Matches have pretty much died ²

[TheIronAsylum]

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[BlackScorpio91]

So anyway I redownloaded Tinder again after about 3 years and I'm just mass swiping like a mofo and I already got 12 matches and counting (hasn't even been a full hour yet) and two women DM me first.

I can't wait to see otaku's part.

Fingers crossed.

[Luc1fer]

how to get around a device ban

Go away

[Luc1fer]

So anyway I redownloaded Tinder again after about 3 years and I'm just mass swiping like a mofo and I already got 12 matches and counting (hasn't even been a full hour yet) and two women DM me first.

I can't wait to see otaku's part.

Fingers crossed.

Ye when you sign up to an app for the first time they push your profile to the top of the queue, for engagement. After a few days... matches have pretty much died.

I ran an experiment by upgrading to a trial of the paid version (I think it was Bumble) and could never replicate my experience within the first 24hours of signing up.

The only time I got a lot of success again was changing height to 6'2.

[rikugunchusa]

So anyway I redownloaded Tinder again after about 3 years and I'm just mass swiping like a mofo and I already got 12 matches and counting (hasn't even been a full hour yet) and two women DM me first.

I can't wait to see otaku's part.

Fingers crossed.

i'm really curious to see your pics.
I think the best indicator of success is being DMed first frequently, wouldnt be suprised if you become the tyrone of the thread

[BlackScorpio91]

Ye when you sign up to an app for the first time they push your profile to the top of the queue, for engagement. After a few days... matches have pretty much died.

I ran an experiment by upgrading to a trial of the paid version (I think it was Bumble) and could never replicate my experience within the first 24hours of signing up.

The only time I got a lot of success again was changing height to 6'2.

Well let's see how I cope after that initial push.

Apparently it worked with otaku after that initial push when he was using my pics but at the same time otaku is more indirect and I'm more direct so I'm sure I'm gonna lose some matches which I really don't care cause I'm just using Tinder to supplement instead of exclusively.

Plus being direct through online is a good way to weed through Timewasters.

[BlackScorpio91]

i'm really curious to see your pics.
I think the best indicator of success is being DMed first frequently, wouldnt be suprised if you become the tyrone of the thread

Otaku has my pics which I'm assuming he'll be posting sometime today or tomorrow along with the thread.

I look alot better than I did when I had glasses.

Plus otaku had women messaging him using the same pics.

[BlackScorpio91]

Man I love being Mode One (direct) online. Still getting matches throughout all the apps I've downloaded even though they did slow down somewhat.

Skips past the bull**** (women who ain't interested either unmatch or don't reply or stop replying at some point) and the women that are down with my program will cooperate. I'm not stressed out or frustrated when a woman doesn't text me back or takes a long time to text me back as I usually just charge them to the game and move on.

Already talked to some real ones online, some of which even though they rejected me, they respected my direct style.

I do notice you do got to filter through alot more attention whores/Timewasters/Snapchat/IG whores at least on Tinder (Hinge, ******** Dating, Bumble not as much).

People said online dating was better back in the 2000s, I wish we were back in that day.

P.S. I also suspect one of the "women" that texted me when I gave her my number was a man. Number deleted.

[qawsedb]

Man I love being Mode One (direct) online. Still getting matches throughout all the apps I've downloaded even though they did slow down somewhat.

Skips past the bull**** (women who ain't interested either unmatch or don't reply or stop replying at some point) and the women that are down with my program will cooperate. I'm not stressed out or frustrated when a woman doesn't text me back or takes a long time to text me back as I usually just charge them to the game and move on.

Already talked to some real ones online, some of which even though they rejected me, they respected my direct style.

I do notice you do got to filter through alot more attention whores/Timewasters/Snapchat/IG whores at least on Tinder (Hinge, ******** Dating, Bumble not as much).

People said online dating was better back in the 2000s, I wish we were back in that day.

