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    Unhappy Sort of maybe fcked up(?) with an extreme sensitive girl

    Ok guys :

    Been dating her for 1 month. 6 dates.
    Met her parents on the 2nd one, already slept at each other homes for about 3 times.
    Each of the 3 first dates has been about 9+ hours, and the last 3 ones were for day and a half (including sleeping together).

    She's a very sensitive girl I mean in the extreme and retarded way.

    Umm she told me about an exam she got 2 days ago, I wished her luck. She got out and texted me "I didnt know anything" and then I texted her a long lecture about "look, you cant really expect to success when u go out with your friends day before the exam. Take it as a wake up call and study harder. This is the first exam so it's suppose to show your what's wrong with your studying and everything else"

    Then she sent 2 texts, deleted them and sent an "ok". I got mad at her because I already told her I hate when people delete messages after they sent them. So I told her "look I had enough from you deleting messages.. I already told u its annoying me and u keep doing this every day.. the next time it happens I'll just reply u with a "idc that u feel moody or dissapointed"

    Then she replied with a long text of "you shouldn't write me such hurtful things, it's just hurting and disrespecting me. Read your texts again and see if it was fine to send it blahablah . You shouldn't tell me I cant expect to success in the exam because I did study and you shouldn't use things I share with u (eg. Going out with my friends) against me for "not getting a good grade".

    And then I did not reply because I was like "chit.. shes crazy af"

    And that's it. She didnt text me since then(that means we havent spoken for 2 days already).
    And we were texting each other for a month non stop every day 24/7 including non stop snapchats and etc. So it feels wierd af not to talk to her and most of all it feels wierd that she just willing to lose me like that.

    So I'm not gonna text her because I'm kinda mad at her over reacting but I think she got hurt because shes super sensitive and thinks km the guilty one here and that I should ask for her forgiveness so she wont text me either.

    So I'm stuck her .. on the one hand I do not wanna lose her. On the other hand, shes crazy af and I wont text her before she texts me (which might wont happen)

    And on the 3rd hand, should I even consider getting back to her like a beta even tho she didnt text me for 2 days? And just run back to her at the first moment she sends me a text? I mean it's kinda beta isnt it?
    I dont like this childish games.. so idk what to do here brahs

    I mean the most shocking part for me is that she doesnt send me a text although I'm the "prize" for her. I mean I met her parents, I crashed at her place twice, I'm the first guy in the last year who doesnt hump & dump her after 1 or 2 dates(she told me that), I'm taller than her (shes 5'9)..and shes basically a 4/10 or maybe 5 and I'm like 5 or 6.
    umm u see my point? I love the same wierd humor and the exact same bands she does.
    So it feels wierd she just can "let me go" easily.. like wtf she wont find another one like me that's for sure.

    Sorry no cliffs cuz this story is fcked up and cant shorten it.

    Help me out brahs.

    Do you honestly think its game over?

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    bruh what happened with the ex you reconciled with?

    and yea in a relationship try not to act like her father lol
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    Texting too much leads to arguing over text.

    Keep it lighthearted and stop texting 24/7.

    You both sound like you need to work on yourselves before you can have a strong relationship though.
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    Originally Posted by JadedJuan View Post
    bruh what happened with the ex you reconciled with?

    and yea in a relationship try not to act like her father lol
    Yeah my bad I think I fcked it up.. idk I just felt like I can be 100% honest with her like being honest with my bros..

    I mean if I told my bro I failed an exam and also went out a day before, he would call me out for being stupid and I would agree with him and let his words motivate me.

    And guess what happend with my ex lol? As you ALL told me. We couldn't even communicate more, and just broke up because the relationship was dead af. I mean 0. All her lies, cover ups, my pathetic return to her.. everything was expected ..

    It was horrible. We just faked it until we couldn't fake it anymore and found ourselves just sitting next to each other and not talking because there is nothing to share or talk about.
    So we agreed there is no love or even nothing between us.
    And guess what? That's the juicy fact. She returned to Tinder day after the break up lmao.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Texting too much leads to arguing over text.

    Keep it lighthearted and stop texting 24/7.

