I know I can be happy but I don't believe I can???
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12-25-2020, 06:10 PM #8581
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12-25-2020, 06:11 PM #8582
Things that are bothering me: sabotaging my relationship with my family, not having a girl in my life, my mental health. Social anxiety is really bad. Especially as a man. I get jealous of girls because they can have social anxiety and still get relationships easily. I'm super bitter. I want a girlfriend so bad but it's impossible and then a girl with my same personality can get a boyfriend like ordering a pizza. I'm soo ****ing bitter. It's unfair.
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12-25-2020, 06:13 PM #8583
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12-26-2020, 02:20 PM #8584
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12-26-2020, 02:26 PM #8585
There's no sense of community anymore. I remember i used to be the cool guy irl and i always had the misc FA crew to talk to back in the day but all i feel is loneliness now. I don't fit in anywhere.
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12-26-2020, 05:34 PM #8586
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12-27-2020, 06:54 AM #8587
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12-27-2020, 10:25 AM #8588
all i think about is my crush and our memories and fantasies for the future.
i want to take a bath with her
i want to have a romantic picnic in the park with her
i want to take her to an amusement park
i have extreme desires for this. i cant afford this b!tch. im so ****ed. Everyday i fall behind my peers financially because im being drained by succubi.
so stressed out
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12-27-2020, 10:32 AM #8589
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12-27-2020, 11:28 AM #8590
Well I gotta tell ya I wasn't happy with my job up north so in September I moved to texas and unfortunately I don't think it's gonna work out.
Got me pretty stressed out these days. Doesn't help CHristmas sucked since I spent it alone skyping my parents and my mom crying I couldn't be home.
JFL at this year
I guess you just have to embrace clown world and laugh it off.Texas crew
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12-29-2020, 09:15 PM #8591
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12-30-2020, 06:33 AM #8592
It felt like forever but I've finally reached one week on parnate. I feel improvement. I've had many tell me theyve become 100% in two weeks. It would mean so much to be happy again. I've been depressed since the second grade. The pill is no joke. Last night I ate a pepperoni hot pocket and I had a serious headache... so many side effects, drug, and food interactions. I'll do anything to feel like myself again..... I'll keep updating for those interested.
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12-30-2020, 09:58 AM #8593
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01-03-2021, 11:02 PM #8594
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01-04-2021, 01:22 PM #8595
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01-05-2021, 11:48 AM #8596
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01-06-2021, 01:04 PM #8597
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01-06-2021, 03:07 PM #8598
i lost my brother last week. He was my best friend and idol.
Depression took him from us after a horror 2 months for him. I pray he has found the peace he was looking for. Funeral is this weekend - where we will find the strength im not sure to be honest, but i know we will.Delray Misfit for Life
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MMAbrah
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01-06-2021, 06:19 PM #8599
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01-06-2021, 06:51 PM #8600
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01-07-2021, 08:14 PM #8601
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01-07-2021, 10:10 PM #8602
- Join Date: Aug 2011
- Location: Raleigh, North Carolina, United States
- Age: 34
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Lately I’ve been getting to the point where I’m struggling to find reasons to live. My feeling of purpose/self-worth is just about gone. My morale is terrible and I feel like I’m just about to hit rock bottom. I haven’t had a single “win” in almost a year. Any self confidence I had is long gone. I’m so lost.
The scary thing is that if my Mom wasn’t alive, I’m not sure if I would be here anymore. I love her way too much to put her through that though, so it’s not going to happen. She loves me so much and I feel like I keep letting her down.
Happy New Year, everyone. Here’s to a better year (it probably won’t be much better).Last edited by kovalchuk71; 01-07-2021 at 10:16 PM.
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01-08-2021, 02:00 AM #8603
Anxiety and depression crew.
Was having a very 'what's the point in anything' episode a few weeks ago. You know where you try and do things to occupy your time but stop after 5 minutes thinking, why am I even doing this, everything is completely pointless and joyless.
2 things that always/have helped.
1) working out.
2) making money from investing. I don't even want the money. It's just like a real life video game where seeing your high score go up but it is actually tangible as opposed to some nebulous number.
Has helped a bit for me. Hope you guys can get there.
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01-08-2021, 06:58 PM #8604
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01-08-2021, 08:34 PM #8605
Life lacks purpose and i don't know how to change that. I try to talk to people but nothing happens. I can't meet anyone my age that shares similar interests/views.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
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01-08-2021, 10:16 PM #8606
Is anyone else just completely fuking exhausted? Srs living with anxiety 24/7 feeling like my chest is going to explode out of my mouth. I know life lacks purpose and I'm just doing my best to enjoy the time I have on this planet but I'm just so goddamn tired of fighting my mind all day everyday 365 days a year.
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*Typos can go fucl themselves crew*
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*Loves reps, hates negs crew*
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01-09-2021, 11:34 AM #8607
Are you on any medications? SSRIs/TCAs/MAOIs can help massively with constant anxiety. Look into kratom, it's cheap and legal (in my state) and helps massively with anxiety, just don't go off the rails with it.
Normally I wouldn't immediately suggest medication but it seems like your anxiety is debilitating and the first thing you need to control before you can move on. I used to have the worst social anxiety imaginable, couldn't even order fast food without stuttering and getting red in the face, and now I'm a conversational student doctor treating patients. Chit can get so, so much better, believe me.Dental Student crew
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01-09-2021, 11:36 AM #8608
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01-09-2021, 05:18 PM #8609
I work as a casino dealer which means I’m not allowed to take meds that cause drowsiness or affect concentration.
I’ve felt this way for years as a result of childhood trauma and I’m just so exhausted of dealing with it
Brb a normal person’s “slightly anxious” is my 24/7 state. Imagine how I start to feel when real stress comes into the picture. Tired of fighting a battle inside my mind everyday of my life*Deadlifts pants after taking a chit crew*
*Typos can go fucl themselves crew*
*Nice miscer crew*
*Loves reps, hates negs crew*
*Faps before workout crew*
*12+ hours of sleep crew*
*Faps during workout crew*
*Hates onions crew*
*Faps after workout crew*
*No fap crew*
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01-09-2021, 08:57 PM #8610
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