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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1020327853]The first thing you should do is make yourself a big cup of MAN THE **** UP. Once that's ready you can proceed.
The sentence "I really do love her. I've known her since like October" made me want to puke. Possibly the most beta thing I have ever read.
You need to get her to come over to you at school be like "lets go for a walk" or whatever, ask her out on a date. Go on said date, talk to her in person, get to know her. Ask her if she actually likes you, then provided she does ask to go see her again on valentines day. Suggest going to her house or something. Then turn up with flowers and chocolates on valentines day and she will make sweet, sweet love to you.[/QUOTE]
will do, thanks brah
anyways, today was my first day of drivers ed, so i was standing in a hallway with a bunch of other people waiting for class to start. and then this really hot girl (who lives in a different town, never seen her before) comes in doing the exact same thing i was doing, waiting. So i talk to her, find out where she's from, introduce myself, find out we had a couple of mutual friends, etc. Later, right before she got picked up by her mom, i got her number. Now i'm not sure what to do. Idk what to say to her, to get her interested in me, or get her interested in a conversation. i've also got no idea whether or not i should flirt.
What do u guys think, cuz i really need help with this
Whats goin on, T Misc? Kinda somewhat new hear! Lurk dem forums on a daily basis but dont post too much unless I have quality advice or a decent question to ask.
Well, I'm a lifeguard at a fitness club and I worked with one of the newer lifeguards for the first time today (she just started about two weeks ago). I'm a pretty friendly guy, so I sparked up some conversation and we got along pretty well. We both worked from 2 to close and got to know each other pretty well. IMO, she's pretty cute and has alot of nice qualities about her from what I've seen so far, even though we only just met today. She even went to get me a towel after I had to dive in the pool for some equipment that kids had left in the pool earlier during the day. When we got off work, she asked me if I would wait for her and walk out to the employee parking lot with her, so I did. Chatted some more, walked over to my car (my car was closer to the employee entrance than hers) and she proceeded to tell me she really loved trucks and she wanted a boyfriend with a truck. We had a few more laughs, told each other hopefully we would see each other again soon, and left for home. Should I pursue this girl? Is there any interest there? Or is it too early to tell? Thanks bros/ females
[QUOTE=Meliih;1020095303]If someone smiles at you doesn't mean she wants ur d.[/QUOTE]
No chit man, if youd bothered to read my original post you would understand
[QUOTE=venenzioo;1020444863]Whats goin on, T Misc? Kinda somewhat new hear! Lurk dem forums on a daily basis but dont post too much unless I have quality advice or a decent question to ask.
Well, I'm a lifeguard at a fitness club and I worked with one of the newer lifeguards for the first time today (she just started about two weeks ago). I'm a pretty friendly guy, so I sparked up some conversation and we got along pretty well. We both worked from 2 to close and got to know each other pretty well. IMO, she's pretty cute and has alot of nice qualities about her from what I've seen so far, even though we only just met today. She even went to get me a towel after I had to dive in the pool for some equipment that kids had left in the pool earlier during the day. When we got off work, she asked me if I would wait for her and walk out to the employee parking lot with her, so I did. Chatted some more, walked over to my car (my car was closer to the employee entrance than hers) and she proceeded to tell me she really loved trucks and she wanted a boyfriend with a truck. We had a few more laughs, told each other hopefully we would see each other again soon, and left for home. Should I pursue this girl? Is there any interest there? Or is it too early to tell? Thanks bros/ females[/QUOTE]
Of course there's interest.
Pursue her.
[QUOTE=venenzioo;1020444863]Whats goin on, T Misc? Kinda somewhat new hear! Lurk dem forums on a daily basis but dont post too much unless I have quality advice or a decent question to ask.
