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i feel like my situation is pretty wierd too but here it goes:
Senior in HS been friends with this girl since the beginning of school. Asks me to prom but already has this nerdy boyfriend in college but rather talk to me...the best physique in school who's going to play college ball next year...people say she might have a hard crush on me from how much attention I get from her and her friends...but im like you have a boyfriend am I really this pleasing where you talk and text me more than your boyfriend? She's not even going to Prom with him and chose me to go...People think we date but are only just so-called "Best Friends" what do you guys think?
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-Girl I met beginning of school
-Going to prom with her
-Her and her friends constantly gives me attention because of god-like physique
-BUT she has this nerdy boyfriend in college
-Me and her are so called "Best Friends"
-Texts constantly
-Everyone thinks she has a hard crush on me and should think we should be together even if she already has a boring ass boyfriend
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How do I make an approach at the gym? Once there is conversation I can keep it going but I just need a non-creep icebreaker
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[QUOTE=JoocyDrake;1217574451]How do I make an approach at the gym? Once there is conversation I can keep it going but I just need a non-creep icebreaker[/QUOTE]
"Hey, I seen you at the gym. Making some real progress, nomsayin? How bout I give you a workout in the bedroom" srs
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[QUOTE=Thomas2K;1202638371]This girl on Facebook doesn't want to talk to me anymore or be friends with me. I have no idea why, the only thing is I called her a bitch last year but we've been talking for a while since then. On New Year's Eve we were flirting/laughing etc on Facebook. I said I was going to talk to her in school but I never did and I said my friend sent the message but he didn't. She said that we Arn't really friends we just talk and it's so pointless and boring/ she said that she tried to tell me ages ago that she didn't want to talk to me anymore when she clearly didn't or I would've got the message by now. I'm really confused.
she did fall out with her best friend but I didn't know this at the time but there friends now and she still hasn't said anything.
Please help?[/QUOTE]
Give her a choice: head or sex. If she chooses neither, cut that hoe off.
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[QUOTE=yungballin14;1217436501]-Girl I met beginning of school
-Going to prom with her
-Her and her friends constantly gives me attention because of god-like physique
-BUT she has this nerdy boyfriend in college
-Me and her are so called "Best Friends"
-Texts constantly
-Everyone thinks she has a hard crush on me and should think we should be together even if she already has a boring ass boyfriend[/QUOTE]
I'm afraid to say that you are well into the friendzone, you will need a miracle
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Girl i met a week ago and i really like her. She'll carry a conversation well and will ask things about me but she never, ever initiates convo. Does this mean she's uninterested and i should just not bother?
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Hooked up with a friend of mine who used to or maybe still has a crush on me 2 weeks ago...
she seems like shes interested when I talk to her but sometimes she isnt...and sends me bikini pics but not nudes at random times and asks me to send her some pics back.
I can't tell if shes interested or not sometimes because she doesnt really initiate the convo, but when I do she seems really enthusiastic and happy to talk
so is she interested or not?
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[QUOTE=Bensomore;1219780111]Hooked up with a friend of mine who used to or maybe still has a crush on me 2 weeks ago...
she seems like shes interested when I talk to her but sometimes she isnt...and sends me bikini pics but not nudes at random times and asks me to send her some pics back.
I can't tell if shes interested or not sometimes because she doesnt really initiate the convo, but when I do she seems really enthusiastic and happy to talk
so is she interested or not?[/QUOTE]
So you hooked up with her and your still not sure if she's interested or not? Unless she's the easiest girl in your area I'd say yeah she's interested.
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[QUOTE=Bensomore;1219780111]Hooked up with a friend of mine who used to or maybe still has a crush on me 2 weeks ago...
she seems like shes interested when I talk to her but sometimes she isnt...and sends me bikini pics but not nudes at random times and asks me to send her some pics back.
I can't tell if shes interested or not sometimes because she doesnt really initiate the convo, but when I do she seems really enthusiastic and happy to talk
so is she interested or not?[/QUOTE]
She's interested for sure dude, problem is, well I believe is that she doesn't want to come across as needy or desperate, besides, it's the male's job to initiate the conversation, but it's your job to get the girl to continue the conversation. I would have said you've been placed in the dreaded friendzone, due to her sending bikini photos and not nudes, but you've mentioned you've hooked up so I'd say your outta that area. My advice would be to not let it get stale, or she'll just move on, if she hasn't already, so yeah initiate conversations, but don't continue them if you catch my drift.
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Reviving this thread.
Srsly pissed. I've been "friends" with this girl for probably 3 years, this year especially. Whenever we'd talk, she'd smile at me, keep eye contact, and laugh whenever I made jokes. I was actually gonna try to start a relationship with her. Well, a few days ago I found out she didn't invite me to her Sweet 16. I'm fine with that, not really but you know what I mean. The worst part is, she invited a fukking creep from my science class who just talks about what shoes all the girls are wearing OUT OF FUKKING PITY. I thought I had something with this girl, but apparently not. What the fuk is wrong with me, TMisc?
