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[QUOTE=LNCB96;982701803][img]http://media-titanium.cursecdn.com/attachments/42/719/634798639221257881.jpg[/img]
srs. I felt like that about a month ago, but when I really questioned it I was like 'wtf why would I bother'. Whenever I'm with my mates and we're not talking about football or some **** like that, they just moan about their gfs and how fussy and pissed they can get. Up to you, if you wanna see how it goes, go out and get a girl. GL anyway with your goals man[/QUOTE]
thanks man gl to you too
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Been in the same boat as you fella's for a while now except I've tried to ask a couple of girls out. Each one ended with a crash and burn, but I quickly got back up and decided to not worry about girls. When the time comes, that someone will seek my attention.
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I'll throw out a bump too for the hell of it.
Situation 1: This girl is my friend and she's legit a 9/10 to me. Extremely nice, has goals in life, beautiful ect. We weren't bestfriends or anything (no friend zone) just friends. I had a chance to possibly hook up with her (probs just makeout at the time) but I didn't because she was kinda talking to someone at the time. Fast forward to now, which is about 6 months later and we've been talking a lot more so I decide to ask her in person on a date, She said that she'd love to. She also said her weekend was busy, because she works two jobs and plays two sports. So I said thats fine and waited till the next week on tuesday to ask about the next weekend. She told me that something else had come up and wouldn't be able to. I shrugged it off and said nbd and just havn't talked to her since. Mind you she told me before she didn't feel she wanted to date anybody because she wanted to focus more on her future and things like that.
^Do you think I did the right thing by not talking to her after that?
Situation 2: Friend of the girl above^. She's like a 6/10, but she makes up for it in personality. This girl is like my best friend, we text everyday and normally have something to talk about unless one of us is busy doing something. She said she doesn't want to date either, but we hangout here and there and just make out. It's kinda a friend with benefits type thing, but we just have fun with each other being friends and stuff like that.
^I wouldn't date her, but do you think she could've been a cause of girl #1 changing her mind.
Situation 3 (and last unless you want to hear more stories) : This girl I sit by in class and we talk everyday and just kinda joke around and I give her a hard time. Sometimes I find her going out of her way to say hi to me and stuff, and poking me in the side once and hugging me after saying she forgot about my stomach problems (medical problems that I have with my stomach atm) Shes pretty attractive, like a 7/10. But she might be kinda a sloot, not very sure about that though, I can only assume by what I know of her. I said it class one time that we go to lunch one day after school and I asked if anyone wanted to come with me and she immediately said yes and nobody else said anything for a second after that. So I take it she likes something about me.
^What do you think I should do? I don't want to get in a relationship with this girl and I don't want to be the 'new guy' that a slut it hooking up with atm.
I can post plenty more situations I have going on if you guys want to hear some stuff, problems, funny stories, weird stories, ect.
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Killen, if you feel happy around her, go for it.
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[QUOTE=AustinThePirate;982760973]Killen, if you feel happy around her, go for it.[/QUOTE]
Lol, Which girl are you talking about there?
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[QUOTE=lkillen;982753143]I'll throw out a bump too for the hell of it.
Situation 1: This girl is my friend and she's legit a 9/10 to me. Extremely nice, has goals in life, beautiful ect. We weren't bestfriends or anything (no friend zone) just friends. I had a chance to possibly hook up with her (probs just makeout at the time) but I didn't because she was kinda talking to someone at the time. Fast forward to now, which is about 6 months later and we've been talking a lot more so I decide to ask her in person on a date, She said that she'd love to. She also said her weekend was busy, because she works two jobs and plays two sports. So I said thats fine and waited till the next week on tuesday to ask about the next weekend. She told me that something else had come up and wouldn't be able to. I shrugged it off and said nbd and just havn't talked to her since. Mind you she told me before she didn't feel she wanted to date anybody because she wanted to focus more on her future and things like that.
^Do you think I did the right thing by not talking to her after that?
