ツ Forever Alone Crew ツ Part IV A new Hope

[richardgere]

Fuking awesome i just got passively rejected by a bitch. Why girls dont go and reject you right away if THEY ARENT ****ING interested.

Same thing happened to me lately. One female friend I had told an ex collague of mine that I was interested in her. She answered that she was positively surprised and told me to send her a fb friend request which I did.
When I asked her out she said "That sounds lovely but my next week looks really busy and the next week after that too".
I don't know if its been something like three weeks already but I am not gonna hear from her anymore obviously.
The fact that she didn't even want to give my friend her number was the first bad sign.

[Briisk]

Update2:

Had that 4 hour class, entire time was presentations. So after mine 3 hours into the class, I switched seats by her because the sun was beaming on my back. Started a convo, made her laugh the entire time pretty much. Apparently she was extra nervous when she was presenting because my friend noticed it and said it was because of me haha, probably not though.

After class I told my buddy that I am planning on asking her out very soon, and he was surprised and said that she is a conservative girl, and I should get to know her better. I told him, the point of me asking her out IS to get to know her better.

Anyways, I plan on asking her out next week regardless of what my buddy says. I want to do it soon because dont want her to get with that one guy she is talking with, and if she does say she is seeing someone, I wont really even mad tbh.

[RelaxMind92]

Update2:

Had that 4 hour class, entire time was presentations. So after mine 3 hours into the class, I switched seats by her because the sun was beaming on my back. Started a convo, made her laugh the entire time pretty much. Apparently she was extra nervous when she was presenting because my friend noticed it and said it was because of me haha, probably not though.

After class I told my buddy that I am planning on asking her out very soon, and he was surprised and said that she is a conservative girl, and I should get to know her better. I told him, the point of me asking her out IS to get to know her better.

Anyways, I plan on asking her out next week regardless of what my buddy says. I want to do it soon because dont want her to get with that one guy she is talking with, and if she does say she is seeing someone, I wont really even mad tbh.

see if you can spend more time with her like eating lunch together or getting coffee after class.Before asking her out on a date . good luck

[KayronF]

Confirmed: I am most likely the only one to die a virgin ITT

[BlackHawks77]

I am the biggest pussy ever who is afraid of rejection. This one very attractive girl who was way out of my league and a friend would always snap chat me and **** and invited me to one of her date parties didn't do anything with her. I could tell she was sorta into me but I am the biggest beta ever and she gets with one of my friends then.

Every damn time a girl is into me I **** it up by being such a ****ing beta *******. I don't have a single ounce of "bad boy" or alpha ness in me at all.

[4evera1one]

Confirmed: I am most likely the only one to die a virgin ITT

Tfw you can't even land a date from a 5-6/10 girl... It hurts mane, as it looks i will be going at the same road as you brah.

[anonymous]

Enough about whining. What to do about it?

[supersaiyan-dre]

In on Forever Alone thread
I am the original creator of the Forever Alone crew. I am your father

[BostonRockets]

ah, Friday night at last!











jk just another night on the computer by myself

[FreeTheRobots]

I am the biggest pussy ever who is afraid of rejection. This one very attractive girl who was way out of my league and a friend would always snap chat me and **** and invited me to one of her date parties didn't do anything with her. I could tell she was sorta into me but I am the biggest beta ever and she gets with one of my friends then.

Every damn time a girl is into me I **** it up by being such a ****ing beta *******. I don't have a single ounce of "bad boy" or alpha ness in me at all.

describes me too well. feels...

[BlackHawks77]

Tfw you can't even land a date from a 5-6/10 girl... It hurts mane, as it looks i will be going at the same road as you brah.

TFW you never been on a date, TFW your friend hooks up with the girl you like but are too beta to talk to, TFW everyone else is talking about stories of hook ups and they ignore you because they know you never did anything, TFW your 16 year old brother is much more successful with girls then you are, TFW when family members ask if you have a girlfriend your mom says he is waiting till he graduates college and gets a job, TFW a girl is into you then isn't the next day because she realizes you are a beta *******, TFW at parties and just standing there when everyone else is having fun

TFW you are missing out on the best years of your life, TFW you know you cannot make up for lost time, TFW you never been to second base, TFW you developed depression and have anxiety...