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If I only got the tip in, does it count?
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[QUOTE=Achieving;1225667631]Reviving this thread.
Srsly pissed. I've been "friends" with this girl for probably 3 years, this year especially. Whenever we'd talk, she'd smile at me, keep eye contact, and laugh whenever I made jokes. I was actually gonna try to start a relationship with her. Well, a few days ago I found out she didn't invite me to her Sweet 16. I'm fine with that, not really but you know what I mean. The worst part is, she invited a fukking creep from my science class who just talks about what shoes all the girls are wearing OUT OF FUKKING PITY. I thought I had something with this girl, but apparently not. What the fuk is wrong with me, TMisc?[/QUOTE]
If there's one thing i've learned about girls it's that you can't take sh*t they do personally. Girls will dump you, cheat on you, tell you they love you one minute/ignore you the next, and sometimes they'll just do stupid sh*t for no reason at all. I know it hurts, but the best thing you can do is just to move on and let it go.
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So there's a chick the grade below me that I find cute, obviously a relationship would be nice. I have friends in her grade that have classes with her who tell me stuff about her and I often have eye contact with the girl almost every day during our lunch periods. Getting to the point my friends told me she often hangs out with guys in her grade and that's true since I see her hang out with some.
I don't see this as a huge loss if she doesn't like me, but I do get motivation from seeing her to just lift and **** to impress her. Non related facts is that I do come from a wealthy family and most of my family buys me Armani shirts and stuff (doesn't help that i'm persian and armani is like 99% of what we wear) alongside some belts and ****, I don't wanna come off as a rich dude and make her have some sort of gold digging instinct. If that is the case it'll be relatively obvious that she's just hanging out with me for gold digging (if she does hang out and date me at all), then all I can honestly do is bang her and have some sort of friends with benefits relationship.
tl;dr
-guy likes a chick a grade below her
-chick hangs out with guys most of the time
-guy is rich and comes off as some poor man's Justin Bieber
-girl likes JB (probably because he's wealthy and ****)
-guy is kinda shy and comes off as only around a 6-7/10 aesthetically but 8/10 in personality and other shiz
-wat do?
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Current situation.
Everytime with girl d1<k too big. Wind up killing her everytime. Help.
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Didn't think I would post in here, here's my situation I'm in. I'll do cliffs
- IMO hottest girl in school, believe it or not she's not a preppy boosh getting sloppy drunk every weekend or hanging out with all of the popular kids
- she's in my homeroom and both have been caught looking occasionally
_ I contemplated going for it, at the same time I could care less if I had a gf or not
_never talked in our HS lives, we've never had a class together
_both seniors, she's going to Colorado State, I'm either going to Tennessee, Florida, or staying here in NJ for another year
interested in opinions
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[QUOTE=GrayWindTheWolf;1227004443]So there's a chick the grade below me that I find cute, obviously a relationship would be nice. I have friends in her grade that have classes with her who tell me stuff about her and I often have eye contact with the girl almost every day during our lunch periods. Getting to the point my friends told me she often hangs out with guys in her grade and that's true since I see her hang out with some.
I don't see this as a huge loss if she doesn't like me, but I do get motivation from seeing her to just lift and **** to impress her. Non related facts is that I do come from a wealthy family and most of my family buys me Armani shirts and stuff (doesn't help that i'm persian and armani is like 99% of what we wear) alongside some belts and ****, I don't wanna come off as a rich dude and make her have some sort of gold digging instinct. If that is the case it'll be relatively obvious that she's just hanging out with me for gold digging (if she does hang out and date me at all), then all I can honestly do is bang her and have some sort of friends with benefits relationship.
tl;dr
-guy likes a chick a grade below her
-chick hangs out with guys most of the time
-guy is rich and comes off as some poor man's Justin Bieber
-girl likes JB (probably because he's wealthy and ****)
-guy is kinda shy and comes off as only around a 6-7/10 aesthetically but 8/10 in personality and other shiz
-wat do?[/QUOTE]
updates:
-apparently the girl I like is a whore.
ok, what do now? pursue for the pussy and nothing else?
