[QUOTE=RollTideNation;1156143063]Bugler, very good advice above! You're a stud. [/QUOTE]
Cheers brah <3
[QUOTE=SDtrucker;1156371663]Thats my boy RTN.[/QUOTE]
We have the same stats. 6'1 180lbs crew checking in
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;1156143063]Bugler, very good advice above! You're a stud. [/QUOTE]
Cheers brah <3
[QUOTE=SDtrucker;1156371663]Thats my boy RTN.[/QUOTE]
We have the same stats. 6'1 180lbs crew checking in
lel
^ GTFO
Anyway, how would you go about trying to fit into a group of girls. I go to a pretty ghetto school so the selection of girls my type are very slim. All the hot non ghetto white girls in the school are basically in a big group. I know not one of them nor are in any of their classes. The few guys they hang out with are swag ****s so I can't get into the group by hanging out with them beacuse I cant stand any of them. How would you guys go about getting to know some of these girls and starting intimite conversations with them?
[QUOTE=SlayNPray;1157270493]^ GTFO
Anyway, how would you go about trying to fit into a group of girls. I go to a pretty ghetto school so the selection of girls my type are very slim. All the hot non ghetto white girls in the school are basically in a big group. I know not one of them nor are in any of their classes. The few guys they hang out with are swag ****s so I can't get into the group by hanging out with them beacuse I cant stand any of them. How would you guys go about getting to know some of these girls and starting intimite conversations with them?[/QUOTE]
Start flexing.
[QUOTE=BlackSwoldier;1157278463]Start flexing.[/QUOTE]
Do I need to flex my glutes as well? That's gonna be awkward
[QUOTE=SlayNPray;1157284033]Do I need to flex my glutes as well? That's gonna be awkward[/QUOTE]
LOL
Man, I know it's high school and it's a different ball game, but you just gotta start talking to them. Find events they go to, show up, sit next to them, and find reasons to strike up conversations.
Just wanna try this for once. So theres this girl in my class. She is beautiful. Shes a good girl. Shes not a sloot or like any other girls I've went for in the past. I feel really weird around her. Like instead of smash and pass, I want to take it real slow and enjoy the ride. I havent had any girls for a while because I was kicked out of school for like a year. Shes a grade lower then mine. I try talk to her when I can. I can keep the convo long but eventually it turns to awkward silence. I dont know if she likes me too. I have her number.(i got it because of a project we did) How can i talk to her and make her more attracted to me. And btw Im the strongest guy in class if that makes any difference.
Cliffs
-Op likes good girl
-not no sloot
-cant keep convo going for to long
-hadnt had girl in a while
-Op is hugest guy in class
-How can I talk to her more without it being awkward
[QUOTE=ohhYeah;1158326373]Just wanna try this for once. So theres this girl in my class. She is beautiful. Shes a good girl. Shes not a sloot or like any other girls I've went for in the past. I feel really weird around her. Like instead of smash and pass, I want to take it real slow and enjoy the ride. I havent had any girls for a while because I was kicked out of school for like a year. Shes a grade lower then mine. I try talk to her when I can. I can keep the convo long but eventually it turns to awkward silence. I dont know if she likes me too. I have her number.(i got it because of a project we did) How can i talk to her and make her more attracted to me. And btw Im the strongest guy in class if that makes any difference.
Cliffs
-Op likes good girl
-not no sloot
-cant keep convo going for to long
-hadnt had girl in a while
-Op is hugest guy in class
-How can I talk to her more without it being awkward[/QUOTE]
inb4 ONEITIS
****/10
[QUOTE=ohhYeah;1158326373]Just wanna try this for once. So theres this girl in my class. She is beautiful. Shes a good girl. Shes not a sloot or like any other girls I've went for in the past. I feel really weird around her. Like instead of smash and pass, I want to take it real slow and enjoy the ride. I havent had any girls for a while because I was kicked out of school for like a year. Shes a grade lower then mine. I try talk to her when I can. I can keep the convo long but eventually it turns to awkward silence. I dont know if she likes me too. I have her number.(i got it because of a project we did) How can i talk to her and make her more attracted to me. And btw Im the strongest guy in class if that makes any difference.
Cliffs
-Op likes good girl
-not no sloot
-cant keep convo going for to long
-hadnt had girl in a while
-Op is hugest guy in class
-How can I talk to her more without it being awkward[/QUOTE]
It sounds like you genuinely like being around this girl and you have a good bit of respect for her. To make her more attracted to you (this isn't possible, but it kinda is, if that makes sense?), you need to make her laugh and have self confidence. Being a smooth talker will help a lot as well. Knowing what to say and how to say it is definitely a good trait. If you have self confidence and the girl seems interested, you will usually get the girl no problem. To talk to her more, find reasons to have conversations. Ask questions about school work, go to events she will be at, maybe try to catch her in the parking lot at school. Just look for ANYTHING that gives you an excuse to talk to her. One thing to keep in mind is that situations are only awkward if you make them that way. You can't change how the girl feels but you can help yourself in that way. You will have a lot more fun and avoid being uncomfortable if you stop thinking of things as awkward. Good luck!
