How to deal with my girlfriends ex having a bigger dick than me

[Lakers24]

ok guys i was chatting with my girlfriend last night and we were talking kinda dirty and I went fishing for compliments by asking whats the biggest dick she has ever had (mind you 5 minutes earlier she said I was bigger than her ex bf that she dated for 2 years) anyway, she says she was seeing this guy for 2 weeks (this was 3 years ago) and that he had a huge dick and she even went as far as to show me the size with her hands.

It really crushed me for some reason, like I feel emasculated and that ill never satisfy her. She has said that is was huge in a bad way and she didnt mean to say it and that my dick is the perfect size but I still cant get over it. What should I do or how should I handle it?

[SnatchKinGZZZ]

you cant. his dick is bigger. he is superior in every way. she always thinks back to that big donk ramming her once tight box. she wishes she could have it again, she probably will go back to him

[Drakken682]

ok guys i was chatting with my girlfriend last night and we were talking kinda dirty and I went fishing for compliments by asking whats the biggest dick she has ever had (mind you 5 minutes earlier she said I was bigger than her ex bf that she dated for 2 years) anyway, she says she was seeing this guy for 2 weeks and that he had a huge dick and she even went as far as to show me the size with her hands.

It really crushed me for some reason, like I feel emasculated and that ill never satisfy her. She has said that is was huge in a bad way and she didnt mean to say it and that my dick is the perfect size but I still cant get over it. What should I do or how should I handle it?

Okey, his cock was huge. But she isn't with him now, she's not seeing him, she's with YOU. Past is past, right now she's boning YOUR dick, not his. As long as she's feeling it and loving it, you're fine.

Not all bishes are size queens and aching for a porn star cock. Very few women are, in fact. In fact most of the time it's painful for a female to handle a dick that's too too big for her. She said it, it was not a good experience for her, it should settle it for you.

Handle it like a man - either you don't give a ****, or you don't open Pandora's Box about the subject because you know the answer will only hurt you. You did, though, so deal with it. Tell her that you wonder if your chunk's big enough for her, take her reassurance and give her the benefit of the doubt. However, you should also put the boundaries VERY clear : using comparisons as a weapon is a big no-no. If she ever brings the size of your cawk, or his size, against you, for any reason, she's out.

I'll tell you that, though : she was clumsy. Any woman mature enough and worth her salt knows that a man's dick size is a very sensitive subject, so you don't go into details. Showing you the size of his dick with her hands was not very bright on her part.

[thiussat]

you cant. his dick is bigger. he is superior in every way. she always thinks back to that big donk ramming her once tight box. she wishes she could have it again, she probably will go back to him

^^ This

Dick size is everything to bishes. But don't worry, OP. There are exercises you can do to make yours larger. Maybe bb.com should start a separate training routine forum for such problems. Also try Extendz, I hear it adds a half inch, at least (maybe bb.com should carry that in their supplement store).

[Wildcats160]

Take a length of rope and a 5 lb weight. Tie the weight to the head of your dong. Stand up. Repeat every day for a month and soon you'll be as long as his.

In all seriousness though, read post #3. Guy hit the nail on the head.

[WIJG]

Okey, his cock was huge. But she isn't with him now, she's not seeing him, she's with YOU. Past is past, right now she's boning YOUR dick, not his. As long as she's feeling it and loving it, you're fine.

Not all bishes are size queens and aching for a porn star cock. Very few women are, in fact. In fact most of the time it's painful for a female to handle a dick that's too too big for her. She said it, it was not a good experience for her, it should settle it for you.

Handle it like a man - either you don't give a ****, or you don't open Pandora's Box about the subject because you know the answer will only hurt you. You did, though, so deal with it. Tell her that you wonder if your chunk's big enough for her, take her reassurance and give her the benefit of the doubt. However, you should also put the boundaries VERY clear : using comparisons as a weapon is a big no-no. If she ever brings the size of your cawk, or his size, against you, for any reason, she's out.

I'll tell you that, though : she was clumsy. Any woman mature enough and worth her salt knows that a man's dick size is a very sensitive subject, so you don't go into details. Showing you the size of his dick with her hands was not very bright on her part.

Good post. But I'm against the bolded portion. Why let her know that you're insecure about it? Currently, she hasn't even thought about using it as ammunition. Also, OP, if you're going to sleep with enough women, you'll end up being the smaller one some of the time. I'm sure you knew that men bigger than you existed. I'm sure you knew they also got laid. Well, put the 2 together. It's clearly not an issue for your girlfriend. So, don't make it one. Seriously, just forget about it. If it was an issue, she wouldn't have told you.

[Leonius]

Having a huge dick comes with problems. It doesn't always satisfy a woman despite what other guys are telling you. Take this as a lesson in life. Do not ask this question again to any females in the future.

[ScottHolder]

Take this as a lesson in life. Do not ask this question again to any females in the future.

^^^ this. What kind of ******* asks a girl he's banging what the biggest cawk she's ever had is? What's next? You wanna know how many guys she's gangbanged at once? How many cc's of cum she's drank?

[MagnusSWOLESON]

despite what they say on this site start fapping more.

worked for me.

[rackpullxtreme]

Most girls complain that big cawks hurt them OP, so not sure why you're upset. Don't ask that question again.

[rackpullxtreme]

despite what they say on this site start fapping more.

worked for me.

in b4 Clever Mouse jimmies rustled

[physcosnipe]

you cant. his dick is bigger. he is superior in every way. she always thinks back to that big donk ramming her once tight box. she wishes she could have it again, she probably will go back to him

this ^

try Ron Jeremy's ****. U Aware?