P.S. I also suspect one of the "women" that texted me when I gave her my number was a man. Number deleted.

What do you mean by direct game? Like inviting them straight over or asking them out for a date?

[BlackScorpio91]

What do you mean by direct game? Like inviting them straight over or asking them out for a date?

I don't go on dates.

I simply get straight to the point and say when are they're free so we can get together and that I'm not looking for anything serious.

Sure sometimes I don't get responses back or sometimes they unmatch (in b4 some idiot says I was being too forward. If you wanna deal with attention whores who wanna keep you talking on the app instead of meeting up and then bitching about it on the forums be my guest) but the ones who have some type of interest usually reply and appreciate that just like they do irl.

I don't really invite them straight over (one of these days I might though just to see), I just set something for when both me and them are free.

I notice I tend to get a better response rate on Hinge and ******** Dating than I do on Tinder so far.

In b4 those women are sluts, whores, fat, ugly, blah blah blah or that Mode One only works because of baseless this and that. Stfu. I don't wanna hear it.

Mode One always works even when you get rejected because you don't waste time with women that don't like you. Dating shouldn't be a complicated process, it should be organic and seamless and if it doesn't work for you, you're doing something wrong.

[deltakappabrah]

Your opener is a generic "being direct" line lol

[BlackScorpio91]

Your opener is a generic "being direct" line lol

And?

Works for me.

If it doesn't work for you, not my problem.

[deltakappabrah]

Just pointing out it's a bit ridiculous to claim it as if it was some revolutionary opener that other miscers shouldn't use

[BlackScorpio91]

Just pointing out it's a bit ridiculous to claim it as if it was some revolutionary opener that other miscers shouldn't use

Never said it was revolutionary, I'm just saying if it works for me, someone might get the wrong idea and start spamming that "generic" opener. It's a simple opener and yet works well for me.

But I can see why you thought that by my post, wasn't trying to make it seem like it was groundbreaking.

[newbuck]

Any advice?
Talking to a 24 y/o college grad, for about two weeks. Talk on phone daily, have been on two dates, first ended in just a kiss, second was mostly making out and fingering cause was at her parents crib.
She wants me as LTR, I think potential is there since has good personality.

I know she has phukked other guys in ONS so feels like she has me on that make them wait bs.
3 dates Is usually my limit so told her I’d get a room this weekend and some takeout, she told me come over instead.

Normally wouldn’t be pressed about it but told her I was talking to other girls and phukked up by deleted my dating apps cause she wanted to be exclusive and I thought she’d put out.

If I don’t at least get head planning on redownloading apps and telling her the truth/nexting.

[BlackScorpio91]

Any advice?
Talking to a 24 y/o college grad, for about two weeks. Talk on phone daily, have been on two dates, first ended in just a kiss, second was mostly making out and fingering cause was at her parents crib.
She wants me as LTR, I think potential is there since has good personality.

I know she has phukked other guys in ONS so feels like she has me on that make them wait bs.
3 dates Is usually my limit so told her I’d get a room this weekend and some takeout, she told me come over instead.

Normally wouldn’t be pressed about it but told her I was talking to other girls and phukked up by deleted my dating apps cause she wanted to be exclusive and I thought she’d put out.

If I don’t at least get head planning on redownloading apps and telling her the truth/nexting.

Honestly the 3 date rule is for guys with no game gotta be honest. You don't need 3 dates or even 1 date to have sex with a woman. Me and other dudes are having women meet us for sex without going on dates or spending money on them or talking on the phone all day every day with them because we don't need to. Also don't be following her program, make her follow YOUR program. That's why alot of guys fail because they're all cookie cutter copies of each other and that's why alot of women don't respect men.

Anyway to answer the question, I'm not an advocate of the 2,3 or whatever day date rule cause that's an outdated philology. It's 2020, time to upgrade your game man.

Now do you want her as gf material or are you just using her for sex? Be honest.