[QUOTE=ohhYeah;1158326373]Just wanna try this for once. So theres this girl in my class. She is beautiful. Shes a good girl. Shes not a sloot or like any other girls I've went for in the past. I feel really weird around her. Like instead of smash and pass, I want to take it real slow and enjoy the ride. I havent had any girls for a while because I was kicked out of school for like a year. Shes a grade lower then mine. I try talk to her when I can. I can keep the convo long but eventually it turns to awkward silence. I dont know if she likes me too. I have her number.(i got it because of a project we did) How can i talk to her and make her more attracted to me. And btw Im the strongest guy in class if that makes any difference.
Cliffs
-Op likes good girl
-not no sloot
-cant keep convo going for to long
-hadnt had girl in a while
-Op is hugest guy in class
-How can I talk to her more without it being awkward[/QUOTE]
just ask her out man, worst thing she could say is no.. there will be many more girls that come along just like this one.. believe me
I like this girl who seems to be way out of my league. Sometimes I think she likes me but I'm not sure. I'm in the process of cutting right now, I'm at 24% body fat. My question is should I try to get at her now and if she rejects make her sorry she did when I'm 10-12% bf or should I just wait until I'm 10-12% and get her for sure?
[QUOTE=dougflynn;1159502543]I like this girl who seems to be way out of my league. Sometimes I think she likes me but I'm not sure. I'm in the process of cutting right now, I'm at 24% body fat. My question is should I try to get at her now and if she rejects make her sorry she did when I'm 10-12% bf or should I just wait until I'm 10-12% and get her for sure?[/QUOTE]
Wow.
You try to get with her now. Who cares what your bf% is... Dude, just go after her. If she rejects you, so what.
How to Break up 101.
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Well first and foremost I'm new to the forum. I'm 16 and I will be looking forward to sharing/receiving information from you guys. Now let's get to business, who here has had an increase of woman when you starting lifted? Because I sure have, big motivation. ;)
Been lurking for the past months.
I need a serious help on starting a relationship. I'm now in college, and I ALMOST HAVE ZERO PROBLEMS with approaching girls and befriend them since I was 13. To add up to that, girls enjoy my company and they like my ''I love approaching girls'' attitude. I have a couple of best female friends. I have never been in a love relationship before, and I really need to catch up on the experience at this time of my life.
Here's the catch, I'm bisexual, leaning mostly towards homosexuality. But I'm really sure and I believe I can be ''in love'' with girls, but probably not enough to get my jimmies tingled.
So Tmisc, help me on how to start a love relationship. I have a few candidates, some are friends and some are quite stranger. Which type would be best to start a relationship? How should I start it? How should I approach them? What should I do. I hate the idea of cliche dating like giving gifts and such, but I'm fine with hanging out with girls.
Do note that this would be my first time.
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973427763]Got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.
Trolling and flaming will get you negged.[/QUOTE]
Hey dude I have a question. Why is someone so fat and ugly like you giving out advice for? Also theirs this girl that in to scared to talk to, what should I do. Rep me pls!!
[QUOTE=HeavyMetalLover;1160432123]Been lurking for the past months.
I need a serious help on starting a relationship. I'm now in college, and I ALMOST HAVE ZERO PROBLEMS with approaching girls and befriend them since I was 13. To add up to that, girls enjoy my company and they like my ''I love approaching girls'' attitude. I have a couple of best female friends. I have never been in a love relationship before, and I really need to catch up on the experience at this time of my life.
Here's the catch, I'm bisexual, leaning mostly towards homosexuality. But I'm really sure and I believe I can be ''in love'' with girls, but probably not enough to get my jimmies tingled.
So Tmisc, help me on how to start a love relationship. I have a few candidates, some are friends and some are quite stranger. Which type would be best to start a relationship? How should I start it? How should I approach them? What should I do. I hate the idea of cliche dating like giving gifts and such, but I'm fine with hanging out with girls.
Do note that this would be my first time.[/QUOTE]
first WHY you want to have relationship ?? to fill the void in your life ?? a loving relationship towards girl ( or man, in your case ) should develop naturally . you have bigger issue to deal with in your life.
[QUOTE=dougflynn;1159502543] I think she likes me but I'm not sure. I'm at 24% body fat. [/QUOTE]
i dnt think she likes you..get out of fantasy land and start cardio
so thers this girl she thinks im adorable i like her.. alot but everyone says she flirts with all guys... but we talk alot and spend lots of time together. I know she gets bored and likes to explore.. what should i do i really like her!
