[QUOTE=Csnauk;1008413523]Just ignore her she obviously wants your attention don't give any to her.[/QUOTE]
will follow your advice, reps.
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[QUOTE=Csnauk;1008413523]Just ignore her she obviously wants your attention don't give any to her.[/QUOTE]
will follow your advice, reps.
[QUOTE=Gabe95;1008412193]srs question
I got friendzone'd by a girl, and even though she did it I tried to keep in contact with her to see if i could smash. It didn't work lol and I was like PHUCK IT and got a girlfriend like 4-5 months after that. My current girlfriend and I have been dating for around 7 months, and its awesome. Lately the girl that friendzoned me has been staring at me way too much and sometimes texts me saying I'm not her friend anymore and that I should fuk off even though I don't even talk to her anymore and I honestly don't care about her. How can I get this girl to stfu or something? Why is she doing this? Is she just seeking out for more attention from beta dudes?[/QUOTE]
she's jealous, she wants attention, obviously dont give her any, ignore that bish
[QUOTE=Gabe95;1008412193]srs question
I got friendzone'd by a girl, and even though she did it I tried to keep in contact with her to see if i could smash. It didn't work lol and I was like PHUCK IT and got a girlfriend like 4-5 months after that. My current girlfriend and I have been dating for around 7 months, and its awesome. Lately the girl that friendzoned me has been staring at me way too much and sometimes texts me saying I'm not her friend anymore and that I should fuk off even though I don't even talk to her anymore and I honestly don't care about her. How can I get this girl to stfu or something? Why is she doing this? Is she just seeking out for more attention from beta dudes?[/QUOTE] Be Alpha as **** and tell her to phuckk off, stay with your current gf and enjoy life, then come back and smash the other chick later.
[QUOTE=Gabe95;1008412193]srs question
I got friendzone'd by a girl, and even though she did it I tried to keep in contact with her to see if i could smash. It didn't work lol and I was like PHUCK IT and got a girlfriend like 4-5 months after that. My current girlfriend and I have been dating for around 7 months, and its awesome. Lately the girl that friendzoned me has been staring at me way too much and sometimes texts me saying I'm not her friend anymore and that I should fuk off even though I don't even talk to her anymore and I honestly don't care about her. How can I get this girl to stfu or something? Why is she doing this? Is she just seeking out for more attention from beta dudes?[/QUOTE]
ignore her.
[QUOTE=SDtrucker;1007812093]No not that at all. I feel like its going to change her. The fame crazed bish that everyone hates. Like Ill be put aside, and just be what she needs when she needs it.[/QUOTE]
That is completely understandable. I cannot count how many girls that have completely changed and thrown certain things aside/stopped caring nearly as much once they received more attention in one way or another (whether thats getting more friends, becoming famous whether it be on the internet or irl, or even just regaining old friends). If that happens, they are never worth it, atleast in my eyes.
been with my gf for 9months. shes really innocent/sweet/nice all those great qualities. we never fight etc. and she genuinely loves me and i can tell. problem is i don't wanna be in a relationship anymore but at this point things have been said and done and i don't want to hurt her since she's done literally nothing wrong. i get i should end it just because it's not fair to her but idk how to do it.
just wanna live my life and focus on me for a while you kno. what to do
Can't seem to get bitches senior year of HS. Not ugly or autistic just shy as fuark. Feeling forever alone and need some advice from you brahs cus if I miss senior prom due to not having a date I'll uber sad.
[QUOTE=jgrant1;1009029473]been with my gf for 9months. shes really innocent/sweet/nice all those great qualities. we never fight etc. and she genuinely loves me and i can tell. problem is i don't wanna be in a relationship anymore but at this point things have been said and done and i don't want to hurt her since she's done literally nothing wrong. i get i should end it just because it's not fair to her but idk how to do it.
just wanna live my life and focus on me for a while you kno. what to do[/QUOTE]
Tell her exactly what you just told us. Honesty is a great trait.
