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[QUOTE=sjambo;1035577083]What do you guys think, is it helpful to have girls as friends?
As in will they help you out with girls you like etc[/QUOTE]
Depends how awesome your friends are.
If you get one of your mates to wingman for you your chances of getting laid are increased. If you get your female friends to wingman... then it becomes hard not to get laid...
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worst situaton. Best friend's sister is pretty hot and is into me, dafuq do i do.
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[QUOTE=fuuaarrkk;1036515943]worst situaton. Best friend's sister is pretty hot and is into me, dafuq do i do.[/QUOTE]
slam her and then brag about it to ur friend
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[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1034813483]A little update and a question. I've kept up with the girl and we hung out a few times as my bestfriend and her bestfriend are dating so it was just us 2 so it was straight. This past weekend we were together for like 6 hours and we were sittin on this couch with another chick on the other side. She kept kinda rubbing my arm and getting closer to me, but I didn't make a move. Should I have? She was leaning on me but she'd get off after a while then snuggle back up to me. What do TMisc? Also, how do I get closer to dating this girl? Just flirt more and more then eventually ask her to formal?[/QUOTE]
Definitely should have!!! If ever a girl rubs up on you more than once, MAKE THE MOVE. Slowly stroke her arm, then move down and grab her hand. Once you've held hands for a while let go and slowly stroke your fingers up her arm till your hand is brushing up against her boob, from there she will guide your hand to where she wants it. Just be confident, let her know what you want and leave the choice with her.
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Just spent
10 hours in the drunk tank. Fuk dat ****
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[QUOTE=ColinMalloy95;1037104623]Definitely should have!!! If ever a girl rubs up on you more than once, MAKE THE MOVE. [B]Slowly stroke her arm, then move down and grab her hand. Once you've held hands for a while let go and slowly stroke your fingers up her arm till your hand is brushing up against her boob, from there she will guide your hand to where she wants it. Just be confident, let her know what you want and leave the choice with her.[/B][/QUOTE]
DEM INSTRUCTIONS
WAAAAAAY too complicated brah. Put your arm around her. If she screams or tries to move it away it probably was a dick move and you should move it back :L
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[QUOTE=ColinMalloy95;1037104623]Definitely should have!!! If ever a girl rubs up on you more than once, MAKE THE MOVE. Slowly stroke her arm, then move down and grab her hand. Once you've held hands for a while let go and slowly stroke your fingers up her arm till your hand is brushing up against her boob, from there she will guide your hand to where she wants it. Just be confident, let her know what you want and leave the choice with her.[/QUOTE]
Yeah realcomplicated and you probably should not touch her boob or stroke her at all. Make her laugh, show her your personality, and even if it does feel awkward do what the kid above said and put your arm around her after she makes first contact (or do that first if you're confident she wants the D)
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Been going out with this girl for a year (we were like friends for 4 years before this), and she is leaving for college in late August (she is going to Georgia I am staying in jersey) so that's way too far to visit. Do I break it off? I'm only 18 and don't know if I shoul tie myself down to a long distance relationship, I know it's all on how I feel I just want some input from some misc brahs with unbiased opinions
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[QUOTE=SevenStix;1038541333]Been going out with this girl for a year (we were like friends for 4 years before this), and she is leaving for college in late August (she is going to Georgia I am staying in jersey) so that's way too far to visit. Do I break it off? I'm only 18 and don't know if I shoul tie myself down to a long distance relationship, I know it's all on how I feel I just want some input from some misc brahs with unbiased opinions[/QUOTE]
I would break it off.
My problem which is similar to ^:
I'm hitting it off with this girl who is a few years older than me and I'm thinking of asking her out, BUT
I'm moving to Germany in May for a full year.
I refuse to keep a long distance relationship so what I'm wondering is whether I should even bother building up a relationship over these next two months, should i just try to be friends with benefits, or leave it as it is.
I am VERY VERY interested in her though. I'd rate her a 10/10 to me, and I honestly believe all MISC brahs would give her an 8-9/10.
Another major problem is she will have graduated from school by the time I come back and it'll be harder to try and work it out if I don't try now.
She is graduating from M.Eng, so I'm going to assume she'll have a job by the time I come back.
She should be graduated from university by now.
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[QUOTE=comps;1038646573]I would break it off.
My problem which is similar to ^:
I'm hitting it off with this girl who is a few years older than me and I'm thinking of asking her out, BUT
I'm moving to Germany in May for a full year.
