How to dress to get looks but not the creepy older guy in the speedo look?

[frozensparky]

Can you say "easy tip prey"?

Thats exactly what I was thinking. OP probably paid for her and her 20 something boyfriend to go to the movies and have dinner the next night.

OP first learn where to post, O35 misc is more sutable for this post, actually surprised it hasn't been moved yet.

2nd no matter what a 40+ is going to look creepy trolling the 20 somethings

3rd Don't ask men what women like because no man has any idea what a woman wants, dress to feel comfortable, if your comfortable you will exude more confidence. and by comfortable I mean what makes you feel you look the best.

4th if your so cut why not post a picture

[bbsitum]

Last year and half I worked at my style a lot. I settle with 569 Levis and tapered line of Affliction, Alternative, RVCA and AquaVi t-shirts. I don't like tight shirts and specially pants but rather loose with proper cut. Tight shirts look really silly in bar. Tm if you are athletic carry athletic fit shirts but not tight one. Ignore this ones that post just for joke. I do that to. As said in previous post carry comfortable clothes. Basically try to look elegant not strong.
As are 20 years old bartenders in question I have 3 lines: “I like you, if yours mom is eligible let me know”, “you know, I’m getting married in one month”, “I had a few dozens of girl friends and I’m tired of women”. There is tons of middle 30ties good looking girls out. I don’t see purpose of spending energy at 20ties that full you around for tips.

[Corbi]

Clothes? Who gives 2 $hits? You want women falling over you have huge fukkin wallet and drive one of these

[jrod67]

Women are not visual like men they are emotional. Dress to be comfortable as previously mentioned and treat them with respect and you'll have a better chance then some well dressed dickhead any day of the week.

[Brackneyc]

Women are not visual like men they are emotional. Dress to be comfortable as previously mentioned and treat them with respect and you'll have a better chance then some well dressed dickhead any day of the week.

Not always.

[MecGen]

Guys in their forties hitting on the 20-something barmaids are creepy no matter what they wear.

Creepy is being polite.

, they just want bigger tips my man - they are not oogling you! Sorry.

A girls this age that actually leaves the bar with a guy our age, pretty sure sex is not on her mind




I can't believe I contributed to this thred

[Caesura75]

This thread reminds me of the rather distasteful joke announced by a business man at a seminar I attended a few months ago.

Spotting that there were no women in his audience, he decided to kick things off with a little ice breaker.........

"What's 6 inches long and makes women want to have sex with me?"

"My knife".

Now I'm all for a bit of light hearted humour, but holy fu......

[NapalmX]

This won't be a really popular comment by the sounds of the replies so far, but f*ck it ...

Go after whatever age chicks you want, who gives a **** what dudes on a forum think. There is a 20yr age gap between my Dad and Mom and they've been married for over 40 years. I personally like younger chicks, and I'll regularly go after chicks in their 20s and it's not a big deal. Looks do matter a lot, but confidence in yourself goes a long way when dealing with people. Just go out and buy some clothes that make you look good and you feel comfortable wearing.

[pvsampson]

Last year and half I worked at my style a lot. I settle with 569 Levis and tapered line of Affliction, Alternative, RVCA and AquaVi t-shirts. I don't like tight shirts and specially pants but rather loose with proper cut. Tight shirts look really silly in bar. Tm if you are athletic carry athletic fit shirts but not tight one. Ignore this ones that post just for joke. I do that to. As said in previous post carry comfortable clothes. Basically try to look elegant not strong.
As are 20 years old bartenders in question I have 3 lines: “I like you, if yours mom is eligible let me know”, “you know, I’m getting married in one month”, “I had a few dozens of girl friends and I’m tired of women”. There is tons of middle 30ties good looking girls out. I don’t see purpose of spending energy at 20ties that full you around for tips.

Yes. I think!

This thread reminds me of the rather distasteful joke announced by a business man at a seminar I attended a few months ago.

Spotting that there were no women in his audience, he decided to kick things off with a little ice breaker.........

"What's 6 inches long and makes women want to have sex with me?"

"My knife".

Now I'm all for a bit of light hearted humour, but holy fu......

Distasteful? Too f#cken right it is,so why post it?