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really need some advice brahs
long story ill set up the situation
two weeks ago this chick that i like texted me out of the blue that we needed space. i had been slightly beta towards that week slightly smothering but not so much she would be that off put. that week we had agreed that i would ask her out it was mutual. her reasons for space were legitimate, i know that they were 100% not bull****. she said still liked me and its not over. she said she would text me in about a week. she texted me two days later sayin that she missed me and she couldnt handle not talking to me so i was like sweet this means we are alg now.
later that week about 7 or 8 days later i was like i should call u we havent spoken in like 2 weeks and she blew me off it was only gonna be like a 10 min convo. she said we could talk the next day cus she was super jam packed with work ect which i also know is 100% true. she blew off the next day to so i called her out and said wtf how can u not manage a 10 mins convo? she said that she was really worried that her needing space had changed **** between us which was true and she would talk to me the next night at this party that wee were going to. at the party we had a massive fight where she basically said she didnt have time for me. i gave her the oppurtunity to end it right then and there but she wouldnt do it so i was like fk u this. there were tears ect but she wants to stay friends. she lead me on for about a week and a half. still actually really like the chick and i want to have a relationship with her but i dont know how to get to her and make her feel real **** and want me back
i know fkk staying friends but she if this ends cus i will never get over her.
i need ur outside perspectives on my situation.
what u think ive dont wrong and what i should do
srs need of advice
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[QUOTE=Laxbrah34;1214629651]T Misc halp girl I am interested in show STRONG interest but has bf
Alright so ill start by saying I have in no way called her bf out or said derogatory remarks about their relationship. I have nothing against them or him.
-Meet girl in Bio end of last year
-Hit it off and become good friends
-She gets asked to dance by guy and starts dating him
-I'm happy for her as I wasn't interested ATM
-we're still great friends and she wants to hangout/talkover summer
-she gets new phone and loses my number during summer
-begin junior year
-first day of school she approaches and tells me she misses me/explains why she didn't text me etc.
-I shrug it off as she and I are friends and move on
-she still dating guy and apparently has talked about me to him and her friends
- I suggest hanging out one day and she says she has to bake cookies
-turns out it was their 6 month anniversary and I don't get why she didn't tell me
-again I have nothing against him and he seems like a cool dude I am happy they are together
-Makes the first move to hold my hand numerous times when I talk to her in halls
-her boyfriend randomly becomes passive aggressive towards me and stares me down in halls (he's like 6'0 150lb skinny fat soccer player I'm not intimated lol)
-we try to hang out a lot but either I'm busy or she is but we still talk a lot
-she tells me she misses me at least once a week and says ily (obviously it's a friend love I know)
-I admit I find her "pretty" and that "I like talking to her" over text (not as beta as It sounds you would need the context)
-I use the word date over text to describe hanging out with her and she agrees
-just yesterday she runs up to me while I'm talking to my teammate and hugs me tight (first time) and rests her head on my chest for literally like 3 min straight srs in the middle of hallway
-she let's go and we start talking
-I look up to see her bf walking towards us and don't know if he saw us hugging
Basically I want to know if she is interested in me and how to approach the next time I hang out with her. She is a solid 8 5'5 100-105. She is pretty popular as well but her friend group is not. Her bf is a solid 7 facially but around 6 body he's skinny fat and not that popular. I am probably an 8 as well and generally regarded as "hot" due to my body and blasian genetics. My name is known by most girls due to my abs but I'm just kinda popular. No e brag but if it helps[/QUOTE]
Update: she admitted she had a huge crush on me last year and I told her I felt the same way. We text everyday now and regularly joke about getting married and chit. She's actually joked about sleeping with me to our mutual friend a few times and has gotten more physical (hugging and chit). All good but here's the catch
The reason she doesn't want to hangout with me is because she doesn't wan thing to be "weird" as I know about her crush. Keep in mind were close friends but she still has a bf which I explained the situation above. She doesn't want to spend time with me because she likes me and thinks something could happen? dafuq mane?
Please don't just say disregard her I've tried will rep solid advice
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[QUOTE=Laxbrah34;1229804343]Update: she admitted she had a huge crush on me last year and I told her I felt the same way. We text everyday now and regularly joke about getting married and chit. She's actually joked about sleeping with me to our mutual friend a few times and has gotten more physical (hugging and chit). All good but here's the catch
The reason she doesn't want to hangout with me is because she doesn't wan thing to be "weird" as I know about her crush. Keep in mind were close friends but she still has a bf which I explained the situation above. She doesn't want to spend time with me because she likes me and thinks something could happen? dafuq mane?
Please don't just say disregard her I've tried will rep solid advice[/QUOTE]
When you hug, grab the booty. And do one of those movie-esque things where you lift her up and spin her around in the rain.
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[quote=rolltidenation;973427763]got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.
Trolling and flaming will get you negged.[/quote]
getting girls can be a tricky business. I compare it to riding a bike.
You have to take it slow you cant just jump on a bike whe n you first learn and expect not to fall on your ass.