[QUOTE=ohhYeah;1158326373]Just wanna try this for once. So theres this girl in my class. She is beautiful. Shes a good girl. Shes not a sloot or like any other girls I've went for in the past. I feel really weird around her. Like instead of smash and pass, I want to take it real slow and enjoy the ride. I havent had any girls for a while because I was kicked out of school for like a year. Shes a grade lower then mine. I try talk to her when I can. I can keep the convo long but eventually it turns to awkward silence. I dont know if she likes me too. I have her number.(i got it because of a project we did) How can i talk to her and make her more attracted to me. And btw Im the strongest guy in class if that makes any difference.
Cliffs
-Op likes good girl
-not no sloot
-cant keep convo going for to long
-hadnt had girl in a while
-Op is hugest guy in class
-How can I talk to her more without it being awkward[/QUOTE]
-Op is hugest guy in class
-Op is hugest guy in class-Op is hugest guy in class-Op is hugest guy in class-Op is hugest guy in class
Stats: 5'6", 140 lbs , uwot?
just go up to her ask her on a date , boom.
-OP likes girl
-OP and girl don't spend much time together due to cliques etc
-despite girl being in "popular" clique she's got a good personality etc, we get on just don't spend much time together for whatever reason
-OP and girl have same history class, both get extra time in exams so both end up leaving exams at the same time
-OP and girl had exam today, OP walks out of exam area w/ girl, we both exchange that "that was painful" look once we've finished
-Talk about exam
-She realises she f'd up
-OP tries to convince her it's ok
-She doesn't seem too upset but more of an "Oh..." kind of thing
-we're no longer walking and she's kind of looking like she wants to go in the other direction for whatever reason
-OP puts hand on her shoulder and assures she'll be ok as we say goodbye
-as odd as this sounds I've never had physical contact with her
-we've done a similar thing a couple of times before and ended up walking/talking about exam **** for a while she wasn't pushing me away or anything,
What do brahs? Oneitis
[QUOTE=rpg7;1161284703]so thers this girl she thinks im adorable i like her.. alot but everyone says she flirts with all guys... but we talk alot and spend lots of time together. I know she gets bored and likes to explore.. what should i do i really like her![/QUOTE]
You should try to get to know her better. Talk to her, get her number, flirt with her. But don't let yourself develop deep feelings for her. The way I like to look at it is to just "mess" with her. If a relationship develops, awesome. But if it doesn't, nobody gets hurt. Just have fun with it.
Ask yourself if you would want to be in a relationship with a girl who flirts with all the guys. Just know that it's likely that she would do that if you two were a couple.
[QUOTE=PatrickWayne96;1162037573]-OP likes girl
-OP and girl don't spend much time together due to cliques etc
-despite girl being in "popular" clique she's got a good personality etc, we get on just don't spend much time together for whatever reason
-OP and girl have same history class, both get extra time in exams so both end up leaving exams at the same time
-OP and girl had exam today, OP walks out of exam area w/ girl, we both exchange that "that was painful" look once we've finished
-Talk about exam
-She realises she f'd up
-OP tries to convince her it's ok
-She doesn't seem too upset but more of an "Oh..." kind of thing
-we're no longer walking and she's kind of looking like she wants to go in the other direction for whatever reason
-OP puts hand on her shoulder and assures she'll be ok as we say goodbye
-as odd as this sounds I've never had physical contact with her
-we've done a similar thing a couple of times before and ended up walking/talking about exam **** for a while she wasn't pushing me away or anything,
What do brahs? Oneitis[/QUOTE]
Start talking to more girls. The easiest way to avoid/cure oneitis is to be around a lot of girls. Being in that situation isn't a bad thing, but it can cause you pain. How did things go after you said goodbye? If you like her, try to talk to her more and spend time with her.
[QUOTE=Gymrat2000;973553813]Strong thread.
Lets start it off with the first qn:
How do you talk to a girl?[/QUOTE]
One opens his mouth and lets words come out.
[QUOTE=Morgaine456;1164225763]One opens his mouth and lets words come out.[/QUOTE]
I opened my mouth but only saliva came out.
pls help tmisc.
