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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;976568643]About slaughterhouse... It is true that not many people appreciate the old school style of hip hop. I think that it has evolved since then and I really like a lot of the new school stuff. Back in the day, hip hop was only rapping. Nowadays, artists will slow up the songs a bit and have a chorus where they can let their words sink in. I do like some old school though, I just prefer new school. Not the kind where it's just repeating the same line over and over again throughout the song, with an occasional ooooh or something like that. House of pain, Jay-Z, Run-DMC, just a few folks I like. T.I. and Tyga ftw!
Now, I have a question... I will be going to a church thing next week and there are some very pretty girls who go there. I saw a beautiful girl last night at the service who really stood out to me. If I see her there, I would like to talk to her get her phone number. What is the best way of approaching? Like just strike up a conversation and and ask for it when we have to part ways?[/QUOTE]
Start up a conversation and then when you are about to go, instead of ending the conversation and asking for her number, just be like "ah shoot I gotta go, but we have to finish this conversation! you gotta text me about this later." and then if she accepts, give her the number. but try really hard to be genuine and not give off a creepy vibe. I'm sure you'll be fine, but if she doesn't seem into it during the conversation then don't ask for the number.. try and read her body language and stuff
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;976582543]Start up a conversation and then when you are about to go, instead of ending the conversation and asking for her number, just be like "ah shoot I gotta go, but we have to finish this conversation! you gotta text me about this later." and then if she accepts, give her the number. but try really hard to be genuine and not give off a creepy vibe. I'm sure you'll be fine, but if she doesn't seem into it during the conversation then don't ask for the number.. try and read her body language and stuff[/QUOTE]
Much appreciated
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[QUOTE=LilDave401;975717043]idk about girls really, im lucky im even engaged. but for me, if a girl is confident and does what she likes regardless of what people think, thats really attractive.[/QUOTE]
Ditto about the confidence. Not arrogance though, hate that ****. When a girl is shy, it can be cute, but a bit overbearing after sometime...
[QUOTE=OmgWtfNvm;976128853]do you guys think its good not to give one girl to much attention. cause i do give this girl attention but not to much where she is winning the tug of war. meaning like she has more control
is it bad if she sees me walking with other girls in the hall
and this other girl, my friend dated her and right after they brokeup i didn't really know her she was in my homeroom thats it and she started chatting with me on fb. lol saying that me and her should talk more. then when the conversation was at the highest point i ended it and didn't reply. does she want the D[/QUOTE]
Firstly, it's all about balance and understanding I find. Personally, I think it's disrespectful to the girl to intentionally ignore them just so you can have a horizontal party (if you're looking more for a relationship). Though, don't stress out with not communicating all the time, especially when big events are coming up (e.g. exams, assignments or visiting family). She should able to relate and appreciate your circumstances.
And no, it's not bad to be seen with other girls. If my girlfriend freaked out because I was with a close friend or my study buddies, well it might mean that I'm not making her feel comfortable and trustworthy enough to be with me. Can also help give you that alpha-male aura ;)
Vice-versa.
Lastly, about the D, go ask her.
[QUOTE=HammerDance45;976461293]From a girls prospective, what are the things both physically and socially that tun girls off of a guy? a lot of times i find it hard to be me around girls im attracted to because im afraid of looking like a jackass. i have a sense of humor that most girls dont understand and being burned in the past has shot my confidence even though that was 50 lbs ago. and when i say its hard to be me i dont mean i act like another person. i just sort of bottle myself up[/QUOTE]
Can't tell you from a 'girl's perspective', though I can say don't sacrifice you're sense of humour for a girl. If you do, you'll (possibly) become a cynical, old prune. Mine is warped at times, though just be confident in what you say and do, that is more important. Eventually a girl should find that, your confidence, is appealing. That, or come over to Oz or NZ. We have pretty rad senses of humour. Usually. Easier said than done, but don't let getting shot down get to you too much either, take it in good stride and move on. With bottling up, I would say that, again, comes down to confidence. Sometimes I'm similarly introverted and quiet, other times I'm probably too eccentric and extroverted.
