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[QUOTE=MehAesthetic;1233477023]alright, short cliffs:
-sloot I've known since I was 14 adds me on snapchat
-always thought she was flirty, but had no clue that she liked me (no experience with girls)
-snapchat for a bit then start texting her
-go get lunch with her that day
-after lunch she texts me and says she has had a crush on me since freshman year
-i said i have liked her as well (true)
-after a few hours of texting she invites me over to hang out and watch a movie at her house the following day
-i text her in the morning saying i wont be at school (sick)
-she says that she has to go hit with her dad (softball player) so she can't hang out
-throughout all of the texting, including the last message, she had been using tons of winky faces, **** like that
-i responded "ok! have fun!", she doesn't respond
-text her at 5pm asking how hitting went
-at 9pm she responds and says it went ok. i could tell she was pisssed
-ask her whats wrong, blah blah blah
-she says she overthinks thing, nothing is wrong, then stops responding
-ignores me next day at school (friday)
-i got mad and deleted her off snapchat
-text her again over the weekend asking if she wants to talk anymore
-no response
-get beta and add her on snapchat, she deletes me
-ignores me at school next few days, then thursday and friday she buts in on a convos me and a friend are having (she was smiling, laughing, etc)
no clue what to do.
edit: cliffs not so short[/QUOTE]
Ignore her and move on
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[QUOTE=Csnauk;1233635063]Ignore her and move on[/QUOTE]
that's what I've been doing so far. thanks for the input.
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[QUOTE=QuadsB4Broads;1233498303]Anyone had success getting laid on prom night? I'm going with a pretty hot girl this weekend and want to f*ck her so bad.[/QUOTE]
I don't know about getting laid ON the night but it's a great opportunity to lay groundwork to get laid later
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Uhm, hi :P
I asked this girl out a couple of months back, she's not very good looking(as in everyone says I can do better than her), but she has an amazing physique[which no one really seems to care much about], plus she was my first crush, and got rejected.
But ever since then I keep getting hints that get more and more obvious, like she started off by always smiling at me if I'm talking to her(dunno whether that's because of my sense of humour though), and some more stuff, and day before yesterday I was sleeping at my friend's house when she and a couple other girls were there, and IDK why, but she lied down next to me. I didn't notice at the time and she left after a couple of minutes, cuz I didn't notice. What do?
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[Size=34][color=pink]cute boy[/size][/color]
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When girls are being bitches, how do you remain calm and just ignore/forget them. I'm always usually good at remaining calm, but the ignoring/forgetting part I struggle with a ton.
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16 and never had a gf. srs. foreveralone with my gains
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[QUOTE=Yoitsparker;1237044063]When girls are being bitches, how do you remain calm and just ignore/forget them. I'm always usually good at remaining calm, but the ignoring/forgetting part I struggle with a ton.[/QUOTE]
You don't. You move on.
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[QUOTE=SunnyChrono6;1235544873]Uhm, hi :P
I asked this girl out a couple of months back, she's not very good looking(as in everyone says I can do better than her), but she has an amazing physique[which no one really seems to care much about], plus she was my first crush, and got rejected.
But ever since then I keep getting hints that get more and more obvious, like she started off by always smiling at me if I'm talking to her(dunno whether that's because of my sense of humour though), and some more stuff, and day before yesterday I was sleeping at my friend's house when she and a couple other girls were there, and IDK why, but she lied down next to me. I didn't notice at the time and she left after a couple of minutes, cuz I didn't notice. What do?[/QUOTE]
you got rejected and now she's showing interest. classic manipulation/mind games. leave it alone.
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[QUOTE=MehAesthetic;1233477023]alright, short cliffs:
-sloot I've known since I was 14 adds me on snapchat
-always thought she was flirty, but had no clue that she liked me (no experience with girls)
-snapchat for a bit then start texting her
-go get lunch with her that day
-after lunch she texts me and says she has had a crush on me since freshman year
-i said i have liked her as well (true)
-after a few hours of texting she invites me over to hang out and watch a movie at her house the following day
-i text her in the morning saying i wont be at school (sick)
-she says that she has to go hit with her dad (softball player) so she can't hang out
-throughout all of the texting, including the last message, she had been using tons of winky faces, **** like that
-i responded "ok! have fun!", she doesn't respond
-text her at 5pm asking how hitting went
-at 9pm she responds and says it went ok. i could tell she was pisssed
-ask her whats wrong, blah blah blah
-she says she overthinks thing, nothing is wrong, then stops responding
-ignores me next day at school (friday)
-i got mad and deleted her off snapchat
-text her again over the weekend asking if she wants to talk anymore
-no response
-get beta and add her on snapchat, she deletes me
-ignores me at school next few days, then thursday and friday she buts in on a convos me and a friend are having (she was smiling, laughing, etc)
no clue what to do.