[Geoff Richards]

Oh yay; another fashion thread!


The phcuk is wrong with you people?



Metrosexual Forum --------------->

^^^this,and why don't the mods move these to MISC ?

[dungeonmistress]

I assume you are male addressing males but I am somewhat befuddled by your use of the term "figure" to describe the male physique.

How about wearing just a starched collar with no shirt and jorts? Nothing prima Dona there because of the collar feature, and the jorts are a nice option to cover yet bare all at once so that you avoid the borat look.

For those with a Cut figure (vs the Hulks), what type of clothing do you wear when you are out in public? Do you go Charlie Sheen casual or do you wear something that accents your body shape?

I'm rather an ordinary middle aged looking guy who works at an office job, requiring me to wear a suit and tie. During the summer, on Fridays, we can dress down, but still requires a collar.

After work, I hit the gym so I change into my workout clothing, after which, I head home, then I take the dog for a walk in the local park.

Now, here's the deal, when I have my suit on, I look average...the only thing one could tell about my body is that I don't have a gut. At work, I pretty much don't get a second look if a pretty girl walks by. Now, that totally changes when I'm walking the dog in my shorts and T shirt. I consider myself to be fairly cut, so in my gym outfits, my body stands out.

Here's the dilemma. On Friday nights I usually go down to my local pub. It's mostly an older crowd, but the bar staff are in their mid 20s. There are a couple girls on staff that I'd love to ask out. Plus a couple customer ladies that I've seen there now and then. I notice that if I dress in a Charlie Sheen shirt and jeans, I don't get a second look. But if I dress is something that is tighter, I always get looks and the staff pays more attention to me. The thing is, I feel, well, like an egotistical prima donna if I dress like that.

So for those of you +40 guys who are more on the "cut" side, do you dress to accent your body and if you do, how do you do it with good taste? I don't want to be the creepy older guy in the speedo hanging out at the beach.

[ELLSKIES]

Women are not visual like men they are emotional. Dress to be comfortable as previously mentioned and treat them with respect and you'll have a better chance then some well dressed dickhead any day of the week.

So true, IMO.

[Amstat]

Amazingly this is my first post after luking here for a bit but I can't bite my tongue. Creepy? Seriously?

Creepy is a 40 something hitting on a girls under 18. Normal is a 40 something finding grown women in their 20s and up attractive. Then again, I am 43 and my wife is 29. We have been married nearly 6 years. The word creepy is thrown around way to easily in our society and has lost all context. Btw creeps are creeps whether they are 20 or 90. It has nothing to do with the age gap of legal adults in adult relationships.

[-=FLEX=-]

Amazingly this is my first post after luking here for a bit but I can't bite my tongue. Creepy? Seriously?

Creepy is a 40 something hitting on a girls under 18. Normal is a 40 something finding grown women in their 20s and up attractive. Then again, I am 43 and my wife is 29. We have been married nearly 6 years. The word creepy is thrown around way to easily in our society and has lost all context. Btw creeps are creeps whether they are 20 or 90. It has nothing to do with the age gap of legal adults in adult relationships.

Strong 1rd post.


Also:

[m314]

Amazingly this is my first post after luking here for a bit but I can't bite my tongue. Creepy? Seriously?

Creepy is a 40 something hitting on a girls under 18. Normal is a 40 something finding grown women in their 20s and up attractive. Then again, I am 43 and my wife is 29. We have been married nearly 6 years. The word creepy is thrown around way to easily in our society and has lost all context. Btw creeps are creeps whether they are 20 or 90. It has nothing to do with the age gap of legal adults in adult relationships.

I was going to say this. When I was single last year, I dated girls in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. I ended up with a girlfriend who's 15 years younger than me. Some girls think older guys are creepy for hitting on them, but some think it's hot. You never know until you ask them out. If they say no or make an excuse for why they can't go out with you, move on and it's no big deal. The worst that can happen is they'll say "I have a boyfriend" (real or imaginary) or "You're not my type". If they say yes, they obviously don't have a problem with the age difference.

