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[QUOTE=speX94;984507893]than either i must have done it wrong or my high school is fukked up.... :/ id like to think the latter lol. My high school was on National News for their Fantasy Slut League.... lol..[/QUOTE]
Lawl. You're not doing anything wrong.
Life is all about growing brah.
[QUOTE=speX94;984507893]Fantasy Slut League.... lol..[/QUOTE]
Oh do tell!
[QUOTE=AustinThePirate;984508573]Yeah, I've noticed that too. Was just curious as to what my fellow lifters thought.[/QUOTE]
Just have fun my man. :D
There will be a point when you focus on your life, dreams, goals and there would will be so much girls on your ass, you don't even want to deal with them.
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;984508973]Just have fun my man. :D
There will be a point when you focus on your life, dreams, goals and there would will be so much girls on your ass, you don't even want to deal with them.[/QUOTE]
Why didn't you get that mod rep? =/
You deserve more recognition. I'd trade my reps with yours if I could.
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;984507673]Every girl is different brah. It could be attractive to one girl, while not to another.
I think some dudes strive too hard to be a person they feel would attractive a certain type of girl.[b] Rather then just being themselves.[/b][/QUOTE]
This is so true. I just had an epiphany.
The guys that I think are creepy/undateable are 99.99% of the time the guys who are trying to be something they're not. I had met a guy a few months ago that I thought had potential and as we hungout more I realized he had a different personality every time. His attempt to be someone he wasn't and change himself based on what I liked/disliked we're frustrating, and it just ended up crashing and burning.
Basically. Be yourself. Who cares if you're doing things "right." there's no manual for dating and getting girls.. Just go with the flow and do what you feel is right. Don't try to be "alpha" and dont be ashamed if you're "beta." Be whatever you feel is natural and things will fall into place.
I was talking to this girl last night (same one as before that I talked about earlier on in this thread) for 3 hours. She was at a charity event and dressed super nice and texted me a picture of what she was lookin like that night, literally almost dropped dead. Anyways I tried texting her today no reply, so i'm kinda confused. Any ideas of what might be going on?
[QUOTE=tehblasian;984510993]I was talking to this girl last night (same one as before that I talked about earlier on in this thread) for 3 hours. She was at a charity event and dressed super nice and texted me a picture of what she was lookin like that night, literally almost dropped dead. Anyways I tried texting her today no reply, so i'm kinda confused. Any ideas of what might be going on?[/QUOTE]
I can tell you one thing. Just because a girl doesn't reply right away, that doesn't mean somethings wrong. Just give it some time unless this is a continuing trend.
[QUOTE=AustinThePirate;984508913]Oh do tell![/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.cnn.com/2012/10/23/us/california-fantasy-slut-league-school/index.html[/url]
this was at one point on the front page as a top news story when it first came out.
[QUOTE=bogui94;984509993]Why didn't you get that mod rep? =/
You deserve more recognition. I'd trade my reps with yours if I could.[/QUOTE]
I've been on these forums for a while brah. All i really want to do is meet people, laugh, help others and have fun. It's all good you know what i'm sayin'.
[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;984510463]This is so true. I just had an epiphany.
The guys that I think are creepy/undateable are 99.99% of the time the guys who are trying to be something they're not. I had met a guy a few months ago that I thought had potential and as we hungout more I realized he had a different personality every time. His attempt to be someone he wasn't and change himself based on what I liked/disliked we're frustrating, and it just ended up crashing and burning.
Basically. Be yourself. Who cares if you're doing things "right." there's no manual for dating and getting girls.. Just go with the flow and do what you feel is right. Don't try to be "alpha" and dont be ashamed if you're "beta." Be whatever you feel is natural and things will fall into place.[/QUOTE]
I've learned this the hard way. I was always wondering why girls wouldn't be attracted towards me, and was wondering what i was doing "wrong." I was always frustrated about it. I tried changing the way i dressed, the way i talked, and all of that but even then, girls wouldn't even notice me. Wtf?
When i decided to just do my own thing, focus on my life and goals, i noticed girls were starting to notice. Tbh, it was quite surprising because the more and more i focused on my myself and being myself, the more girls i would attract. And the more i focus on the girl, and what she likes/dislikes, etc, the more i push her away.
