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Thread: Matches have pretty much died
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04-02-2019, 03:40 PM #5881★cVc★ OEFx2
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04-02-2019, 03:46 PM #5882
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04-02-2019, 08:54 PM #5883
Part of this is my own fault. Just looking back on some old matches, I stopped responding to at least two 8’s becuase I frequently just get jaded with the whole thing and abandon the apps for a few days.
If I was 25 again I’d probably do the same thing I did before and just not bother with dating at all.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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04-02-2019, 09:02 PM #5884
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04-02-2019, 09:13 PM #5885
So that girl I went on the date with. Will goes hours without responding. has yet to initiate a convo. Essentially shows no sighs of attraction I've had in the past with women that were interest. Its a slight blow to the self esteem in a sense because most people would look at us and say that Im overtly dating down.
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04-02-2019, 09:35 PM #5886
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04-02-2019, 09:39 PM #5887𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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04-02-2019, 10:25 PM #5888
lol at that indian chick on bumble. acting like she's too cool for me bish u ain't ****
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04-02-2019, 10:46 PM #5889
Yeah...therapy ain't doing **** for you, toots. Right now you sound like the DLB that shows up just before you implode. I think someone wrote a song about you.
Well obviously you have to be able to back it up...but if you do it over text, you SHOULD be able to do it in person. It's not that you can't, it's that something else is holding you back from doing it.
It literally makes zero sense that some guys are only good at text and some guys are only good IRL. It's all the same. If you know how to tease, flirt, and have fun conversations, it doesn't matter the media.Last edited by pondus_levo; 04-02-2019 at 10:54 PM.
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04-02-2019, 11:19 PM #5890
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04-03-2019, 12:02 AM #5891
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04-03-2019, 01:00 AM #5892
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04-03-2019, 01:55 AM #5893
Well if that happens, it will give some good work for fellow lawyers haha If the man marry one person, the other girl will have little to no right. If it does not marry, in my country there are specific law for couple who don't marry, that are pretty similar to the law for married people, but how do you apply them for a couple made of three person ?
The main solution will be to draft contract for the main investment made by the three person so basically the dating/relationship life will become a full market and people involved in relationship will be more business partners than anything else (it is a bit the same and honestly the belief in the "market" is far less pronounced in my country than in the USA and at first talking about the "dating market" was kind of shoking for me).
Anyway, if that happens, that will be a scary world to live in. human relation can't be reduce to contract and business transaction.
Well I do not really agree, fitness and health are not really taken into account when it comes to date.
I mean fitness for instance, unless you are naturally fit and then you are certainly attractive cause you have masculine feature, you have to build yourself up. In the latter case, people see you lift even if you are not massive but that does not play much for the ladies at least for me the main people that compliments me or ask for advice from time to time are other men lol. A few women asked me for diet advice and the compliments I get are from some friends cause they are nice to me.
For the self improvement part, will gladly take some advice though cause that is pretty vague.
Well sorry to hear that mate.
Regarding the self esteem, view it the other way even if it is hard, I mean you put yourself outhere, make some efforts to date despite this being harder for you. That requires some courage and resilience so prop to you my brother
Hope the next will be better, is she the one you had lunch with (I hope not cause you said you had good connection IIRC) ?
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04-03-2019, 06:02 AM #5894
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04-03-2019, 07:47 AM #5895
See stuff like this is why I deleted the apps. I understand you're jaded (I am too), but stuff like this is just contributing to the problem(s) many folks has with dating these days. Just like your "height experiment" why even do that? What's the purpose of lying? Don't get me wrong women lie all the time about age, using old pictures, etc. Have you thought about deleting the apps and trying real life? Yesterday I got a call about joining an indoor soccer league for the Spring season, I had to say no cause I'm swamped with work and applying for jobs. You live in a bigger city than I do so I'm sure there is good stuff out there. I'm not telling you what to do, but it seems like you, me, and some other folks needs a break from this mess they call "dating."
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04-03-2019, 09:20 AM #5896
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04-03-2019, 09:22 AM #5897
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04-03-2019, 09:50 AM #5898
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04-03-2019, 10:03 AM #5899
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04-03-2019, 10:29 AM #5900
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04-03-2019, 10:44 AM #5901
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04-03-2019, 10:52 AM #5902
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04-03-2019, 11:01 AM #5903
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04-03-2019, 11:08 AM #5904
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04-03-2019, 11:13 AM #5905
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04-03-2019, 12:37 PM #5906
Off topic, but I'm at the stage in my life (mid 30's) where a lot of my friends are moving up the "career ladder" into senior management and director positions.
I do pretty well for myself, but I've always had the philosophy that work/life balance is more important than killing yourself in work. A good friend of mine was burnt out ~1 year ago and had to see a doctor and stay home for a couple of weeks due to his stress levels and overworking. When I talked to him before that, he was grinding it out because he was up for promotion in a few months and would get a large pay increase. Then I spoke with him after that episode, and he's chasing the next promotion. No doubt he's 'doing very well' in career now and accelerating at a much faster pace than I.
Obviously you don't wanna end up like that, but when I see so many of my friends completely focused on career, I wonder if I'm wrong. I never wanted to manage people, it just seems like a stressful nightmare.And you really have to be the type of person that enjoys dealing with people, their emotions etc. in that position.
I think it's almost natural for a driven guy to want to compete in the workplace and climb the ladder for status. In some ways, you could say I've resisted it to maintain the bigger picture on health, fitness and what the real value in life is. You get that extra pay, but you will also get extra responsibility. Companies don't generally bump you for nothing.
All that said, I know I'm not pushing to my max potential in work - intentionally. I wonder why I start to feel a tinge of jealousy though, and if I should listen to that or not. I think if I have children, I can attach more meaning to that rather than work and my own health.
There has to be better pursuits to focus on than what they are doing in corporate.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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04-03-2019, 01:01 PM #5907
^^
Yeah it’s a very personal decision. You have to stay focused on yourself and what YOU want out of life. If you go by what your peers at work are doing you’ll get automatically sucked into that same career track because everyone thinks that is normal and they have tunnel vision.
It’s important to look at what other people outside your career are doing. Some people do very well because they started businesses, made good investments, got into real estate etc.
Plenty of people are well off financially outside the career rat race. Sometimes even better off financially than if they’d stayed in, or sometimes less financially but much more freedom and leisure time and control over their schedule etc.
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04-03-2019, 01:20 PM #5908
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04-03-2019, 01:29 PM #5909
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switched out my conservative pics for bathroom mirror shirtless selfies and i got some matches and a chick who was dtf
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04-03-2019, 02:49 PM #5910
My goal...if mid 30s and single and struggling. I want to be a remote Senior Developer, and live like..in Panama, Thailand, Philliopines, or something
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