Official T-Misc Girl Help Thread

[QUOTE=7Ayden7;1279747111]I am in exactly this situation right now. Met a girl on vacation. Was drunk. Kissed her. Got her number -> whatsapp. I wrote her most of the time but i stopped writing her to see wether she would write first. She did a few times...When i write stuff with smileys she answers with smileys too...if i dont she does not write with smileys either. Forgot to say : she speaks the same language as me but lives in another country. Maybe i should just forget her...I would actually go all in and ask her wether she likes me...the only problem is she knows 2 friends of mine...and has their numbers.This means that if i do **** with her she could actually tell them.

inb4 somebody tells me my english is bad -> i know that[/QUOTE]

Dude just write and ask her. Who cares if she tells your friends. Be confident in yourself bro. U have nothing to hide.

[QUOTE=Azteytik;1283264271]Need help from someone who's just really good on talking to girls. Anyways, I'm not a bad talker(actually pretty good srs) I know how to pull girls both via social media & real life however I'm kinda lacking a bit on my texting game. Don't get me wrong, I know what to say & everything but I find it hard getting girls to send noods? I could get a girls number just like that but when it comes to nudes, they always manage to have an excuse way out. And by that time, I would give them a positive reinforcement or I just act like I don't care much since I don't wanna sound desperate and a wk, which I'm not. Then again, I always like to put them into a position where they're the ones doing the chasing.... Then I tell them to send noods again but they still somehow have an excuse. By that time, the peak of the conversation and interest would have already been gone or is dying and I don't want to talk to them again as well as asking them again which will only make me look like a white knight. Response would be appreciated.... thx brahs <3[/QUOTE]

Bro if we help u, will u share the noida with us? (Pm me ;))

Any advice on how to initiate a first kiss? Without it being awkward?

I am currently a college student about 4 hours away from home. I plan on studying abroad in late 2015-early 2016. My problem is that i have a girlfriend of about 1.5 years back home and I'm just wondering if I'm too young to be "wifed" up or just try and make it work? I am 18 btw and we have never gotten into a serious fight and we both care about each other.

I asked this girl, who supposedly liked me, out, after school via text.. And thats what made her lose her interest in me.

She didn't ever reply and stopped talking to me at school completely, she just ignores me like I'm disgusting.
I only later realized I should've just asked her out face to face and maybe she actually would've gone out with me! and I wouldn't be so depressed now.. fuk how do I get over this?

[QUOTE=bmcblinz;1310382331]I asked this girl, who supposedly liked me, out, after school via text.. And thats what made her lose her interest in me.

She didn't ever reply and stopped talking to me at school completely, she just ignores me like I'm disgusting.
I only later realized I should've just asked her out face to face and maybe she actually would've gone out with me! and I wouldn't be so depressed now.. fuk how do I get over this?[/QUOTE]
NOPE. If she truly liked you, she would've went out with you regardless if you texted her or asked her face to face. she simply didnt have interest in you.

[QUOTE=socallmemaybe1;1310543311]NOPE. If she truly liked you, she would've went out with you regardless if you texted her or asked her face to face. she simply didnt have interest in you.[/QUOTE]

This man speaks the truth. Girl would have gotten all giddy to see you texted her if she was truly interested, especially if it was on the basis of what it was.

asked this girl if she liked me a while ago/go on a date, sadly she said no. I accepted the fact that she and I wouldn't really be good together and moved on. Still tries to talk to me now and then even tho we dont see each other/ have classes. I don't really have any other relationship with her other than when i was hitting on her so wat does this mean? any thoughts. she just trying to be nice? cause i really dont want to be around her a lot to be reminded of her

inb4 tell that bitch off (had bad experience with that before)

i asked a girl at school if she wanted to meet up tomorrow, she replied with idk, maybe.
how would you guys respond to this? lookin for others insight opposed to my own for once.

lemme know, thanks

[QUOTE=blistactor;1311225401]i asked a girl at school if she wanted to meet up tomorrow, she replied with idk, maybe.
how would you guys respond to this? lookin for others insight opposed to my own for once.

lemme know, thanks[/QUOTE]

okay first things first. is that u can tell if a girl really likes u by her body language toward u. 1) by far the biggest thing i can u tell is that u must be confident no matter what, girls love this. 2) this may sound kind of douchey, but u must rate urself and than u must rate thr girl on a scale of 1-10. if u honestly think shes a 9 and u r a 4 than i would not bother. if ur an. 8 and shes a 9 u can try. just remember the hotter she is than the more competition u will have. when that girl said idk, maybe that usually means a no but she is saying it to u in a nice way to not hurt ur feelings. next time dont ask her if she wants to hang out, tell her this, u and me r gonna hangout tomorrow where do u wanna go. something like that. another thing girls love chest, arms, back and abs. they like a guy who is around 8-10 percent bodyfat they go crazy over my body. bodybuilding/ powerlifting is the way to increase ur number on a scale of 1-10