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[quote=brons0n;1228341363]really need some advice brahs
long story ill set up the situation
two weeks ago this chick that i like texted me out of the blue that we needed space. I had been slightly beta towards that week slightly smothering but not so much she would be that off put. That week we had agreed that i would ask her out it was mutual. Her reasons for space were legitimate, i know that they were 100% not bull****. She said still liked me and its not over. She said she would text me in about a week. She texted me two days later sayin that she missed me and she couldnt handle not talking to me so i was like sweet this means we are alg now.
Later that week about 7 or 8 days later i was like i should call u we havent spoken in like 2 weeks and she blew me off it was only gonna be like a 10 min convo. She said we could talk the next day cus she was super jam packed with work ect which i also know is 100% true. She blew off the next day to so i called her out and said wtf how can u not manage a 10 mins convo? She said that she was really worried that her needing space had changed **** between us which was true and she would talk to me the next night at this party that wee were going to. At the party we had a massive fight where she basically said she didnt have time for me. I gave her the oppurtunity to end it right then and there but she wouldnt do it so i was like fk u this. There were tears ect but she wants to stay friends. She lead me on for about a week and a half. Still actually really like the chick and i want to have a relationship with her but i dont know how to get to her and make her feel real **** and want me back
i know fkk staying friends but she if this ends cus i will never get over her.
I need ur outside perspectives on my situation.
What u think ive dont wrong and what i should do
srs need of advice[/quote]
this is what you need to do (you might not like the instructions but it is what you need to do)
before i tell you what you need to do i want to tell you that you did everything right.
What you need to do is: Walk away. Do not stay friends. As a man it will never work. I have been through this myself. She will keep leading you on.
Need to talk more? Private message me
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[quote=neverquit2012;1225798211]if there's one thing i've learned about girls it's that you can't take sh*t they do personally. Girls will dump you, cheat on you, tell you they love you one minute/ignore you the next, and sometimes they'll just do stupid sh*t for no reason at all. I know it hurts, but the best thing you can do is just to move on and let it go.[/quote]
your right. Preach it!! Your right.
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[QUOTE=Achieving;1225667631]Reviving this thread.
Srsly pissed. I've been "friends" with this girl for probably 3 years, this year especially. Whenever we'd talk, she'd smile at me, keep eye contact, and laugh whenever I made jokes. I was actually gonna try to start a relationship with her. Well, a few days ago I found out she didn't invite me to her Sweet 16. I'm fine with that, not really but you know what I mean. The worst part is, she invited a fukking creep from my science class who just talks about what shoes all the girls are wearing OUT OF FUKKING PITY. I thought I had something with this girl, but apparently not. What the fuk is wrong with me, TMisc?[/QUOTE]
YOUR NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG. IT IS GOOD THAT YOU ARE HER CLOSE FREIND. SHE WILL COME AROUND
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cheers
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u guys think gettin laid at 16 is fine?
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[QUOTE=GrayWindTheWolf;1232119703]u guys think gettin laid at 16 is fine?[/QUOTE]
Depends what country you're from IMO. In America it's called a sweet sixteenth for a reason.
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can i get some advice on this sloot w/out being negged for acting beta?
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[QUOTE=MehAesthetic;1233472543]can i get some advice on this sloot w/out being negged for acting beta?[/QUOTE]
shoot brah. It's a girl help thread. You get negged for being "beta" and it's cause they're not using the thread right
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[QUOTE=MattChiHK;1233473433]shoot brah. It's a girl help thread. You get negged for being "beta" and it's cause they're not using the thread right[/QUOTE]
alright, short cliffs:
-sloot I've known since I was 14 adds me on snapchat
-always thought she was flirty, but had no clue that she liked me (no experience with girls)
-snapchat for a bit then start texting her
-go get lunch with her that day
-after lunch she texts me and says she has had a crush on me since freshman year
-i said i have liked her as well (true)
-after a few hours of texting she invites me over to hang out and watch a movie at her house the following day
-i text her in the morning saying i wont be at school (sick)
-she says that she has to go hit with her dad (softball player) so she can't hang out
-throughout all of the texting, including the last message, she had been using tons of winky faces, **** like that
-i responded "ok! have fun!", she doesn't respond
-text her at 5pm asking how hitting went
-at 9pm she responds and says it went ok. i could tell she was pisssed
-ask her whats wrong, blah blah blah
-she says she overthinks thing, nothing is wrong, then stops responding
-ignores me next day at school (friday)
-i got mad and deleted her off snapchat
-text her again over the weekend asking if she wants to talk anymore
-no response
-get beta and add her on snapchat, she deletes me
-ignores me at school next few days, then thursday and friday she buts in on a convos me and a friend are having (she was smiling, laughing, etc)
no clue what to do.
edit: cliffs not so short
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Anyone had success getting laid on prom night? I'm going with a pretty hot girl this weekend and want to f*ck her so bad.