I refuse to keep a long distance relationship so what I'm wondering is whether I should even bother building up a relationship over these next two months, should i just try to be friends with benefits, or leave it as it is.
I am VERY VERY interested in her though. I'd rate her a 10/10 to me, and I honestly believe all MISC brahs would give her an 8-9/10.
Another major problem is she will have graduated from school by the time I come back and it'll be harder to try and work it out if I don't try now.
She is graduating from M.Eng, so I'm going to assume she'll have a job by the time I come back.
She should be graduated from university by now.[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the opinion, that's what I've been leaning towards.
And two months is little to no time, you will probably just become more attracted to her (even if it is just friends with benefits). I'd keep her as a friend as of now, an then when you come back if things work out then they do. But at least you wouldn't have tried too early and have the chance ruined because you're going away for a year
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[QUOTE=SevenStix;1038649233]Thanks for the opinion, that's what I've been leaning towards.
And two months is little to no time, you will probably just become more attracted to her (even if it is just friends with benefits). I'd keep her as a friend as of now, an then when you come back if things work out then they do. But at least you wouldn't have tried too early and have the chance ruined because you're going away for a year[/QUOTE]
You're right, everytime I find a girl I'm interested in they always leave.
Biggest problem is that she'll be fairly far ahead of me in "life" so I want to build an intimate relationship now and see if we can get back to it when I come back. (If we're both still interested then)
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So here is a question, how come all of the ugly/nasty girls are interested in me, but all of the pretty/nice girls are standoffish? I mean seriously? It's like the gross girls are all confident and outgoing and all of the nice girls aren't confident and are timid. Just wanting some thoughts from fellow brahs
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[QUOTE=danpow;1038749293]So here is a question, how come all of the ugly/nasty girls are interested in me, but all of the pretty/nice girls are standoffish? I mean seriously? It's like the gross girls are all confident and outgoing and all of the nice girls aren't confident and are timid. Just wanting some thoughts from fellow brahs[/QUOTE]
I knew this feel.
Normally it's because these girls think you're on their level.
They believe you can't do better than them.
100% serious.
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I like this girl, don't know if she likes me. I think her friend likes me though. I feel when I talk to her (the friend) she thinks I'm flirting with her. She isn't good looking, and I wouldn't date her.
Is there any harm in talking to the friend?
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[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1034813483]A little update and a question. I've kept up with the girl and we hung out a few times as my bestfriend and her bestfriend are dating so it was just us 2 so it was straight. This past weekend we were together for like 6 hours and we were sittin on this couch with another chick on the other side. She kept kinda rubbing my arm and getting closer to me, but I didn't make a move. Should I have? She was leaning on me but she'd get off after a while then snuggle back up to me. What do TMisc? Also, how do I get closer to dating this girl? Just flirt more and more then eventually ask her to formal?[/QUOTE]
Tough situation make a move too soon it gets awkward ur make one too late she will probably always make fun of you with her friends cuz your vagina is bigger then hers
Best bit of advice I can say is wait for the right moment like where it is just you and her and if you miss the moment your pretty much screwed you only get one shot
But since she broke the touch barrier first she more then likely wants you unless she sees you as the best friend who she can cuddle with then you don't stand a chance
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We should just call this the "Over-thinking Thread". Seriously. LOL
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[QUOTE=danpow;1039086163]We should just call this the "Over-thinking Thread". Seriously. LOL[/QUOTE]
I like the way you think.
See what I did der?
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[QUOTE=danpow;1039086163]We should just call this the "Over-thinking Thread". Seriously. LOL[/QUOTE]
Haha. True.
I'm pretty sure girls over-think things more than we do though. Although I swear some of the texts I get from girls are confusingly worded on purpose, like they want me to be confused and have to over-think it. I think this is a tactic us males are yet to uncover...
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Hey guys, I have a situation on my hands. Girl I'm interested in was talkin to a fellow brah about how she thinks I would be a great bf but she's trying to get over this one guy. She says she likes him but he asked her out and she said no (woman logic?) She told her bestfriend (who's dating my brah/ best friend) that I'm perfect for her but she just needs time. How do I get with her. She seems interested in me at least but also in another guy, but she turned him down. Planning on hanging out with her this weekend, how to flirt/ let her know im interested?
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[QUOTE=sjambo;1035577083]What do you guys think, is it helpful to have girls as friends?
As in will they help you out with girls you like etc[/QUOTE]
girls as friends is always helpful, unless they're total skids. personally, most of my friends are scared to death of girls and that does not help my image out, when I'm quite comfortable around girls. I used to have a lot of girls as friends and it was a godsend. need to get back on that train.