[QUOTE=DoUEvenCardio;1310623281]asked this girl if she liked me a while ago/go on a date, sadly she said no. I accepted the fact that she and I wouldn't really be good together and moved on. Still tries to talk to me now and then even tho we dont see each other/ have classes. I don't really have any other relationship with her other than when i was hitting on her so wat does this mean? any thoughts. she just trying to be nice? cause i really dont want to be around her a lot to be reminded of her

inb4 tell that bitch off (had bad experience with that before)[/QUOTE]

this girl is what we call a tease. she does not want u, if she did she would have said yes, but she still wants ur attention ONLY as a friend. this is called a tease. u could hangout with her for 20 years and be nice to her she still wont be in a relationship with her. theres millions of girls out there, keep moving on, one will eventually love u for u

[QUOTE=bmcblinz;1310382331]I asked this girl, who supposedly liked me, out, after school via text.. And thats what made her lose her interest in me.

She didn't ever reply and stopped talking to me at school completely, she just ignores me like I'm disgusting.
I only later realized I should've just asked her out face to face and maybe she actually would've gone out with me! and I wouldn't be so depressed now.. fuk how do I get over this?[/QUOTE] A girl was like this to me a couple years back.. just think, will this matter in a year or two? probably wont so dont worry about it and work on a new girl

[QUOTE=JelleVM;1306861281]I've been shy my entire life, sadly. No idea what caused it; always had a huge amount of friends but I never had a real relationship that actually started by me confronting the girl I liked. They always had to take the first step.

Anyway. I like this girl and we talk sometimes, both irl and via texts. I've no idea how to initiate conversations via text though. Wouldn't I look like a creep constantly talking to her?
[B]About a week ago[/B] we were eating in a fast food restaurant kind of thing and we were talking about relationships (there were 2 other friends there aswell) and she mentioned that she was sad because she never got a boyfriend. My brain started working as hard as it could, trying to decipher what she tried to say there. It was, to me, a hint that she was single and that she was interested. I may have misread the situation though.

Anyway.. How does one initiate conversation, what does one talk about, how does one confront a girl to ask her to go on a date and where does one take said girl on a date? I live in a rural area (town with ~5k inhabitants) so there is not a lot to do here; nearest cinema is around 10 miles away so we have to take the bus etc etc.[/QUOTE]


[B]MITCH CAUGHT A BODY ABOUT A WEEK AGO, WEEK AGO[/B]

Sorry bro I had to. To initiate conversation with the girl just talk about something you're interested in ANYTHING, and when you're talking to her always remind yourself of the fact that she is interested in what you have to say. Where do you live ?
Also always assume a girl is interested this should help with your confidence.

I just love reading posts like this one, makes me realize how many mistakes I was doing in the past.

Ok, simple question. I like this girl. We barely talk. The only reason we talk is that we're in AP Stats together. We've been talking more recently because she's in my survey group for this class project. I like her, I don't know if she likes me, but she's already said that she doesn't have a lot of time outside of working and school (I didn't ask her out, we were just talking about her work). Should I still ask her out? It should be said that I've been deterred from asking her out because : A) she's out of my league and B) I don't have a car nor do I have a license (I know it's stupid, I should've gotten it earlier), which makes me kinda self-conscious because she has a car and her license. And for some reason I have some weird gut reaction to getting driven around by a girl. Any help would be appreciated

misc need help.
i like this girl at uni and we've been texting back and forth for a couple months, gone to the movies together etc.
But...she's always on her ****ing phone? Like she's too attached to it. Recently i sent her a text and she hasn't replied yet for like a week compared to the usual 1hour or so. Should i just give up and move on to next girl. ****ing still learning men.

So I was talking to this one girl in my friends dorm. She went from his bed with her friend and sat next to me after like 30 mins in there. We talked about the gym, lifting, cheer leading (she does that), and other stuff. We talked a for a good while and then we left when my other friend left. She waited for me to get my ID back then walked out with me. We talked a little more outside then she had to go cause she had practice at 8am. I should have made a move or something (Im a puss), but how do I ask for her number without sounding creepy or whatever?

Cliffs

-Friends with this maybe somewhat disturbed girl.
-She uses a ton of anti-depressants
-Smokes a lot
-Very substance dependant
-Obviously in a strange state of mind, ditches a lot of class, says weird stuff sometimes
-Has a boyfriend in another state but hooks up a LOT
-Talks about her hookups very frankly and openly
-Asks me to hang out with her when she smokes
-Openly told me she has a ton of daddy issues

How should I go about this? Just ask her to hang out and watch Netflix or something and just go for it?

I just want to smash, not looking for anything more with this girl at all.

[QUOTE=ardee2124;1314648741]Cliffs

-Friends with this maybe somewhat disturbed girl.
-She uses a ton of anti-depressants
-Smokes a lot
-Very substance dependant
-Obviously in a strange state of mind, ditches a lot of class, says weird stuff sometimes
-Has a boyfriend in another state but hooks up a LOT
-Talks about her hookups very frankly and openly
-Asks me to hang out with her when she smokes
-Openly told me she has a ton of daddy issues

How should I go about this? Just ask her to hang out and watch Netflix or something and just go for it?