[KenJenkinsII]

Last year and half I worked at my style a lot. I settle with 569 Levis and tapered line of Affliction, Alternative, RVCA and AquaVi t-shirts. I don't like tight shirts and specially pants but rather loose with proper cut. Tight shirts look really silly in bar. Tm if you are athletic carry athletic fit shirts but not tight one. Ignore this ones that post just for joke. I do that to. As said in previous post carry comfortable clothes. Basically try to look elegant not strong.
As are 20 years old bartenders in question I have 3 lines: �I like you, if yours mom is eligible let me know�, �you know, I�m getting married in one month�, �I had a few dozens of girl friends and I�m tired of women�. There is tons of middle 30ties good looking girls out. I don�t see purpose of spending energy at 20ties that full you around for tips.

Affliction is definitely the way to go, also Ed Hardy and Tapout. Young chicks love a guy who has probably never been in a fight wearing a Tapout shirt. DO IT!

[-=FLEX=-]

For the record I don't care who ****s who. I've dated older. I've dated younger. I prefer women in my own age group for a number of reasons.

I just ****ing hate it when douchebags post off-topic **** in the O35 forum, especially when we have an off-topic area for this crap, and really I just hate fashion threads, even when they're posted in the right section.

[KenJenkinsII]

For the record I don't care who ****s who. I've dated older. I've dated younger. I prefer women in my own age group for a number of reasons.

I just ****ing hate it when douchebags post off-topic **** in the O35 forum, especially when we have an off-topic area for this crap, and really I just hate fashion threads, even when they're posted in the right section.

Somehow this happens and the over 35 pics and vids is not a sticky. Mods need to step it up.

[induced_drag]

Do you have a hard time finding tank tops that fit?

Also, I want to wear skinny jeans....my friend told me I should stop squatting.

[pvsampson]

Somehow this happens and the over 35 pics and vids is not a sticky. Mods need to step it up.

Good point.

[induced_drag]

OP....wear your tank tops like this and you will get all the chicks! (why didnt I think of that?!)

[-=FLEX=-]

OP....wear your tank tops like this and you will get all the chicks! (why didnt I think of that?!)

[img]http://poorlydressed.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/fashion-fail-classic-tank-top-tank-bottom-basically-i-just-want-to-get-tanked1.jpg[/ig]

MY EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

asdf

[induced_drag]

MY EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

asdf

Hey....thats my wife before her 12 week transformation that she was so inspired to do on Jan 1st of last year.

[-=FLEX=-]

Somehow this happens and the over 35 pics and vids is not a sticky. Mods need to step it up.

Yeah; post a pic of Winnie The Pooh and you get a 2 month ban in a nano-second, but this crap goes unchecked...

[DesertDude11]

I find that if I want to get chicks at a bar my best piece of clothing is a pair of socks.






stuffed in my pants... har har har har!

[cmg1976]

[QUOTE=bustasinclair;1006251353]I usually dress like this when I'm cruisin' for da ladies. Chics dig it!

Awesomest picture of scantily-clad dudes ever. I can't stop looking!

[bodyhard]

OP....wear your tank tops like this and you will get all the chicks! (why didnt I think of that?!)

WTF that sh!t can't be real!

To the OP clothes doesn't make the man.

[mixbwoy]

OP....wear your tank tops like this and you will get all the chicks! (why didnt I think of that?!)

[PopeGregorius]

Affliction is definitely the way to go, also Ed Hardy and Tapout. Young chicks love a guy who has probably never been in a fight wearing a Tapout shirt. DO IT!

Ed Hardy & tapout if you want to look like an out-of-ashion 18yo.

Better sources:
Read 'THE MFA LIBRARY' on the right hand column http://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/
www.styleforum.net
http://www.askandyaboutclothes.com/f...y-s-Trad-Forum

and the hundreds of mens style blogs that have sprung up in the past few years.

[KenJenkinsII]

Ed Hardy & tapout if you want to look like an out-of-ashion 18yo.

Better sources:
Read 'THE MFA LIBRARY' on the right hand column http://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/
www.styleforum.net
http://www.askandyaboutclothes.com/f...y-s-Trad-Forum

and the hundreds of mens style blogs that have sprung up in the past few years.

I was being sarcastic, do you know what sarcasm is?