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I wouldn't mind even friendship with this girl; getting her to date me isn't my center of focus. I'm just really confused; that she would say those things, and then just not even talk to me as a friend.
I assume the obvy signs that would be that she would be adamant on the hang out; that she would be awkward, and not laugh; that she wouldn't tell me you know: embarassing stories, family, that she was socially awkward; and then letting me into her car..but that wasnt the case.
I'm not itimidating, so she could've easily rejected me.
But maybe, i did misread her.
I have no effing clue.
Do you think i should just call?(i don't want to get a restraining order lol)
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[QUOTE=JayLuong91011;1001054693]I wouldn't mind even friendship with this girl; getting her to date me isn't my center of focus. I'm just really confused; that she would say those things, and then just not even talk to me as a friend.
I assume the obvy signs that would be that she would be adamant on the hang out; that she would be awkward, and not laugh; that she wouldn't tell me you know: embarassing stories, family, that she was socially awkward; and then letting me into her car..but that wasnt the case.
I'm not itimidating, so she could've easily rejected me.
But maybe, i did misread her.
I have no effing clue.
Do you think i should just call?(i don't want to get a restraining order lol)[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't think too much about it. Don't call though; she may be having second thoughts, or there's someone else that she's interested in. Give it a few days and see if she texts/talks to you.
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[QUOTE=TMSmith4;1001057353]I wouldn't think too much about it. Don't call though; she may be having second thoughts, or there's someone else that she's interested in. Give it a few days and see if she texts/talks to you.[/QUOTE]
i guess **** happens. even if "you play your cards right". and it's been a week
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[QUOTE=JayLuong91011;1001054693]I wouldn't mind even friendship with this girl; getting her to date me isn't my center of focus. I'm just really confused; that she would say those things, and then just not even talk to me as a friend.
I assume the obvy signs that would be that she would be adamant on the hang out; that she would be awkward, and not laugh; that she wouldn't tell me you know: embarassing stories, family, that she was socially awkward; and then letting me into her car..but that wasnt the case.
I'm not itimidating, so she could've easily rejected me.
But maybe, i did misread her.
I have no effing clue.
Do you think i should just call?(i don't want to get a restraining order lol)[/QUOTE]
If you don't fear her rejecting you or coming off like you care too much then you can straight up ask her whats going on. I've done this before, but frankly I do a lot of straight up/blunt **** with a lot of people because I just dont give a **** what they think unless I genuinely want to have a chance with them. I'd personally just ask her out of curiosity - but thats my idgaf side.
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[QUOTE=QualityByDC;1001065473]If you don't fear her rejecting you or coming off like you care too much then you can straight up ask her whats going on. I've done this before, but frankly I do a lot of straight up/blunt **** with a lot of people because I just dont give a **** what they think unless I genuinely want to have a chance with them. I'd personally just ask her out of curiosity - but thats my idgaf side.[/QUOTE] thats what i wanted to hear.
update: just called, she didn't answer. she can go **** herself.
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[QUOTE=JayLuong91011;1001066923]thats what i wanted to hear.
update: just called, she didn't answer. she can go **** herself.[/QUOTE]
strong follow through.
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Disregard females, Must acquire Aesthetics.
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[QUOTE=Giann4evaMirin;1001194623]Disregard females, Must acquire Aesthetics.[/QUOTE]
Nofuqdat. Disregard females, acquire raw mass.
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[QUOTE=grux12;1001272283]Nofuqdat. Disregard females, acquire raw mass.[/QUOTE]
I miss you.
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Can anyone explain this to me?
Be in class sitting diagonal across the room from 9/10, look at that side of the room end up making eye contact with said 9/10, so i look away. dont want to be a creep ya know.
Also same 9/10, I'm standing outside class mucking around on my phone look up 9/10 is looking at me out of the corner of her eye.
Now 6-7/10 sitting in front of me must have a serious problem with her hair because she cant seem to stop flicking it all the time, throwing both hands behind her hair in the back of her head and just pushing it out. It's rather distracting and annoying for that reason. Also class is over she gets up first standing in middle of isle and i have to ask her to move so i can leave because im impatient and hate having to wait for slow ppl.
