Hard to stop so keep it secret. But keep an eye out for someone else because this won't last forever; and when it does, it won't be good. Husband will find out, you'll be crushed, etc
"change" and "outcome" are vague entities here, but "fate" is appears to be used as spiritual/religious rhetoric, and while everyone has separate beliefs on that -- mine...
been at my parents' residence for past few days, one of my favorite things about that is using their organic produce to make nutritional shakes (poverty college student crew) :D