Situation 2: Friend of the girl above^. She's like a 6/10, but she makes up for it in personality. This girl is like my best friend, we text everyday and normally have something to talk about unless one of us is busy doing something. She said she doesn't want to date either, but we hangout here and there and just make out. It's kinda a friend with benefits type thing, but we just have fun with each other being friends and stuff like that.
^I wouldn't date her, but do you think she could've been a cause of girl #1 changing her mind.
Situation 3 (and last unless you want to hear more stories) : This girl I sit by in class and we talk everyday and just kinda joke around and I give her a hard time. Sometimes I find her going out of her way to say hi to me and stuff, and poking me in the side once and hugging me after saying she forgot about my stomach problems (medical problems that I have with my stomach atm) Shes pretty attractive, like a 7/10. But she might be kinda a sloot, not very sure about that though, I can only assume by what I know of her. I said it class one time that we go to lunch one day after school and I asked if anyone wanted to come with me and she immediately said yes and nobody else said anything for a second after that. So I take it she likes something about me.
^What do you think I should do? I don't want to get in a relationship with this girl and I don't want to be the 'new guy' that a slut it hooking up with atm.
I can post plenty more situations I have going on if you guys want to hear some stuff, problems, funny stories, weird stories, ect.[/QUOTE]
Gonna be honest here. Situtation 1 girl can get fk'd, she sounds like she's not down, srs. You did the right thing by not talking to her after asking twice, asking again and you'll sound desperate as fk, but if she starts talking to you n shyt again then yeah play it cool and go along with it and see where it takes you, it's worth the shot for a 9/10. Imagine smashing that ;)
Situation 2, not sure on your standards but 6/10 would probs just be an easy fk there for you if you want it, if I was in that situation I'd just be aiming for that.
Situation 3, if your down for a sloot to fk then go for it but as you said, she's a sloot, even if she isn't really a sloot, you've seen the potential there so it's not worth the risk of dating her, so obviously don't. If you don't give a fk about people knowing you fk'd a sloot, then do it.
Cliffs:
- Wait for situation 1 girl to talk to you, otherwise who gives a fk.
- Situation 2 girl - try smash it if you want.
- Situation 3 girl, don't date, smash her if you don't mind rep about getting with a sloot which can ruin possible relationships with 8/10+ers
- Atleast you have options
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Look up Simple Pick Up on youtube fellas and stay confident and be YOURSELF around girls
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Last night i was at a friends house and a couple of guys were hanging out with us. I had never met one of them before, and he was very good looking. He went outside for a couple minutes to get something from his car, and when he came back in he was sitting with a water bottle in his hand (it was empty). I wasn't really paying attention at first but then I started to notice he kept putting the bottle up to his mouth. I thought it was weird cause it was empty so I looked and the bottle was 1/2 filled with brown spit. I immediately lost any sight of how attractive he was and I honestly was nauseous because it was so disgusting. Don't ever dip. No girl thinks its cool, and it will ruin any chance you might have had, regardless of "aesthetics" or "alpha-ness."
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;983026573]Last night i was at a friends house and a couple of guys were hanging out with us. I had never met one of them before, and he was very good looking. He went outside for a couple minutes to get something from his car, and when he came back in he was sitting with a water bottle in his hand (it was empty). I wasn't really paying attention at first but then I started to notice he kept putting the bottle up to his mouth. I thought it was weird cause it was empty so I looked and the bottle was 1/2 filled with brown spit. I immediately lost any sight of how attractive he was and I honestly was nauseous because it was so disgusting. Don't ever dip. No girl thinks its cool, and it will ruin any chance you might have had, regardless of "aesthetics" or "alpha-ness."[/QUOTE]
I have never heard the word 'dip' be used as a meaning for chewing tobacco in my life, and today I've heard it twice...I also though only cowboys do it
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Just got new haircut damn dem gangas come flockin.
