When in reality they go for men who are players,cheaters, bums with no jobs, thugs, fake rappers,abusers,felons, but who cares as long as they are good looking and they can show off to their friends right ladies? They don't really care about personalities, they're just as bad us men who go after tits, ass, and looks.
|
|
Results 1 to 30 of 252
-
02-26-2011, 03:04 AM #1Registered User
- Join Date: Feb 2011
- Age: 39
- Posts: 13
- Rep Power: 0
Why do women say they go for personality over looks??
-
02-26-2011, 03:16 AM #2Registered User
- Join Date: Jun 2010
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Age: 38
- Posts: 3,623
- Rep Power: 610
They lie about lots of things. On dating web sites they always say they're after a "nice" or "genuine" man. How many of these men do you think get ignored for one of those with better looks? The truth is a girl wants a guy who has options but the majority of guys who do have options make full use of them. Not surprising you still see the same women looking for that "nice" or "genuine" guy. Maybe if they started looking for guys who were on the same level of attractiveness as them they might fare better.
Role Models
Wladmir Klitschko
CM Punk
-
02-26-2011, 03:19 AM #3Registered User
- Join Date: Jan 2011
- Location: Hopetown, Zimbabwe
- Age: 40
- Posts: 919
- Rep Power: 498
It's not so much personality as it is demeanor and reputation
-
02-26-2011, 03:25 AM #4Registered User
- Join Date: Feb 2011
- Age: 39
- Posts: 13
- Rep Power: 0
Sometimes I'm not really sure what approach to take with women its like they want the nice guy but they want the bad boy as well. Sometimes I really do believe nice guys finish last.
-
-
02-26-2011, 04:21 AM #5Fabulous!
- Join Date: Oct 2005
- Location: England, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Posts: 25,474
- Rep Power: 32236
Women don't like to be seen to be shallow. We like to think we have more depth than that. Personally I don't care what people think (you stop doing so as you age) and its looks all the way for me. Someone could have a sparkling personality but if he's ugly, it's not happening.
Also, women are expected to make an effort to look good with make up and etc whereas men don't have that luxury, so many times we just say it to make average looking guys feel like they're just as worthy as handsome ones. Many things women say are designed to build guys' self-confidence.**** Atheist Alliance ****
**Holds metal part of the car door awkwardly in order to avoid static shock crew**
**Sometimes I have the girl version of wet dreams crew**
**Anti-circumcision/Pro-foreskin crew**
-
02-26-2011, 04:22 AM #6Banned
- Join Date: Aug 2010
- Location: Australia
- Age: 29
- Posts: 4,011
- Rep Power: 0
But Brad Pitt also has a good personality. So bad example
-
02-26-2011, 04:23 AM #7Banned
- Join Date: Aug 2010
- Location: Australia
- Age: 29
- Posts: 4,011
- Rep Power: 0
Which makes them more attractiveOriginally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore
-
02-26-2011, 04:48 AM #8Banned
- Join Date: Dec 2010
- Location: Australia
- Age: 34
- Posts: 2,406
- Rep Power: 0
Because dem wimminz are humans as well bro. Srsly, do you know any guys who'd go out with a 1/10 just purely due to personality? Srsly bro, they're human and humans are of the same nautre.
-
-
02-26-2011, 05:03 AM #9but you arent good looking! women are supposed to loook better than their man. they get to wear make up. i hate to break it to you but at 43 you seem hell bent on being single.Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore
-
02-26-2011, 05:27 AM #10Registered User
- Join Date: Feb 2011
- Location: Chicago, Illinois, United States
- Age: 41
- Posts: 204
- Rep Power: 164
To tell you the truth women dont know what they want. Some would rather date/marry a good looking guy who like you said contributes nothing to society, ie gang member,works at burger king etc you get the point, BUT because hes good looking they will stay with them because it makes them feel good. Some will seek personality and average looking men, nothing spectacular but his personality makes them stay with them. Some want it all, looks, personality, a man with a career ie police officer, fire fighter, or whatever is sexy to them. AND, even with all of that EVEN when they think they have the perfect man, the perfect life, they will be out there looking for something more. Trust me, they will be out looking for more dick, flirting, and looking for something better. Thats women for you, some are shallow, some are nice, some are whores.
why you mad
-
02-26-2011, 06:57 AM #11Fabulous!