[QUOTE=speX94;984514053][url]http://www.cnn.com/2012/10/23/us/california-fantasy-slut-league-school/index.html[/url]
this was at one point on the front page as a top news story when it first came out.[/QUOTE]
That's both awesome and wrong at the same time lol
[QUOTE=AustinThePirate;984511953]I can tell you one thing. Just because a girl doesn't reply right away, that doesn't mean somethings wrong. Just give it some time unless this is a continuing trend.[/QUOTE]
She didn't reply at all... Only the second time this has happened. It might be because this time and last time she didn't reply it was on her soccer game day, but I'll never know
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;984514213]I've been on these forums for a while brah. All i really want to do is meet people, laugh, help others and have fun. It's all good you know what i'm sayin'.
I've learned this the hard way. I was always wondering why girls wouldn't be attracted towards me, and was wondering what i was doing "wrong." I was always frustrated about it. I tried changing the way i dressed, the way i talked, and all of that but even then, girls wouldn't even notice me. Wtf?
When i decided to just do my own thing, focus on my life and goals, i noticed girls were starting to notice. Tbh, it was quite surprising because the more and more i focused on my myself and being myself, the more girls i would attract. And the more i focus on the girl, and what she likes/dislikes, etc, the more i push her away.[/QUOTE]
So simply don't be that creepy guy and rather concentrate on having a good time?
How do you guys loosen up around others?
Edit: Wish I lived near you brah
[QUOTE=tehblasian;984515113]She didn't reply at all... Only the second time this has happened. It might be because this time and last time she didn't reply it was on her soccer game day, but I'll never know[/QUOTE]
Just don't give it a second thought.
[QUOTE=tehblasian;984510993]I was talking to this girl last night (same one as before that I talked about earlier on in this thread) for 3 hours. She was at a charity event and dressed super nice and texted me a picture of what she was lookin like that night, literally almost dropped dead. Anyways I tried texting her today no reply, so i'm kinda confused. Any ideas of what might be going on?[/QUOTE]
You know, texting is a really tricky thing in getting to know someone. Because texting at an early stage of a relationship is all about temptation, and expectation.
You're tempted to text her but unsure if you should. Or if she'll even reply, etc.
The expectation of her to text back and if she doesn't, then what do you do? Does she not want to talk to me? Is she ignoring me?
I hope this doesn't offend anyone, but if you've just met a girl, and would like to pursue her. Do not conversate over text messaging. There's a huge chance that texting back and forth will lead downhill. If you're going to text her, it should be to invite her out. And when you do, then when you are together, face to face, at dinner, or watching sunset, whatever the hell it is, you'll be able to get to know her there.
My point, texting does not build a relationship, it keeps them stable. If you haven't even established a solid foundation of the relationship, what is there to keep stable? You're automatically sinking.
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;984514213]I've been on these forums for a while brah. All i really want to do is meet people, laugh, help others and have fun. It's all good you know what i'm sayin'.
I've learned this the hard way. I was always wondering why girls wouldn't be attracted towards me, and was wondering what i was doing "wrong." I was always frustrated about it. I tried changing the way i dressed, the way i talked, and all of that but even then, girls wouldn't even notice me. Wtf?
When i decided to just do my own thing, focus on my life and goals, i noticed girls were starting to notice. Tbh, it was quite surprising because the more and more i focused on my myself and being myself, the more girls i would attract. And the more i focus on the girl, and what she likes/dislikes, etc, the more i push her away.[/QUOTE]
i like this.
Good thing ive been working on my career for the Navy for so long and have been focusing on that and only that. But i'm curious... how am i supposed to meet girls if my whole like is.. wake up.. run, go home.. lift.... eat eat eat ... eat... go to the gym, Lift, Swim swim swim, eat , eat ,eat eat. and then sleep. :O I only rest on weds, but even on weds im still in the gym doing pushups, pullups, on the stair master and in the pool. :O i guess right nowjust isn't the right time?
[QUOTE=speX94;984516963]i like this.
Good thing ive been working on my career for the Navy for so long and have been focusing on that and only that. But i'm curious... how am i supposed to meet girls if my whole like is.. wake up.. run, go home.. lift.... eat eat eat ... eat... go to the gym, Lift, Swim swim swim, eat , eat ,eat eat. and then sleep. :O I only rest on weds, but even on weds im still in the gym doing pushups, pullups, on the stair master and in the pool. :O i guess right nowjust isn't the right time?[/QUOTE]
If you're that focused on the navy, I'd say meeting girls should be low on your priorities list.
[QUOTE=AustinThePirate;984517573]If you're that focused on the navy, I'd say meeting girls should be low on your priorities list.[/QUOTE]
yep :3
got my goals and no one can stop me :3
i want some stuff in the navy more than anything in the world.