    You both sound like you need to work on yourselves before you can have a strong relationship though.
    Bro it's sort of a problem because we study at different cities and meet only on weekends for 2 days and sleepover between them or 2 different evenings.
    So we have to text each other from Sunday to Thursday.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    Ok guys :

    Been dating her for 1 month. 6 dates.
    Met her parents on the 2nd one, already slept at each other homes for about 3 times.
    Each of the 3 first dates has been about 9+ hours, and the last 3 ones were for day and a half (including sleeping together).

    She's a very sensitive girl I mean in the extreme and retarded way.

    Umm she told me about an exam she got 2 days ago, I wished her luck. She got out and texted me "I didnt know anything" and then I texted her a long lecture about "look, you cant really expect to success when u go out with your friends day before the exam. Take it as a wake up call and study harder. This is the first exam so it's suppose to show your what's wrong with your studying and everything else"
    LMAO strong father figure vibes. are u fkkin kidding me? she probably did fine, literally all women say "i didnt know anything" after an exam. she's just venting stress and wants to hear from her boyfriend that everything is going to be okay. you're supposed to say "aw i'm sure you did great" or something like that.

    have you ever spoken to a women before? srs.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    Bro it's sort of a problem because we study at different cities and meet only on weekends for 2 days and sleepover between them or 2 different evenings.
    So we have to text each other from Sunday to Thursday.
    Ok then just send a few texts each day and call each other a few times throughout the week.

    Any sort of negativity/criticism via text is 10x worse than in person because it's tough to change the tone back to positive.

    If you text too much this is almost bound to happen thus don't over-text.
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    Originally Posted by puffdaddy68 View Post
    LMAO strong father figure vibes. are u fkkin kidding me? she probably did fine, literally all women say "i didnt know anything" after an exam. she's just venting stress and wants to hear from her boyfriend that everything is going to be okay. you're supposed to say "aw i'm sure you did great" or something like that.

    have you ever spoken to a women before? srs.
    this 100% lmao

    you're both idiots, but you went and attacked her simply because she was venting. not surprised she's mad at you. It's not like she asked you how she can improve or what she was doing wrong, and even then, the way you wrote it is super stern and condescending. Sometimes women just want to be listened to, not have their problems fixed.
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    Some girls say chit like "I didn't know anything" after an exam because they are insecure as fuark and have their expectations very high.

    She wanted to hear something like "it's gonna be fine, I'm sure you did pretty good etc" instead you said (quote)"look, you cant really expect to success when u go out with your friends day before the exam. Take it as a wake up call and study harder. This is the first exam so it's suppose to show your what's wrong with your studying and everything else" It prolly threw her off completely.
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    All women are like this dude, if you want a relationship, sometimes you got to be their emotional support, even when it doesn't logically make any sense. You have to emotionally support them first, and then that can (sometimes) lead to the father figure type of chit, where you can teach them a hard lesson and they (maybe) might improve.
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    Read the last few poster’s messages again. Srs!! And now, read them again!

    It took me a long time to Figure this one as well...she just wanted to be heard and you turned around and said chit her daddy would say lmao
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    thanks for the comments guys.
    another 24 hours without any text from her.. I think game is over for me boyos.. I mean it's already 3 entire days without a response from her.

    yeah I get it now, what all of you say. I mean maybe it's too early to give her an honest opinion and criticism because we literally talk for only 1 month and been on only 6 dates..

    but I think she also got hurt because I told her "the next time you'll delete messages i'll just reply with "I don't give a fck if you're upset with something".
    she already knows i'm pretty honest and never think before I speak, but you have to agree with me that she also over-reacted as fuark...

    ummm the bottom line guys,
    Do you think she'll eventually text me?
    Do you think i'm supposed to "agree" to get back to her if it happens?
    Do you think i'll be considered as a beta by her if i'll agree to get back to her after those 3 or 4 or 5 days she doesn't talk to me?