[newbuck]

Honestly the 3 date rule is for guys with no game gotta be honest. You don't need 3 dates or even 1 date to have sex with a woman. Me and other dudes are having women meet us for sex without going on dates or spending money on them or talking on the phone all day every day with them because we don't need to. Also don't be following her program, make her follow YOUR program. That's why alot of guys fail because they're all cookie cutter copies of each other and that's why alot of women don't respect men.

Anyway to answer the question, I'm not an advocate of the 2,3 or whatever day date rule cause that's an outdated philology. It's 2020, time to upgrade your game man.

Now do you want her as gf material or are you just using her for sex? Be honest.

I don’t believe in the 3 date rule myself either. What I meant is I’m just saying that’s my personal limit where if a broad doesn’t put out by then and isn’t a virgin, on to the next usually cause she is playing games or attraction wasn’t there whatever. I don’t even try to make myself wait, that’s just how long I will tolerate it

I’ve had sex on the first date before and have pulled women in the club so I don’t disagree.
I usually talk for about an hr a day because she is one of those want to text all the time types.

Honestly I’m looking for an LTR but I can do better especially once quarantine ends. I was just looking for input on whether to be straight with her, or just cut back and cut her off once **** ends
I’ll admit I usually don’t do LTRS and quarantine had me get caught in a moment of weakness

[BlackScorpio91]

I don’t believe in the 3 date rule myself either. What I meant is I’m just saying that’s my personal limit where if a broad doesn’t put out by then and isn’t a virgin, on to the next usually cause she is playing games or attraction wasn’t there whatever.

I’ve had sex on the first date before and have pulled women in the club so I don’t disagree.
I usually talk for about an hr a day because she is one of those want to text all the time types.

Honestly I’m looking for an LTR but I can do better especially once quarantine ends. I was just looking for input on whether to be straight with her, or just cut back and cut her off once **** ends
I’ll admit I usually don’t do LTRS and quarantine had me get caught in a moment of weakness

Be straight with her.

[DustinTheHuss]

Like an addict, I went on a walking date again last night.
Girl was super cool and turns out she's originally from the same neck of the woods as me.

Thing is- she's Mormon?? Not sure how to take that. She made it very clear that she doesn't "follow all the rules". I take that to mean that this isn't going to result in her taking me to meet her parents someday, so it's whatever. Not like I'm trying to settle down rn anyway.
Any of you brahs ever hang around girls with this sort of background? She hit me up this morning so hanging out again is definitely a possibility if I choose to.

I grew up living next to a lot of Mormons. They're nice people with huge families. Usually their church takes up most of Sunday. I have no clue about how to date one though.

[FU3L]

She made it very clear that she doesn't "follow all the rules"

She wants the pork n beans.

[Mercworx]

I grew up living next to a lot of Mormons. They're nice people with huge families. Usually their church takes up most of Sunday. I have no clue about how to date one though.

Used to visit family who lived in Utah for a time. Wont lie most of the mormon girls I saw were clean, pretty and well dressed. May be he lucked out and finds the right balance.

[4North1Side2]

I'm surprised people are still stupid enough to play games and to text after two to three days or in some cases a week or month. Unless the woman is inexperienced like in her teens, that **** ain't gonna work on most women that have a clue.

Lol it works for me. I had women I'd string along for over a year just by simple texts, phone conversations and still be down to **** after all that.

[4North1Side2]

So unfortunately I'm back in the game guys. After 1 year and 3 months my relationship with my ex ended. I'm pissed because I really saw us going the distance. We planned on moving in together soon and I've been ring shopping.


She broke up with me yesterday, you know why? Because I was at the gym too long yesterday and didn't bother to check in with her. "I was cheating."


I got my little bit of **** from her house, told her I'm not putting up with this **** and got ghost. I was really mad yesterday over us ending and made dating profiles on Tinder and ******** to get my mind off of it.