[QUOTE=bogui94;984515803]So simply don't be that creepy guy and rather concentrate on having a good time?
How do you guys loosen up around others?
Edit: Wish I lived near you brah[/QUOTE]
Me too brah.
In my opinion, it's not about being the creepy guy, being the confident guy, being the alpha guy, or anything in between. It's simply about just being yourself. I think a lot of people have spent a big part of their life being someone or something they're not, that even they don't even know what being yourself is.
Ya know, getting loosened up around others was something i learned overtime. It wasn't a time where i was like, "alright i'm about to enter this party, i'm going to loosen up completely." Nope.
Overtime i just became more comfortable in my own shoes and the people i would become surrounded with. From there, just do yo thang.
[QUOTE=speX94;984516963]i like this.
Good thing ive been working on my career for the Navy for so long and have been focusing on that and only that. But i'm curious... how am i supposed to meet girls if my whole like is.. wake up.. run, go home.. lift.... eat eat eat ... eat... go to the gym, Lift, Swim swim swim, eat , eat ,eat eat. and then sleep. :O I only rest on weds, but even on weds im still in the gym doing pushups, pullups, on the stair master and in the pool. :O i guess right nowjust isn't the right time?[/QUOTE]
If you want to meet girls, go to the club, go to parties, or go to a rave. You'll meet girls there.
My point is that there will come a time in your life where you'll meet a girl. It may be hard to imagine, but it will happen. Life is like a journey out in the ocean, you're sailing the seas, not knowing what the hell is out there. But there will be a time when a fuarkin' beautiful dolphin will jump onto your ship and you'll fall in love. There will also be a time where that dolphin gets tired of you and hops back into the ocean. But do you stop sailing? Hell nah! You keep going. Then one day, a god damn mermaid might jump onto your ship. And this time, she'll stick around. And when that time comes, you can stop by at the island ahead. Relax for a couple years. Hop back onto that ship. And sail again, but this time with the mermaid right by your side.
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;984527873]If you want to meet girls, go to the club, go to parties, or go to a rave. You'll meet girls there.
My point is that there will come a time in your life where you'll meet a girl. It may be hard to imagine, but it will happen. Life is like a journey out in the ocean, you're sailing the seas, not knowing what the hell is out there. But there will be a time when a fuarkin' beautiful dolphin will jump onto your ship and you'll fall in love. There will also be a time where that dolphin gets tired of you and hops back into the ocean. But do you stop sailing? Hell nah! You keep going. Then one day, a god damn mermaid might jump onto your ship. And this time, she'll stick around. And when that time comes, you can stop by at the island ahead. Relax for a couple years. Hop back onto that ship. And sail again, but this time with the mermaid right by your side.[/QUOTE]
lol
[youtube]gH2efAcmBQM[/youtube]
[QUOTE=speX94;984528583]lol
[youtube]gH2efAcmBQM[/youtube][/QUOTE]
Hell yes brah.
Page 26. A whole page of my advice. Enjoy. :D
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;984519313]Me too brah.
In my opinion, it's not about being the creepy guy, being the confident guy, being the alpha guy, or anything in between. It's simply about just being yourself. [b]I think a lot of people have spent a big part of their life being someone or something they're not, that even they don't even know what being yourself is.[/b]
Ya know, getting loosened up around others was something i learned overtime. It wasn't a time where i was like, "alright i'm about to enter this party, i'm going to loosen up completely." Nope.
Overtime i just became more comfortable in my own shoes and the people i would become surrounded with. From there, just do yo thang.[/QUOTE]
Fuark. That first line really really resonated with me.
I need to stop being stiff and be myself more.. Thanks for the advice brah!
PS: Can you give me the link to your online shop?
Lol @ the video spex
Edit : Just liked the fb page. Initials LB
[QUOTE=bogui94;984531073]Fuark. That first line really really resonated with me.
I need to stop being stiff and be myself more.. Thanks for the advice brah!
PS: Can you give me the link to your online shop?
Lol @ the video spex
Edit : Just liked the fb page. Initials LB[/QUOTE]
Anytime my man.
Here's the online shop.
[url]http://shop.beautiful-struggle.com/[/url]
If you're going to order anything use the discount code, "TMISC" :D
Alright, girl in my 6th period class, I've been talking to her for a while. She says she likes me and other hints, but doesn't want to go out with me and hurt me because she broke up with her boyfriend of a year.
Before they broke up she was always hugging me and finding excuses to touch me and I always tried to stay distant because she was in a relationship, but now she won't even talk to me and I've decided it would be best to give it time.
