Women are probably scared of good successful guys. Their esteem is low and they feel they don't match up and can't compete with the other women successful guys get. So they get with losers.
Women are VERY insecure.
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10-19-2022, 02:27 PM #34
A lot of it is just based on looks/attraction. And women are attracted to 'bad boys' with low inhibitions. Also there is a pretty good chance these girls have crappy fathers.
Assuming a girl has a bit of class and exclusively date guys with nice homes, cars, high incomes, etc. then they are regarded as 'gold diggers'. So guys whine either way.
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Not always. My weedman wasn't good looking; he was a lanky/skinnyfat awkward looking white guy with chitty facial hair (like a 13 year old trying to go a goatee despite being in his late 20s). He was always wearing expensive clothes, had an M3, had some bomb cush and had a rotation of chicks like he was a 2nd string NBA player.
Only reason how he got chicks was that there drug dealer swag
Funny enough is that the chicks all went away when he lost it all. He smashed the wrong chick; bf found out be she claimed she was raped. Him and his boys stormed his place, beat his ass and took his drugs, money and jewelry. He couldn't payback his suppliers so he got more of an ass whooping. He got sloppy selling drugs to pay them back and got caught and went to jail. Nobody wanted anything to do with him after he got out.Last edited by TonyTriangles; 10-20-2022 at 05:52 PM.
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Guys who have it all are way less committal. Women want to be the center of your world.
That loser is hitting her up 20 times a day wondering where she is and who she is with. He's 10x more jealous and angry than a regular dude because he has nothing going on in his life except trying to score pussy. And he's probably doing this with a couple different women at the same time driving up her competition anxiety.
Where you care more about getting a couple extra hours in at work because your roof needs replaced or something.
The loser isn't tethered down by such mundane things so he has all day and night to play games with pussy.Motorcycle crew
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11-28-2022, 12:56 PM #43
Nailed it! I agree with you. Women who have low self-esteem settle for any penis that comes their way. Some women cannot live without being attached to someone, so they'll take a loser. To them, being with the worst ******* is better than being single.
They are also the most boring. Usually full of bull**** and drama. They'll be complaining to me or their girlfriends about their relationship problems. I tell them to ditch that ******* and do better, but they dont wanna hear that.
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11-29-2022, 03:48 AM #44
Masculine polarity dude. Attraction is not complicated. Its all energetics. Money, looks, status has nothing to do with attraction. The attraction happens between a woman's feminine core and a man's masculine pole srs. Feminine women are attracted to masculine men. The more into your feminine you are( low testosterone, low sexual energy etc) the less attractive you will be to a feminine woman. When you're masculine polarity is high, you won't care. But when it is low, you become needy and reactive. You want her more than she wants you. Its over for you boyo. Whats the one quality these 'losers' have, exactly. They don't give a **** and they do what they want. Srs
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Yeah.. so many women I was chatting with or went out with will go on about how their exes were crazy or smoke and drank a lot, went to clubs etc..even beat them
yet they seemed still obsessed with them and posted sad stories all day about them..
moral of the story is.. treat them like sht and they will stick
but its really just an attitude thing
if you feel like you have to stay in that romantic, nice person role the whole time.. its unrealistic and gets boring fast
thats where being low inhibition and just actually speaking your mind comes in and these types of ppl can win the girl over.
like some guys can never have a disagreement with a girl and treat them like theyre always right. THey lose respect manDoordasher crew (SRS)
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Because a guy with no job is around a lot. If you are at work all day and she is board she starts paying attention to another guy. They eventually become aquatinted. I see it at work a lot. These creep is continue to hit on these chicks all day and eventually they are together because she adapted to his comfort.
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The short answer, OP, is that modern women at certain stages of their life find well put together men boring. It also makes them feel bad if the man is a better person than them. The last thing low-quality women want to do is self-reflect, so it is easier to just sleep with a string of losers. That way she can feel like the better person, while gaining that sympathy attention from friends and male orbiters.
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