My bad, some more reasons to do no fap.
3) Porn induced ED
4) Rebalance the brain, (but you can refer back to point 1 because unless your addicted your not going to be putting your brain out of balance by fapping a few times a week. It just depends how long you spend watching and how many different scenes or images you view. Id say the internet is to blame here. Back in the day of VHS it was no problem. You would watch maybe a scene or two at most.)
The internet is the real problem. The WWW gives you never ending stimulation and too many choices. If you where to say switch to DVD's and only do it say once a week, unless you link shame to porn and masturbation then you wouldnt have a problem.
What I heard from (lets just say) a sex therapist (wont mention her name) is that there is nothing wrong with porn and masturbation because men (and women) need sex and they will have to get it in one way or another. I'll add that its the excess thats the problem. Its when people get caught up in it and use it for too long and too frequently and they dont just take a scene and ejaculate. Professionals also says that people with sex addiction and porn and masturbation addiction also have a deeper issue which is an intimacy problem, and often the porn addict has problems talking with women.
A long while ago when I was looking into sex addiction (with great shame and non acceptance until I found this thread) the guy was saying that porn and masturbation addiction is actually treated by looking at the deeper core root issue which is actually an intimacy problem. Just something to think about.
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11-27-2014, 06:49 PM #7021
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11-27-2014, 07:21 PM #7022
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11-27-2014, 11:24 PM #7023
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11-28-2014, 12:41 PM #7024
- Join Date: May 2012
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
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tomorrow will be
DAY 90!
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11-28-2014, 12:42 PM #7025
Can't get myself to do cold showers this time of year.
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11-28-2014, 02:02 PM #7026No fap since August 30th, 2014
Initially started: February 1st, 2014
Relapsed: February 18th, 2014
Restarted: August 13th, 2014
Relapsed: August 29th, 2014
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11-28-2014, 02:24 PM #7027
Day 6. Ffs guys I feel like if a girl even touched my dink I would explode. Just the thought of women make my mouth water... Struggling bad right now.
*positive crew*
*aesthetic voice crew*
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11-28-2014, 03:23 PM #7028
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11-28-2014, 05:23 PM #7029
Early this month I started my own tutoring business! I had one client but lost her tonight! *sigh* but I might have four clients by the end of the weekend *FiguresCrossed* Day 28 No Fap Day 14 No Porn! Two days from my first milestone for No Fap!!!
Personal Goals
1.Bowling Community Level Coaching = Completed on June 1st 2014
2.Security License= Completed April 24th 2015
3.G License = Completed May 26th 2015
4.Nike+ Road to a million = Completed August 22nd 2015
School Goals ECE (Early Childhood Education)
1.Anaphylaxis Certification = November 13th 2016
2.Babysitting Certification = December 4th 2016
3. Respite Care for People with Autism= May 14th 2017
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11-28-2014, 09:08 PM #7030
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11-29-2014, 06:19 AM #7031
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11-29-2014, 10:49 AM #7032
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11-29-2014, 11:25 PM #7033
Day 0. Still striving forward.
Cobra Kai Crew
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11-30-2014, 01:06 AM #7034
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11-30-2014, 07:01 AM #7035
When you are going to, example, day 90 but a girl gives you a HJ/BJ, do you brahs feel cheated?
I know that's ok, it's not cheating on the No Fap.. but it still worries me...
I know that after some time, I will need to do something.. I will not fap by my self but I will still be able to get a girl do to something, will that be cheating?
I think in a way it is.. unless it happens spontaneously.'A year from now you will wish you had started today.'
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11-30-2014, 08:01 AM #7036
- Join Date: Nov 2008
- Location: London, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
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today is day 1, plan on going all december no fap no porn
also day 1 of no smoking
yes doing both together, should become superman srsOG
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11-30-2014, 08:27 AM #7037
Yeah, I'm going to go for it!
Well, have to go back to school today. Have two weeks left of this semester before we are out for winter break. Final exams will be coming up soon.
Later everyone. Hopefully V6 will be up pretty soon and some old faces return:
TehAustrianOak
CSOleson
Gabriel Anton
Yashkovich
Anti-Globalist
xCody
mntbikedude
hopefully these guys come back and other prominent old facesCobra Kai Crew
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11-30-2014, 08:55 AM #7038
The end of the day 1, determined to change something more in my life for the last month of this year. Right now it's exam session time so got to stay focused. Aiming for 32 days.
Totally zero libido, don't have any urges. Will post every single day for the first week.
Stay safe brahs.You either get banned a hero or misc long enough to see yourself become the *******.
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11-30-2014, 09:18 AM #7039No fap since August 30th, 2014
Initially started: February 1st, 2014
Relapsed: February 18th, 2014
Restarted: August 13th, 2014
Relapsed: August 29th, 2014
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11-30-2014, 11:12 AM #7040
Day 120.
Had relapsed earlier after a 90 day streak. So been on this for 210 days.
A lot of the benefits you'll see hee are mental. Anybody saying there are no benefits of no fap has no idea what he's talking about. I started this after my girlfriend left me. The benefits I have gotten are enormous and never in my life have I received so much female attention before.
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11-30-2014, 11:17 AM #7041'A year from now you will wish you had started today.'
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11-30-2014, 01:11 PM #7042
week one down. stay disciplined brahs...
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11-30-2014, 04:26 PM #7043
New PB for No Fap
30 days of No Fap b.k.a the one month!
16 days of No Porn
Keep it up everyone!Personal Goals
1.Bowling Community Level Coaching = Completed on June 1st 2014
2.Security License= Completed April 24th 2015
3.G License = Completed May 26th 2015
4.Nike+ Road to a million = Completed August 22nd 2015
School Goals ECE (Early Childhood Education)
1.Anaphylaxis Certification = November 13th 2016
2.Babysitting Certification = December 4th 2016
3. Respite Care for People with Autism= May 14th 2017
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11-30-2014, 06:47 PM #7044
I'm around day 40.
I haven't had a wet dream yet (wtf?) and I am not observing any boost in confidence these days. I find myself completely unmotivated and even tired the past two weeks (wtf?). I'm wondering what's wrong with me today so I looked at some hnnggh pics/vids and didn't even feel a thing (wtf?).
I don't know if I'm going to make it brahs. I'm scared.
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11-30-2014, 11:23 PM #7045
- Join Date: Sep 2004
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Posts: 20,320
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Day 4 and into December.
"Honor is something that all men are born with. It cannot be taken from you nor can it be granted. It must only not be lost."
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11-30-2014, 11:25 PM #7046
- Join Date: Jun 2012
- Location: Malopolskie, Poland
- Age: 37
- Posts: 11,306
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Hey guys, was thinking of doing a list for December as a Chrimbo gift but someone has already made a thread. With a trigger in the OP lol.
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11-30-2014, 11:26 PM #7047
One year without fap. It was hard at the beginning, I've had 2 or 3 wet dreams but now i can control it. Once i feel something weird is happening to my pennor in my dreams i wake up.
I feel good .
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11-30-2014, 11:30 PM #7048
In b4 lock, ban, "invalid page. contact administrator"
"But it is a feral world, and if one wishes to be at ease in it he must accommodate to it." - Jeff Cooper
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11-30-2014, 11:30 PM #7049
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11-30-2014, 11:40 PM #7050
In for the first time in a long time.
I'm gonna make it this time brahs.
No fap December and then onto the 90 days.
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