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;983026573]Last night i was at a friends house and a couple of guys were hanging out with us. I had never met one of them before, and he was very good looking. He went outside for a couple minutes to get something from his car, and when he came back in he was sitting with a water bottle in his hand (it was empty). I wasn't really paying attention at first but then I started to notice he kept putting the bottle up to his mouth. I thought it was weird cause it was empty so I looked and the bottle was 1/2 filled with brown spit. I immediately lost any sight of how attractive he was and I honestly was nauseous because it was so disgusting. Don't ever dip. No girl thinks its cool, and it will ruin any chance you might have had, regardless of "aesthetics" or "alpha-ness."[/QUOTE]
Dat der mouth tumor/10
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;983026573]Last night i was at a friends house and a couple of guys were hanging out with us. I had never met one of them before, and he was very good looking. He went outside for a couple minutes to get something from his car, and when he came back in he was sitting with a water bottle in his hand (it was empty). I wasn't really paying attention at first but then I started to notice he kept putting the bottle up to his mouth. I thought it was weird cause it was empty so I looked and the bottle was 1/2 filled with brown spit. I immediately lost any sight of how attractive he was and I honestly was nauseous because it was so disgusting. Don't ever dip. No girl thinks its cool, and it will ruin any chance you might have had, regardless of "aesthetics" or "alpha-ness."[/QUOTE]
It's okay, he still cute. ;)
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[QUOTE=LNCB96;983033383]I have never heard the word 'dip' be used as a meaning for chewing tobacco in my life, and today I've heard it twice...I also though only cowboys do it[/QUOTE]
About 75% of guys I know do it. It's disgusting
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[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;983026573]Last night i was at a friends house and a couple of guys were hanging out with us. I had never met one of them before, and he was very good looking. He went outside for a couple minutes to get something from his car, and when he came back in he was sitting with a water bottle in his hand (it was empty). I wasn't really paying attention at first but then I started to notice he kept putting the bottle up to his mouth. I thought it was weird cause it was empty so I looked and the bottle was 1/2 filled with brown spit. I immediately lost any sight of how attractive he was and I honestly was nauseous because it was so disgusting. Don't ever dip. No girl thinks its cool, and it will ruin any chance you might have had, regardless of "aesthetics" or "alpha-ness."[/QUOTE]
I thought it was primarily a southern thing, but obviously not. Seems like every guy around here dips or has dipped before. I agree, it's pretty nasty. Smoking is worse IMO, but they're both bad. A lot of girls seem to like dipping and others are ok with it. I don't understand. I liked a girl about a year ago but I found out she dipped [i]and[/i] smoked... Was like nahh/10
[QUOTE=LNCB96;983033383]I have never heard the word 'dip' be used as a meaning for chewing tobacco in my life, and today I've heard it twice...I also though only cowboys do it[/QUOTE]
Move south. You will become accustomed to the word dip and seeing many guys doing it. It's not chewing tobacco lol. Those days are over. It's smokeless, shredded tobacco that comes in a round plastic can.
I've only seen a couple of people who use actual chewing tobacco. Only two I can think of... One was my middle school baseball coach (he made really weird sounds while chewing it) and the other was my batting coach. Lol they were both involved in baseball. Pretty sure there's a connection.
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I have a question about casually texting a girl.
Long story short, I'm starting to crush on this girl who sits next to me in anatomy lab. She is insanely smart (has a 4.0), really sweet and really beautiful as well. I got her number a while back but we only talked outside of class if one of us had questions about the lab material. I want to start just casually texting her but I'm not 100% sure how to go about it. We aren't that close of friends yet. Today I texted her happy thanksgiving and we chatted a little today but we only exchanged like 15 messages total. How do I go about starting to casually talk to this girl?
Thanks ahead of time and reps to those of who will lend me some advice.
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[QUOTE=nlucen1;983235643]I have a question about casually texting a girl.
Long story short, I'm starting to crush on this girl who sits next to me in anatomy lab. She is insanely smart (has a 4.0), really sweet and really beautiful as well. I got her number a while back but we only talked outside of class if one of us had questions about the lab material. I want to start just casually texting her but I'm not 100% sure how to go about it. We aren't that close of friends yet. Today I texted her happy thanksgiving and we chatted a little today but we only exchanged like 15 messages total. How do I go about starting to casually talk to this girl?