[Equinox117]

I posted this in another thread, but I'd like to post it here also.

I had really bad day today brahs.

My mother's side of the family came over today and usually I just go off to the library or something to avoid social interaction. But today, I thought that maybe I should try to talk more, so I stayed home. I had to talk quite a bit and it wasn't a pleasant experience for me. My speech was horrible today. Stuttered a lot in every conversation I had. After they left I went to the mall with a few friends. They don't give a sht about my stuttering but I do. It just makes me feel weak and inadequate. The feeling of having no control over my voice makes me rage. I'm also getting tired of seeing smiles from people turn into a concerned or confused look when I speak. I don't blame them because stuttering is a hidden disability. I look completely normal until I speak and that catches almost everyone I talk to off guard. It isn't only the embarrassment that tortures me mentally, but also the difficulty speaking.

Sorry brahs..this was kinda a downer post. I know there will be up days and down days. Today unfortunately as you guessed was a pretty down day.

Being positive is so fcking difficult. Got a lot of work to do. Hoping my mood changes tomorrow.

[damlurker550]

In on Forever Alone thread
I am the original creator of the Forever Alone crew. I am your father

oh snap.. OG FA's back..

How you been brah?

[Jack101]

In on Forever Alone thread
I am the original creator of the Forever Alone crew. I am your father

welcome back brah

[Jack101]

on day 5 no fap and horny as ****, I defenitely get less depressed when I don't fap for a while but I keep getting boners and some hot girl keeps posting side boob pics on twitter

anyway I spoke to that girl in the gym again yesterday, she was telling me about another guy in the gym that keeps texting and keeps asking her out and that I should 'save her' from him oh lawd I want to **** her

[supersaiyan-dre]

oh snap.. OG FA's back..

How you been brah?

For the most part my FA status is the same, but I've finally come to accept the fact that I'll always be forever alone

[PeterRabbeta]

Back up in this thread guys !!!

Last week I got Quickmatched on Okcupid from an ok-looking girl with one grainy pic and an empty profile. She's also seven years younger. We set up a date for Thursday. We go golf it up, I'm attracted to her in person, we have a great time, she seems interested, I initiate the kissing, she initiates the tongue.....then she doesn't answer my texts.

It's the same chit over and over brah. I think I'm getting out of FA, start to feeling good, I'm already thinking about the places I want to take her....and then splat! back to square one and am no closer to getting out of FA.

[2RDEYE]

Confirmed: I am most likely the only one to die a virgin ITT

yo homie u forget about me



down wit chu til the very end cuz u aint neva had a forever alone like me

[RelaxMind92]

TFW you never been on a date, TFW your friend hooks up with the girl you like but are too beta to talk to, TFW everyone else is talking about stories of hook ups and they ignore you because they know you never did anything, TFW your 16 year old brother is much more successful with girls then you are, TFW when family members ask if you have a girlfriend your mom says he is waiting till he graduates college and gets a job, TFW a girl is into you then isn't the next day because she realizes you are a beta *******, TFW at parties and just standing there when everyone else is having fun

TFW you are missing out on the best years of your life, TFW you know you cannot make up for lost time, TFW you never been to second base, TFW you developed depression and have anxiety...

TFW other miscer have similar life stories to you i'll hold you bro , no homo.

Meet up with some old co-workers today. they ask me why I've never been with a girl instead letting the conversation turn negative i kept calm.
kept joking as a result they're inviting me to a massage parlor for my b-day guess im gonna be losing my v-card next March.

I'm honestly just totally confuse about how that just happen one minute talking about work next minute " You've never been with a girl?, we gotta fix that"

I am gonna make it?

