I got to 18 days on Friday but i masturbated, partially caused by this video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D8kRq-A8MOA
I wanted to see if stopping masturbation for that period of time would be beneficial for myself, if i would stop being so horny and so centred in sex. It was all a lie to myself to masturbate, but i hoped that doing so, would have a positive side to it.
It didn't. Immediately after ejaculating i got dead tired, i lost my aggressiveness (which i gained in those 18 days of no fap) and "will" to do things. My artistic side was dead. I was a zombie.
Masturbation feels great but as sex, when i finish i got really ****ing lazy and loose my creativity/strength. I can still have sex or masturbate for other 3 or 4 times, but aside from that i don't want to do ****.
Luckily i broke my no fap on 18 days so it wasn't a great lost. I started it the new streak with more decision on stopping this addiction.
This is the second day and at 00.00 it's going to be the third one.
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09-16-2013, 03:32 PM #301
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09-16-2013, 03:57 PM #302
Congratulations you failed.
Playing with yourself and not cuming doesn't change the fact that you still played with yourself.
Royal, if you failed to that YouTube video why in the world would you post it in this thread lol. Do you want other people to check your video out and fail as well? Makes no sense brah.No Fap since Feb 3/2013.
IF & IIFYM
"Such an attitude stems from a tragic misconception of time, from the strangely irrational notion that there is something in the very flow of time that will inevitably cure all ills. Actually, time itself is neutral; it can be used either destructively or constructively." - MLK
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09-16-2013, 04:01 PM #303
damn, take me off that list brahs...
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09-16-2013, 04:24 PM #304
Original Cheeky Kunts of 2013 that started on or close to Jan 1rst 2013 that have never wavered in their commitment to no fap. Any of the other CK's that I've missed including those that already had streaks feel free to add your name if you want.
Fezz
TheStarringFrog
TehAustrianOak
MrJmont9 220 days
I believe this is the current, up to date list of the Cheeky Kunt No Fap Crew. For those of you unaware of what the CKNFC is about, we are a group of no fappers attempting to abstain from masturbation/porn until (at the very least) the new year. Anyone is free to join.
mntbikedude 9/4/13
MickyBoii
motorvation
Barteh
Tax843
JeromeWeinberg
benmcmc1
Adrogeus
JoshisFresh
Skeeeeet
Steadywayfarer
Nowitsmyturn
Thunderquip
Torien89
JonnyStead
gloria7
Silkysmoothe
nick_990
Feverdr
Achieving
Huskertwood
Pioteq
bpaura
Iceman321 9/11/13
Trekhan
Ice32
blunose
Sundawgm
Thelostbrah64
bigdeadlift
Malfurion
Lifeisgood12
You may also join the chains.cc group by following this link https://chains.cc/groups/H4t7cegq1C3Epzp
EDIT: Anyone is free to join. However, understand that this is most likely not for you if you are just now discovering no fap/no porn, as this is a very serious commitment which many experienced "no fappers" have struggled with themselves. It does not mean you cannot add yourself to the list; but, understand that you will be held responsible to remove yourself from the list and update it ITT if you do fail at any point from now and the new year. We encourage only the most serious of serious join. This group is NOT for anyone with halfhearted intentions. With that being said, good luck & happy no fapping.You can, and need to find a ground that you know you are suppose to stand on.. hence, stand your ground, this is the place where you know everything is as it should be for you. If you stand in a place where you know in your heart things are wrong, most things around you will never be right.
Rule number one, never work at being what another man defines as being "honorable", Honorable is is being true to what you know and and doing what you know is right for you..
Nagalfar
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09-16-2013, 04:40 PM #305
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09-16-2013, 04:43 PM #306
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09-16-2013, 04:47 PM #307No Fap since Feb 3/2013.
IF & IIFYM
"Such an attitude stems from a tragic misconception of time, from the strangely irrational notion that there is something in the very flow of time that will inevitably cure all ills. Actually, time itself is neutral; it can be used either destructively or constructively." - MLK
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09-16-2013, 05:10 PM #308
It doesn't say anything in the OP rules about edging:
Rules
No viewing any sort of pornography with intent. Don’t seek pleasure, basically. If you accidentally get sent to brazzers by a stray link, click off it immediately. The only time you should be viewing pornographic images is out of sheer curiosity, e.g A miscer linking some woman getting railed by a dog (this actually happened)
No masturbating to orgasm.
No edging. No edging. NO EDGING. Look at the FAQ’s if you’re unaware of what edging is.
Day 0. BUT I'm still not gonna 'jaculate - I'll wait till I can get a female to witness that detonation.
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09-16-2013, 05:37 PM #309
I've read the intro thread and I still don't get the point of doing no-fap unless you're completely ****ed up or something. Looking at the reasons to do it and the benefits, pretty much none apply to me.
1. I've been fapping to the same stuff my entire life. Hot girls having sex. Obviously I drifted around from fetish to fetish but they last like a month max and in the end it all goes back to basics. There's absolutely no decrease in libido.