I just want to smash, not looking for anything more with this girl at all.[/QUOTE]

Bruh that's just ****ed up.

I would help her get her chit together, if you're just gonna use her then you'll make her life worse.

Recommend leaving her alone.

I went full beta yesterday, friends were helping me tlk to this girl in fb n we met yesterday n chilled n smoked bud, didnt go too well for me, i didnt rlly say sht i just enjoyed the high, while the girl i was talking to was right next to me talking about how she likes tongue, alot of tongue, n my friend said "did i really just hear that" n i immediately spam texted him to get me out of kissing her(never had a first kiss,dont know how to kiss, had bad cottonmouth, no way in hell im making out with her yet) so i had to leave the room for a few n tlk to my friends brother bout wht to do, then they went into the kitchen where we were so i went into the living room to pretend to get somethin then i went back in the kitchen n sat town n they were playing this whispering game or somethin, but when they were leaving i got a hug from the girls friend but i didnt get it from the girl i was talking to, at the time i was sitting down and i didnt wanna get up n give her a hug cuz i thought she was going to kiss me as i was giving her a hug so i didnt hug her n i just sat down while my friends were telling me to hug her.. Then they left n my friends were like"why didnt u hug her!!!" N im like i didnt wanna kiss her...so...FA by choice...

Will show the txts tht she sent me, hold on


Cliffs-
-girl wanted to make out with me
-op never had 1st kiss
-op doesnt know how to kiss
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[QUOTE=Lolnubiwin;1314907891]I went full beta yesterday, friends were helping me tlk to this girl in fb n we met yesterday n chilled n smoked bud, didnt go too well for me, i didnt rlly say sht i just enjoyed the high, while the girl i was talking to was right next to me talking about how she likes tongue, alot of tongue, n my friend said "did i really just hear that" n i immediately spam texted him to get me out of kissing her(never had a first kiss,dont know how to kiss, had bad cottonmouth, no way in hell im making out with her yet) so i had to leave the room for a few n tlk to my friends brother bout wht to do, then they went into the kitchen where we were so i went into the living room to pretend to get somethin then i went back in the kitchen n sat town n they were playing this whispering game or somethin, but when they were leaving i got a hug from the girls friend but i didnt get it from the girl i was talking to, at the time i was sitting down and i didnt wanna get up n give her a hug cuz i thought she was going to kiss me as i was giving her a hug so i didnt hug her n i just sat down while my friends were telling me to hug her.. Then they left n my friends were like"why didnt u hug her!!!" N im like i didnt wanna kiss her...so...FA by choice...

Will show the txts tht she sent me, hold on


Cliffs-
-girl wanted to make out with me
-op never had 1st kiss
-op doesnt know how to kiss
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Bruh.... she wants your dink

Just tell her everything, and if she does turn out to like you, you can date her.

It's all good bruh, you gonna make it

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[QUOTE=Xaroc;1315061741]Bruh.... she wants your dink

Just tell her everything, and if she does turn out to like you, you can date her.

It's all good bruh, you gonna make it[/QUOTE]
This. You're lucky you didn't turn her the f*ck off with your sheet

If you're that nervous about the kissing thing, just tell her, you're only 15, I wouldn't worry about it, she already likes you so she'll be more than happy to ease you into it lol

So yesterday a girl and went on a date and we started kissing and stuff. After a while things got pretty serious and I think I may have ruined things. Is there a way for me to redeem myself? She's not really talking anymore and she says she needs a break to think about if she wants me.

I Love your thought

How do you talk to a chick that you haven't talked to but you know she likes you via text, but you still have a doubt that it might be weird popping up to her?

[QUOTE=liamglinn;1317105291]So yesterday a girl and went on a date and we started kissing and stuff. After a while things got pretty serious and I think I may have ruined things. Is there a way for me to redeem myself? She's not really talking anymore and she says she needs a break to think about if she wants me.[/QUOTE]

Go no contact, dont ask for her, let her come to you. Girls want what they cant have and this is even more true with men; a lesson which my mum told me lol

This chick and I talk on and off. been trying to get with her but I just never see her at all during school or outside of school bcs of different friend groups. Like yesterday during new years we hit it off, but I was to much of a pussy and didn't continue on.

I'm going to start to text her, but Im ****ing horrible at conversation starters over txts. like do I just start with "hi" or some other **** lol

TY tmisc

Be yourself, don't pretend to be more than anybody else, help people and be positive. Thats the kind of guys I like for example :)

[QUOTE=liamglinn;1317105291]So yesterday a girl and went on a date and we started kissing and stuff. After a while things got pretty serious and I think I may have ruined things. Is there a way for me to redeem myself? She's not really talking anymore and she says she needs a break to think about if she wants me.[/QUOTE]
If you both did this its OK. She might be kinda scared. If she doesn't rly respond to you anymore, go for the next.