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    He is probably overweight by BMI standards....

    He is probably overweight by BMI standards. Honestly looks damn good considering he's over 40 and probably 25+% body fat.

    Even if you're not Brad Pitt ripped, you gotta stay George Clooney lean...
  • Damn how old are the kids? Hopefully her ex is...

    Damn how old are the kids?

    Hopefully her ex is a capable parent. If she drinks and drives with the kids in the car, unfortunately she probably deserves to lose custody if their dad can take care...
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    I don't disagree with the fact that decent women...

    I don't disagree with the fact that decent women can still go out to bars with their friends.

    But did you really call a girl wife material after talking with her for an hour or two?!?!


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    Divorced. Not ruling out another marriage but...

    Divorced.

    Not ruling out another marriage but not something I'd need to solidify an LTR.
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    Dating/sex/etc is a skillset that needs to be...

    Dating/sex/etc is a skillset that needs to be learned and developed for many of us. I've lowered my standards when single for the sake of gaining experience and raising my confidence levels at times...
  • Communicate. But don't come at her in a "here...

    Communicate.

    But don't come at her in a "here are all the things i dont like about you, fix them or it's done" manner.

    Has to be a two-way street and expect to get feedback from her as well.
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    So are you going to sleep on it and see if you...

    So are you going to sleep on it and see if you feel like seeing her again?

    Def left things up in the air on that front.
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    Most people plan things in advance. Next time...

    Most people plan things in advance.
    Next time ask her to do something specific a few days ahead of time.

    The casual "come tag along with me while i do xxx" isn't direct enough IMO. She may think...
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    Kind of weird she shares this with you. People...

    Kind of weird she shares this with you.

    People who leave others in limbo with plans suck. I sincerely hope she texts you with a clear answer in the morning and doesn't drag it on all day.
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    So you wanted to reconcile because you believe...

    So you wanted to reconcile because you believe she could change.
    She didn't want to change.
    Thus you would've never been happy with her anyways so no point losing sleep over it.

    Red flag she...
  • So you don't want to "defile" with her the way...

    So you don't want to "defile" with her the way you did past sl00ts?

    Start by being like... passionate and tender and loving or w/e and slowly make your way into the nasty chit.
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    If you are desperate, no, the girls you desire...

    If you are desperate, no, the girls you desire will not want to date you.

    Your problem is you are desperate, not that you are shy.
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    Didn't you just post about this in another...

    Didn't you just post about this in another thread?
    Then listed all the red flags she exhibited?

    If so, you don't want her back man get your head on straight.
  • Do you feel pressure to perform? You might...

    Do you feel pressure to perform?

    You might have some mental block associating sex with no emotion and/or are used to getting off by the thought of "using" those past women you did not care about...
  • Poll: In many cases, 2 separate, happy homes is a form...

    In many cases, 2 separate, happy homes is a form of stability children would not receive should their parents stay together when they aren't happy in a relationship.

    I have no doubt emotionally...
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    Brian looked/acted like it was his first time...

    Brian looked/acted like it was his first time throwing a punch at a heavy bag before. I figured all those macho strongmen want to throw a few punches once in a while.

    Damn he just squished a world...
  • The $$$ part is usually pretty black & white once...

    The $$$ part is usually pretty black & white once divorces are finalized. It may change if custody changes (ie you go from having the kids 25% of the time to 50%). There's a reason governments don't...
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    You said you were going to vet your women more...

    You said you were going to vet your women more carefully. This is absolutely not the one for an LTR but as she said, short term FWB is on the table if you want to have some fun.



    Some men can...
  • If you can be civil about this there's a good...

    If you can be civil about this there's a good chance it will put her in a better mood for the co-parenting part of your relationship and make her less bitter towards you.

    Couples divorce because...
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    Not sure but I hope so. I agree it might be...

    Not sure but I hope so.
    I agree it might be easier to be less driven by physical attraction/have "lower standards" in that department..
    I'm worried if I get re-married/have more kids I'll age...
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