    I mean I would forgive her ofc and even say sorry for my aggressive criticism if she would text me in the end of that day with "look. you really hurt me. I was wrong but so do you."
    But she didn't. and she didn't text me the day after it or 2 days after it.
    So should I just "forget" and forgive her for not texting me for 4 or 5 days? I mean it's pretty fcked up for a 1 month dating chit.. don't you think? But she's really special (no homo) and I dont wanna lose her but I don't wanna be considered as a beta by her as well. (Already made this mistake with my ex when I got back to her and it was awful).
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    thanks for the comments guys.
    another 24 hours without any text from her.. I think game is over for me boyos.. I mean it's already 3 entire days without a response from her.

    yeah I get it now, what all of you say. I mean maybe it's too early to give her an honest opinion and criticism because we literally talk for only 1 month and been on only 6 dates..

    but I think she also got hurt because I told her "the next time you'll delete messages i'll just reply with "I don't give a fck if you're upset with something".
    she already knows i'm pretty honest and never think before I speak, but you have to agree with me that she also over-reacted as fuark...

    ummm the bottom line guys,
    Do you think she'll eventually text me?
    Do you think i'm supposed to "agree" to get back to her if it happens?
    Do you think i'll be considered as a beta by her if i'll agree to get back to her after those 3 or 4 or 5 days she doesn't talk to me?

    I mean I would forgive her ofc and even say sorry for my aggressive criticism if she would text me in the end of that day with "look. you really hurt me. I was wrong but so do you."
    But she didn't. and she didn't text me the day after it or 2 days after it.
    So should I just "forget" and forgive her for not texting me for 4 or 5 days? I mean it's pretty fcked up for a 1 month dating chit.. don't you think? But she's really special (no homo) and I dont wanna lose her but I don't wanna be considered as a beta by her as well. (Already made this mistake with my ex when I got back to her and it was awful).
    If you like her, man the fuk up and make contact. If she’s not already riding someone else, She’s going through the same dilemma as you.

    Make contact. Phone call. If no answer, text.

    Be nice.

    Don’t think you want to apologize. Don’t sound like it. I wouldn’t either. But that’s me today. Last year or before I would’ve apologised. Fuk that.

    So, make contact and ask her out. Srs. (I know you guys are beyond that point maybe, but you’re just looking to bring that spark again without apologising and begging. If she brings it up, subtly say, I shouldn’t have said it all. I’m sure you did fine. DO NOT ASK HER THE OUTCOME OF THE TEST. She will tell you if she did good. If she failed, lol, she won’t say chit.

    Good luck!

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    Originally Posted by TryingBB View Post
    If you like her, man the fuk up and make contact. If she’s not already riding someone else, She’s going through the same dilemma as you.

    Make contact. Phone call. If no answer, text.

    Be nice.

    Don’t think you want to apologize. Don’t sound like it. I wouldn’t either. But that’s me today. Last year or before I would’ve apologised. Fuk that.

    So, make contact and ask her out. Srs. (I know you guys are beyond that point maybe, but you’re just looking to bring that spark again without apologising and begging. If she brings it up, subtly say, I shouldn’t have said it all. I’m sure you did fine. DO NOT ASK HER THE OUTCOME OF THE TEST. She will tell you if she did good. If she failed, lol, she won’t say chit.

    Good luck!

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    I would probably wait till she will text me, which means for everr because she wont, and then i'll regret it for a long time.

    But that's what wrong with me.. too much ego, too much "fake it like you're an alpha till u make it". I just can't behave like a grown up man and call/text her first. Idk why. I always been like that.

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    But that's what wrong with me.. too much ego, too much "fake it like you're an alpha till u make it". I just can't behave like a grown up man and call/text her first. Idk why. I always been like that.
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    Originally Posted by JadedJuan View Post
    bruh what happened with the ex you reconciled with?

    and yea in a relationship try not to act like her father lol
    This was exactly what I thought. Who are you her daddy?

    Brah you need to chill the F out and stop acting like her parent. All she wanted was "I'm sure you did fine" or "that sucks you will do better next time." What she didn't want was a lecture from a second parent.

    She probably responded rudely and then deleted it and took the higher road and just said ok, then you doubled down and was an ass. Yeah you called it you definitely f*cked up.
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    Originally Posted by J411 View Post
    This was exactly what I thought. Who are you her daddy?