edit: cliffs not so short[/QUOTE]
mis-communication:
stop dating through snapchat/text. after the date you should have left it for a couple of days and then only texted her again to meet up. if she seems super flirty in a text then sure respond and flirt back but don't have actual conversations that way - they suck. Like you've experienced, if you ignore/get ignored for a little amount of time the other person gets paranoid/offended.
Pursue her if you wish.
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-walked into lecture and my friend who I met this year (bit awkward never kissed a girl) was sitting nwxt to one of hottest chicks. He met her at an awards ceremony
-intro ourselves
-lecture finishes and girl and I have same lecture. Go with her and Everyone thinks I tried yo pick her up
-tell him im not going for her as he wants her
-find out that day he knew her for 2 weeks, doesn't have her number or spoken on fb after she added him
-also he asked her out to lunch that day she said she had plans
-he tells me the next day he just wants her as friend ( hes more religious than me lol) and its ok If I go for her
-I think he is still cut so what do brahs
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973427763]Got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.
Trolling and flaming will get you negged.[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend dumped me a little over 2 weeks ago, and I think she is playing games! she treats me like shyt at school, but when we text, she opens up! WTF? is she playing games with me, or does she just plain not like me? oh, and I always treated her nicely, never lied to her, and I always listened, so I'm just confused. I'm gettin treated like shyt for caring! what the hell?
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those 'girlfriends' come to you when you ripped and leave you when you fat :(
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Sup guys, so I used to be decent with girls, and then in the past 2 years I kind of went full cocoon mode and didn't talk to anyone except my buddies I lift with, put on 45lbs, and now as I'm attempting to become more social, it's like all of a sudden all these girls that used to pay no attention to me are all over me, commenting on my pictures on social networking sites and complimenting me IRL, so the problem is I don't know how to react, or how to even talk to girls, let alone make sexual advances since I haven't even socialized with a female in so long, it's like when I make the attempt my mind goes blank and I end up doing/saying something completely irrelevant making me look like an idiot. Please help misc
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Hey, I'm really poor with girls and all but there's a really fit, unpopular one who always texts me saying "Who do I fancy?" (She does this to loads of boys).
So I made her say it first and she said that she fancies this boy named "Cameron" but that she'd go out with me and someone else if I asked.
Is she just being nice or am I in?
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[QUOTE=TysonBru16;1246283243]Hey, I'm really poor with girls and all but there's a really fit, unpopular one who always texts me saying "Who do I fancy?" (She does this to loads of boys).
So I made her say it first and she said that she fancies this boy named "Cameron" but that she'd go out with me and someone else if I asked.
Is she just being nice or am I in?[/QUOTE]
Please dont falk for that? She told u she likes cameron, therefore she doesn't like u. She said that she would go out with u because she prolly felt bad about friendzoning u (no offense man, just tryna help u out) DO NOT ask her out. If u really want her, talk to her more face to face and see where it goes fron there. But for now DO NOT ASK HER OUT, SHE WILL GO OUT WITH U THEN SHE WILL JUST SAY SHE FEELS UR JUST A FRIEND. Happened to my good friend, good luck.
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Hey, ive got a bit of a situation im hoping you guys can help me sort out.
-so a couple of weeks ago I met this cute girl, we had fun and ended up fukking
-she seemed like she was really into me and afterwards she told me to add her on fb
-I did, and we have had 3-4 solid conversations afterwards, with mostly me taking initiative
I really like this girl, and im hoping that we could go further. The thing is im not sure what kind of signals she is giving me.
Im thinking she must like me, because shes kinda responsive, and she certainly gave those kind of indications when we met. Its possible shes just wanting to be fukkfriends, which im totally cool with (who wouldnt?), even though i want more.