[QUOTE=xploxstriker;1009579493]Can't seem to get bitches senior year of HS. Not ugly or autistic just shy as fuark. Feeling forever alone and need some advice from you brahs cus if I miss senior prom due to not having a date I'll uber sad.[/QUOTE]
Talk to the girls who sit near you in class, strike up a conversation. Then don't just sit there and stare at her tits because you can't think of anything to say or anything like that. Ask your friends who they're going with then asks one of the girl's friends if you need too. Just try to be up-beat and talkative, work on your social skills this way.
[QUOTE=xploxstriker;1009579493]Can't seem to get bitches senior year of HS. Not ugly or autistic just shy as fuark. Feeling forever alone and need some advice from you brahs cus if I miss senior prom due to not having a date I'll uber sad.[/QUOTE]
Just be confident and try and talk to girls. Don't hit on them too hard to start - just be friendly and nice. Work out who you'd like to go with and go for it. Try and talk to people in person rather than on Facebook or whatever - works a lot better.
I used to be fat and had to rely entirely on humor and personality to get girls. Just ask them loads of questions that you think they might like to answer, complement them and learn a load of one-liners so you have something to say if the conversation suddenly dries up. Even if they hardly laugh it gets the conversation going again.
had a female friend for 2 months. Then started going out and became a couple in the middle of November. everything was perfect since but 2 weeks ago she told me her feelings had cooled down and that we should distance ourselves for a while. the problem is that i have never ever fallen in love this way, i think i can even say that i love her and i simply can't let her go like that. i haven't called her since ( i don't know where the strength came from not to call her) and don't know what to do. i'm afraid i don't do some stupidity, so i need HELP
[QUOTE=KikiMagic;1011372493]had a female friend for 2 months. Then started going out and became a couple in the middle of November. everything was perfect since but 2 weeks ago she told me her feelings had cooled down and that we should distance ourselves for a while. the problem is that i have never ever fallen in love this way, i think i can even say that i love her and i simply can't let her go like that. i haven't called her since ( i don't know where the strength came from not to call her) and don't know what to do. i'm afraid i don't do some stupidity, so i need HELP[/QUOTE]
It sounds like from the way your heads over heels for this girl you probably did everything and anything for her and seemed a little beta in the process.
Try to not call her, and maybe get some other girls.
Jealousy sex. nomsayin
[QUOTE=KikiMagic;1011372493]had a female friend for 2 months. Then started going out and became a couple in the middle of November. everything was perfect since but 2 weeks ago she told me her feelings had cooled down and that we should distance ourselves for a while. the problem is that i have never ever fallen in love this way, i think i can even say that i love her and i simply can't let her go like that. i haven't called her since ( i don't know where the strength came from not to call her) and don't know what to do. i'm afraid i don't do some stupidity, so i need HELP[/QUOTE]
I think you like the girl a little too much bro. Love her have after 2 months? Relax, you guys started as friends, she probably gave you a chance to get out and you were overly-good to her and maybe that pushed her away? That's my thought.
If you're still semi-together try pushing for something more ie: fingering or something. If she bites then shes trying to get you to change, if she doesn't then it's back to the friend zone.
If you're not together at all then I guess you're back on the friend zone so just ignore her. Find a new girl. This total of 4-5 months is nothing at all.
[QUOTE=lkillen;1011720443]I think you like the girl a little too much bro. Love her have after 2 months? Relax, you guys started as friends, she probably gave you a chance to get out and you were overly-good to her and maybe that pushed her away? That's my thought.
If you're still semi-together try pushing for something more ie: fingering or something. If she bites then shes trying to get you to change, if she doesn't then it's back to the friend zone.
If you're not together at all then I guess you're back on the friend zone so just ignore her. Find a new girl. This total of 4-5 months is nothing at all.[/QUOTE]
How can being overly good push someone away?????