[KayronF]

I just don't wanna live anymore ..like I don't give a **** about anything

[BlackHawks77]

**** me I want ***** or something I can't cope anymore

This really attractive girl who I thought was into me who would put her arms around my neck and drag me to her to talk to me when it was loud at the bars. Today she kept making contact and I thought I made it but I talked to her friend if she was into me and she got mad at me and said not a chance and ****.

I am the biggest loser.. thiss is why I dont approach

[triglyceride]

Confirmed: I am most likely the only one to die a virgin ITT

"a challenger has appeared"

[zizitopas]

Confirmed: I am most likely the only one to die a virgin ITT

You're not alone...

[KayronF]

"a challenger has appeared"

You guys don't understand, I'm not compatible with ANY FEMALE. It just will not happen

[VladimirVega]

You guys don't understand, I'm not compatible with ANY FEMALE. It just will not happen

Nah bro, i do understand. Same goes for me

[damlurker550]

Maybe the situation would be different with a normal girl with longer time mutual interest and no condom.
I didn't finish either on my first 7 times with a condom and thought sex was meh but when you get rid of condom and get really comfortable/relaxed with a girl sex turned out to be much better. Anxiety/condom can really ruin the experience.

so after digging around on the interwebs for a few days I've concluded that the problem is that my dink isn't strong enough lol

basically being un-circumscied + having phimosis till age 20 (couldnt retract foreskin until I had an dick operation at age 20) + 30yr old virgin status = head of penis too sensitive and hurts during sex.

add to that porn induced ED (to a point.. im kinda ok after a few days of no fap) + fapping over foreskin basically meant I couldn't have real sex anyways with such a ill prepared dik..

so looks like i will have to gradually expose the glans (or head of dink) to the outside and make it stronger..

For the most part my FA status is the same, but I've finally come to accept the fact that I'll always be forever alone

you used to be pretty outgoing for a FA.. I remember you would go to concerts and music festivals.. If you are happy then that's all that really matters.. As I found out recently real sex isn't all that great anyways

[MeFromG]

I posted this in another thread, but I'd like to post it here also.

I had really bad day today brahs.

My mother's side of the family came over today and usually I just go off to the library or something to avoid social interaction. But today, I thought that maybe I should try to talk more, so I stayed home. I had to talk quite a bit and it wasn't a pleasant experience for me. My speech was horrible today. Stuttered a lot in every conversation I had. After they left I went to the mall with a few friends. They don't give a sht about my stuttering but I do. It just makes me feel weak and inadequate. The feeling of having no control over my voice makes me rage. I'm also getting tired of seeing smiles from people turn into a concerned or confused look when I speak. I don't blame them because stuttering is a hidden disability. I look completely normal until I speak and that catches almost everyone I talk to off guard. It isn't only the embarrassment that tortures me mentally, but also the difficulty speaking.

Sorry brahs..this was kinda a downer post. I know there will be up days and down days. Today unfortunately as you guessed was a pretty down day.

Being positive is so fcking difficult. Got a lot of work to do. Hoping my mood changes tomorrow.

They are concerned and confused likely because they see / notice those (e)motions on your face, in your voice and in your body, e.g. being tense, insecure, stressed and unhappy etc. when speaking, they mimic those emotions involuntarily to a certain point, it affects them as well and you see them act basically as a mirror of yourself (which you haven't realized), instead thinking maybe it's them rejecting you etc. If you could be cool with your stutter, they would be too. I promise you this.

PS: I suddenly stuttered as a kid after a traumatic experience and it hadn't left for nine years afterwards. There were some kids copying me out of curiousity or some to make or have their fun, but most were cool as they could be, because I didn't care for my stutter, I was much more than the stutter, the latter was just a mini feature of myself. Today it only happens now and then, and for a split second; nobody cares, myself included.

[4evera1one]

Alot of new FAs ITT feels good to know that you arent the only one in this world that is suffering from being FA.

[KayronF]

Alot of new FAs ITT feels good to know that you arent the only one in this world that is suffering from being FA.

Don't worry brah we're still far from normal folks

[dp51134]

This thread is really a eye opener. What kind are girls are you guys trying to attract though?