    Brah you need to chill the F out and stop acting like her parent. All she wanted was "I'm sure you did fine" or "that sucks you will do better next time." What she didn't want was a lecture from a second parent.

    She probably responded rudely and then deleted it and took the higher road and just said ok, then you doubled down and was an ass. Yeah you called it you definitely f*cked up.
    idk dude.. idk why I snapped like that.

    Guys, can you give me an answer?
    Why doesn't she text me?
    Is that means:
    - she found a new guy (I doubt it)
    - she is over me
    - she's so mad she doesn't wanna text me first?

    I mean from my little experiance with girls, they don't have the whole "i'm gonna be a beta if I'll text him", they just text the guy and hope he will respond. Even if i'm the guilty one, I expected at least to get one text of "look.. we are both mad. but i'm hurt.. blablahbalh" and then everything would be fine. But she didn't send even that.

    So this is why i'm confused as fuark.. what does it mean when she doesn't text you for 3 days after 1 entire month of talking 24/7 on snapchat, texts, Instagram, 6 dats, meeting her parents, sleep at her place, she slept at mine and met my parents.. i mean wtf, how can she just let it go nomasayin?
    especially after telling me she had a guy who humped and dumped her a month before she met me (she talked to him for 2 months and went with him on 2 dates and she ghosted her after the 2nd date cuz he fcked her).

    So idk guys.. do you think it's over from her side? i just dont know how it's fuarking possible for a woman to let go just that easily.. wtf
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    It's called autism and you have it.

    a developmental disorder of variable severity that is characterized by difficulty in social interaction and communication and by restricted or repetitive patterns of thought and behavior.
    Do you honestly think you would act better and text her even tho you're 100% sure she's the crazy here and not you? idk bro.. i'm not sure you would do that.
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    If you like her, man the fuk up and make contact. If she’s not already riding someone else, She’s going through the same dilemma as you.

    Make contact. Phone call. If no answer, text.

    Be nice.

    Don’t think you want to apologize. Don’t sound like it. I wouldn’t either. But that’s me today. Last year or before I would’ve apologised. Fuk that.

    So, make contact and ask her out. Srs. (I know you guys are beyond that point maybe, but you’re just looking to bring that spark again without apologising and begging. If she brings it up, subtly say, I shouldn’t have said it all. I’m sure you did fine. DO NOT ASK HER THE OUTCOME OF THE TEST. She will tell you if she did good. If she failed, lol, she won’t say chit.

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    ^^^^This.

    You F’ed up and said things out of anger, over text, and really not your place. She was venting to you because she feels close to you and trusted you. She wasn’t asking for advice. Sometimes women just want to vent and be listened to, not asking for their “problems” to be solved.

    Call her, you don’t have to apologize, but you hurt her over texts. She is probably still hurt. She may not respond or say what you want to hear. But man up and talk to her, if not, you will never know how she feels.

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    So the consensus is you're wrong yet you refuse to reach out because you're too worried about looking "beta."

    I agree you should call her and attempt to make things right if you do not want to break up. Apologizing is not "beta" if you were wrong. Just don't beg for forgiveness and make it sound like you need her/her constant validation in the process.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    thanks for the comments guys.
    another 24 hours without any text from her.. I think game is over for me boyos.. I mean it's already 3 entire days without a response from her.

    yeah I get it now, what all of you say. I mean maybe it's too early to give her an honest opinion and criticism because we literally talk for only 1 month and been on only 6 dates..

    but I think she also got hurt because I told her "the next time you'll delete messages i'll just reply with "I don't give a fck if you're upset with something".
    she already knows i'm pretty honest and never think before I speak, but you have to agree with me that she also over-reacted as fuark...

    ummm the bottom line guys,
    Do you think she'll eventually text me?
    Do you think i'm supposed to "agree" to get back to her if it happens?
    Do you think i'll be considered as a beta by her if i'll agree to get back to her after those 3 or 4 or 5 days she doesn't talk to me?