Well, I'm a lifeguard at a fitness club and I worked with one of the newer lifeguards for the first time today (she just started about two weeks ago). I'm a pretty friendly guy, so I sparked up some conversation and we got along pretty well. We both worked from 2 to close and got to know each other pretty well. IMO, she's pretty cute and has alot of nice qualities about her from what I've seen so far, even though we only just met today. She even went to get me a towel after I had to dive in the pool for some equipment that kids had left in the pool earlier during the day. When we got off work, she asked me if I would wait for her and walk out to the employee parking lot with her, so I did. Chatted some more, walked over to my car (my car was closer to the employee entrance than hers) and she proceeded to tell me she really loved trucks and she wanted a boyfriend with a truck. We had a few more laughs, told each other hopefully we would see each other again soon, and left for home. Should I pursue this girl? Is there any interest there? Or is it too early to tell? Thanks bros/ females[/QUOTE]
Sounds like she's worth effort. I'd persue that :)
[QUOTE=fuuaarrkk;1020084753]posted in here earlier (page 42) didnt really help, and thing kinda got worse lol. anyway, wut do i do? she is a solid 9/10 (no pics), doesnt reply for like a day or at all to some of my messages but then occasionaly sends me am message :/ i caught her smiling at me in the corridor but i had chit to do so i couldnt approach. i get the feeling im being played but i just cant leave it alone. fck this why do girls do this chit[/QUOTE]
bro, my situation is about 9/10 similar to yours. ****in feels bad brah
[QUOTE=wolfmasterflex;1020330833]anyways, today was my first day of drivers ed, so i was standing in a hallway with a bunch of other people waiting for class to start. and then this really hot girl (who lives in a different town, never seen her before) comes in doing the exact same thing i was doing, waiting. So i talk to her, find out where she's from, introduce myself, find out we had a couple of mutual friends, etc. Later, right before she got picked up by her mom, i got her number. Now i'm not sure what to do. Idk what to say to her, to get her interested in me, or get her interested in a conversation. i've also got no idea whether or not i should flirt.
What do u guys think, cuz i really need help with this[/QUOTE]
First few texts are the hardest. Seeing as your common ground is this drivers ed thing ask her something about it, try and start a conversation. If she's interested she'll respond. Are you going to see her again at the drivers ed thing? If you are then text her a few times (but not too much), decide if she actually likes you and if you think she does then you might as well pluck up some balls and ask her on a date.
Good luck bro :D
[QUOTE=wolfmasterflex;1020330833]anyways, today was my first day of drivers ed, so i was standing in a hallway with a bunch of other people waiting for class to start. and then this really hot girl (who lives in a different town, never seen her before) comes in doing the exact same thing i was doing, waiting. So i talk to her, find out where she's from, introduce myself, find out we had a couple of mutual friends, etc. Later, right before she got picked up by her mom, i got her number. Now i'm not sure what to do. Idk what to say to her, to get her interested in me, or get her interested in a conversation. i've also got no idea whether or not i should flirt.
What do u guys think, cuz i really need help with this[/QUOTE]
Call her, don't text her. Shows confidence and sht
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[QUOTE=venenzioo;1020444863]Whats goin on, T Misc? Kinda somewhat new hear! Lurk dem forums on a daily basis but dont post too much unless I have quality advice or a decent question to ask.
Well, I'm a lifeguard at a fitness club and I worked with one of the newer lifeguards for the first time today (she just started about two weeks ago). I'm a pretty friendly guy, so I sparked up some conversation and we got along pretty well. We both worked from 2 to close and got to know each other pretty well. IMO, she's pretty cute and has alot of nice qualities about her from what I've seen so far, even though we only just met today. She even went to get me a towel after I had to dive in the pool for some equipment that kids had left in the pool earlier during the day. When we got off work, she asked me if I would wait for her and walk out to the employee parking lot with her, so I did. Chatted some more, walked over to my car (my car was closer to the employee entrance than hers) and she proceeded to tell me she really loved trucks and she wanted a boyfriend with a truck. We had a few more laughs, told each other hopefully we would see each other again soon, and left for home. Should I pursue this girl? Is there any interest there? Or is it too early to tell? Thanks bros/ females[/QUOTE]
Pursue her. This is a perfect opportunity.
WHY DOES THIS NEVER HAPPEN TO ME
please help T misc. theres this girl named Amber, 7/10 w/ no makeup and average tits but a big ole booty. I don't really care about that tho. I just like her personality (in before ***). I just feel like i can talk to her about anything, and i love hanging out with her its like time flies when i around her. She knows i like her and she flirts a little bit but then will not talk to me for a few days. I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, nor the fittest but I'm working on it. What can i do to get her to like me? This girl is single and has been for 2 months now, but she's been talking about formal all the time to me. Wut do?