[Rjsam]

When my wife and I first started dating I actually asked the same question and she actually did the measuring it with her hand thing. I was also crushed cuz her ex was bigger. But that didnt deter me giving her pleasurable sex. Just be confident and keep the romance level up.

Srs

[Tnap22]

Apparently girls can only feel like 2-3 inches of dick or so...so yeah, relax brah!

[GenderOfPeace]

Who the **** cares OP? Your dick is your dick and you can't change it. My dick is 6" x 5.25" and my one friend always brags about being 7.5 "almost eight". But then when he tells me about not being able to **** his girlfriend everyday (because she is sore), or do some positions because "it hurts her" I always laugh - because I don't have that problem. But then again, even I have had a problem with hitting a girls cervix. And she didn't enjoy it one bit.

Recently I had sex with an old FB after she broke up with her boyfriend (because he was being insecure none the less lol) and we were actually talking about penises and she said that her ex hurt her because he was "too thick". (not even too long)

Remember, girth is more important than length. Sex is only one part of a relationship. If you're doing everything else right, doubt she's going to care about your dick. Some girls do need a big dick though...

And finally - I doubt she thinks you are any less of a good boyfriend or likes you less because your penis is smaller. It's not like when she pulls down your pants everytime she's thinking to herself "****, his dick is smaller than my ex'es" and than doesn't go on to **** you. I doubt that thought has ever crossed her mind. Sure, the first time she seen it she's probably thought "not the biggest dick I've seen, but I'll take it"

edit: also

Stats: 6'0", 170 lbs

Son, you have bigger problems than your dick size. (no pun intended) (ok, maybe intended)

[US_Ranger]

. Do not ask this question again to any females in the future.

This. Why would you even ask such a thing OP? Are you retarded?

you cant. his dick is bigger. he is superior in every way. she always thinks back to that big donk ramming her once tight box. she wishes she could have it again, she probably will go back to him

lol'd so hard.

[Braxley]

Op don't worry, there will always be a guy out there with a bigger dick than you, its the same for all of us.

Only time to worry is when you see a box of laying about the house.

[Contribution05]

ok guys i was chatting with my girlfriend last night and we were talking kinda dirty and I went fishing for compliments by asking whats the biggest dick she has ever had (mind you 5 minutes earlier she said I was bigger than her ex bf that she dated for 2 years) anyway, she says she was seeing this guy for 2 weeks (this was 3 years ago) and that he had a huge dick and she even went as far as to show me the size with her hands.

It really crushed me for some reason, like I feel emasculated and that ill never satisfy her. She has said that is was huge in a bad way and she didnt mean to say it and that my dick is the perfect size but I still cant get over it. What should I do or how should I handle it?

Girls have different sized vaginas just like we have different sized penises. If you have sexed multiple girls you will realize some are tighter, looser, and some go back deeper as well. Little of this has to do with how many cocks they have taken, most of it is pure genetics.

So if she said the big cock hurt her, then she probably has a smaller vag which is good because you have a smaller penis, take it as a sign you are meant to be sexing this girl.

[Prim3]

Stop acting like a pansy. She said it hurt her and yours is fine. Get over it and stop being so insecure brah. Insecurity = looks worse than a small dick. Be confident in everything you say/do.

[Beararms]

Some real insecure fukers on this site... There are people who will always be bigger better, and can please your gf in ways you cant imagine. Get used to it. If she likes you and enjoys your cock, be happy. Stop acting like a pansy.

[Boffothe]

She obviously didn't enjoy it that much dumbass

But that's a hilarious dirty talk faux paus, she probably feels worse than you do for saying that lulz

[Thy_Kingdom]

Stop comparing yourself to others. Focus on you and her during sex. Women care more about how you make them feel and how considerate you are as a lover.

Anyway there are negatives to being hung; make girls bleed, damage cervix, anal going too slow, make girls queasy during long strokes, and...toilet water.

[Modori]

Same **** with girls tits; girls worry about their size compared to previous or surrounding females. If anything they're probably worrying more about it than you.

Any size penis above 5" in length and 4.7" in girth (1.5" in diameter) that is long lasting and the owner knows how to use it will give a girl wonderful sex.

[Clever Mouse]

despite what they say on this site start fapping more.

worked for me.

in b4 Clever Mouse jimmies rustled

Goddamn Magnus*******, WTF kind of sh!t advice **** is that *****, *******, son, this is 2012, ******* ***.





Well, fapping doesn't make a difference in this regard I would guess.



Although, some people in the huge no fap threads actually claim their dick looks bigger (no homo) when they stop fapping.

Agree with the others that it doesn't matter, learn to use it without a fukin handkerchief/toiletpaper!

[Pat413]

I thought this title was how to deal with my ex gf having a bigger dick than me.....

disappointed.

[zvr]

She probably won't care aslong as you make her cum more than he did, chances are his like me and gets lazy cause he knows he has a big cawk.

[Solliedude]

lol @ Op

lol @ the responses

lol @ this thread

OP how's it feel to lose your manhood to a guy like myself? tell your g/f I wll be there tommrrow with that der Mandingo for her tonsils (srs)


































(semi-srs)



















But still OP lol @ you!

comeatmebro.jpg

[GenderOfPeace]

Just thought of a story - apparently brother has a huge penis. (girl I was friends with came up to me and was like "I just saw a pic of your brothers dick and its ****ing huge"). Well, his girlfriend at the time cheated on him - not once - but a lot until he finally dumped her. So penis size doesn't matter brah.

[sword_]

He probably had a three letter acronym brah. Stay safe OP.

[MrCaptcha]

Some real insecure fukers on this site... There are people who will always be bigger better, and can please your gf in ways you cant imagine. Get used to it. If she likes you and enjoys your cock, be happy. Stop acting like a pansy.

no one is better than me remember