[QUOTE=PatrickWayne96;1162037573]-OP likes girl
-OP and girl don't spend much time together due to cliques etc
-despite girl being in "popular" clique she's got a good personality etc, we get on just don't spend much time together for whatever reason
-OP and girl have same history class, both get extra time in exams so both end up leaving exams at the same time
-OP and girl had exam today, OP walks out of exam area w/ girl, we both exchange that "that was painful" look once we've finished
-Talk about exam
-She realises she f'd up
-OP tries to convince her it's ok
-She doesn't seem too upset but more of an "Oh..." kind of thing
-we're no longer walking and she's kind of looking like she wants to go in the other direction for whatever reason
-OP puts hand on her shoulder and assures she'll be ok as we say goodbye
-as odd as this sounds I've never had physical contact with her
-we've done a similar thing a couple of times before and ended up walking/talking about exam **** for a while she wasn't pushing me away or anything,
What do brahs? Oneitis[/QUOTE]Well i am too much of a coward to talk to the girl i like but this is what i should do and so do you.
First thing is stop talking about exams all the time change the subject to anything, ask her what she does to relax after the exam, make any random stupid joke about the exam or anything, make a funny remark about like a character in your history book and about how silly it is that u have to know that character or sth, just make her laugh. Or you can talk about weather, ask her how are her other classes are going and chit. Try to talk to her about her girls like talking about theirself lel, ask her some ques about her and chit just don't get too personal with the ques.
And yes can't be arsed with writing correctly now, come at me grammar nazi brahs.
P.S:I am in tougher situation so i feel ya brah, my girl is in German class and can't break the ice since she is always with 2 friends also she talked to me once and i didn't notice so........awkward situation is awkward
[QUOTE=Morgaine456;1164225763]One opens his mouth and lets words come out.[/QUOTE]One opens his mouth and proceeds to yawn, words don't come out by themself
[QUOTE=superman0007;1160838863]first WHY you want to have relationship ?? to fill the void in your life ?? a loving relationship towards girl ( or man, in your case ) should develop naturally . you have bigger issue to deal with in your life.[/QUOTE]
This is one of my bigger issue. I can't tell much because it goes deeper than that, but that's how it is. As far as I'm concerned, I don't have any other more concerning issue. I like some girls, but I don't know how to approach them in a relationship kind of way.
Repost
Been lurking for the past months.
I need a serious help on starting a relationship. I'm now in college, and I ALMOST HAVE ZERO PROBLEMS with approaching girls and befriend them since I was 13. To add up to that, girls enjoy my company and they like my ''I love approaching girls'' attitude. I have a couple of best female friends. I have never been in a love relationship before, and I really need to catch up on the experience at this time of my life.
Here's the catch, I'm bisexual, leaning mostly towards homosexuality. But I'm really sure and I believe I can be ''in love'' with girls, but probably not enough to get my jimmies tingled.
So Tmisc, help me on how to start a love relationship. I have a few candidates, some are friends and some are quite stranger. Which type would be best to start a relationship? How should I start it? How should I approach them? What should I do. I hate the idea of cliche dating like giving gifts and such, but I'm fine with hanging out with girls.
Do note that this would be my first time.
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;1163848873]Start talking to more girls. The easiest way to avoid/cure oneitis is to be around a lot of girls. Being in that situation isn't a bad thing, but it can cause you pain. How did things go after you said goodbye? If you like her, try to talk to her more and spend time with her.[/QUOTE]
It's not so much of a "get out of my head why do I even like you" thing, I genuinely do like her. Fine I guess, she seemed hung up over the exam, not massively but kind of an "ah dammit" thing but with girls it's often A LOT more than what's on the surface, and went about hers. We've exchanged comments etc since but not spent a great deal of time together.
Thanks for the advice man.
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973427763]Got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.
Trolling and flaming will get you negged.[/QUOTE]
At the end of the day were all gonna make it, gangas gonna gang, don't get down about girls brahs! strong thread
God, I'm so beta I ask bb.com for help ahwell.
-OP likes a girl.
-OP friends with her.
-Huge ****ing crush on her.
-She has a boyfriend.
-Since I'm a beta, even tho I lift( ****ty stats but people in sweden are skinny *******s that dont lift, atleast my age. (15) ) I dont want to ask her out, cause of major fear of rejection.
-Sometimes depressed over her.
-Have a huge dillema, whether keep being friends with her and friends only and feel ****ty about it, or just stop hanging with her and lose contact cus, not-friends for me is better than friendzone, to much pride and ****.
[QUOTE=TheGreatRussian;1167234953]God, I'm so beta I ask bb.com for help ahwell.
-OP likes a girl.
-OP friends with her.
-Huge ****ing crush on her.
-She has a boyfriend.
-Since I'm a beta, even tho I lift( ****ty stats but people in sweden are skinny *******s that dont lift, atleast my age. (15) ) I dont want to ask her out, cause of major fear of rejection.
-Sometimes depressed over her.
-Have a huge dillema, whether keep being friends with her and friends only and feel ****ty about it, or just stop hanging with her and lose contact cus, not-friends for me is better than friendzone, to much pride and ****.[/QUOTE]
tell her straight up bro