Because its overwhelming. It makes people lose interest. People thrive off of The ups and downs in life. If you make it 'too easy' for her then she might feel as if she doesnt have her own independence because youre too good of a guy for her. Srs, this used to be my problem, this is kinda what some people on this forum consider 'beta'.
I can only assume your parents brought you up to be nice to very nice to women, as did mine. It took me a while to understand how being not-nice is a good thing.
Be nicer to people. Check if you're a douchebag, e.g bragging about stuff like "My shirt cost £200". If its one thing I hate is people who brag about ****. Check if you're talking about yourself too often and try listen more. If nothing changes then **** everyone.
Need some help:
I'm a quiet person (not really 100% shy, just don't want to talk). But, there is this girl that's only in 1 of my classes who I never have talked to. And, I'm hoping to either ask her to my schools prom or on a date earlier. I don't know if it'd be weird if never talking to her I ask her out or what, but I could use some help. I was thinking maybe I'd be a necklace like $100 for her, buy her prom ticket, and get a giftcard for her to the Gatsby salon caues that's actually near where I live. Think this broski gotta chance?
[QUOTE=Chilaha;1012415053]Need some help:
I'm a quiet person (not really 100% shy, just don't want to talk). But, there is this girl that's only in 1 of my classes who I never have talked to. And, I'm hoping to either ask her to my schools prom or on a date earlier. I don't know if it'd be weird if never talking to her I ask her out or what, but I could use some help. I was thinking maybe I'd be a necklace like $100 for her, buy her prom ticket, and get a giftcard for her to the Gatsby salon caues that's actually near where I live. Think this broski gotta chance?[/QUOTE]
You're gonna buy loads of **** for a girl you've never spoken to? Don't be a fool. Start talking to her. Ask her out, then if you really like you can surprise her with a gift at prom. Don't be a beta phag.
What would you guys do if the girl you've been talking to said this ? We have been talking on and off since Summer 2011 . Around that time, we were gonna go out and see each other, but she ended up kissing my best friend so I just cut off contact completely. Fast forward Summer 2012 and things are past, we act like best friends and mostly tell each other everything . I was liking this other girl, while she was liking me again .. things with me didnt work out with the other girl, so I kinda came on to her, but then I was confused and told her to **** off basically, I don't like you like that. We didnt talk for a whole month (lol) and then now beginning of this year she texted me and we've been friends again, but kinda talking like we could go out. She says she loves me, I do love her too .. but not sure if it's the way I should though . Just not sure where to go from here .. what would you guys do? read texts below . Oh, 1188 is obviously the first one, 1193 is the last .
[QUOTE=marcello95;1012443493]What would you guys do if the girl you've been talking to said this ? We have been talking on and off since Summer 2011 . Around that time, we were gonna go out and see each other, but she ended up kissing my best friend so I just cut off contact completely. Fast forward Summer 2012 and things are past, we act like best friends and mostly tell each other everything . I was liking this other girl, while she was liking me again .. things with me didnt work out with the other girl, so I kinda came on to her, but then I was confused and told her to **** off basically, I don't like you like that. We didnt talk for a whole month (lol) and then now beginning of this year she texted me and we've been friends again, but kinda talking like we could go out. She says she loves me, I do love her too .. but not sure if it's the way I should though . Just not sure where to go from here .. what would you guys do? read texts below . Oh, 1188 is obviously the first one, 1193 is the last .[/QUOTE]
Talking in person >>>>>>> text. I straight despise having serious conversations over text. A lot more truth and good comes out of just talking in person.
Sounds like shes stringing you along though tbh. Id get out of it/stop caring based on these texts. Looks ****ed up. "I love you and we can be best friends but i love you". ....no.
IMO - talk in person and feel it out. Sounds like you should just forget it though
[QUOTE=QualityByDC;1012454343]Talking in person >>>>>>> text. I straight despise having serious conversations over text. A lot more truth and good comes out of just talking in person.