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Can't tell you from a 'girl's perspective', though I can say don't sacrifice you're sense of humour for a girl. If you do, you'll (possibly) become a cynical, old prune. Mine is warped at times, though just be confident in what you say and do, that is more important. Eventually a girl should find that, your confidence, is appealing. That, or come over to Oz or NZ. We have pretty rad senses of humour. Usually. Easier said than done, but don't let getting shot down get to you too much either, take it in good stride and move on. With bottling up, I would say that, again, comes down to confidence. Sometimes I'm similarly introverted and quiet, other times I'm probably too eccentric and extroverted.[/QUOTE]
thanks. its just really hard to display that confidence. ive always been an introvert but getting shot down really did damage. i became really depressed and i used that to get in better shape and im still using that as motivation to lift but the little confidence i had was completely gone. its gotten better but im just not a very confident person for whatever reasons. plus being a severe introvert, i barely talked to girls throughout high school so its hard to beuild up those relationships now in my senior year when other guys have been building them for 4 years. pathetic, i know. and its funny you should mention NZ and Australia because we had a transfer in from australia (he left for home last year) and he was one of coolest kids ive ever met. hilarious kid and he also told me id fit in perfectly over in OZ
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973518493]Literally laughed out loud at that
Fellas, let me introduce you to the best moderator of this site.[/QUOTE]
This
, no nuthug
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[QUOTE=UnknownOrigin;973637913]Ask her why didn't she tell you the truth?
Trust is everything in a relationship IMO..[/QUOTE]
Strong dr phil
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;975849033]Very true. What i've noticed is that this so called mind game is something that works when it comes to young people. More or less teens. From my experience, no offense of course, girls are so damn easy to manipulate playing the mind game we're speaking of. However, as you grow up, it's not something that works with older more mature women. Not that i've had experiences with older women but from what i've heard based on others.[/QUOTE]
mind games work on some older women. i banged a 26 year old twice and i mind f[B]u[/B]cked the chit out of her
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fit4aprincess ignoring my question. I am disappoint..
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;976955373]fit4aprincess ignoring my question. I am disappoint..[/QUOTE]
hahaha i didnt even see it, sorry.
I don't have a preference of race, it depends on the guy I guess
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;976960163]hahaha i didnt even see it, sorry.
I don't have a preference of race, it depends on the guy I guess[/QUOTE]'
that's what they all say, but when a cute / nice asian guy asks a girl out they say no and go back to the douchey white trasbags. :P
at least in high school that's how it is/was.
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wow ... there's a girl help thread now ?
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[QUOTE=Gilgamesh13;976962403]wow ... there's a girl help thread now ?[/QUOTE]
inb4 WK
Ciwa
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[QUOTE=Francis333;976963283]inb4 WK
Ciwa
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Francis you are not allowed in this thread dead srs.
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A guy who needs online consultation from other teenagers to feel more confident about his interaction with females is not a guy who's going to have very successful such interactions ... Hence the : 'wow' ... As in, mother of futility.
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[QUOTE=Francis333;976963283]inb4 WK
Ciwa
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hahahahahahaha ruhroh
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;976960163]hahaha i didnt even see it, sorry.
I don't have a preference of race, it depends on the guy I guess[/QUOTE]
Hah..
We all know that's not true.
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[QUOTE=speX94;976961773]'
that's what they all say, but when a cute / nice asian guy asks a girl out they say no and go back to the douchey white trasbags. :P
at least in high school that's how it is/was.[/QUOTE]
Idk. I haven't experienced that, but I can honestly say I would not turn someone down just because they are asian. It's about attitude for me more than it is about race. I've only dated 2 guys and one was a ginger, but he had such a weird/great personality that his appearance did not once phase me. When I say "weird" I don't mean it in a bad way, he was just "alpha" as you guys call it. Thats the only word I can really think of to describe his personality. I'd say if an asian was alpha then I would be just as likely to date him as I would someone else. I think that applies for most girls, really.
oh and I'm not referring to ginger as a race lol, just the best example I could think of.
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;976528733]Chicago[/QUOTE]
i'll be in chicago next year around 20130423 for like 3 months. IDK how to talk to girls or anything.. never had a girlfriend, but i'd like to try with you.. naw i mean? I am asian... so this will help prove the theory of asians and white girls.