Its crazy, my main pic is of my sons and I, my profile is hella basic saying "I like beaches and mountains", I got a lot of cute young college chick's still matching with me

I'm not meeting any anytime soon. Just using these apps for validation while I continue to be about my purpose in life.

[Luc1fer]

She broke up with me yesterday, you know why? Because I was at the gym too long yesterday and didn't bother to check in with her. "I was cheating."

You realize this was just her excuse, right? She probably monkeybranched and has been planning an exit for months.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

You realize this was just her excuse, right? She probably monkeybranched and has been planning an exit for months.

This^

She either cheated, or she’s truly insecure/psycho.

I’d go with the cheating route though. Usually those that accuse are the ones doing so.

[Mercworx]

You realize this was just her excuse, right? She probably monkeybranched and has been planning an exit for months.

Exactly. She was just looking for an opportunity to break it off without feeling guilty she took the first chance she could with a justifiable reason in her mind no matter how small.


Also I would take the pictures of your sons off Tinder.

[Legz422]

Exactly. She was just looking for an opportunity to break it off withour feeling guilty she took the first chance she could with a justifiable reason in her mind no matter how small.


Also I would take the pictures of your sons off Tinder.

This. Do you know how many weirdos are out there? Have never understood why someone would put their kids on their dating sites/apps.

[Mercworx]

This. Do you know how many weirdos are out there? Have never understood why someone would put their kids on their dating sites/apps.

The gf wanted to start an instagram page just for family. I still said "no". I just dont like the idea of it.

Any advice?
Talking to a 24 y/o college grad, for about two weeks. Talk on phone daily, have been on two dates, first ended in just a kiss, second was mostly making out and fingering cause was at her parents crib.
She wants me as LTR, I think potential is there since has good personality.

I know she has phukked other guys in ONS so feels like she has me on that make them wait bs.
3 dates Is usually my limit so told her I’d get a room this weekend and some takeout, she told me come over instead.

Normally wouldn’t be pressed about it but told her I was talking to other girls and phukked up by deleted my dating apps cause she wanted to be exclusive and I thought she’d put out.

If I don’t at least get head planning on redownloading apps and telling her the truth/nexting.

No need to solidfy anything yet. Casually date her and others before deciding. Sometimes we are to quick to "next" a woman. You dont have anything to compare her to yet and she may reveal more positive traits as time goes on. If you tell her you will never want anyrhing serious now she may dip.

[TallSaint]

Guys some advice please.

-Back in March right before lockdown started I met this girl on bumble.
-We've been talking everyday for nearly 3 months now texting and video chatting. She made quarantine A LOT easier lmao because we were always talking.
-She was living in this city for school and left right before the borders closed to go home. She lives out of state about 3.5 hours away and borders are still closed so we can't actually visit each other
-She's pretty incredible and I have a great connection with her. Total HBB as well .
-Since we haven't/can't met each other, I think there is hesitation on both of our ends to say we are in a relationship, even though the way we talk to each other, flirt etc..is basically a relationship.
-We talked a lot about how we are both excited to meet up when possible and have plans to do it when we are allowed to.

-Around April I connected with another girl on that app
-She's great as well and lives in my city and a short drive away.
-I kind of put her on the back-burner but still messaged back and forth occasionally. But it's pretty clear she's into me as well.
-My city opened up this week and now most restaurants/bars/shops are open and lockdown is ending
-She messages me and asks to meet-up this week...

Not sure what to do here...Am I cheating if I meet up wit this second girl for a date this week? Kind of feels like it.

Pandemic got the dating messed lol.

[Legz422]

The gf wanted to start an instagram page just for family. I still said "no". I just dont like the idea of it.



No need to solidfy anything yet. Casually date her and others before deciding. Sometimes we are to quick to "next" a woman. You dont have anything to compare her to yet and she may reveal more positive traits as time goes on. If you tell her you will never want anyrhing serious now she may dip.

Well IG is different than dating apps. If you keep it private and only have family on there I don't see an issue.