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All girls love a guy who works hard, and is a true gentleman. Seriously. Forget trying to "show off" for a girl because honestly, girls don't like that. Just be considerate. I mean, don't be a kiss up or be creepy about it, but be a gentleman. That's how you get a relationship. Hold doors open, compliment her, don't look her up and down.. look at her face. Just be a GENTLEMAN! Seriously! That's my advice :)
[QUOTE=laneowens;1095793063]All girls love a guy who works hard, and is a true gentleman. Seriously. Forget trying to "show off" for a girl because honestly, girls don't like that. Just be considerate. I mean, don't be a kiss up or be creepy about it, but be a gentleman. That's how you get a relationship. Hold doors open, compliment her, don't look her up and down.. look at her face. Just be a GENTLEMAN! Seriously! That's my advice :)[/QUOTE]
Tried that, she picked the ******* who just wants her body and always stares at her chest.
But thanks it's a great advice tho if she is a nice girl.
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1095778203]Want to help you, but that enormous wall of text all badly punctuated is making it hard.
Spelling is chit. Try and write in full sentences, start new sentences with a capital letter, don't use 'u' instead of 'you'. Even if you're not good at spelling or English browsers have a built-in spell check. Sort yourself out bro.[/QUOTE]Firstly my spelling is all right.
secondly it's **** not chit, also about punctuation and writing properly, i can't be arsed writing all that that way as long as people can read it.
P.S: My home language is not English so i don't really give a flying ****? sorry to disappoint you.
[QUOTE=wedo3;1095824063]Tried that, she picked the ******* who just wants her body and always stares at her chest.
But thanks it's a great advice tho if she is a nice girl.[/QUOTE]
Well then she wasn't the right girl for you. I look at it this way, if it doesn't work out, then it's not meant to happen. Girls are awful. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and even I can still be a bitc* sometimes. You just gotta find the right girl who likes you for you. You don't wanna be with anyone that you can't be yourself around anyways. Your time will come! Just be patient :)
[QUOTE=laneowens;1095839583]Well then she wasn't the right girl for you. I look at it this way, if it doesn't work out, then it's not meant to happen. Girls are awful. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and even I can still be a bitc* sometimes. You just gotta find the right girl who likes you for you. You don't wanna be with anyone that you can't be yourself around anyways. Your time will come! Just be patient :)[/QUOTE]
yea i guess and haha admitting that takes lots of guts xD, you are probably right even tho i am not sure a girl would like me for me but thanks, i will.
[quote=wedo3;1095845513]yea i guess and haha admitting that takes lots of guts xd, you are probably right even tho i am not sure a girl would like me for me but thanks, i will.[/quote]
be confident in yourself! :)
[QUOTE=laneowens;1095880463]be confident in yourself! :)[/QUOTE]Trying to, ty :)
I've known this girl for a while but not very well. We've been talking more recently and I told her I like her yesterday. Her response was that she was happy I had told her and that "it was nice". She never said anything about how she feels. Is this a bad thing or could she just be keeping it to herself?
Thanks.
[QUOTE=livingforlean;1095923713]I've known this girl for a while but not very well. We've been talking more recently and I told her I like her yesterday. Her response was that she was happy I had told her and that "it was nice". She never said anything about how she feels. Is this a bad thing or could she just be keeping it to herself?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]
Ehhh, to be honest usually that means that they just like you as a friend :( or maybe there is a small chance that she is to shy to tell you. Hopefully it's the second one! Just ask her if she likes you back! If she does, then go for it. If not, just be extra nice to her! She'll realize you're a gentleman :) good luck!!!
[QUOTE=warren012;1095515883]It is easier said then done, but don't be so shy! Do whatever you can to keep a conversation going. It sounds like these girls really like you so they will be willing to talk about pretty much anything. For the girls that play basketball, talk to them about basketball! The more you talk to girls the more confident you will get and then it will all come natural. Good Luck[/QUOTE]
I am trying i just lack confidence and topics to talk about.
[QUOTE=livingforlean;1095923713]I've known this girl for a while but not very well. We've been talking more recently and I told her I like her yesterday. Her response was that she was happy I had told her and that "it was nice". She never said anything about how she feels. Is this a bad thing or could she just be keeping it to herself?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]
You just got friendzoned son. Move on and never look back. She doesn't know what she has in front of her so don't wait around. Find the woman that does.
PS. If anyone here wants personal women advice, I'd be more than happy to help. I've been through nearly EVERYTHING, have read hundreds of books about dating, people, relationships, etc.