Let me get that number tho so i can hit you up when i land on deck at NR Basic Training. Send it in a PM :)
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[QUOTE=speX94;976972773]i'll be in chicago next year around 20130423 for like 3 months. IDK how to talk to girls or anything.. never had a girlfriend, but i'd like to try with you.. naw i mean? I am asian... so this will help prove the theory of asians and white girls.[/QUOTE]
Ask and thou shall receive. ****ing lol
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[QUOTE=JuxtaposedBrah;976964163]Francis you are not allowed in this thread dead srs.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=JuxtaposedBrah;976964163]Francis you are not allowed in this thread dead srs.[/QUOTE]
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Ask this girl on a date, and she said yes, i got her number right before i left. and we started texting but she haven't responded in hours .. Should I wait for her or .. Text her again? And i'm 100% sure she's into me ..
Lol (sure she's not asleep either)
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977139053]Ask this girl on a date, and she said yes, i got her number right before i left. and we started texting but she haven't responded in hours .. Should I wait for her or .. Text her again? And i'm 100% sure she's into me ..
Lol (sure she's not asleep either)[/QUOTE]
at this point since you just got her number imho you should just leave it be. Don't smother her when you havent even started dating yet. DONT GET RID OF ALL YOUR CONVERSATIONS EITHER.. :3 sorry for all caps, but inb4awkwardfirstdate.
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977139053]Ask this girl on a date, and she said yes, i got her number right before i left. and we started texting but she haven't responded in hours .. Should I wait for her or .. [B]Text her again[/B]? And i'm 100% sure she's into me ..
Lol (sure she's not asleep either)[/QUOTE]
Don't re-text lul. Just leave it for a while, like the above said Don't smother her. Just wait a couple of days then call her up to invite her for drinks/coffee.
If you text too much you may get seen as a friend as opposed to someone who she'd date/fawk
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977139053]Ask this girl on a date, and she said yes, i got her number right before i left. and we started texting but she haven't responded in hours .. Should I wait for her or .. Text her again? And i'm 100% sure she's into me ..
Lol (sure she's not asleep either)[/QUOTE]
Never double text unless you're apologizing or gramatically correcting yourself. Just wait til a different day and start a new conversation
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Hey everyone, am in a pickle with a girl i semi like, we used to go to same parties ect and talk everyday, would make out ect when we saw each other, then out of the blue a few weeks ago she asked who i was tuning.. so i naturally said wtf are you on about assuming someone else had her phone because numerous people had said she was beginning to like me, so i asked her the next day about it and she said yeah it was me, so i just said fuaaaaarrk friendzoned to the max as a joke and she was confused saying we were always just friends, now hardly speaks to me, thoughts on the situation?
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Never talked to this girl in my class she is very popular and im semi-popular and I really want to talk to her but I dont got the guts and honestly don't know what to say to her. Help
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[QUOTE=Jackson1993;977191183]Hey everyone, am in a pickle with a girl i semi like, we used to go to same parties ect and talk everyday, would make out ect when we saw each other, then out of the blue a few weeks ago she asked who i was tuning.. so i naturally said wtf are you on about assuming someone else had her phone because numerous people had said she was beginning to like me, so i asked her the next day about it and she said yeah it was me, so i just said fuaaaaarrk friendzoned to the max as a joke and she was confused saying we were always just friends, now hardly speaks to me, thoughts on the situation?[/QUOTE]
I have a girl who I'm kinda fwb's with and even if i slightly mention something more she says "we were always friends and are?" It's woman logic.. I don't even get it either brah. Just give her a break and then randomly text her in like two weeks to a month. All should be cleared up by then.
[QUOTE=Raxcoe;977199693]Never talked to this girl in my class she is very popular and im semi-popular and I really want to talk to her but I dont got the guts and honestly don't know what to say to her. Help[/QUOTE]
Just like I tell EVERYONE (if you haven't read the thread) Start a conversation about what is going on around you guys. It's random, but hey, she'll know what you're talking about.
EXAMPLE: Yesterday I dropped my lock at my locker at school. I go "Wow.. I seriously drop my lock like every other day.. This is ridiculous.. *insert laugh here*" Next the girl next to me picks it up for me and I could have started a conversation there,
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;977174303]Never double text unless you're apologizing or gramatically correcting yourself. Just wait til a different day and start a new conversation[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=OneMA2011;977156353]Don't re-text lul. Just leave it for a while, like the above said Don't smother her. Just wait a couple of days then call her up to invite her for drinks/coffee.