2. Masturbation isn't in any way related to my interaction with girls. I don't avoid them knowing that I can just jack off. There's also no shame involved. I fap because it feels good and I like it. I talk to girls for validation and the sense of conquest that comes with success.
3. Productivity doesn't change. It takes 15-20 minutes for a single fap session. Considering that this fap session occurs when I'm chilling, if I wasn't fapping I'd be playing COD or just browsing the internet or miscing. It's not like I spend 3 hours a day diligently searching for, notarizing, and archiving pron.
4. The benefits suck:
-Reduced acne
i have none
-Increased productivity
explained above
-Increased enjoyment in sexual encounters
explained above, I already like sex
-Sexual aggression (Good for the timid types)
fair point
-More energetic
The only thing I need more energy in is studying. Reading about stress analysis and solving fluid dynamics problems has nothing to do with fapping. OK maybe fluid dynamics does.
-Less sleep required, earlier mornings/later retirement
explain the mechanics of this please
- Willing to do other things than fapping to pixels on the internet
explained above
- Increased attention from women, they notice you more (increased eye contact, smiles etc.)
Bull****. Major bull****. Women don't magically notice if you fap or not unless you're some stuttering wreck who works as a pizza delivery guy and expects to get laid every delivery
- Better ability to talk to the opposite sex, less stuttering/nervousness etc.
Same as above.
- Better in the gym, increased lifts.
Absolutely no science proves this. Broscience anecdotes don't count
- Better facial features (a certain "glow" to the skin, which people notice)
LOLWUT?!!!?
- Overall feeling and looking more Alpha, to which both men and women notice.
Seriously this is impossible. There's no way I can look different because I didn't jack off. The only thing that can possibly change is complexion caused by bloodflow to the face, which isn't really a big deal.
So I'd be giving up something that gives me joy in life just for increased sexual aggression driven by desperation for orgasm. Because women love desperation.
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09-16-2013, 06:53 PM #310
No hate because that's your personal observation of no fap. But take the no fap crew out of your sig, and you forgot to include the fact that no fap increases willpower which is a great mental status to have. An increase in willpower can often lead to increased confidence, productivity and aspirations.
An addiction is an addiction, and if you can conquer it, you will have a better and clearer mind state.
As for the fapping itself and porn. You may be an exception but porn normally leads to relying on more intense scenes to release over time thus lessening the pleasure of real life sex. Also though you may be enjoying sex now, it would be even more pleasurable if you don't jack off which weakens the cell sensitivity in your dink
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09-16-2013, 07:57 PM #311
- Join Date: Aug 2013
- Location: Indiana, United States
- Age: 31
- Posts: 6,202
- Rep Power: 16969
On day nine. Had sex with my gf today. Felt better than it has in a long time. Finished in 5.3 seconds flat. She didn't mind at all, she got taken care of after.
I could get used to this no fap thing.No reps for the wicked ★ Deacon at the Church of Iron ★ Boring Adult Crew
--------Ask not what the misc can do for you, ask what you can do for the misc----------
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09-16-2013, 08:02 PM #312
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09-16-2013, 08:04 PM #313
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09-16-2013, 08:19 PM #314
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09-16-2013, 08:32 PM #315
Sign me up I'm willing to try this out. The science is not convincing tbh but the anecdotes are overwhelming. Looks like more of a willpower thing to me, and practicing willpower is a good thing.
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09-16-2013, 08:53 PM #316
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09-16-2013, 11:39 PM #317
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09-16-2013, 11:46 PM #318
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09-17-2013, 01:50 AM #319
Double post :/ seems like this thread has been less active than the others.
Just realized I just hit day 56/8 weeks. Don't really see any numbers as big milestones any more. I guess I'll be happy when I hit 90/150, but I'm thinking bigger this time around
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09-17-2013, 02:54 AM #320
Congratulations on 8 weeks.
Anywho, day ten, no sex drive, I've literally not had a boner in 10 days. If it wasn't for this thread, I would probably fapped to see if it still works, so thanks guys.
Add me to the Cheeky Kunts list, I'm taking this no porn/fap stuff to the grave.Last edited by jimmerjohnson; 09-17-2013 at 03:03 AM. Reason: Edit:
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09-17-2013, 02:54 AM #321
Lol nice one Yash. Looks like brahs are actually thinking twice before posting stupid questions ITT.
Speaking of less activity I need to provide an update. Btw congrats on 8 weeks.
I'm currently 17 days no fap and still maintaining the no porn streak of 114 days. To keep my no porn streak going has been a huge motivator for me mainly because EVERY time I would relapse in the past would be to porn. I mentioned in a previous posting that I still have a clear mind without any brain fog and would like to update by saying it still stands. I also like where this thread is going and the CK list. Time to hit those triple digits this time round I think.