Thanks ahead of time and reps to those of who will lend me some advice.[/QUOTE]
If you are interested in dating this girl, I would try to limit texting and call her instead. There are some girls who prefer texting to calling, and feel uncomfortable when talking on the phone. Just say hey how are you doing. A way to force a response is to ask a question. Like send her something and say do you think this would look good on me? Obviously that would be an article of clothing. Just keep it simple.
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;983237373]If you are interested in dating this girl, I would try to limit texting and call her instead. There are some girls who prefer texting to calling, and feel uncomfortable when talking on the phone. Just say hey how are you doing. A way to force a response is to ask a question. Like send her something and say do you think this would look good on me? Obviously that would be an article of clothing. Just keep it simple.[/QUOTE]
I will keep this in mind. Thanks
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[QUOTE=nlucen1;983239983]I will keep this in mind. Thanks[/QUOTE]
No problem. You will most likely get several other reponses so be sure to check back
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Update of my previous post:
Her parents came over to chill with mine for a while. I was hoping she'd come with them but she wasnt there. When it was getting late she texted me "stayyyyyyy". I had no idea she knew i was at my mom's house lol. She came over but was only here for ten minutes because her parents left. About five minutes later, when my parent and everybody went to bed, I text her "Want to come watch a movie?" She responded " YES". She shows up in a big fleece jacket, lipstick, short shorts, and no shoes. after the first movie we disregarded the next movies and instead talked about life and cuddled. As i made eye contact when i spoke to her, she gave me THOSE eyes and noticed her getting a little closer. I wanted to move in but i respected her too much (no beta) and wanted to be patient about things (like yall said). Strong connections were had before we passed out. After a while, we both passed out but I woke up feaking out about getting her home. I walked her home, said goodnight and tossed her a Reese's. Was i too beta for "respecting" her? SHould I take action if the signs are right on the next movie date?
CLIFFS
-text her to come over and watch a movie
- she shows up looking sexy
-watch movies
-disregard movies, acquire connection
-dont make moves because too scared
- cuddle, fall asleep
-walk her home, toss her a Reese's
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@wojo, I freaking lol'd at that reese's part.
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Dem Senior year guns.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/lsskp.jpg[/img]
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[QUOTE=wojoman676;983245113]Update of my previous post:
Her parents came over to chill with mine for a while. I was hoping she'd come with them but she wasnt there. When it was getting late she texted me "stayyyyyyy". I had no idea she knew i was at my mom's house lol. She came over but was only here for ten minutes because her parents left. About five minutes later, when my parent and everybody went to bed, I text her "Want to come watch a movie?" She responded " YES". She shows up in a big fleece jacket, lipstick, short shorts, and no shoes. after the first movie we disregarded the next movies and instead talked about life and cuddled. As i made eye contact when i spoke to her, she gave me THOSE eyes and noticed her getting a little closer. I wanted to move in but i respected her too much (no beta) and wanted to be patient about things (like yall said). Strong connections were had before we passed out. After a while, we both passed out but I woke up feaking out about getting her home. I walked her home, said goodnight and tossed her a Reese's. Was i too beta for "respecting" her? SHould I take action if the signs are right on the next movie date?
CLIFFS
-text her to come over and watch a movie
- she shows up looking sexy
-watch movies
-disregard movies, acquire connection
-dont make moves because too scared
- cuddle, fall asleep
-walk her home, toss her a Reese's[/QUOTE]
My heart just melted because that was facking adorable.
I hope it works out for you. It's great you respected her.. But don't be afraid to kiss her, do it next time.
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[QUOTE=wojoman676;983245113]Update of my previous post:
Her parents came over to chill with mine for a while. I was hoping she'd come with them but she wasnt there. When it was getting late she texted me "stayyyyyyy". I had no idea she knew i was at my mom's house lol. She came over but was only here for ten minutes because her parents left. About five minutes later, when my parent and everybody went to bed, I text her "Want to come watch a movie?" She responded " YES". She shows up in a big fleece jacket, lipstick, short shorts, and no shoes. after the first movie we disregarded the next movies and instead talked about life and cuddled. As i made eye contact when i spoke to her, she gave me THOSE eyes and noticed her getting a little closer. I wanted to move in but i respected her too much (no beta) and wanted to be patient about things (like yall said). Strong connections were had before we passed out. After a while, we both passed out but I woke up feaking out about getting her home. I walked her home, said goodnight and tossed her a Reese's. Was i too beta for "respecting" her? SHould I take action if the signs are right on the next movie date?