:) feel free to message
[QUOTE=livingforlean;1095923713]I've known this girl for a while but not very well. We've been talking more recently and I told her I like her yesterday. Her response was that she was happy I had told her and that "it was nice". She never said anything about how she feels. Is this a bad thing or could she just be keeping it to herself?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]
Should have asked her how she felt about you, when i was with that girl before i asked her how she feels about me before telling her i like her so she ended up saying it first xD
Thanks guys. Away on holiday now so it should be easy to move on if that's what I need to do!
[QUOTE=DatsunKing1;1095963083]You just got friendzoned son. Move on and never look back. She doesn't know what she has in front of her so don't wait around. Find the woman that does. [/QUOTE]
I agree with this guy. She was just being polite and taking the complement, but she doesn't seem interested.
Don't shut the door on yourself, but move on :)
I'd really appreciate it if someone would talk to me or perhaps help me about my current relationship since it's not really getting anywhere. I feel like our relationship will not last long from now and I'd love it if I could have someone to talk to about it. Any brahs good with giving relationship advices?
PM/Message me if you wouldn't mind hearing me out, cheers T-Misc.
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[QUOTE=Azteytik;1097187963]I'd really appreciate it if someone would talk to me or perhaps help me about my current relationship since it's not really getting anywhere. I feel like our relationship will not last long from now and I'd love it if I could have someone to talk to about it. Any brahs good with giving relationship advices?
PM/Message me if you wouldn't mind hearing me out, cheers T-Misc.[/QUOTE]
you're 5'7" 132 lbs. take this from someone who started at exactly that.. ditch the girlfriend if its not working out and focus 100% of your energy on getting bigger.
[QUOTE=spek578;1097195023]you're 5'7" 132 lbs. take this from someone who started at exactly that.. ditch the girlfriend if its not working out and focus 100% of your energy on getting bigger.[/QUOTE]
I often think about doing this, but only when I'm mad. Or I could just fix relationship, work things out and still have a gf while progressing to be big and shredded.
[QUOTE=Azteytik;1097262823]I often think about doing this, but only when I'm mad. Or I could just fix relationship, work things out and still have a gf while progressing to be big and shredded.[/QUOTE]
you could, but a gf is a huge distraction. just my $.02.
and thats including you saying that you feel its going nowhere.. so whats the point?
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Hey, totally new to these forums but I have a situation that could probably be helped on here: Dating this amazing girl, about 2 months now and she used to be the one who initiated conversation, she told me that she loved me first(before I told her that), etc.. She doesn't seem to be losing interest now so much as just wanting a little bit of space, we talk less frequently and just see less of each other in general nowadays than in the first month or so. I really don't want to mess this up by being all clingy and annoying! Should I just let her take this breather or whatever it is and wait for her to either be back to 100% or dump me? I don't want to seem to her like I don't care about our relationship either, she is literally the first girl I've ever felt comfortable with on dates and all that. Ideas would be great!
Thanks
[QUOTE=runnerbobo;1097383013]Hey, totally new to these forums but I have a situation that could probably be helped on here: Dating this amazing girl, about 2 months now and she used to be the one who initiated conversation, she told me that she loved me first(before I told her that), etc.. She doesn't seem to be losing interest now so much as just wanting a little bit of space, we talk less frequently and just see less of each other in general nowadays than in the first month or so. I really don't want to mess this up by being all clingy and annoying! Should I just let her take this breather or whatever it is and wait for her to either be back to 100% or dump me? I don't want to seem to her like I don't care about our relationship either, she is literally the first girl I've ever felt comfortable with on dates and all that. Ideas would be great!
Thanks[/QUOTE]
It's very normal to take a half step back after the initial intensity of a new relationship. You should let her do that, but you shouldn't let it fizzle out.
Try and initiate a few good conversations with her, see if she comes back around to the idea of talking to you more again. Me and my girlfriend play a game where you ask each other questions and you have to answer honestly. Leads to some really deep interesting conversations in my experience. Maybe try that.
Or you could try surprising her with something, freshen things up. Turn up at her house with flowers or some chit. Show her you care.
I don't usually post but I kinda like this chick in my gym and don't wanna f*** things up. She is an older girl, probably around 28yo.
So backstory: I've been working out at a new gym (for like 3-4 weeks) saw her a couple of times and she caught me checking her out. Few days go by etc Iive seen her again and we exchanged couple of looks.
So anyway i was working out the other day and she approached me and started talking, she told me that I look like someone she saw in a nearby city's gym (basically an opener) I wasn't paying alot of attention honestly didn't really expect her to come over and talk to me. I was getting my heavy shoulder presses in lol and was out of breath.
So chit chat and small talk, and she introduced herself then I did. And then basically we said "have a good workout".
So next time I see her, Im obviosuly going to say hi, but in all honesty I have no clue on what to do after.