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09-17-2013, 04:52 AM #322
2 weeks no fap. Up until yesterday, I also had streaks going of reading, meditating, etc. But work has been leaving me exhausted. I come home and just want to sleep. Gonna have to do this stuff beforehand if I ever hope for it to get done.
:)
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09-17-2013, 05:43 AM #323
First post on the forum, I'm joining the ranks too.
Been on NoFap since the march 2013 and my best streak was 67 days. Most productive two months ever. Studying went up, socializing went easier, started my own company, felt much sharper, slept better and felt a lot better on average. Had some serious lows though and also a sick panic attack. All was gone after the first month and I gave myself the excuse to fap again because I 'needed to do it' because I wanted to expand my sexual endurance.
After breaking the streak I've had a horrible time starting again, even though I've felt the benefits for myself.
Now on day 2, stay strong everyone.
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09-17-2013, 05:59 AM #324
WOW! 5.3 seconds?! You must be like Usain Bolt when it comes to sex?! Try some kegel exercises~ IDK if they'll work for you, but it supposedly helps in reducing PE. I do the exercises from this blog:
http://yuanadesukma.wordpress.com/20...gel-exercises/
I do the exercises (e.g. ABCD) about 6 days a week, 1 session per week & complete the sessions over a course of a month before I restart again. I've found it helpful in bladder control at least & even more intense ejaculations~
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09-17-2013, 07:01 AM #325
- Join Date: Aug 2013
- Location: Indiana, United States
- Age: 31
- Posts: 6,202
- Rep Power: 16969
No reps for the wicked ★ Deacon at the Church of Iron ★ Boring Adult Crew
--------Ask not what the misc can do for you, ask what you can do for the misc----------
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09-17-2013, 07:06 AM #326
Original Cheeky Kunts of 2013 that started on or close to Jan 1rst 2013 that have never wavered in their commitment to no fap. Any of the other CK's that I've missed including those that already had streaks feel free to add your name if you want.
Fezz
TheStarringFrog
TehAustrianOak
MrJmont9 220 days
I believe this is the current, up to date list of the Cheeky Kunt No Fap Crew. For those of you unaware of what the CKNFC is about, we are a group of no fappers attempting to abstain from masturbation/porn until (at the very least) the new year. Anyone is free to join.
mntbikedude 9/4/13
MickyBoii
motorvation
Barteh
Tax843
JeromeWeinberg
benmcmc1
Adrogeus
JoshisFresh
Skeeeeet
Steadywayfarer
Nowitsmyturn
Thunderquip
Torien89
JonnyStead
gloria7
Silkysmoothe
nick_990
Feverdr
Achieving
Huskertwood
Pioteq
bpaura
Iceman321 9/11/13
Trekhan
Ice32
blunose
Sundawgm
Thelostbrah64
bigdeadlift
Malfurion
Lifeisgood12
Vinniewalker
You may also join the chains.cc group by following this link https://chains.cc/groups/H4t7cegq1C3Epzp
EDIT: Anyone is free to join. However, understand that this is most likely not for you if you are just now discovering no fap/no porn, as this is a very serious commitment which many experienced "no fappers" have struggled with themselves. It does not mean you cannot add yourself to the list; but, understand that you will be held responsible to remove yourself from the list and update it ITT if you do fail at any point from now and the new year. We encourage only the most serious of serious join. This group is NOT for anyone with halfhearted intentions. With that being said, good luck & happy no fapping.You can, and need to find a ground that you know you are suppose to stand on.. hence, stand your ground, this is the place where you know everything is as it should be for you. If you stand in a place where you know in your heart things are wrong, most things around you will never be right.
Rule number one, never work at being what another man defines as being "honorable", Honorable is is being true to what you know and and doing what you know is right for you..
Nagalfar
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09-17-2013, 07:07 AM #327You can, and need to find a ground that you know you are suppose to stand on.. hence, stand your ground, this is the place where you know everything is as it should be for you. If you stand in a place where you know in your heart things are wrong, most things around you will never be right.
Rule number one, never work at being what another man defines as being "honorable", Honorable is is being true to what you know and and doing what you know is right for you..
Nagalfar
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09-17-2013, 07:08 AM #328
I (and others) have personally noticed this, and it isn't just placebo, there's something else to it as well - probably hormones/pheromone changes that girls can subconsciously detect.
Someone like you who gets regular interest from girls might not notice it but for someone like me it's a huge change.
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09-17-2013, 07:09 AM #329
Hey ThroDBS we really want to encourage you to go for it. If you are asking to put your name on the list we need a little more commitment that you wanna try it out. So please try it out over the week or so and then see how you feel. If you still want in we will add you to the list. The closing date for being added is the last day of this month.
You can, and need to find a ground that you know you are suppose to stand on.. hence, stand your ground, this is the place where you know everything is as it should be for you. If you stand in a place where you know in your heart things are wrong, most things around you will never be right.
Rule number one, never work at being what another man defines as being "honorable", Honorable is is being true to what you know and and doing what you know is right for you..
Nagalfar
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09-17-2013, 07:09 AM #330
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