If you text too much you may get seen as a friend as opposed to someone who she'd date/fawk[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=speX94;977140363]at this point since you just got her number imho you should just leave it be. Don't smother her when you havent even started dating yet. DONT GET RID OF ALL YOUR CONVERSATIONS EITHER.. :3 sorry for all caps, but inb4awkwardfirstdate.[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the help, Still no response lol, I see this girl everyday at school, and we're always together. But i think it will be awkward on Monday when i see her agian ..? Since the date is this weekend .. and i guess she stalled. What should I say?
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977270803]Thanks for the help, Still no response lol, I see this girl everyday at school, and we're always together. But i think it will be awkward on Monday when i see her agian ..? Since the date is this weekend .. and i guess she stalled. What should I say?[/QUOTE]
You're 22 big boy. Hold your ground. Ain't nothin' gonna happen.
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;977283303]You're 22 big boy. Hold your ground. Ain't nothin' gonna happen.[/QUOTE]
I'm only 16, sorry. What should I text her (good text openers). Or wait till Monday when I see her.
This is my first time actually trying to get a girlfriend. I've had so many times where girls were interested but I was to freaking stupid to notice till they were gone
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977292893]I'm only 16, sorry. What should I text her (good text openers). Or wait till Monday when I see her.
This is my first time actually trying to get a girlfriend. I've had so many times where girls were interested but I was to freaking stupid to notice till they were gone[/QUOTE]
i know that feeling bro.
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I used to be talking with this girl from my school in the summer for a couple weeks to a month, she went on vacation till the end of the summer and basically we hadn't really talked since. Around the beginning of her vacation we would still talk via facebook and then I just kinda stopped talking to her, which I think was a mistake. I can't bring myself to talk to her, I get way to nervous and obviously I can't start texting her randomly out of the blue. I only get nervous/shy around her which is weird, I am fine around any other girl but with her I just turn stupid lol.
Anyone got an idea of what I should do to start talking to her again? Probably just have to man up and just start off with "hello" or something I would assume...
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[QUOTE=tehblasian;977301253]I used to be talking with this girl from my school in the summer for a couple weeks to a month, she went on vacation till the end of the summer and basically we hadn't really talked since. Around the beginning of her vacation we would still talk via facebook and then I just kinda stopped talking to her, which I think was a mistake. I can't bring myself to talk to her, I get way to nervous and obviously I can't start texting her randomly out of the blue. I only get nervous/shy around her which is weird, I am fine around any other girl but with her I just turn stupid lol.
Anyone got an idea of what I should do to start talking to her again? Probably just have to man up and just start off with "hello" or something I would assume...[/QUOTE]
Do you know how much a polar bear weighs?
Enough to break the ice...
Hi, i'm tehblasian nomsayin?
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977292893]I'm only 16, sorry. What should I text her (good text openers). Or wait till Monday when I see her.
This is my first time actually trying to get a girlfriend. I've had so many times where girls were interested but I was to freaking stupid to notice till they were gone[/QUOTE]
Oh well that changes everything.
You're pretty damn young so i'd have to be careful about what i say to you. In my honest opinion, just do what your heart tells you. Trust me. The more you question whether is this right, or if this is right, the more you will confuse yourself. So whenever you are faced with a decision, do what your heart tells you. If it's to text her, go for it. If it says to wait till Monday, do that. It's on you man. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise because what your heart tells you is never ever wrong. Believe that. And in the end, you will be happy with your decision even if things went wrong, because it's exactly what you wanted.
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[QUOTE=speX94;977307103]Do you know how much a polar bear ways?
Enough to break the ice...
Hi, i'm tehblasian nomsayin?[/QUOTE]
hahaha that will always be one of the funniest lines ever. I wonder how she'd react if I actually said that to her, I think I might try it and see what happens cause that's funny as fauk. IF I actually say that which I doubt I will I'll be sure to post what happens after I say that :P
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[QUOTE=tehblasian;977311603]hahaha that will always be one of the funniest lines ever. I wonder how she'd react if I actually said that to her, I think I might try it and see what happens cause that's funny as fauk. IF I actually say that which I doubt I will I'll be sure to post what happens after I say that :P[/QUOTE]
keep us posted :3
during your teen years.... you gotta try everything from cheesy pickup lines to just flat out saying you're cute my name is blah blah blah. :3
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;977310983]Oh well that changes everything.