Should I find out if she is single, maybe ask her out? Or is that too soon too fast? I don't want to say or do anything stupid that will mess up my chances. Usually I never really talked to chicks in the gym, for me its a weird atmosphere for some reason.
I also am kinda ****ty at making small talk, and usually not really good as things to say "on the fly" so to speak.
REPS for help/answers fellow miscers
thanks!
[QUOTE=vDa;1097436933]I don't usually post but I kinda like this chick in my gym and don't wanna f*** things up. She is an older girl, probably around 27-28.
So backstory: I've been working out at a new gym (for like 3-4 weeks) saw her a couple of times and she caught me checking her out. Few days go by etc Iive seen her again and we exchanged couple of looks.
So anyway i was working out the other day and she approached me and started talking, she told me that I look like someone she saw in a nearby city's gym (basically an opener) I wasn't paying alot of attention honestly didn't really expect her to come over and talk to me. I was getting my heavy shoulder presses in lol and was out of breath.
So chit chat and small talk, and she introduced herself then I did. And then basically we said "have a good workout".
So next time I see her, Im obviosuly going to say hi, but in all honesty I have no clue on what to do after.
Should I find out if she is single, maybe ask her out? Or is that too soon too fast? I don't want to say or do anything stupid that will mess up my chances. Usually I never really talked to chicks in the gym, for me its a weird atmosphere for some reason.
I also am kinda ****ty at making small talk, and usually not really good as things to say "on the fly" so to speak.
REPS for help/answers fellow miscers
thanks![/QUOTE]
Do not ask her on a date, don't say those words.
First talk to her, say hey hows it going.
Then when she says hi.
Be like "hey i was wondering if u wanted to maybe hang out some time, could i get your number."
When she gives u your number try to close out, and say alright all text you later on. End it there, and say have a good workout
Since u are bad at small chat chit talking try to get the number and get out
From there u can text her. Texting is good for beginners, because it gives you time alot of time to think about the response and u don't have to be quick with the responses.
Ask for the number and come back on here or pm me and we can go from there
good luck
[QUOTE=vDa;1097436933]I don't usually post but I kinda like this chick in my gym and don't wanna f*** things up. She is an older girl, probably around 28yo.
So backstory: I've been working out at a new gym (for like 3-4 weeks) saw her a couple of times and she caught me checking her out. Few days go by etc Iive seen her again and we exchanged couple of looks.
So anyway i was working out the other day and she approached me and started talking, she told me that I look like someone she saw in a nearby city's gym (basically an opener) I wasn't paying alot of attention honestly didn't really expect her to come over and talk to me. I was getting my heavy shoulder presses in lol and was out of breath.
So chit chat and small talk, and she introduced herself then I did. And then basically we said "have a good workout".
So next time I see her, Im obviosuly going to say hi, but in all honesty I have no clue on what to do after.
Should I find out if she is single, maybe ask her out? Or is that too soon too fast? I don't want to say or do anything stupid that will mess up my chances. Usually I never really talked to chicks in the gym, for me its a weird atmosphere for some reason.
I also am kinda ****ty at making small talk, and usually not really good as things to say "on the fly" so to speak.
REPS for help/answers fellow miscers
thanks![/QUOTE]
Whitekoala's comment above is good. I'd go with that.
I'd agree, gym is a bit of an awkward environment to hit on girls. Try and think of a few reasonable pieces of small talk you could use in case you end up not being able to get out straight away. Just talk about how nice/lame the weather is or some chit. Ask if she's training for anything in particular like a triathlon or a 10k or something. Just something to kill time until you can wriggle your way out. Once you have a number it's easier :)
[QUOTE=Whitekoala;1097438553]Do not ask her on a date, don't say those words.
First talk to her, say hey hows it going.
Then when she says hi.
Be like "hey i was wondering if u wanted to maybe hang out some time, could i get your number."
When she gives u your number try to close out, and say alright all text you later on. End it there, and say have a good workout
Since u are bad at small chat chit talking try to get the number and get out
From there u can text her. Texting is good for beginners, because it gives you time alot of time to think about the response and u don't have to be quick with the responses.
Ask for the number and come back on here or pm me and we can go from there
good luck[/QUOTE]
PM'd thanks man
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1097447923]Whitekoala's comment above is good. I'd go with that.
