i dont know, ii am know as the very quiet dude at my school if i say something that might be weird. and i mean i just walk right up to her n start talking.
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i dont know, ii am know as the very quiet dude at my school if i say something that might be weird. and i mean i just walk right up to her n start talking.
[QUOTE=NBisMe;1029519123]Try not to be creepy though. Girls these days misconcept a casual conversation for being creepy ALL THE TIME. And start convo in person, not over facebook.[/QUOTE] yea, so like. how do i avoid being THAT GUY.
[QUOTE=Chilaha;1029521823]yea, so like. how do i avoid being THAT GUY.[/QUOTE]
Acquire eye contact, and casually approach her and say hello.
[QUOTE=Chilaha;1029471253]Alright, so there's this freshman girl at my school I'm interested in. (im a junior btw) But, I don't have any classes with her and I've never talked to her. I don't really know how to start this, you know what I mean? Any help? Her locker is a few down from mine if that helps at all....
And guy above me, you should meet with her. :)[/QUOTE]
"Hey, I see you all the time but I don't think I know you. What's your name?"
After that I'd just basically tell her I thought she was cute. It's okay to be nervous if you're nervous, but I always like to be direct. I'm not in high school anymore so I don't know how a 14 year old girl would respond to something so blunt (though ideally you shouldn't care about the response). She's probably never had a random guy say that to her face yet.
[QUOTE=Chilaha;1029521823]yea, so like. how do i avoid being THAT GUY.[/QUOTE]
if you bump into her or something, go from there. Don't be all blunt about it in person like guy above said, keep that for when you get her number.
[QUOTE=NBisMe;1029519123]Try not to be creepy though. Girls these days misconcept a casual conversation for being creepy ALL THE TIME. And start convo in person, not over facebook.[/QUOTE]
Deffo not over Facebook. But unless you walk around with a face like this
[img]http://fc07.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2010/282/2/b/the_ultimate_rape_face_by_the_hamer-d30fjwv.jpg[/img]
Girl is not going to find it creepy. I wouldn't say "I look at you all the time" or whatever the guy about me said. That DOES sound kinda creepy. You just wanna act friendly and genuine - not like you've been planning it for weeks and told all your friends on bodybuilding dot com all about her :L
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1029483333]Sounds like a dead end.
Now she's said that, if you don't meet up with her you're going to look like an arsehole - which is shiiitty. Go watch a movie or something, have a nice day, don't flirt too hard, see where it takes you. That's about all the advice I can give.[/QUOTE]
Thanks, yeah I'm gonna pretty much move on and see if she shows signs of caring at all.
[QUOTE=AlexxVann;1029489353]Just meet up with her, if she's liked you in the past then there's no reason why she can't like you now. Go for it, what you got to lose? You've already asked her to hang, hardest part is done.[/QUOTE]
Thanks man, will do, but I'll try not to act too interested.
[QUOTE=livingforlean;1030192213]Thanks, yeah I'm gonna pretty much move on and see if she shows signs of caring at all.[/QUOTE]
Well played sir.
Has anybody got any experiences with things being really awkward after one night stands?
Boned this girl, don't really want anything to do with her. Think she's a total bish - and I don't think she's my biggest fan either. Anyways, we get on the same bus everyday so I have to deal with seeing her everyday. Right now we're being civil towards each other, but it's kinda awkward. She's one of my friends best mates as well - so I don't want to fall out with her big time or I might lose friend. Would just be nice if I could make things a bit less awkward some how.
[QUOTE=Dr83;1029659413]"Hey, I see you all the time but I don't think I know you. What's your name?"
After that I'd just basically tell her I thought she was cute. It's okay to be nervous if you're nervous, but I always like to be direct. I'm not in high school anymore so I don't know how a 14 year old girl would respond to something so blunt (though ideally you shouldn't care about the response). She's probably never had a random guy say that to her face yet.[/QUOTE]damn that is really good lol, was just checking this thread because i saw people still posted in here often
repped
I feel like every girl I know is using me.It's like when they need something they show up at my doorstep and the second they don't they disappear.Why is this?