Now I'm sitting at my desk mucking around on my phone and i look up and notice this 8/10 starring at me, we made eye contact. So i look away, look up again still starring, look away again then back up still starring, so at this point im pissed and dont look up no more go back to phone.
So I'm walking down the street and I feel this girl is looking at me so i dart my eyes in the direction right and behind her, swear to god she almost did a 180 while holding her bf's hand.
Da hell do people keep looking at me for? I hate i mean hate being starred at, as well as any kind of attention. Are these women attracted to me? because im not so sure im good looking like that, but i can;t ****ing rate myself i see my face every day.
edit: Also one more scenario. I was by my friends house and bunch of people are there. So im talking to a friend and idk for what reason i looked up and straight ahead to see his sister (we're same age) starring at me from 20 ft away. So this is after all the above sh*t happened and im just like **** this **** and look away.
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Posted this as a thread in RH but I'll put it here to, I'm going to tell my gf I love her for the first time, but how should I go about it?
This will pretty much make or break our relationship. We've known each other for 2 years but started dating 1 and a half months ago.
We both told each other we've had crushes on each other for years (srs lol) and we both really, really like each other, both agree its surreal that we're finally together (dear diary)
So since its pretty much the end of the year I'm going to pull out the L word and see what she says, if its not mutual then I'll be a new single man at the start of 2013, if it is a mutual feeling then its a great start to the year, can't complain?
How should I set the mood? Just gaze in her eyes and tell her? It'll be the first time I've seriously used the word
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Got over stupid oneitis situation (posted few pages back) by getting with a hot english bish tonight, feels good man.
Just told her to kiss me when we were alone and bam!! Back in the game, snapped out of the oneitis disease.
Ask/Tell and thou shall receive.
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[QUOTE=TierAlpha;1001541383]Got over stupid oneitis situation (posted few pages back) by getting with a hot english bish tonight, feels good man.
Just told her to kiss me when we were alone and bam!! Back in the game, snapped out of the oneitis disease.
Ask/Tell and thou shall receive.[/QUOTE]
Told her to kiss you? Never done that.. How'd that go?
srs.
What did you do when you guys were together?
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[QUOTE=lkillen;1001562903]Told her to kiss you? Never done that.. How'd that go?
srs.
What did you do when you guys were together?[/QUOTE]
Went smooth,
I was out with the boys, getting yucky, and I have this chick friend who is like one of the guys. she text me saying she was out. when I saw her, she had this cute english girl with her, who she only met that day, (english girl was visiting her family).
This chick had her hair back like she wasnt going out, then after meeting me she rushed to the restroom with my chick friend, spent a good amount of time in there and came back out with her hair down and brushed (I lol'd)
fast forwarding-was talking to her about what she was doing over here blah blah etc etc.
End of night comes (1.5 hour after meeting her) go to get food, tell my friend ill wait outside with the english girl because its getting full in the food place. (best way to seperate away)
Standing outside its cold as ****!, Seeing she is cold and just pulled her into me, she put her arms around me and
she smiled, so I just said 'give me a kiss'. then I leaned in and made out with her.
made plans to hang out on new years,
mini cliff
go out
meet english girl
she is cold
make out
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[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;1001479673]Posted this as a thread in RH but I'll put it here to, I'm going to tell my gf I love her for the first time, but how should I go about it?
This will pretty much make or break our relationship. We've known each other for 2 years but started dating 1 and a half months ago.
We both told each other we've had crushes on each other for years (srs lol) and we both really, really like each other, both agree its surreal that we're finally together (dear diary)
So since its pretty much the end of the year I'm going to pull out the L word and see what she says, if its not mutual then I'll be a new single man at the start of 2013, if it is a mutual feeling then its a great start to the year, can't complain?