    I mean I would forgive her ofc and even say sorry for my aggressive criticism if she would text me in the end of that day with "look. you really hurt me. I was wrong but so do you."
    But she didn't. and she didn't text me the day after it or 2 days after it.
    So should I just "forget" and forgive her for not texting me for 4 or 5 days? I mean it's pretty fcked up for a 1 month dating chit.. don't you think? But she's really special (no homo) and I dont wanna lose her but I don't wanna be considered as a beta by her as well. (Already made this mistake with my ex when I got back to her and it was awful).
    You can apologize without really apologizing and it will smooth things over regardless.

    Instead of "I'm sorry for what I said" you can say "I'm sorry for upsetting you with my response.". Kinda manipulative and a cop out but you are basically owning what you said, and a bit insincere because you're basically again reinforcing that she has fragile emotions, not that what you said is incorrect (which it isn't). Up to you if you wanna do that backhanded apology, or just own it entirely and not apologize. But if you like her, make contact. If not...next.

    That being said, if you do wanna be with her and make things right, you should at the very least take back your statement of "next time IDGAF what you say" etc, because that's a pretty chitty thing to say to someone regardless of context. If you mean it, then that's the base for terrible communication. If you don't, take it back.
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    Another 24 hours without any message.
    Maybe she hates me idk
    It's her bday tomorrow so I'll reach her with a text of "happy bday wish u the best" and that's it

    I'll see by her respond if she's still into me or not

    But by her not texting me for 4.5 days, I'm guessing she's not into me lol
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    I didn’t read past the second paragraph but you aren’t her daddy. No one vents to be lectured.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    Another 24 hours without any message.
    Maybe she hates me idk
    It's her bday tomorrow so I'll reach her with a text of "happy bday wish u the best" and that's it

    I'll see by her respond if she's still into me or not

    But by her not texting me for 4.5 days, I'm guessing she's not into me lol
    Dude, you’re into her. You counting days and hours in 0.5 increments. lol

    Man the fuk up and ask her out on her bday.

    Stop playing these games already or move on.

    Honestly, imo, she was just being a girl when she was venting. Most girls or even a dude would be pissed for getting a lecture from a 7 day MAYBE boyfriend.

    Up to you. It’s obvious you’re into her and you want her in your life but you’re doing everything that leads to the opposite direction.
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    Originally Posted by TryingBB View Post
    Dude, you’re into her. You counting days and hours in 0.5 increments. lol

    Man the fuk up and ask her out on her bday.

    Stop playing these games already or move on.

    Honestly, imo, she was just being a girl when she was venting. Most girls or even a dude would be pissed for getting a lecture from a 7 day MAYBE boyfriend.

    Up to you. It’s obvious you’re into her and you want her in your life but you’re doing everything that leads to the opposite direction.
    Yep.. I'm just gonna text her tomorrow. I'm not gonna apologise for my lecture my I wont do it again in case she'll agree to keep taking.
    I'll see what's up with her tomorrow and let u all know lol
    I feel kinda semi heartbroken no homo from a 30 days girl lmao
    I'm a phaggot.. I'll text her tomorrow
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    I didn’t read past the second paragraph but you aren’t her daddy. No one vents to be lectured.
    Dude.. I dont get your "dont lecture her"

    I'm the guy shes dating..
    I'm the guy that supposed to care about her right?

    So if she tells me "look I got F on my exam", and I know that she went out with her friends the night before, what should I say? "Good job sweetie, you'll do better next time "?

    She over reacted and that's all.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    Dude.. I dont get your "dont lecture her"

    I'm the guy shes dating..
    I'm the guy that supposed to care about her right?

    So if she tells me "look I got F on my exam", and I know that she went out with her friends the night before, what should I say? "Good job sweetie, you'll do better next time "?

    She over reacted and that's all.
    You clearly still aren't getting it so I'll say it one more time.

    Sometimes women just want to be listened to and reassured, not have their problems solved.

    SHe didn't ask you for advice, she just made a statement. Don't offer unsolicited advice that isn't asked for especially in the condescending, parental way that you did. Applies to more than just girlfriends.
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