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    Why are settling for someone who can't even...

    Why are settling for someone who can't even commit to making plans with you, makes excuses, & goes days without speaking to you?

    The main issue here is not her. It should be a very easy decision...
  • Will be tough to top that. One bullet to the...

    Will be tough to top that.

    One bullet to the head murder in the apartment next to mine last year (I moved shortly after).
    My 3yr old son was sleeping in the room that shares a wall with that unit...
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    Height helps but 5'10" won't disqualify you from...

    Height helps but 5'10" won't disqualify you from that many women. Less will approach you, sure, but most will still be open to a guy who is 5'10".

    I have short friends who do very well. They just...
  • Maybe you subconsciously became less attracted to...

    Maybe you subconsciously became less attracted to her over the fact she was willing to make you the center of her world?
    She should be the center of her own world and shouldn't be willing to die for...
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    This makes sense. If you still have resentment...

    This makes sense.

    If you still have resentment it's probably not time to date again.

    When you're able to look at what you went through as a learning experience to make you wiser and stronger...
  • So you broke up and kept hooking up then one day...

    So you broke up and kept hooking up then one day she stopped because she had found someone else?
    Yikes that'd hurt.

    Everyone is different re finding a new hookup right after a breakup (and each...
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    If the other person is bombarding you with chit,...

    If the other person is bombarding you with chit, NC also can show you just don't care enough to respond any longer.

    Depends on the situation.
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    A 10 month will have far less emotional trauma...

    A 10 month will have far less emotional trauma over the divorce itself than a child 2 to 16 or w/e.

    Lmao at the posters saying "don't do it if you can't get a hotter girl."
    Even if the sex is as...
  • The thing is, if someone is gonna cheat/be shady...

    The thing is, if someone is gonna cheat/be shady you cannot stop them so just let them do w/e they want and if it doesn't align with how you think a trusting SO should act & you can't get on the same...
  • Not entirely sure if she's being shady (or was at...

    Not entirely sure if she's being shady (or was at the beginning), you're being controlling/untrusting, or both. But when your arguments are this intense over trust issues it's game over.
    Maybe try...
  • Might have been susceptible while I was unhappily...

    Might have been susceptible while I was unhappily married, maybe out of town for work and was alone and propositioned at the hotel bar or something.

    Can't envision it at the moment.
  • Things that serve a functional purpose? Let it...

    Things that serve a functional purpose? Let it go.
    Pictures/teddy bears/etc I think you put that chit away.
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    Good on you for being able to...

    Good on you for being able to communicate/escalate/etc even though many people would agree you overshared.

    Your posts have been cringe with the bluepill mentality (I think I am using that...
  • He likely misses you because he's lonely and...

    He likely misses you because he's lonely and "can't seem to do better" but he's torn because he simply did not like you enough to envision longterm/marriage.

    You're wrapped around his finger and...
  • If she is upset at how this may reflect...

    If she is upset at how this may reflect negatively in her program I would definitely advise her to explain to her university that she believes she was fired for dating someone who worked next door...
  • Years ago I would've said Aniston but my tastes...

    Years ago I would've said Aniston but my tastes have changed a bit.
    Lopez
    Aniston
    Garner
    Connelly
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    Yeah def start a thread. I can relate to being...

    Yeah def start a thread.

    I can relate to being a better father when you're no longer with the person you resent/is bringing you down.

    Have you ever flat out told her you're resentful?
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    Was never that into her but led her on for 6...

    Was never that into her but led her on for 6 months?
    Let her go. You'll both be happier.
  • Poll: They look great (if done/chosen well) but it...

    They look great (if done/chosen well) but it takes a while to get used to how they feel compared to nattys.
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    Gotcha. Was this your first affair? Hope...

    Gotcha. Was this your first affair?

    Hope everything goes as well as one can hope and in time the new lives will be best for everyone involved (especially the kids).

    Very curious to see how it...
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