[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1023870353]please help T misc. theres this girl named Amber, 7/10 w/ no makeup and average tits but a big ole booty. I don't really care about that tho. I just like her personality (in before ***). I just feel like i can talk to her about anything, and i love hanging out with her its like time flies when i around her. She knows i like her and she flirts a little bit but then will not talk to me for a few days. I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, nor the fittest but I'm working on it. What can i do to get her to like me? This girl is single and has been for 2 months now, but she's been talking about formal all the time to me. Wut do?[/QUOTE]
Don't post names on here. You need to work on your confidence and the way you approach her. Do some flirting and ask her on a date. It sounds like she is possibly interested, because you mentioned that she is constantly talking about formal. Girls aren't as concerned with looks as guys are. Instead, they like confidence/personality and guys that take charge/make their own decisions.
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;1023873803]Don't post names on here. You need to work on your confidence and the way you approach her. Do some flirting and ask her on a date. It sounds like she is possibly interested, because you mentioned that she is constantly talking about formal. Girls aren't as concerned with looks as guys are. Instead, they like confidence/personality and guys that take charge/make their own decisions.[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the help!
So, a couple days ago i'm sitting in class and this girl asks me to go on a date (i know right?). Shes like the 3rd hottest girl in the school, so obviously i say yes. I texted her that night, no reply. Try again 2 nights later, no reply. Throughout this whole thing she's been extremely flirty, and very seemingly eager. So today i'm like, icecream this saturday? She says sure, and we kinda just go our own ways.
Sorta feels like shes playing me. What do you guys think? I'm going to judge if i should keep on trying after this weekend, based on what does (or doesn't) happen.
[QUOTE=puremichigan1;973635653]My gf went to a party when she told me she was hanging out with 2 of her friends. What should I do brahs?[/QUOTE]
One lie will make me question everything later on, and I have a hard time keeping myself in a situation that I have to worry about, but that's just how I looked at it. And I would be so pissed if that happened to me. Was she at least with those two friends?
[QUOTE=livingforlean;1020098133]Girl from school turned up a year and a half ago and instantly told her friends she liked me. We started seeing each other a bit and got on well although I didn't like her in that way. Then she went out with another guy (around July to December).
Around this time I started liking her and still do. Now she's broken up with the guy but I'm not sure if she could still feel the same as she used to about me.
Is it possible or do girls move on completely? Dunno what to do.[/QUOTE]
Depends on how far you went while you were seeing each other
[QUOTE=NightcoreStyle;1020092313]Hi girls/guys. So, im into a girl who has a 2 years relationship with a guy(this guys is 3 years old than me but physically weaker). She is 17.
I don't know what to think. She is texting him,but when im with her, she let me hug her, kiss her, let me be physically 5 cm away from her face while she likes it, she tries to tease me(so i can tease her too), let me touch her face gently. His guy called her 3 times while she was with me and she didnt tried to respond him or message him (to tell him like "can't talk now" or anything), she just looked on phone and put it back and she didn't care that he called. The thing is , some months ago, she was texting him while she was with me, but now didn't. I texted her friday, talked a little then she said has some work to do and i told her to text again if she wants to talk. She texted again at 10 pm, and keep texting till 12pm. Wished me some sweety dreams(don't know how to translate what she told me, but was sweet). Next day I greet her with a good morning at 9.30 am and she wanted to talk a little. I texted night a gn too and again she liked talking and stayed till 12 texting. Next day, she just text me a good morning *nick name here".
Same girl few months ago wouldn't do like this.
What u think? Could she be interested in me? (i was friend with her till now, nothing close or friend zoned i think)[/QUOTE]
That really sucks she's been with a guy for 2 years and is doing this behind his back. But I guess sloots gon sloot, might as well pursue. She obviously likes you, just don't actually plan on having a "relationship" with her. The most serious you should get is FWB.
[QUOTE=ninnyhammer;1024391593]So, a couple days ago i'm sitting in class and this girl asks me to go on a date (i know right?). Shes like the 3rd hottest girl in the school, so obviously i say yes. I texted her that night, no reply. Try again 2 nights later, no reply. Throughout this whole thing she's been extremely flirty, and very seemingly eager. So today i'm like, icecream this saturday? She says sure, and we kinda just go our own ways.