How should I set the mood? Just gaze in her eyes and tell her? It'll be the first time I've seriously used the word[/QUOTE]
Don't **** around with the L word. You are not "in love" with this girl just because youve had a huge crush on her for years. You havent even been dating for 2 months yet.
smh
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Hey guys took a small hiatus from posting on the site. Anyways, ive come to the conclusion that im gettin to old for this scared to go after girls pu$$y crap ive been on for probably 2 or 3 years now. Theres a girl in my gym thats just recently started going there (or at least ive only seen her there recently) and shes caught my eye. I want to strike up conversation but she usually works out in a different part of the gym than i do and she wears earplugs to listen to music. Any suggestions on how i could start talking to her and possibly after chit chatting a few times ask her to chill? im sure somebody has asked similar questions but im too lazy to go through 40 pages. Also, whether its relevant or not i think shes a 7.5/10 and i consider myself a 4/10.
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[QUOTE=HammerDance45;1001828963]Hey guys took a small hiatus from posting on the site. Anyways, ive come to the conclusion that im gettin to old for this scared to go after girls pu$$y crap ive been on for probably 2 or 3 years now. Theres a girl in my gym thats just recently started going there (or at least ive only seen her there recently) and shes caught my eye. I want to strike up conversation but she usually works out in a different part of the gym than i do and she wears earplugs to listen to music. Any suggestions on how i could start talking to her and possibly after chit chatting a few times ask her to chill? im sure somebody has asked similar questions but im too lazy to go through 40 pages. Also, whether its relevant or not i think shes a 7.5/10 and i consider myself a 4/10.[/QUOTE]
Don't worry about it everyone has it... depending on who it is (mostly just if I actually know them personally) I turn into a little bitch and dont make any moves. Very rarely happens though...probably only 3 girls in the last 4 years.
If she consistently has headphones in the only real way to do anything is to get her as shes walking in or leaving the gym if she doesnt have them on yet. Other than that you could always try going over to where shes doing her stuff and ask to work in on the machine or something and end up starting up a little conversation. Not that many options TBH - I would probably never hit on a girl in the gym unless I was getting looks.
Careful btw, some girls really dislike getting hit on while they work out... feel it out the first time you guys talk, you may not want to do it again with her if shes not very friendly
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OK guys some help would be nice here as i'm sure some other guys have done the same thing. Its new years so that's why i'm on this site, trying to get into lifting again.
But What would you do If you were crushing on a girl and she was crushing on you but no one made a move, the year ends and this year you feel like there could be something but you are just not sure, maybe you waited to long?
I still really like this girl but I don't act like it and i think i have waited to long to make a move and i want to try and make one when winter break ends. what would be a good starting point to get back in the game?
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[QUOTE=QualityByDC;1001961503]Don't worry about it everyone has it... depending on who it is (mostly just if I actually know them personally) I turn into a little bitch and dont make any moves. Very rarely happens though...probably only 3 girls in the last 4 years.
If she consistently has headphones in the only real way to do anything is to get her as shes walking in or leaving the gym if she doesnt have them on yet. Other than that you could always try going over to where shes doing her stuff and ask to work in on the machine or something and end up starting up a little conversation. Not that many options TBH - I would probably never hit on a girl in the gym unless I was getting looks.
Careful btw, some girls really dislike getting hit on while they work out... feel it out the first time you guys talk, you may not want to do it again with her if shes not very friendly[/QUOTE]
i realize that the gym isnt the best place for things like this but i dont really have any relationships with girls at school and the one or two that i am interested in are way out of my league or have zero interest. I also dont do a ton of social things where there will be plenty of girls. My circle is small and we stick together and ive never been too interested in the partying scene. Besides, the girls at the gym dont have opinions formed of me yet. Girls at school think they know who i am (think, not actually know) and i dont think thats going to change.
Thanks for the advice, though. And im really not getting any looks.. just that akward make eye contact and we both look away type of thing. Ugh sad sigh foreveralone feel
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[QUOTE=HammerDance45;1002663643]i realize that the gym isnt the best place for things like this but i dont really have any relationships with girls at school and the one or two that i am interested in are way out of my league or have zero interest. I also dont do a ton of social things where there will be plenty of girls. My circle is small and we stick together and ive never been too interested in the partying scene. Besides, the girls at the gym dont have opinions formed of me yet. Girls at school think they know who i am (think, not actually know) and i dont think thats going to change.
