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Thread: Matches have pretty much died ³
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04-11-2021, 08:06 PM #2581
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04-12-2021, 06:36 AM #2582
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Yeah for sure. I went on tinder not so long ago and it made me sick looking at the amount of girls who make "demands" specially the ones who clearly don't look after themselves. I booked a trip to the phillipines alone after the break up to get out of here and Europe. I've been talking to a philipino girl since for around 2 month non stop and I've not come across any red flags.. tried to test her saying I'd buy her things and she wouldn't accept it lol. My mate in work said he knows 4 fellas who have phillipino wife's and they're very loyal and different to English girls. So I'll do LDR and see what happens because I'm not in a rush and I need all this time to myself so come September when I'm down there I'll see how it plays out.
We have video chatted alot so I'll see what happens in that distant future. Gyms are open now and I'm working abit more hours and feeling alot better in myself so I'll keep everything updated from now on haha!Liverpool Football Club ******
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04-12-2021, 08:30 AM #2583
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04-12-2021, 10:38 AM #2584
I don't disagree with the fact that decent women can still go out to bars with their friends.
But did you really call a girl wife material after talking with her for an hour or two?!?!
That's great you got out of it when you did before you invested more. Hopefully you learned a lot from the process.
It's not your responsibility to make your SO happy. You both should still be putting yourself first 95% of the time. Seems like this is a concept you need to work on understanding.
Choosing LDR's won't solve anything at all. I'd argue it's a terrible choice to actively pursue LDR's over someone local unless you're involved in a matchmaking service specific to certain cultures or something.
BOL and keep the updates coming.
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04-12-2021, 09:51 PM #2585
Is hinge premium worth it?
I’ve been getting solid matches. Like girls I would actually go for IRL. Unlike tinder where most matches are trash.
I hate how Tinder crops and zooms in on pics making it look like chit. Everything looks crisp and high quality on hingeLook, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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04-13-2021, 12:07 AM #2586
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It's something I'm yet to experience properly so since I'm going down there I just thought I have nothing to lose spending time with her and seeing where it goes. Getting a condo down there in the future has been one thing I've had in mind so I guess ill see until September but once it comes ill keep updates in here of the trip (if covid doesn't ruin it lol) Hope everyone else is doing well here!
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04-13-2021, 10:47 AM #2587
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04-13-2021, 11:04 AM #2588
Those women tend to be more loyal, feminine and family oriented than Western women. I never really saw that as my future, but I'm open to the idea after dating women from many different cultures. That said, if you marry into that family you should expect your money to become more available to the family. They have a different perspective on individualism. They are loyal and driven to contribute for the family, but the rewards are often (willingly) shared.
SwimLiftRunGrl may be able to speak more to that angle, I'm not sure if her family aligns to that well though ,since they're in America.
Western women are the most entitled, and propagandized by modern feminism. They have deviated furthest away from their nature, are stubbornly anti-traditionalist, and essentially try to behave like men.
Many non-Westernized women are more feminine and homely. I still recall being absolutely blown away when one girl did little homely things in my apartment (only after a couple of dates). I'm a fiercely independent guy, but it was the first time in my life where I felt truly complemented and a wave of attraction swept over me. It was my one and only taste of a truly feminine presence, and how it could add value and joy to my life.
I've never felt that feeling with a Western woman, nomatter how attractive she was, but I could of course if she innately behaved that way (which seems unlikely, except maybe in more rural America).𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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04-13-2021, 11:11 AM #2589
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04-13-2021, 11:15 AM #2590
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04-13-2021, 11:23 AM #2591
Absolutely. Women from the Midwest and classier parts of the South would be of much more interest to you. I am very familiar with the type of woman you are describing and dissapointed in having grown up near NYC.
I actually know a few guys who specifically sought southern women, and one originally from NY just moved to TX with his now wife and family, where she was from.
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04-13-2021, 04:04 PM #2592
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04-13-2021, 09:29 PM #2593
lol i remade bumble and im at 13 likes in like an hour
i got like 1 like last week and the week before
that noob boost is stronger than any fukin boost you can buy
then watch when my profile dies and i get zero likes for daysLook, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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04-13-2021, 10:29 PM #2594
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04-13-2021, 10:35 PM #2595
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04-13-2021, 10:40 PM #2596
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04-13-2021, 10:44 PM #2597
They are terrible. I posted some guys in the Miscord today.
One started off with "I'm a feminist, socialist". Of course he's a Berkeley grad student.
One said he was anti-capitalism.
Three said they were in open relationships/marriages.
At least I had a normal date, but of course he seems boring. I did read that if a guy seems boring that's a good thing, because he's most likely stable.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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04-13-2021, 10:49 PM #2598
My profile says I am very kind and caring and volunteer at an animal shelter, play tennis, and belong to an outdoor adventure club. So I can do a lot of activities with people.
I'm most likely going to have to move out from my husband when our daughter goes off to college in 2 years, so I'm looking for a life partner now. It may take 2+ years to find someone, if ever. If not then I'll be happy with female friends, family and cats and dogs. I don't *HAVE* to have a man. My therapist said there is no rush as it's not like I'm trying to have a baby before it's too late.
It's just the pickings are slim with men over 50. Many are getting white haired and wrinkly......I use Botox and color my hair to look younger.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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04-13-2021, 11:01 PM #2599
I’m one of those guys who asks for nudes perhaps too early and have definitely been blocked because of it
Yolo
I usually ask for nudes from girls I have no intention of taking seriousLook, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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04-13-2021, 11:03 PM #2600
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04-13-2021, 11:04 PM #2601
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04-13-2021, 11:09 PM #2602
Yeah I was telling my Dad about the guys calling themselves feminists and he said the same, that they do that to attract women. What a joke.
Well this guy is an electrician so he doesn't do much but work 10-12 hour days, sometimes 6-7 days a week. At least he has a stable job, though.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
Christian Crew
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04-13-2021, 11:19 PM #2603
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04-13-2021, 11:21 PM #2604
LOL you sound like the housewives at the tennis club. They once said to me, "You work? ewwww". They just drop the kids off at school, go to Zumba class or play tennis, have lunch with the ladies and go wine tasting, then pick up the kids from school (pre-pandemic). Rough life. I did it for 4 years and loved it, but mostly because our daughter was young so I could play Barbies and hang out with her.
Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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04-14-2021, 12:32 AM #2605
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That gives me more good vibes about something like this working but like you said it's down to the person if that's the type of girl they want. And your perception on western girls is correct.. Even the girls I've just "dated" in the past before my 2 long relationships I noticed all that resemblance. I think most people at some point in their life need to switch things and maybe try a "chance" to see if it works. I'm not going there expecting myself to come home wanting to marry someone but it's always a +1 if things go well.
And also the girls who I dated long term both of them also let themselves go heavily and I know its "wrong" to judge people based on that too but when u see your partner gaining a ton of weight its off putting and then you have to tell them without offending them lol.Liverpool Football Club ******
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04-14-2021, 03:56 AM #2606
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04-14-2021, 08:30 AM #2608
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