Sorta feels like shes playing me. What do you guys think? I'm going to judge if i should keep on trying after this weekend, based on what does (or doesn't) happen.[/QUOTE]
First of all, I'm sorry that you're in this situation. I've been in something similar and it's not fun. Her actions don't add up, so I'm guessing that she is either playing you (working on her "game", the way she approaches guys) and using you for that or she is giving you the **** test. GJ on not double texting.
Did she just randomly ask you out? Like with no conversation before that...?
I would see how it goes when you get ice cream and go from there. Flirt with her, but don't seem too attached. Remain confident and cool, flirt some, treat her with respect, but don't go over the top.
[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1023870353]please help T misc. theres this girl named Amber, 7/10 w/ no makeup and average tits but a big ole booty. I don't really care about that tho. I just like her personality (in before ***). I just feel like i can talk to her about anything, and i love hanging out with her its like time flies when i around her. She knows i like her and she flirts a little bit but then will not talk to me for a few days. I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, nor the fittest but I'm working on it. What can i do to get her to like me? This girl is single and has been for 2 months now, but she's been talking about formal all the time to me. Wut do?[/QUOTE]
be confident lol. could be a good sign she doesnt talk to you for a few days on end. means you're not friendzoned. she also might be testing to see if you'll actually initiate conversation with her.
basically just be confident and keep doing what you're doing and up the ante a little. when formal gets closer start hinting at it
[QUOTE=ninnyhammer;1024391593]So, a couple days ago i'm sitting in class and this girl asks me to go on a date (i know right?). Shes like the 3rd hottest girl in the school, so obviously i say yes. I texted her that night, no reply. Try again 2 nights later, no reply. Throughout this whole thing she's been extremely flirty, and very seemingly eager. So today i'm like, icecream this saturday? She says sure, and we kinda just go our own ways.
Sorta feels like shes playing me. What do you guys think? I'm going to judge if i should keep on trying after this weekend, based on what does (or doesn't) happen.[/QUOTE]
she is playing you. she's the one who brought up the idea, let her follow through with it. dont try to take the drivers seat on this one. if she was sincere, she'll follow through. you said saturday right? as long as you didn't specify a time, you're good. if saturday comes and goes and she never contacts you asking if you're still on or looking to confirm a time, then she was never being sincere in the first place
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;1024700103]First of all, I'm sorry that you're in this situation. I've been in something similar and it's not fun. Her actions don't add up, so I'm guessing that she is either playing you (working on her "game", the way she approaches guys) and using you for that or she is giving you the **** test. GJ on not double texting.
Did she just randomly ask you out? Like with no conversation before that...?
I would see how it goes when you get ice cream and go from there. Flirt with her, but don't seem too attached. Remain confident and cool, flirt some, treat her with respect, but don't go over the top.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SamSix;1024716463]she is playing you. she's the one who brought up the idea, let her follow through with it. dont try to take the drivers seat on this one. if she was sincere, she'll follow through. you said saturday right? as long as you didn't specify a time, you're good. if saturday comes and goes and she never contacts you asking if you're still on or looking to confirm a time, then she was never being sincere in the first place[/QUOTE]
quality advice from both of you, thanks. I feel like she's playing me too, but at the same time i really don't know. And don't feel sorry RTN, i don't have any feelings for her, i'm just in this for the sex. It really makes no difference to me either way.
Heres some long **** which confuses me even further (which i didn't bother to put into the op because its kinda complex):
Alright, so its me, her, and 2 other pretty hot chicks that sit in a group in that class. All of them are friends, and one of them i knew from middleschool (which i still happen to be pretty close to). I'm going to call the girl from middleschool brown, the girl i'm trying to get with black, and the other one blue just for the sake of having a semi-flowing story. So brown and black are pretty good friends, they have all their classes together and talk all the time. Brown keeps talking about this date we have set up. black talks about it sometimes too. Black wasn't here today, and brown was talking to me about black, and she seemed like she knew that black really was interested in me. This honestly confuses me since i'm getting completely mixed messages from black. The thing is, i've known brown for a long time and i could smell bull**** on her breath from a mile away. Blue talks to me about her sometimes too in the same manner.