- Join Date: Oct 2005
- Location: England, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Posts: 25,474
- Rep Power: 32236
First, I'm not single. Secondly, I may not be good looking to your eyes, but to other people I am. Thirdly, as you don't even have an avi, your opinion is invalid.Originally Posted by inb4ripped
**** Atheist Alliance ****
**Holds metal part of the car door awkwardly in order to avoid static shock crew**
**Sometimes I have the girl version of wet dreams crew**
**Anti-circumcision/Pro-foreskin crew**
-
02-26-2011, 07:33 AM #12Rustling your jimmies
- Join Date: Feb 2004
- Location: NY
- Age: 40
- Posts: 20,809
- Rep Power: 8802
Women want a dominant male.
Women will be with an ugly male if they feel he is dominant over her and therefore of higher status than she is.
That is all.Ignore list: abdus
-
-
02-26-2011, 08:01 AM #13Registered User
- Join Date: Sep 2010
- Age: 47
- Posts: 1,080
- Rep Power: 285
Not sure the answer needs any more than this.Originally Posted by Inspiration01
-
02-26-2011, 11:44 AM #14Sedge Hammer
- Join Date: May 2007
- Location: United States
- Posts: 836
- Rep Power: 1374
Is this thread about cuckolds? like a girl marries for money then brings in the gorillas home from gym?
w/e floats your boat I guess
differnt strokes for different folks.
-
02-26-2011, 12:20 PM #15Banned
- Join Date: Apr 2010
- Location: Australia
- Posts: 3,565
- Rep Power: 0
To answer op's question, because they don't want to come off as shallow sluts.
I mean if you ask a woman what she wants in a man, do you expect her to tell the truth and say "lots of money to spend on me, a nice house, and a big dick"??? Of course not.
-
02-26-2011, 12:22 PM #16Registered User
- Join Date: Jun 2010
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Age: 38
- Posts: 3,623
- Rep Power: 610
lol why not? Men do.Originally Posted by golfpunk1985
Role Models
Wladmir Klitschko
CM Punk
-
-
02-26-2011, 12:30 PM #17Banned
- Join Date: Nov 2010
- Location: Everett, Washington, United States
- Posts: 553
- Rep Power: 0
strong douche.Originally Posted by inb4ripped
-
02-26-2011, 01:24 PM #18Registered User
- Join Date: Mar 2008
- Location: Spring Valley, California, United States
- Age: 40
- Posts: 318
- Rep Power: 321
Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore
I think this is the very first time I've seen a woman be honest about this.
Amazing.
Mad Props.
-
02-26-2011, 01:42 PM #19Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 33
- Posts: 3,876
- Rep Power: 1795
explain to me how someone who holds down a job and works hard contributes nothing to society? and why they deserved to get tossed into the same categories as gang bangers? wow, some people on this board need some serious outside exposure. negged.Originally Posted by muscl3ph3nom2
-
02-26-2011, 02:25 PM #20Registered User
- Join Date: Jun 2009
- Age: 27
- Posts: 277
- Rep Power: 351
Because men are generally worse looking than women, since they have a less attractive pool to pick from, they fill the void of attraction with other activities that can be considered attractive.Originally Posted by ricanlatinpapi
-
-
02-26-2011, 03:12 PM #21Registered User
- Join Date: Feb 2011
- Age: 35
- Posts: 124
- Rep Power: 173
I don't know too many women nowadays who claim to not care about looks.
Most of us say that looks alone won't win us over, which is true unless a girl is just looking for casual sex.
Looks mean a lot to me, though. I've always said I'm really visual. A guy can have the kindest heart ever, but if he's not nice to look at, I won't enjoy doing "relationship" things with him.
Make no mistake, though. Personality is important. There are far too many ******* guys who just want to "hit and quit" girls running around to just get with a guy because he's hot.
-
02-26-2011, 03:15 PM #22I LOVE MY KITCHEN!
- Join Date: Jun 2008
- Posts: 7,233
- Rep Power: 11176
Nooooooooooooo! DO NOT WANT pseudo-alpha bs!Originally Posted by ricanlatinpapi
Why not be both, the man in the middle? Just to throw out a film character we all might know--the character of William Wallace in the film Braveheart. He was honorable, moral, respectable, but also quite badass. Not a pig, and not a saint either--the man in the middle.Originally Posted by ricanlatinpapi
I never found him attractive, I'm not fond of his face.Originally Posted by eightpac3
Yes, yes! Truer words were never spoken.Originally Posted by muscl3ph3nom2
Delicious!Originally Posted by ll ReNeGaDe ll
I'd fall in love with a cyclops if he was the way you've just described. But not pseudo-alphaness, it's got to be the real thing.“Any idiot can face a crisis, it is this day-to-day living that wears you out.” Anton Chekhov
"10% of life, is what happens to you--90% is how you respond to it."