Thanks for the advice, though. And im really not getting any looks.. just that akward make eye contact and we both look away type of thing. Ugh sad sigh foreveralone feel[/QUOTE]
Let's see if I can help anyone. People had opinions of me formed in my first three years in HS too, which were negative. I got into shape, became dedicated to a sport, and ate healthy. Those opinions of me completely changed. If you don't change you won't have any luck no matter where you go, because you need to be the change. If that sounds corny then hey guess it is, but I use to think it was the people and that if I went somewhere else my life would be better.
Anyone have any input on my above question?
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[QUOTE=arnoldrothstein;1002832513]Let's see if I can help anyone. People had opinions of me formed in my first three years in HS too, which were negative. I got into shape, became dedicated to a sport, and ate healthy. Those opinions of me completely changed. If you don't change you won't have any luck no matter where you go, because you need to be the change. If that sounds corny then hey guess it is, but I use to think it was the people and that if I went somewhere else my life would be better.
Anyone have any input on my above question?[/QUOTE]
Well thats the thing, i have changed. Frankly ive done a 180. In the past year (more like 7/8 months) ive lost 50 lbs. Ive dedicated myself to lifting and my work ethic in school has also improved. Ive also matured as a person. I used to be one the most immature teenagers that you could find and i was an *******, not towards people in general but i had a messed up joke for everything. I like to think that im more mature than my age because of the work ive put in and the personal struggles ive had in terms of where i fit with society and with girls, etc. I received complements but it seems like girls view me as the same kid as i was before. its frankly depressing as sh!t that nobody really is acknowledging what ive done and how much ive changed, girls in particular. i dont want to get off topic. Thanks and any other advice would help
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[QUOTE=JayLuong91011;1001033343]Already asked my mates and fam; but i'm still unsure. Ignore if you desire, but it's a typical story.
I met this amazing girl. She made the first moves.
We eventually got to know each other. At one point, I thought she liked me because she would laugh, smile, and when I'd try to act like a little boy and try to check out what she was doing(in a kid like manner); she would pull back and give me that look that says "i don't think so, in a cute way".
We hung out at a coffee shop. And we talked, for two hours. I was talking alot, maybe even too much; but she talked a bit too. I know quite a lot about her. We laughed, and I was really getting to know her.
At the end of the hang out, we went in her car. And she seemed comfortable. And we talked, (I didn't want to leave, but she already made plans to go to a party). She said "when are we going to hang out again? and what am I doing for new years?" before it ended. And she said we should donate blood together. I told her, lovingly to be safe and have a good night.
We texted the next day; and everything seemed fine till later at night. And then she just stopped texting.
I sent a good night. no response. three days later, a merry Christmas. no response... And new years is coming up.
i haven't been this bummed in a while. she was really amazing.
What do you think happened?[/QUOTE]
Srs, if you heard nothing from her that whole time, something may have happened to her, like an accident, after all; you did say it happened at night time. ****, sucks that happened, just remember to bust your ass off in the gym to get the girls to come to you now. The gym will always be there, girls won't.
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Anybody heard of Simple Pickup?
It's a slightly helpful youtube channel.
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[QUOTE=RippedVonWinkle;1003371963]Anybody heard of Simple Pickup?
It's a slightly helpful youtube channel.[/QUOTE]
^^.
Hey guys took a small hiatus from posting on the site. Anyways, ive come to the conclusion that im gettin to old for this scared to go after girls pu$$y crap ive been on for probably 2 or 3 years now. Theres a girl in my gym thats just recently started going there (or at least ive only seen her there recently) and shes caught my eye. I want to strike up conversation but she usually works out in a different part of the gym than i do and she wears earplugs to listen to music. Any suggestions on how i could start talking to her and possibly after chit chatting a few times ask her to chill? im sure somebody has asked similar questions but im too lazy to go through 40 pages. Also, whether its relevant or not i think shes a 7.5/10 and i consider myself a 4/10.
Bro, don't think like that , you're a ****in sick **** brah. Even if you're ugly/no aesthetics/sad **** all it takes is confidence. Also you asked when's a good time to talk to her, maybe after she finnishes workout and about to leave.
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[QUOTE=pjpants95;1002618133]OK guys some help would be nice here as i'm sure some other guys have done the same thing. Its new years so that's why i'm on this site, trying to get into lifting again.