While black sends some seriously mixed signals outside of class, she flirts with me constantly and has even mentioned a relationship and all this sht.
Either way, if she is playing me then at least i get MEGA social proof from being seen with her around school. I guess i'll just keep playing this game til i see how it unravels.
and then i shoot her a text and she replies instantly..
bishes be crazy
**edit** so in a twist, i find out her phone is actually seriously ****ed up, explaining all of this bullsht. Tfw i'm probably going to end up banging a solid 9/10 :D
So theres a girl that I met while with my mates. I asked for her number but all she had at the time was a facebook. she seemed as intrested as i was, and was really sweet. Later she got a phone and we texted. we talked a little bit but seems as if she doesn't want to hang out. she also stopped replying after i asked if she wanted to get lunch or coffee.
[QUOTE=shamelessBB;1025963753]So theres a girl that I met while with my mates. I asked for her number but all she had at the time was a facebook. she seemed as intrested as i was, and was really sweet. Later she got a phone and we texted. we talked a little bit but seems as if she doesn't want to hang out. she also stopped replying after i asked if she wanted to get lunch or coffee.[/QUOTE]
Know dat feel. She might already be pursuing somebody else or there might be some other reason - might have been recently dumped, or something else entirely.
No matter how smooth, funny, good looking, charming or whatever else you are or try to be - sometimes bishes don't want to get coffee. It's just the way it is. You made a good attempt. Don't let it get you down.
More say yes than say no in my experience though - you just have to keep getting numbers, keep trying for dates.
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1026008523]Know dat feel. She might already be pursuing somebody else or there might be some other reason - might have been recently dumped, or something else entirely.
No matter how smooth, funny, good looking, charming or whatever else you are or try to be - sometimes bishes don't want to get coffee. It's just the way it is. You made a good attempt. Don't let it get you down.
More say yes than say no in my experience though - you just have to keep getting numbers, keep trying for dates.[/QUOTE]
numbers arent a problem, just she's one of those keeper girls you know? and yea she probably has different feels
[QUOTE=shamelessBB;1026065583]numbers arent a problem, just she's one of those keeper girls you know? and yea she probably has different feels[/QUOTE]
Damn. Try your best (without trying too hard) to run into her again. People act very differently face to face than on the internet. You don't get the same sense of physical attraction when you talk over Facebook or whatever. Maybe if you talk to her for a bit and try and friend her up she'll realise you're a decent guy and think differently.
Might also be worth seeing if she's just come out of a relationship or had a bad relationship in the past. She might not think she's ready to start dating for something like that. Look into it.
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1026495983]Damn. Try your best (without trying too hard) to run into her again. People act very differently face to face than on the internet. You don't get the same sense of physical attraction when you talk over Facebook or whatever. Maybe if you talk to her for a bit and try and friend her up she'll realise you're a decent guy and think differently.
Might also be worth seeing if she's just come out of a relationship or had a bad relationship in the past. She might not think she's ready to start dating for something like that. Look into it.[/QUOTE]
Thats why i asked to get coffee so i could ask her out. Dont think ill see her again but if i do ill get to know about her past a bit
[QUOTE=shamelessBB;1026065583]numbers arent a problem, just she's one of those keeper girls you know? and yea she probably has different feels[/QUOTE]
I know dat feel, sucks brah. You can still try to go after her since you think she's a keeper, but considering she didn't reply to the coffee or lunch it may be hard to come in contact with her again or at all.
[QUOTE=shamelessBB;1026899303]Thats why i asked to get coffee so i could ask her out. Dont think ill see her again but if i do ill get to know about her past a bit[/QUOTE]
Maybe leave it a while and then try texting her again.
I met a girl earlier this year. Really liked her, really nice looking girl, deffo chemistry - but she just didn't seem that interested. Asked one of her friends what the deal was and turns out she'd come out of a ****ty relationship relatively recently (ex boyfreind was among the most colossal cuunts I have ever encountered). Try as I might she just didn't want a relationship - like at all. Did bang her in a shower, but that wasn't the point - she just wasn't up for a relationship. She barely speaks to me now.
Went a tiny bit off topic there - but you get the point. You don't really know what people have done or what they've been through - so don't get too downhearted if she doesn't want to get coffee just yet. :)