You're pretty damn young so i'd have to be careful about what i say to you. In my honest opinion, just do what your heart tells you. Trust me. The more you question whether is this right, or if this is right, the more you will confuse yourself. So whenever you are faced with a decision, do what your heart tells you. If it's to text her, go for it. If it says to wait till Monday, do that. It's on you man. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise because what your heart tells you is never ever wrong. Believe that. And in the end, you will be happy with your decision even if things went wrong, because it's exactly what you wanted.[/QUOTE]
Yeah I "confuse" myself and fuk up a lot. Thanks a lot man, straight forward answer that was right in front of me, I kept asking and asking. But I guess now ill just do whatever I feel is right.. Which is wait till Monday or till she texts me since I'm **** with texting.
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by the way. everything i say cannot be validated because i've been single forever. Never partied. i was a good boi :3
inb4foreveralone :(
apparently though I might have a date with fit4aprincess next year :3
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[QUOTE=speX94;977378223]by the way. everything i say cannot be validated because i've been single forever. Never partied. i was a good boi :3
inb4foreveralone :(
apparently though I might have a date with fit4aprincess next year :3[/QUOTE]
Go to party>Get reasonably drunk>flirt with girls>???>Profit
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[QUOTE=OneMA2011;977401143]Go to party>Get reasonably drunk>flirt with girls>???>Profit[/QUOTE]
Zero Tolerance rule in the US Navy :3
I'd like to serve with Honor, Courage and Commitment my friend :3
I'd rather find a girl that i can spend time with.. not just be phuck buddies with or something.
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[QUOTE=tehblasian;977301253]I used to be talking with this girl from my school in the summer for a couple weeks to a month, she went on vacation till the end of the summer and basically we hadn't really talked since. Around the beginning of her vacation we would still talk via facebook and then I just kinda stopped talking to her, which I think was a mistake. I can't bring myself to talk to her, I get way to nervous and obviously I can't start texting her randomly out of the blue. I only get nervous/shy around her which is weird, I am fine around any other girl but with her I just turn stupid lol.
Anyone got an idea of what I should do to start talking to her again? Probably just have to man up and just start off with "hello" or something I would assume...[/QUOTE]
You can just start randomly texting her out of anywhere. Just be casual about it and chat about what you two have been up to. Could always give her a call or Skype sometime after that too.
[QUOTE=speX94;977307103]Do you know how much a polar bear ways?
Enough to break the ice...
Hi, i'm tehblasian nomsayin?[/QUOTE]
The best. Or, "How many polar bears does it take to break the ice? None, I just did. Hi I'm blah blah blah."
[QUOTE=speX94;977401733]Zero Tolerance rule in the US Navy :3
I'd like to serve with [U][B]Honor, Courage and Commitment[/B][/U] my friend :3
I'd rather find [B][U]a girl that i can spend time with[/U][/B].. not just be phuck buddies with or something.[/QUOTE]
Rep.
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[QUOTE=BigBoy2011;977366893]Yeah I "confuse" myself and fuk up a lot. Thanks a lot man, straight forward answer that was right in front of me, I kept asking and asking. But I guess now ill just do whatever I feel is right.. Which is wait till Monday or till she texts me since I'm **** with texting.[/QUOTE]
Perfect my man. You can never go wrong. Good luck. Here if you need to talk.
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[QUOTE=Rakkael;977414283]You can just start randomly texting her out of anywhere. Just be casual about it and chat about what you two have been up to. Could always give her a call or Skype sometime after that too.
The best. Or, "How many polar bears does it take to break the ice? None, I just did. Hi I'm blah blah blah." [/QUOTE]
That line gave me a really good laugh :D! But about the texting out of anywhere thing I am still skeptical about, some girls will think it's weird/creepy and some won't. I think I may be better off by talking to her in person
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;977310983]Oh well that changes everything.
