So do you guys do coffee dates or nah?

[HairyWBush]

Just met this woman at the gym and got her number to be friends, but I'm not stopping at 'friends'. she's very active, into kickboxing and Taekwondo. Exchanged a few text messages today and left off at her schedule. thinking about starting off with a little coffee date and moving from there.

[eatyourspinach]

I don't really drink alcohol so yeah

[Silencespeaks]

Yes I have done them but I don’t really like them. Not a good date environment imo.

[iloveus]

Yes I have done them but I don’t really like them. Not a good date environment imo.

What's a good date environment?

[elterrible987]

Im both wealthy and good looking.

This means I have a smash pad separate from my house.


I invite them to bang over there.


my more average friends, yeah they take chicks on coffee dates

[Silencespeaks]

What's a good date environment?

I think an upscale bar is the best. Even though I don’t drink. Just think it’s a better environment than a coffee place. Coffee feels like a job interview.

[iloveus]

I think an upscale bar is the best. Even though I don’t drink. Just think it’s a better environment than a coffee place. Coffee feels like a job interview.

Yeah I get it. Any time I think of Starbucks or Panera Bread I think of MLM's trying to recruit people lol. Which I have been caught in that trap before lol.

"Hey, do you want to make passive income? Come to our seminar at this local hotel. We rented a conference room"

Yeah, rooftop bars are great.

Meet her at the bar. Grab a drink like Tequila or something and go talk outside with a view of the city and a fireplace.

[iloveus]

yes but in the form of espresso martinis.

MONEYMOGGERS only tho.

the place I go to they are 30 a pop with live jazz music (ded fkn Srs)

There's this famous Piano Bar in Chicago.



Absolutely amazing place. It's 1920's theme. People come in costumes all the time and just enjoy themselves.

[sf813]

I never do those and decline coffee date invitations. Some girls don't drink and prefer midday coffee but I say fuk no

I only do dates that are fun for me, and coffee dates are not a good date environment and it's like a chore

[Silencespeaks]

Yeah I get it. Any time I think of Starbucks or Panera Bread I think of MLM's trying to recruit people lol. Which I have been caught in that trap before lol.

"Hey, do you want to make passive income? Come to our seminar at this local hotel. We rented a conference room"

Yeah, rooftop bars are great.

Meet her at the bar. Grab a drink like Tequila or something and go talk outside with a view of the city and a fireplace.

I’ve only been to Panera one time ever and it was literally the most depressing place. Feels like your life is over when you’re in there. Terrible place ugh.

[Silencespeaks]

There's this famous Piano Bar in Chicago.



Absolutely amazing place. It's 1920's theme. People come in costumes all the time and just enjoy themselves.

This looks really cool.

[HairyWBush]

damn well tomorrow is Sunday and I want to get this going. eh well I could still do it. should still be a good timeframe since friday night?

There's this famous Piano Bar in Chicago.



Absolutely amazing place. It's 1920's theme. People come in costumes all the time and just enjoy themselves.

very unique

[F.A.P.]

Go for a coffee date if she wants that but bring a back pack with a handle of vodka in it and break it out. Got to make a good first impression.

[LobsterRageFist]

Coffee dates just sort of scream of cheap and half-assery and don't really set you up to get laid.

[iloveus]

looks dope brah. I love going to a nice upscale bar. you can MONEYMOGG, FASHIONMOGG, ALCOHOLMOGG there so its worth the extra cost imo.

Ketel 1 martini, extra dry with a twist while listening to some black guy in dreads MUSICJESTERMAXX for you is always a nice experience.

I love arcade bars like this one in Davenport, Iowa



It's like Chuck E Cheese except with Alcohol

They've got all the old school games like Pac Man, Dig Dug, Centipede, Mavel vs Capcom, House of the Dead etc

and they serve alcohol

I've seen teenagers to CEO's with beautiful dates in there.

[ErnieMccracken]

Her guard is going to be up at a coffee shop bustling with people.

Take her to a dimly lit bar and bribe the bartender to make her booze extra scrong. You're welcome.

[iloveus]

I’ve only been to Panera one time ever and it was literally the most depressing place. Feels like your life is over when you’re in there. Terrible place ugh.

What's your favorite place to go to?