I don't want to smash, she makes my day when I'm around her ya know? So I'd rather not smash, I would prefer just being able to spend time with her.
Lettuce be srs, being yourself doesn't get you the girl you want or the girls you want. Back when I was younger, I was chubby, no girl was interested in me at all, I was myself and everything, friendzoned beyond repair. Brb, 30 lbs less and being more outgoing/noisy, I'm getting told I'm cute all the time by people who never noticed me before. You have to change yourself to get what you want in life, it's a sad truth.
[QUOTE=Nistanger;984574643]Lettuce be srs, being yourself doesn't get you the girl you want or the girls you want. Back when I was younger, I was chubby, no girl was interested in me at all, I was myself and everything, friendzoned beyond repair. Brb, 30 lbs less and being more outgoing/noisy, I'm getting told I'm cute all the time by people who never noticed me before. You have to change yourself to get what you want in life, it's a sad truth.[/QUOTE]
that's how it seemed to me in high school.
Being myself seems to make me an introverted workout freak...
Dear LORD what have I been missing out on! Some good stuff in here guys!
In on ALLL of this guys!
But I do have some questions. (This shizz is serious, and long)
Ive been with my girl for almost 3 years. I met her in the hallway, then facebooked, got her number, txtd. She had a BF but he was a dick and she was in a pretty broken homee. Ide know her a little because we live in a small town. So we keep talking. Been a few weeks and she says "Im dumping ^^^^ today" They were only together 3 months and he was a doushhh
So I do the normal, comfort her whatever. Not even a week later she starts getting really sweet, and we start hanging out. Well we start dating. She comes to church with me, we go everywhere together, she lives a block away. Perfect couple all the way through highschool.
She is super shy, ZERO friends and shows horses. Shes not a 10 but she is good looking and super kind. Couldnt hate a fly. What we have is crazy. I used to be super confident. In us, in myself, in life. I never ever doubted her, or didn't trust her. And she was always looking up to me. Like I was the good looking half and stuff. Then some ugly stuff happened. She was talking to another guy, not like cheating but saying stuff that shouldn't be said when your in a relationship Instantly my trust, confidence, all of that was GONE. And shes gotten so much more beautiful. She is a complete 8-10 now. Much more confident, and getting fairly famous locally. She shows horses all over the country(Horse showing is BS because the more money you spend on the horse the more you win, period.) and she is an oral interp stud. She won a local beauty pagent and getting all kinds of attention. She is competing in a state pagent in january and IDK if we will be able to make it through. I find myself with ZERO trust, and ZERO confidence in myself. Feeling like she is wayy to good for me, and like she fells the same way. Ya know? When she won, and she was up on stage, my blood was BOILING. She promised to come find me right away and I sat there for 30 minutes before I drove home RAGING. That night killed me. So many thoughts were going through my head. "Is she moving on? Are we losing it? Whats going on?"
Any one have any idea whats going on? Any personal experience?
Plz no flaming..
I'd say let her have her moment in the spotlight just for a little bit and be as proud and supportive as you can be. If she continues to sort of put you on the back burner, let her know how you feel, make it known that you do not approve of such conduct. If she doesn't understand, and continues to do it, drop her ass like Sprint drops calls.
[QUOTE=Nistanger;984574643]Lettuce be srs, being yourself doesn't get you the girl you want or the girls you want. Back when I was younger, I was chubby, no girl was interested in me at all, I was myself and everything, friendzoned beyond repair. Brb, 30 lbs less and being more outgoing/noisy, I'm getting told I'm cute all the time by people who never noticed me before. You have to change yourself to get what you want in life, it's a sad truth.[/QUOTE]
Better to be yourself and to find someone who will like you for "you" rather than be something you're not and have someone like you for that false persona.
[QUOTE=AustinThePirate;984586563]I'd say let her have her moment in the spotlight just for a little bit and be as proud and supportive as you can be. If she continues to sort of put you on the back burner, let her know how you feel, make it known that you do not approve of such conduct. If she doesn't understand, and continues to do it, drop her ass like Sprint drops calls.[/QUOTE]
Do this^^^. It does seem like she has let this "fame" get to her head a bit, but do be proud and supportive as stated above. If it gets to a point where you can no longer hold in these chitty feelings then just tell her how you are feeling, obviously if you hide it she's not going to know what's going on in your mind.
[QUOTE=tehblasian;984587413]Better to be yourself and to find someone who will like you for "you" rather than be something you're not and have someone like you for that false persona.[/QUOTE]
in on this.. but sometimes it just seems so hopeless.