But What would you do If you were crushing on a girl and she was crushing on you but no one made a move, the year ends and this year you feel like there could be something but you are just not sure, maybe you waited to long?
I still really like this girl but I don't act like it and i think i have waited to long to make a move and i want to try and make one when winter break ends. what would be a good starting point to get back in the game?[/QUOTE]
Just go up to her and talk to her, if you walk by her by chance, or just text her, if she likes you back still then she won't care that it's out of the blue.
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[QUOTE=Giann4evaMirin;1003465043]^^.
Hey guys took a small hiatus from posting on the site. Anyways, ive come to the conclusion that im gettin to old for this scared to go after girls pu$$y crap ive been on for probably 2 or 3 years now. Theres a girl in my gym thats just recently started going there (or at least ive only seen her there recently) and shes caught my eye. I want to strike up conversation but she usually works out in a different part of the gym than i do and she wears earplugs to listen to music. Any suggestions on how i could start talking to her and possibly after chit chatting a few times ask her to chill? im sure somebody has asked similar questions but im too lazy to go through 40 pages. Also, whether its relevant or not i think shes a 7.5/10 and i consider myself a 4/10.
Bro, don't think like that , you're a ****in sick **** brah. Even if you're ugly/no aesthetics/sad **** all it takes is confidence. Also you asked when's a good time to talk to her, maybe after she finnishes workout and about to leave.[/QUOTE]
haha thanks. I really dont have much confidence but im just trying to be realistic. It would be unfair to myself to pretend im better than what i am and end up embarrassing myself
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ok so idk if something similar has been posted before becuase the thread is 42 pages long and aint nobody got time for dat chit. anyway, theres this girl at school who is popular, where as i am just higher than average popularity because im still fairly new to the school. So id seen her around abit and she didnt really take much notice of me but i thought she was really cute. im at work one day and she walks in just as im leaving and i have a quick conversation with her goes along the lines of;
her: hey (looks at clothes on clothes rack and smiles)
me: hey, how are you going? (realizing its this chick from school)
her: good thanks, you?
me: yeah good thankyou. It's (name) isnt it?
her: yeah haha how did you know my name?
me: i go to the same school as you haha
her: oh okay ive never seen you around, what year are you in?
blah blah blah blah blah
so she ends up adding me on facebook and saying that i look alot hotter IRL than in facebook display picture (the pic is a year old luls) and i throw the same compliment back at her. so we talk for a bit then i end up getting her number and text from then on. she asks me to call her later on and i do but when i call, she tells me to "hang on, ill call you back". never does. and i get that she may have had to do something then she forgot or whatever, didnt really bother me.
the reason for that back story was to show that i didnt misread her. the problem is however that on new years she asked me if i wanted to go to the beach with her at around 12ish at night. i really wanted to but couldnt because of rents saying i had to be home by 11 at night (the feck). i end up seeing her down there earlier on in the night and talk breifly but its akward as fck. next morning i message her but get no reply all day so i tried again the next morning and again no reply. she then messages me out of nowhere and asks me to call her, so i do and when i do shes with her friends asking if i had any friends i could bring over to her house, this was at like 10 o'clock and rents (of course) wouldnt let me out. she then doesnt speak to me again.
i think ive developed oneitis for this chick so im kinda bummed that she keeps messing around. seeing as though she is popular and hot (strong 8/10 IMO) she probably gets attention from guys all the time. t misc wut do i do? i like her but does she even like me? im so confused.
inb4 dear diary
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[QUOTE=fuuaarrkk;1004251183]ok so idk if something similar has been posted before becuase the thread is 42 pages long and aint nobody got time for dat chit. anyway, theres this girl at school who is popular, where as i am just higher than average popularity because im still fairly new to the school. So id seen her around abit and she didnt really take much notice of me but i thought she was really cute. im at work one day and she walks in just as im leaving and i have a quick conversation with her goes along the lines of;
her: hey (looks at clothes on clothes rack and smiles)
me: hey, how are you going? (realizing its this chick from school)
her: good thanks, you?
me: yeah good thankyou. It's (name) isnt it?
her: yeah haha how did you know my name?
