I've been miscing since 07 (despite my join date) and I couldn't agree more with OP. I took a 2 year break before I came back last month in hopes it would be better, but it's not.
You wanted her to come play kickball and she declined which honestly was probably for the better. You don't want to bring a girl you haven't even had sex with around your friends. Looks too much...
I had tons of friends and played college sports but they had the opposite schedule of me. Ate alone in the dining hall usually 1-2 times a day if I didn't see anyone there. Who cares brah