Define pushover.How do you avoid being one?
and finally
I met this girl online..she's legit not some 50 year old chinese man and we've been talking for about a year.We are actually friends and what I've noticed in the last couple of weeks is that I have to initiate every conversation and everything feels like it's being forced.We don't even skype any more.What do I do,I want to stay friends with her.
[QUOTE=DCfever;1031112253]I feel like every girl I know is using me.It's like when they need something they show up at my doorstep and the second they don't they disappear.Why is this?
Define pushover.How do you avoid being one?
and finally
I met this girl online..she's legit not some 50 year old chinese man and we've been talking for about a year.We are actually friends and what I've noticed in the last couple of weeks is that I have to initiate every conversation and everything feels like it's being forced.We don't even skype any more.What do I do,I want to stay friends with her.[/QUOTE]
Don't be a pushover. If you feel like she's using you tell her so.
Sounds like you've been friendzoned big time by internet friend. Just because she doesn't initiate the conversation doesn't mean she doesn't like you as a friend though, so don't get too disheartened. Maybe she's just bored of the same stuff all the time. Think of something new and see if you can generate some more interest. If not...
Move on brah.
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1031206563]Don't be a pushover. If you feel like she's using you tell her so.
Sounds like you've been friendzoned big time by internet friend. Just because she doesn't initiate the conversation doesn't mean she doesn't like you as a friend though, so don't get too disheartened. Maybe she's just bored of the same stuff all the time. Think of something new and see if you can generate some more interest. If not...
Move on brah.[/QUOTE]
Thanks.Um generate interest..not to good at that.What do I do?
[QUOTE=DCfever;1031599083]Thanks.Um generate interest..not to good at that.What do I do?[/QUOTE]
You normally use a space after a full stop brah. You seem to have a habit of missing them spaces out. Jus' Sayin'.
It sounds like you talk to her all the time and she's gotten a little bored to me. Try and talk to her about something she's really interested in - even if you're not all that into it. If she enjoys the conversation she's more likely to want to talk to you an to initiate the conversation herself next time around.
any brahs know how to ask a girl out to prom? There is this girl I want to take to prom but I barely talk to her. She is one of those smart/shy types. I can barely find her in school lol. What do tsmic.
[QUOTE=LegendArises;1031984673]any brahs know how to ask a girl out to prom? There is this girl I want to take to prom but I barely talk to her. She is one of those smart/shy types. I can barely find her in school lol. What do tsmic.[/QUOTE]
Do you hang out with her at all? Need more deets. If you see her outside of school (friends friend) or whatever, you can get a nice way, or if you talk to her/text her, you can snag her address and leave her like a surprise at her doorstep or something cute like that (no homo)
[QUOTE=NBisMe;1032023993]Do you hang out with her at all? Need more deets. If you see her outside of school (friends friend) or whatever, you can get a nice way, or if you talk to her/text her, you can snag her address and leave her like a surprise at her doorstep or something cute like that (no homo)[/QUOTE]
We have our random meets where we just say hi and have some small talk but that's really it.
[QUOTE=LegendArises;1032062793]We have our random meets where we just say hi and have some small talk but that's really it.[/QUOTE]
Well I'd get her number somehow without being creepy. Once you guys start casually texting/talking, hang out a couple times maybe? Then ask her.
[QUOTE=NBisMe;1032481963]Well I'd get her number somehow without being creepy. Once you guys start casually texting/talking, hang out a couple times maybe? Then ask her.[/QUOTE]
lol she doesn't have a phone
This thread needs to see this video...
[url]www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA[/url]
[QUOTE=Bugler666;1033223533]This thread needs to see this video...