me: i go to the same school as you haha
her: oh okay ive never seen you around, what year are you in?
blah blah blah blah blah
so she ends up adding me on facebook and saying that i look alot hotter IRL than in facebook display picture (the pic is a year old luls) and i throw the same compliment back at her. so we talk for a bit then i end up getting her number and text from then on. she asks me to call her later on and i do but when i call, she tells me to "hang on, ill call you back". never does. and i get that she may have had to do something then she forgot or whatever, didnt really bother me.
the reason for that back story was to show that i didnt misread her. the problem is however that on new years she asked me if i wanted to go to the beach with her at around 12ish at night. i really wanted to but couldnt because of rents saying i had to be home by 11 at night (the feck). i end up seeing her down there earlier on in the night and talk breifly but its akward as fck. next morning i message her but get no reply all day so i tried again the next morning and again no reply. she then messages me out of nowhere and asks me to call her, so i do and when i do shes with her friends asking if i had any friends i could bring over to her house, this was at like 10 o'clock and rents (of course) wouldnt let me out. she then doesnt speak to me again.
i think ive developed oneitis for this chick so im kinda bummed that she keeps messing around. seeing as though she is popular and hot (strong 8/10 IMO) she probably gets attention from guys all the time. t misc wut do i do? i like her but does she even like me? im so confused.
inb4 dear diary[/QUOTE]
If you keep saying no, it gets exhausting. She's probably thinking you're also playing some kind of games or not interested because you always say no.
She either is tired of the "game" or not interested or just shy. All girls are different. Just ask her about it as not creepily as possible
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[QUOTE=fuuaarrkk;1004251183]ok so idk if something similar has been posted before becuase the thread is 42 pages long and aint nobody got time for dat chit. anyway, theres this girl at school who is popular, where as i am just higher than average popularity because im still fairly new to the school. So id seen her around abit and she didnt really take much notice of me but i thought she was really cute. im at work one day and she walks in just as im leaving and i have a quick conversation with her goes along the lines of;
her: hey (looks at clothes on clothes rack and smiles)
me: hey, how are you going? (realizing its this chick from school)
her: good thanks, you?
me: yeah good thankyou. It's (name) isnt it?
her: yeah haha how did you know my name?
me: i go to the same school as you haha
her: oh okay ive never seen you around, what year are you in?
blah blah blah blah blah
so she ends up adding me on facebook and [size=+2]saying that i look alot hotter IRL[/size] than in facebook display picture (the pic is a year old luls) and i throw the same compliment back at her. so we talk for a bit then i end up getting her number and text from then on. she asks me to call her later on and i do but when i call, she tells me to "hang on, ill call you back". never does. and i get that she may have had to do something then she forgot or whatever, didnt really bother me.
the reason for that back story was to show that i didnt misread her. the problem is however that on new years [size=+2]she asked me if i wanted to go to the beach with her at around 12ish at night[/size]. i really wanted to but couldnt because of rents saying i had to be home by 11 at night (the feck). i end up seeing her down there earlier on in the night and talk breifly but its akward as fck. next morning i message her but get no reply all day so i tried again the next morning and again no reply. she then messages me out of nowhere and asks me to call her, so i do and when i do shes with her friends asking if i had any friends i could bring over to her house, this was at like 10 o'clock and rents (of course) wouldnt let me out. she then doesnt speak to me again.
i think ive developed oneitis for this chick so im kinda bummed that she keeps messing around. seeing as though she is popular and hot (strong 8/10 IMO) she probably gets attention from guys all the time. t misc wut do i do? i like her but does she even like me? im so confused.
inb4 dear diary[/QUOTE]
If you're telling truth than that means that she wants your cawk
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So there has been this girl in my Fitness class for the last two marking periods. I don't honestly think we've ever talked, and honestly I don't know much about her. She's super cute, and I really wish I could get to know her, but I'm so sh!%%# at approaching people.
I mean I feel that after it's been this long, I should have started talking to her way long ago, but I didn't. I'm always looking her way, and I couldn't tell you if she ever notices or not. Luckily she's in my class for the rest of the year, so I dunno what to do Tmisc brahs.
I've never had one dem girlfriends so I really dunno. Opinions?