[Ausaric]

Recently had what was supposed to be coffee date, she didn’t accept any coffee or let me buy her anything, and she kept trying to impress me with her career. Then she told me she was 21 years old. I thought she was older than that. I went no contact after that

[ErnieMccracken]

looks dope brah. I love going to a nice upscale bar. you can MONEYMOGG, FASHIONMOGG, ALCOHOLMOGG there so its worth the extra cost imo.

Ketel 1 martini, extra dry with a twist while listening to some black guy in dreads MUSICJESTERMAXX for you is always a nice experience.

So basically MAXMAXX as hard as possible?

[Nicklol]

lol hell no

[HairyWBush]

Coffee dates just sort of scream of cheap and half-assery and don't really set you up to get laid.

It's a good thing I posted this thread even if it's a slim chance it would have been fine. I'll have to think differently

I love arcade bars like this one in Davenport, Iowa



It's like Chuck E Cheese except with Alcohol

They've got all the old school games like Pac Man, Dig Dug, Centipede, Mavel vs Capcom, House of the Dead etc

and they serve alcohol

I've seen teenagers to CEO's with beautiful dates in there.

never seen an arcade bar, but there is an arcade in Daytona, and one around here I haven't been to.

Her guard is going to be up at a coffee shop bustling with people.

Take her to a dimly lit bar and bribe the bartender to make her booze extra scrong. You're welcome.

lol i could if she went to use the gender neutral room

[iloveus]

Recently had what was supposed to be coffee date, she didn’t accept any coffee or let me buy her anything, and she kept trying to impress me with her career. Then she told me she was 21 years old. I thought she was older than that. I went no contact after that

21 and had a career?

[iloveus]

never seen an arcade bar, but there is an arcade in Daytona, and one around here I haven't been to.

Go check it out.

[Ironface]

Back when i used to go on dates, coffee was one of my go-to’s. Dinner is too expensive, alcohol can get insanely expensive (2 espresso martinis, bam you’re down $30-$40), movies can work but you spend hardly any time talking or getting to know each other.

House dates never seemed to get me a 2nd date for some reason so wouldn’t recommend that either. Brb spend an hour making dinner, then 4 hours watching Netflix, making out etc then you never see them again

[iloveus]

Back when i used to go on dates, coffee was one of my go-to’s. Dinner is too expensive, alcohol can get insanely expensive (2 espresso martinis, bam you’re down $30-$40), movies can work but you spend hardly any time talking or getting to know each other.

House dates never seemed to get me a 2nd date for some reason so wouldn’t recommend that either. Brb spend an hour making dinner, then 4 hours watching Netflix, making out etc then you never see them again

To me house dates are more for 3rd dates to smash.

For 1st date you want something simple but engaging

2nd date then you can impress them

But you want "activities" in your dates. "Motions create emotions"

Emotions are what women remember the most.

[Merovingian11]

looks dope brah. I love going to a nice upscale bar. you can MONEYMOGG, FASHIONMOGG, ALCOHOLMOGG there so its worth the extra cost imo.

Ketel 1 martini, extra dry with a twist while listening to some black guy in dreads MUSICJESTERMAXX for you is always a nice experience.

You're a walking chitmeme generator and I feel honored to have made you red.

Cringe/10.

[Merovingian11]

So basically MAXMAXX as hard as possible?

It got REDMAXXED.

[x420SwagScopex]

Never been on a date so nah

[Silencespeaks]

Back when i used to go on dates, coffee was one of my go-to’s. Dinner is too expensive, alcohol can get insanely expensive (2 espresso martinis, bam you’re down $30-$40), movies can work but you spend hardly any time talking or getting to know each other.

House dates never seemed to get me a 2nd date for some reason so wouldn’t recommend that either. Brb spend an hour making dinner, then 4 hours watching Netflix, making out etc then you never see them again

No I would not go to a house date with a stranger. Brb what if he turns out to be a psycho no thanks. First date should always be in public so you’re safer and can evaluate someone.

Also I would only go to a guy’s house once I knew I want to hook up with him. I think that is pretty much a given if you go over. Would not go with intent to just only have dinner or something.

[ErnieMccracken]

No I would not go to a house date with a stranger. Brb what if he turns out to be a psycho no thanks. First date should always be in public so you’re safer and can evaluate someone.

Also I would only go to a guy’s house once I knew I want to hook up with him. I think that is pretty much a given if you go over. Would not go with intent to just only have dinner or something.

By house, you mean dorm room?