Sounds like shes stringing you along though tbh. Id get out of it/stop caring based on these texts. Looks ****ed up. "I love you and we can be best friends but i love you". ....no.
IMO - talk in person and feel it out. Sounds like you should just forget it though[/QUOTE]
I want to, problem is she lives in a different town, that's about 15 mins away by car, but neither of us drive yet . I'll be picking up my license next week though . Not sure if I should ignore or till then or what ..
[QUOTE=QualityByDC;1012454343]Talking in person >>>>>>> text. I straight despise having serious conversations over text. A lot more truth and good comes out of just talking in person.
Sounds like shes stringing you along though tbh. Id get out of it/stop caring based on these texts. Looks ****ed up. "I love you and we can be best friends but i love you". ....no.
IMO - talk in person and feel it out. Sounds like you should just forget it though[/QUOTE]
this
[QUOTE=marcello95;1012484543]I want to, problem is she lives in a different town, that's about 15 mins away by car, but neither of us drive yet . I'll be picking up my license next week though . Not sure if I should ignore or till then or what ..[/QUOTE]
you need ot make it clear that you will discuss it in person just ride it out until then. based on your situation though it could go both ways but i dont see it working out
> Neither of you drive yet
> You love eachother
Boy I remember when I was 14
[QUOTE=Hyruliangoat;1012496433]this
you need ot make it clear that you will discuss it in person just ride it out until then. based on your situation though it could go both ways but i dont see it working out[/QUOTE]
I'm gonna go with this then .. I'll just be like .. we'll just have to talk it out in person then as soon as possible ..
[QUOTE=QualityByDC;1012502413]> Neither of you drive yet
> You love eachother
Boy I remember when I was 14[/QUOTE]
First of all I'm 17, I turn 18 next month, and I could've been driving since last year, just haven't had the time to pick up my license. Getting it next week. Second of all, if I had known her for like 6 months ok, I don't love her, but I've known this girl for 2 years. That's a pretty damn long time, and IMO, long enough to judge whether we both love each other or not.
[QUOTE=Dizzie38;1012423613]You're gonna buy loads of **** for a girl you've never spoken to? Don't be a fool. Start talking to her. Ask her out, then if you really like you can surprise her with a gift at prom. Don't be a beta phag.[/QUOTE]
I don't know. I just like this person that much. I don't even care if the person says yes I'd just wanna get something nice for them.
What's a beta phag?
But, srs is that coming off too strong or something? And, idk how to start talking to her cause we only have one class 2gether and im the quietest kid in the world.
Ask to borrow a pen or something. Smile and say thanks. Add her on Facebook or twitter. Like some statuses but don't creep etc...
[QUOTE=Dizzie38;1012561623]Ask to borrow a pen or something. Smile and say thanks. Add her on Facebook or twitter. Like some statuses but don't creep etc...[/QUOTE]
But, I don't wanna be pushing this **** if she doesn't like me. Then, it's like annoying and embaressing 4 her
Adding a class mate on Facebook isn't pushing it. Grow some balls. You'll know if she doesn't like you...
[QUOTE=Dizzie38;1012566013]Adding a class mate on Facebook isn't pushing it. Grow some balls. You'll know if she doesn't like you...[/QUOTE]
aight . thnx repped for dealing with me
Add her on Facebook. Add some other people at the same time if you're really afraid. Ask to borrow a pen in like a week. Pretend you forgot to give it back, then give the pen back later on in the day and just talk to her man.
[QUOTE=Dizzie38;1012567163]Add her on Facebook. Add some other people at the same time if you're really afraid. Ask to borrow a pen in like a week. Pretend you forgot to give it back, then give the pen back later on in the day and just talk to her man.[/QUOTE]
i sit on the other side of the room, how can i ask 4 a pencil. itd be weird if instead of asking someone next to me i go all the way to the otherside of the room and ask
Improvise man, ever get put into groups? Definitely add her on Facebook. When's your prom?