You're pretty damn young so i'd have to be careful about what i say to you. In my honest opinion, just do what your heart tells you. Trust me. The more you question whether is this right, or if this is right, the more you will confuse yourself. So whenever you are faced with a decision, do what your heart tells you. If it's to text her, go for it. If it says to wait till Monday, do that. It's on you man. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise because what your heart tells you is never ever wrong. Believe that. And in the end, you will be happy with your decision even if things went wrong, because it's exactly what you wanted.[/QUOTE]
This is really the best advice you can get. Listen to your heart. I recently went through a time with a girl that I thought I really liked, but I realized that she is not a very good girl. I was just wanting a gf for the sake of having one, I admit it. I never really got butterflies around her and I didn't really enjoy the text/fb conversations. The thing that made me move on was when I finally got it in my head that I am a catch for some girl out there. This one embarrassed me and wasted my time (that's another story, a very long one), and did not contact me after then, so I just said "screw that, she doesn't deserve a guy like me". I'm not trying to say that I'm better than other guys, but then again, I am unique (I've been told). There are a lot of things that guys my age haven't figured out and I would say that I'm a well rounded gentleman with class. If she wants to crap on that, I have no time for her. Throughout this time, my heart was telling me that she wasn't good for me, and my mind was telling me to chase her. See where I'm going with this?
[QUOTE=speX94;977401733]Zero Tolerance rule in the US Navy :3
I'd like to serve with Honor, Courage and Commitment my friend :3
[b]I'd rather find a girl that i can spend time with.. not just be phuck buddies with or something.[/b][/QUOTE]
You sir, are a man. Honestly. You have something that not many guys have. Kudos for being a gentleman.
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;977447563]This is really the best advice you can get. Listen to your heart. I recently went through a time with a girl that I thought I really liked, but I realized that she is not a very good girl. I was just wanting a gf for the sake of having one, I admit it. I never really got butterflies around her and I didn't really enjoy the text/fb conversations. The thing that made me move on was when I finally got it in my head that I am a catch for some girl out there. This one embarrassed me and wasted my time (that's another story, a very long one), and did not contact me after then, so I just said "screw that, she doesn't deserve a guy like me". I'm not trying to say that I'm better than other guys, but then again, I am unique (I've been told). There are a lot of things that guys my age haven't figured out and I would say that I'm a well rounded gentleman with class. If she wants to crap on that, I have no time for her. Throughout this time, my heart was telling me that she wasn't good for me, and my mind was telling me to chase her. See where I'm going with this?[/QUOTE]
This is why you my man.
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;977447563]This is really the best advice you can get. Listen to your heart. I recently went through a time with a girl that I thought I really liked, but I realized that she is not a very good girl. I was just wanting a gf for the sake of having one, I admit it. I never really got butterflies around her and I didn't really enjoy the text/fb conversations. The thing that made me move on was when I finally got it in my head that I am a catch for some girl out there. This one embarrassed me and wasted my time (that's another story, a very long one), and did not contact me after then, so I just said "screw that, she doesn't deserve a guy like me". I'm not trying to say that I'm better than other guys, but then again, I am unique (I've been told). There are a lot of things that guys my age haven't figured out and I would say that I'm a well rounded gentleman with class. If she wants to crap on that, I have no time for her. Throughout this time, my heart was telling me that she wasn't good for me, and my mind was telling me to chase her. See where I'm going with this?
You sir, are a man. Honestly. You have something that not many guys have. Kudos for being a gentleman.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;977452943]This is why you my man.[/QUOTE]
Thanks man. I appreciate all of your help. R4L
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Lol
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[QUOTE=bogui94;977462243][img]http://i.imgur.com/cQgkG.gif[/img][/QUOTE]
Dem snuggles..
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[QUOTE=Rakkael;977414283]You can just start randomly texting her out of anywhere. Just be casual about it and chat about what you two have been up to. Could always give her a call or Skype sometime after that too.[/QUOTE]
Did this a little while after thinking about it some more. I think it went well, we basically talked about what we were up to at the time and school shiz. we are gunna talk again tomorrow. The only thing bothering me is that I'm not sure if she's just trying to be nice be replying to my texts, if she actually doesn't want me talking to her, if she just wants a friend, etc... The list goes on about the things that could go wrong with me talking to her again. I guess only time will tell am i right?
I should probably focus on the positives and keep in mind that she did text me back and we did text back and forth. Just wondering, but how long should i wait before asking her to go do something? Obviously I'll talk to her at school and stuff now, but I'm just not sure how long I should wait before asking because I don't want it to be rushed.
