went to chat with her.
everything went fine and today (not at the gym tho)i gave her my number.two hours ago she msged me that this is her number blablabla
ok so im 99% sure she likes me,what do i do to make her my girlfriend?give me the steps please
thanks

[gaston045]

dont rush into the relationship it wont seem natural. just go workout out with her sometimes and take her out to eat or something.

[BuckToothGoat]

I def need help with girls. I'm a junior about to be a senior, and I used to go to an all boys school so I transferred to a public school my sophomore year. Thing is, I haven't really talked to any girls during my time here cause I just don't know how. I used to go to a co-ed school in middle school and I had a girlfriend there, but now I just can't seem to talk to girls. Almost all of the attractive ones are "popular" and I'm still kind of the new guy so its not like I can get them or anything. Plus most of the time a girl has to come up and talk to me first, that's how bad I am. Even when that happens I end up doing some stupid **** and they walk away (this one girl asked me a question and I just looked away a nodded or some **** I don't know I panicked). Any advice? I can't just walk up to a girl in high school and pick them up, cause that's just weird and I'll look desperate. Any advice?

[deivukx]

This still alive? I have some questions, but first is for those who were average looking and went in to great shape, did treatment from girls changed at work, school etc.? YKWIM

[ahibbs99]

So my situation is a bit weird. About 8 months ago when I was a senior in HS I had a girlfriend and we had been together for about 16 months. I was very close with one of my teachers at the time bc she coached my sister in lacrosse. The teacher's daughter was very attractive and would accompany her mom (the teacher) to all of my football games even when her school was an hour away. I realized the only reason she came to the games is bc she knew me and now I want to start talking to this girl bc me and my ex broke up. How can I start talking to this girl? I know its a bit complex and convoluted but If you can make it out and give advice it would be much appreciated.

[Droxdave2002]

Strong thread.

Lets start it off with the first qn:
How do you talk to a girl?

This is straightforward. They are human beings after all like us, to start a conversation with a girl, show that you're confident and give off that positive vibe. Ask how she is and if she asks you back, thats a green flag. If not, don't panic because most girls are crap at holding conversations that aren't about gossip. Then talk about anything small like the weather and ask open ended questions since girls like talking about themselves. Also, if shes not interested, don't take it personally and move on.

[Droxdave2002]

I def need help with girls. I'm a junior about to be a senior, and I used to go to an all boys school so I transferred to a public school my sophomore year. Thing is, I haven't really talked to any girls during my time here cause I just don't know how. I used to go to a co-ed school in middle school and I had a girlfriend there, but now I just can't seem to talk to girls. Almost all of the attractive ones are "popular" and I'm still kind of the new guy so its not like I can get them or anything. Plus most of the time a girl has to come up and talk to me first, that's how bad I am. Even when that happens I end up doing some stupid **** and they walk away (this one girl asked me a question and I just looked away a nodded or some **** I don't know I panicked). Any advice? I can't just walk up to a girl in high school and pick them up, cause that's just weird and I'll look desperate. Any advice?

remember girls are humans and are the same like us.
I got rid of this approach anxiety by talking to more people like classmates and acquaintances or even strangers. The more you talk, the more comfortable you feel in conversational atmospheres with a girl.
I focused on myself first tho like getting into shape, improving looks and not being a freak.

[Droxdave2002]

My problem isn't getting women, because they usually initiate with me. My problem is finding one that isn't a sloot and likes white guys. IKR im foreveralone, pretty much expected this fact oh wel $>Everything.

bad mindset with that "foreveralone"
first of all, get rid of your limiting beliefs like the ethnicity part and demolish those insecurities
secondly, focus on yourself and make yourself happy because if you cant make yourself happy and better, then how can you make others feel the same way?

[Droxdave2002]

Ok fix my problem, how do I know if I'm good looking? I've had numerous girls call me hot to my face, but I really don't see it. Also I have a really high sex drive and a strong love for estrogen, I could use zero to no sex drive/attraction to the opposite sex. How would I go about achieving that?

if numerous girls say you're hot to your face, then take it as a compliment and make a move. What the F man? if i had compliments like that, i would make so many moves and initiate conversations. Also if they say you're hot, then they like you of course!

the sex drive issue, you can't do anything but maybe keep your mind off it