[url]www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA[/url][/QUOTE]
I love how the video doesn't show the ones that rejected. With the nature of this style, the number of rejections will far outweigh the successes. You don't need to fear rejection but I don't recommend this.
The video does show that confidence and being comfortable around girls (not fearing, acting like they are just another person) is key. I agree, this thread needed to see it.
[QUOTE=livetoplay396;973489063]yo when should I go for a kiss? 3rd date? I'm thinking a cheek kiss on the third date and a hug ya feel me.
Cause im kinda suspicious/cautious of the girl im currently w/.
inb4 beta male
inb4 *******
inb4 fail date[/QUOTE]
2nd date. Dont kiss on the cheek, go all out. 3rd date is fine too I guess. Be a warrior and kiss her when you want
What's the best way to approach a girl that you've never talked to before? I'm usually not that nervous around girls but this one I'm trying to talk to I am. I've already blown to chances and I really don't want to blow it again. Thanks in advance
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;1033243223]I love how the video doesn't show the ones that rejected. With the nature of this style, the number of rejections will far outweigh the successes. You don't need to fear rejection but I don't recommend this.
The video does show that confidence and being comfortable around girls (not fearing, acting like they are just another person) is key. I agree, this thread needed to see it.[/QUOTE]
The guy who looks away as he does it will have gotten rejected more than the other guy. Confidence is what it's all about and that guy has it. It was wonderful when he asks the relatively hot blonde girl why she gave her number up so easily and she goes "Because your were straight forward".
So much win.
A little update and a question. I've kept up with the girl and we hung out a few times as my bestfriend and her bestfriend are dating so it was just us 2 so it was straight. This past weekend we were together for like 6 hours and we were sittin on this couch with another chick on the other side. She kept kinda rubbing my arm and getting closer to me, but I didn't make a move. Should I have? She was leaning on me but she'd get off after a while then snuggle back up to me. What do TMisc? Also, how do I get closer to dating this girl? Just flirt more and more then eventually ask her to formal?
[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1034813483]A little update and a question. I've kept up with the girl and we hung out a few times as my bestfriend and her bestfriend are dating so it was just us 2 so it was straight. This past weekend we were together for like 6 hours and we were sittin on this couch with another chick on the other side. She kept kinda rubbing my arm and getting closer to me, but I didn't make a move. Should I have? She was leaning on me but she'd get off after a while then snuggle back up to me. What do TMisc? Also, how do I get closer to dating this girl? Just flirt more and more then eventually ask her to formal?[/QUOTE]
From what you have said if she really was rubbin your arm and getting closer, she is the one breaking the "touch barrier". But you were also with another friend on the couch so if you were to make a move it could just make things awkward. Chill with her more see how it goes flirt more like you said, and if things go well ask her to your dance/formal. That's what i think anyways, I could be wrong.
[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1034813483]A little update and a question. I've kept up with the girl and we hung out a few times as my bestfriend and her bestfriend are dating so it was just us 2 so it was straight. This past weekend we were together for like 6 hours and we were sittin on this couch with another chick on the other side. She kept kinda rubbing my arm and getting closer to me, but I didn't make a move. Should I have? She was leaning on me but she'd get off after a while then snuggle back up to me. What do TMisc? Also, how do I get closer to dating this girl? Just flirt more and more then eventually ask her to formal?[/QUOTE]
Just keep doing what you're doing, but eventually you want to get alone with her and kiss her. If you wait too long she'll think you don't like her or are a pussy and will lose interest. But don't get caught up about it. Just know that when you feel like you "SHOULD" do it (i.e. you're alone and she's staring you in the face), you MUST do it. Don't puss out or you'll lose her (it's happened to me and it's not fun).
Bars or clubs better for pulling?
depends man. in a club you could probably grab a random slut and start getting with them within the space of 2mins or less.
In a bar you can meet a group of girls and go with them to a club, or meet them later. personally i find it better to meet them at the bar first and develop a rapport.