So how do I proceed with this? Do I ask her out?
My first post on bb so be gentle, lol
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I'm bringing this girl out to a nice place for dinner. We both like eachother and I'm going to ask her to be my girlfriend. Should I do it before or after dinner?
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[QUOTE=CompleteAthlete;1246675963]Hey, ive got a bit of a situation im hoping you guys can help me sort out.
-so a couple of weeks ago I met this cute girl, we had fun and ended up fukking
-she seemed like she was really into me and afterwards she told me to add her on fb
-I did, and we have had 3-4 solid conversations afterwards, with mostly me taking initiative
I really like this girl, and im hoping that we could go further. The thing is im not sure what kind of signals she is giving me.
Im thinking she must like me, because shes kinda responsive, and she certainly gave those kind of indications when we met. Its possible shes just wanting to be fukkfriends, which im totally cool with (who wouldnt?), even though i want more.
So how do I proceed with this? Do I ask her out?
My first post on bb so be gentle, lol[/QUOTE]
Be straight up with her, you already hit it and established that foundation that is critical in many relationships..you broke the ice there, gj.
Be cool about it. Ask her if she would believe you when you tell her shes all you've thought about lately and you hope she feels the same way too, see where that goes...On a bro to bro note, be careful with this one too. Consider how you met and how serious do you expect to be with her given that, if you realize she hardly has guy friends than hell yeah hit it all day. If half her contacts are dudes I would consider just staying the way you are now, its your life though you take control, don't let anyone lead your direction in it.
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Guys I have a question...
So this girl asked me if I wanted to hangout with her friend sometime who I am 99.9% sure likes me. She gave me her friends number the other day and we have been texting. Might ask to hangout in a few days, should I try to hook up with her then? Thanks
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[QUOTE=Rb76;1249043971]Guys I have a question...
So this girl asked me if I wanted to hangout with her friend sometime who I am 99.9% sure likes me. She gave me her friends number the other day and we have been texting. Might ask to hangout in a few days, should I try to hook up with her then? Thanks[/QUOTE]
it depends on the situation and if she really likes you
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I have a question :$
So I have been walking by this girl on my way home from school for like a year she's always. Standing there like a bit of to the side with this guy I'm sure the where dating then ..I never really bothered to get interested cuz she had a guy but about 3 weeks ago she randomly added me on Fb said a friend gave her my name and stuff ..she thinks I'm perfection SRS she always asks me, to hang out we had a kick ass convo over text a week ago (she now says hi to me every time I walk by her...my problem is she's still with that guy she says there not dating and that there just friends ...but out of no where stopped talking to me...I walked by here she didn't say **** doesn't mssg me anymore after she said "I'll talk to you tmmrw" ..any ideas why she stopped ?
Note she checked me out everyday like all the time and the guy knew and sayed hi to me in front of him xD
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Why don't you just arrange to hang out with her?. keep the sword in it's scabbard till you know the full deal with that dude though.
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[QUOTE=Rb76;1249043971]Guys I have a question...
So this girl asked me if I wanted to hangout with her friend sometime who I am 99.9% sure likes me. She gave me her friends number the other day and we have been texting. Might ask to hangout in a few days, should I try to hook up with her then? Thanks[/QUOTE]
This is obviously her trying to set up a threesome with you.
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[QUOTE=JoshsNumbR27;1252392931]So I have been walking by this girl on my way home from school for like a year she's always. Standing there like a bit of to the side with this guy I'm sure the where dating then ..I never really bothered to get interested cuz she had a guy but about 3 weeks ago she randomly added me on Fb said a friend gave her my name and stuff ..she thinks I'm perfection SRS she always asks me, to hang out we had a kick ass convo over text a week ago (she now says hi to me every time I walk by her...my problem is she's still with that guy she says there not dating and that there just friends ...but out of no where stopped talking to me...I walked by here she didn't say **** doesn't mssg me anymore after she said "I'll talk to you tmmrw" ..any ideas why she stopped ?
Note she checked me out everyday like all the time and the guy knew and sayed hi to me in front of him xD[/QUOTE]
Sounds like she either found another guy, got her ex back, or some variation of that. I think this has happened to me and the girl ended up getting a real boyfriend like a week later lol
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Thnx I was just wondering :P