"I know that I know nothing"--Socrates
-
02-26-2011, 03:21 PM #23I run the Misc
- Join Date: Oct 2005
- Posts: 8,441
- Rep Power: 12951
Looks are a matter of opinion. I showed my friend pics of a girl who in my eyes is a 10/10 and he said she was a 6/10. Also when magazines try and rate girls as being the hottest girl in the world or whatever, most of the time they just look average looking to me.
-
02-26-2011, 03:38 PM #24i have 2 eyes, my youth, and my opinion. care to post a picture of someone you find attractive that you have an actual chance with so i know what you mean by attraactive?Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore
-
-
02-26-2011, 03:41 PM #25Registered User
- Join Date: Sep 2010
- Age: 33
- Posts: 830
- Rep Power: 242
It's a cover up.
-
02-26-2011, 04:09 PM #26Rudie can't fail
- Join Date: Sep 2010
- Location: United States
- Age: 33
- Posts: 3,310
- Rep Power: 5252
****ing repped someone finally gets itOriginally Posted by ricanlatinpapi
-
02-26-2011, 04:20 PM #27Jersey Troll
- Join Date: Nov 2008
- Location: Dominican Republic
- Age: 37
- Posts: 10,146
- Rep Power: 13458
women want me..if you don't believe me ask them why they call me Punisher
PSN: Punisher1012
► WKEA ◄
*** New Jersey Crew 973 ***
USMC
OIF Vet
-
02-26-2011, 04:46 PM #28Registered User
- Join Date: Sep 2010
- Age: 33
- Posts: 830
- Rep Power: 242
It's an endless maze with the Misc. always trying to rationalize behavior with irrational people such as females. Take it for what they say, and move on with your business.
-
-
02-26-2011, 06:02 PM #29im a douche when responding to a woman's claim that all women are shallow and it just so happens that thewoman saying that hasw very little to be shallow about... come on give me a a fuking break. very few women at the age of 43 still have that stance because they know they look a lot worse off than they did 20 years ago. but again...im the douche right?Originally Posted by HDHC10
women age like milk
men age like wine
it is a fact that some men can look their very best at her age whereas the odds of a woman looking their best at thatt age is about the same as a person winning the lottery. sure they may look thier best if they were fat for the first 42 years. give me a break. i am not trying to be a dick but i am responding in kind to such a ridiculous post from her. REALITY CALLED and wants to speak with her.
-
02-26-2011, 06:50 PM #30
Womens attraction is not set up like guys.
Look at it this way..oprah is the richest women on earth (i think) and a HUUGE celebrity....How many (normal) guys want to **** oprah... not very many (sure some would do it for the money, but not off attraction)..shes not hot
Guys attraction= Looks+emotion the girls makes them feel
Now.....gene simmons looks like a foot, dresses like a clown, and is a rock legend... 1000's of women have slept with gene simmons...he is not hot. Or to even dumb it down, the head of a fraternity whose ulgy as ****. (know a few) He will often sleep with like 80 chick through his college life if his game is MEDIOCRE at best
Just going off of this reflects how different guys and girls are with attraction.
Girls are just as shallow as guys, but there heads are rigged to go after value. In history a guy that is extremely confident, doesnt care what women think ETC had this because he had alot of value in the tribe.
Ironically now a day delusional jerks also share many of the characteristics of the alpha male of the pack. Not because they are alpha, but because they are stupid and dont know any better
This still creates the same attraction from women however, because they are literally rigged to get turned on by these things and chase them
Therefor women dont go for personality. They go for value. When you mix that with the emotion certain guys personalitys make her feel, you have pretty much summed up the system of a girls attraction
Girls = Value+ Emotion (having good looks can gives a person value, however it does determine their value, hence why their are ulgy guys that get laid WAY more than hot guys)
Ive worked as a dating coach for a little while and i have zero evidence against what i just said. You can check out my site for more crap like this http://collegeflirt.net/
Bookmarks