I'd agree, gym is a bit of an awkward environment to hit on girls. Try and think of a few reasonable pieces of small talk you could use in case you end up not being able to get out straight away. Just talk about how nice/lame the weather is or some chit. Ask if she's training for anything in particular like a triathlon or a 10k or something. Just something to kill time until you can wriggle your way out. Once you have a number it's easier :)[/QUOTE]
Thats what I was thinking, start talking about gym/working out since we're there might as well right? her training/etc maybe make a compliment "you look great" or say something flirty like "your bf is probably jealous since your working out in the gym with all the guys hitting on you" or bad idea?lol Feel her out first to see if she is into me, pretty sure she is, jsut dont want to jump straight in getting her number. I am not the greatest at small talk but im sure I can come up with something related to working out lol.
But I guess asking her to hang out/number is direct and on point, if she is into me she'll give the number if not then too bad for me haha
So much easier when you're in a club/bar buzzed feeling good lmao
[QUOTE=vDa;1097451813]PM'd thanks man
Thats what I was thinking, start talking about gym/working out since we're there might as well right? her training/etc maybe make a compliment "you look great" or say something flirty like "your bf is probably jealous since your working out in the gym with all the guys hitting on you" or bad idea?lol Feel her out first to see if she is into me, pretty sure she is, jsut dont want to jump straight in getting her number. I am not the greatest at small talk but im sure I can come up with something related to working out lol.
But I guess asking her to hang out/number is direct and on point, if she is into me she'll give the number if not then too bad for me haha
So much easier when you're in a club/bar buzzed feeling good lmao[/QUOTE]
Man you are like me, you think too much that's bad, really bad.
Just say he first thing that pops into your mind don't think much talk to her about the gym and how long has she been going, Let's say her reply is "7 month" tell her wow you look great it's really showing, she will usually say thanks and compliment back and **** talk to her for a bit then tell her "hey so u wanna hangout or something sometime? and ask her for her number
Also u can talk about workout, routine, what does she do outside the gym, hobbies, places she likes to hangout with.
She is the one that started talking to u so she is into u be alpha and go own this **** i know u can!
Haven't had a girlfriend in two years, or a female companion... So, i looked around to see who i could talk to. There's a girl i've pretty much never spoken to, and she's shy as fuark. We have the same classes, so, i spark up convo on the al' facebook, you know, asking what the homework was, when i already knew... So, it went from there, we spoke til' stupid hours, she'd pop up, i'd pop up, and then one day her FB went. Thought she did it to ditch me, so i didn't speak to her for about three months. She's so shy it's unreal, so i couldn't really approach in person, i didn't want to scare her away... So, we had a school trip to Switzerland and i tried to make convo. It went from there, and after three days, we were inseparable... Tells me of her last boyfriend, says he's creepy, that she'd never start a convo with someone she doesn't like, because of not wanting to talk and leading on... Ended up with her in her bed, and nothing happened. Get home, and all goes back to normal... I buy a phone, i didn't have one and she's always told me to get one to text... Get her number, speak to her, she's so slow to reply with minimal effort... She says hey first sometimes, so yeah, if what she said on holiday is true, she likes talking... Finished school, probably wont see her again... Feels bad...
>No female companions
>Talk to shy girl
>Get really into talking with her over months
>Blocks FB
>Speak to months later - get number
>Finished school, wont see again unless i go out with her
>wut do?
[QUOTE=JNicko;1097458163]Haven't had a girlfriend in two years, or a female companion... So, i looked around to see who i could talk to. There's a girl i've pretty much never spoken to, and she's shy as fuark. We have the same classes, so, i spark up convo on the al' facebook, you know, asking what the homework was, when i already knew... So, it went from there, we spoke til' stupid hours, she'd pop up, i'd pop up, and then one day her FB went. Thought she did it to ditch me, so i didn't speak to her for about three months. She's so shy it's unreal, so i couldn't really approach in person, i didn't want to scare her away... So, we had a school trip to Switzerland and i tried to make convo. It went from there, and after three days, we were inseparable... Tells me of her last boyfriend, says he's creepy, that she'd never start a convo with someone she doesn't like, because of not wanting to talk and leading on... Ended up with her in her bed, and nothing happened. Get home, and all goes back to normal... I buy a phone, i didn't have one and she's always told me to get one to text... Get her number, speak to her, she's so slow to reply with minimal effort... She says hey first sometimes, so yeah, if what she said on holiday is true, she likes talking... Finished school, probably wont see her again... Feels bad...
>No female companions
>Talk to shy girl
>Get really into talking with her over months
>Blocks FB
>Speak to months later - get number
>Finished school, wont see again unless i go out with her
>wut do?[/QUOTE]
Call her duh?
If she txts u first then it's cool, about slow txts she could be busy honestly i used to think same as u untill i was quite busy sometime and my crush was txting me and i was taking like lots of time to reply and was like dafaq so it's not what i though, really call her, ask her to hang out and stuff even if she is shy if u talk to her well and be a gentleman and take her slowly she will agree, gl mate.