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[QUOTE=GeorgiaFatKid;1042966683]Hey guys, I have a situation on my hands. Girl I'm interested in was talkin to a fellow brah about how she thinks I would be a great bf but she's trying to get over this one guy. She says she likes him but he asked her out and she said no (woman logic?) She told her bestfriend (who's dating my brah/ best friend) that I'm perfect for her but she just needs time. How do I get with her. She seems interested in me at least but also in another guy, but she turned him down. Planning on hanging out with her this weekend, how to flirt/ let her know im interested?[/QUOTE]
if she's that cautious you should be careful, but you already have a leg up seeing that she likes you. just play it cool, drop some flirty lines, don't be like super nice, they always take that in a friendly way, not a "wow he's so nice" way.
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oh and a little question of my own. what to do when a girl texts and you start chatting then she just never replies. like ill get 3 or 4 replies with reasonable space between them and then just nothing. do I just suck at texting or is she just a huge bitch? lol
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[QUOTE=PsychoBananas;1043044263]oh and a little question of my own. what to do when a girl texts and you start chatting then she just never replies. like ill get 3 or 4 replies with reasonable space between them and then just nothing. do I just suck at texting or is she just a huge bitch? lol[/QUOTE]
May be busy, may be doing it on purpose and playing games. If you suspect it to be the latter, just start taking way longer to answer her texts n chit, make her chase you not the other way around, if shes interested enough then gg if not then at least youre not wasting your time with some chick and can move on to another
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1 thing that sucks hardcore=getting friendzoned by the girl you like the most(especially when she claims you as her little brother-_-)
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Need some insight guys. My Girlfriend is calling me a pussy for not calling her a b**** and I've told her that I'm not so rude to call her a b**** and that I wouldn't like to call her a b**** because it's rude, your partner shouldn't call you a b****. I tell her she is beautiful a lot and she told me to stop saying that and to stop getting her gifts? I bought her some flowers in the span of 4 months and she actually got angry for me doing it? I don't understand...help me out tmisc. ty.
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[QUOTE=Apollonius;1044080393]Need some insight guys. My Girlfriend is calling me a pussy for not calling her a b**** and I've told her that I'm not so rude to call her a b**** and that I wouldn't like to call her a b**** because it's rude, your partner shouldn't call you a b****. I tell her she is beautiful a lot and she told me to stop saying that and to stop getting her gifts? I bought her some flowers in the span of 4 months and she actually got angry for me doing it? I don't understand...help me out tmisc. ty.[/QUOTE]
She probably thinks you're smothering her to much. It seems like you're interested in her a lot more than she is you. I advise slowly backing off a bit, kind of give her the cold shoulder and see what happens.
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[QUOTE=OmegaMurray;1044082683]She probably thinks you're smothering her to much. It seems like you're interested in her a lot more than she is you. I advise slowly backing off a bit, kind of give her the cold shoulder and see what happens.[/QUOTE] Thought so, I already started doing this. We went on a trip together for a week then the day after she went to Florida for an 11 day trip and I've just been letting her start the convo's and all and let her question what I'm doing. I'll definitely give her more of the cold shoulder. Thanks man. +reps.
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[QUOTE=DathanM;1043938083]1 thing that sucks hardcore=getting friendzoned by the girl you like the most(especially when she claims you as her little brother-_-)[/QUOTE]
Had a madcrush on one of my best friends for two years. The day she called me her little brother, I knew there was no hope.
That being said, I still pursued because she seemed interested..... Ended up, she had no idea that she was being flirty and had no interest.. Flopped
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So I had a bit of success recently. We all know that confidence is supposedly the most important thing. I have been confident for awhile now. But what I recently noticed is that it's more about sounding confident and looking confident.
Will post more later on.
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[QUOTE=sjambo;1044475703]So I had a bit of success recently. We all know that confidence is supposedly the most important thing. I have been confident for awhile now. But what I recently noticed is that it's more about sounding confident and looking confident.
Will post more later on.[/QUOTE]
I have been confident for awhile. I didn't care what people said about me. But I noticed that the confidence didn't really show. In my limited experience I have found that the most important thing is HOW you talk. Not what you say.
What I recommend anyone to do, is get a good group of friends and just have a good time with them. When your having a great time with your friends, you feel great and I have noticed that it shows when speaking to girls.
There's my advice to you guys. I will no doubt be back looking for advice soon.