CLIFFS
-text her to come over and watch a movie
- she shows up looking sexy
-watch movies
-disregard movies, acquire connection
-dont make moves because too scared
- cuddle, fall asleep
-walk her home, toss her a Reese's[/QUOTE]
Why would respecting a girl be beta? You care about the girl and want to take things slow. That's a good thing.
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[QUOTE=SkitheEast;981979463]I have no diseases and my brain functions perfectly fine(tested into private schools).
Edit: Sex is for reproduction and I'm pretty sure evolution made sex feel good so we would want to do it. Also back in the day society made it necessary for people to pair bond, now a days a women can raise children on their own since they can work, vote, and do everything a man can. You have to look at how societies and technology are changing, things that were once necessary are now no longer.
In response to you're other comments, I lift to decrease stress and do a few other activities, for joy I travel, golf, fish, ski, parties with friends, etc.. Maybe you need someone to hold your hand through life, but I know what I want, how to get it and I will do just that.[/QUOTE]
You obviously don't understand that the whole reason that we still exist or have society is because of our innate need to form relationships. This is how we survive, and it's gotten us this far. If you want to be independent, go ahead, but don't act as if relationships are useless. Romantic relationships are also not useless. Even in this modern age you need to form relationships.
By the way, Asperger's isn't exactly a disease nor can will you be denied entry into a private school with it.
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[QUOTE=wojoman676;983245113]Update of my previous post:
Her parents came over to chill with mine for a while. I was hoping she'd come with them but she wasnt there. When it was getting late she texted me "stayyyyyyy". I had no idea she knew i was at my mom's house lol. She came over but was only here for ten minutes because her parents left. About five minutes later, when my parent and everybody went to bed, I text her "Want to come watch a movie?" She responded " YES". She shows up in a big fleece jacket, lipstick, short shorts, and no shoes. after the first movie we disregarded the next movies and instead talked about life and cuddled. As i made eye contact when i spoke to her, she gave me THOSE eyes and noticed her getting a little closer. I wanted to move in but i respected her too much (no beta) and wanted to be patient about things (like yall said). Strong connections were had before we passed out. After a while, we both passed out but I woke up feaking out about getting her home. I walked her home, said goodnight and tossed her a Reese's. Was i too beta for "respecting" her? SHould I take action if the signs are right on the next movie date?
CLIFFS
-text her to come over and watch a movie
- she shows up looking sexy
-watch movies
-disregard movies, acquire connection
-dont make moves because too scared
- cuddle, fall asleep
-walk her home, toss her a Reese's[/QUOTE]
You should have done the kiss when you walked her home bro.
Because then It just makes sure the next time you hang out, everyone knows its not just being friends.
But you did good and you certainly didnt dun goof gjdm
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[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;983257343]Dem Senior year guns.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/lsskp.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
dem calves .......
wait wut?
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Did my facial aesthetics get better after haircut?
before
[img]http://i9.aijaa.com/b/00706/11330100.jpg[/img]
after
[img]http://i46.tinypic.com/1p9es9.jpg[/img]
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[QUOTE=Meliih;983362303]Did my facial aesthetics get better after haircut?
before
[img]http://i9.aijaa.com/b/00706/11330100.jpg[/img]
after
[img]http://i46.tinypic.com/1p9es9.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
Yes you no longer look like you wish death on the world.
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I'm curious. I know males have this little thing called yellow fever for their choice in women...
do females have a yellow fever for men?
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[QUOTE=speX94;983492913]I'm curious. I know males have this little thing called yellow fever for their choice in women...
do females have a yellow fever for men?[/QUOTE]
I thought the main three were yellow fever , jungle forest, snow white?
