Yeah, I love New Haarlem, one of my favorite Bonds. A*Men Pure Tonka is pretty close, and a lot cheaper. I wouldn't say either is very close in smell to Rochas Man, though.
Hmmmm. Barista Elixir is the best coffee fragrance, but it doesn't have any of the citrus notes of Play. I'm not aware of anything really close to Play, although you can still buy new bottles of it...
There isn't really anything that smells like it, other than Rochas Man Intense..... which you're not going to find for a reasonable price. Rochas Man Intense is a top 10 fragrance for me.