Official T-Misc Girl Help Thread

Girl lies to me a lot. Says Im the best man when she ****s around with other dudes (talking with them/flirting/liking pics) and denies it. I'm always the one who starts the convo but recently I have not texted after an argument, and a week later I get the I miss you thing. Then we started to talk again and now no text from her, so instead of texting her Im just flat out gonna not bother with this chick. Frankly Im tired of this bs drama and if I do ever get a text back in the next weeks I really dont wanna fall for it again. Help. Do I block and delete? Ignore but keep number/following. Keep talking.

just ignore but dont delete her that would show her that u care too much to do that just dont respond at all[QUOTE=npc20;1385236773]Girl lies to me a lot. Says Im the best man when she ****s around with other dudes (talking with them/flirting/liking pics) and denies it. I'm always the one who starts the convo but recently I have not texted after an argument, and a week later I get the I miss you thing. Then we started to talk again and now no text from her, so instead of texting her Im just flat out gonna not bother with this chick. Frankly Im tired of this bs drama and if I do ever get a text back in the next weeks I really dont wanna fall for it again. Help. Do I block and delete? Ignore but keep number/following. Keep talking.[/QUOTE]

Sup brahs new here and I'm wondering how the fuk do you ask a girl out to homecoming if you don't know any girls at your new school.

[QUOTE=ForeverAKevin;1387771943]Sup brahs new here and I'm wondering how the fuk do you ask a girl out to homecoming if you don't know any girls at your new school.[/QUOTE]

Start by making yourself more well-known around school. Your first step to doing so should be finding and/or showcasing stuff that you're really good at; for me it's rugby, powerlifting, and scientific research. No matter what that "stuff" might be for you, just ensure that you put yourself out there. This will facilitate the process of making new friends. In turn, such friends can introduce you to girls they know. Then you can go from there.

I know it's a rather idealistic and simplified process; however, it's bound to be more effective than simply going around and cold-approaching chicks. After all, most girls won't throw themselves at some random, new kid unless you're really good-looking.

Just the way I see it. Also depends how soon your homecoming is. If it's sometime in mid-October then you'll have plenty of time to do all this.

[QUOTE=KS98;1387871353]Start by making yourself more well-known around school. Your first step to doing so should be finding and/or showcasing stuff that you're really good at; for me it's rugby, powerlifting, and scientific research. No matter what that "stuff" might be for you, just ensure that you put yourself out there. This will facilitate the process of making new friends. In turn, such friends can introduce you to girls they know. Then you can go from there.

I know it's a rather idealistic and simplified process; however, it's bound to be more effective than simply going around and cold-approaching chicks. After all, most girls won't throw themselves at some random, new kid unless you're really good-looking.

Just the way I see it. Also depends how soon your homecoming is. If it's sometime in mid-October then you'll have plenty of time to do all this.[/QUOTE]

Holy fuk your alive?

[QUOTE=Malik116;1382449663]summon your trap card and send that bich to the shadow realm[/QUOTE]

lol'd

sup yall, there's a girl I know at school that obviously likes me and we talk a lot. The thing is that she never texts me first. I mean when I do we text awhile but it seems kinda weird to me. Is this a red flag??

[QUOTE=outoftheblu;1395472793]sup yall, there's a girl I know at school that obviously likes me and we talk a lot. The thing is that she never texts me first. I mean when I do we text awhile but it seems kinda weird to me. Is this a red flag??[/QUOTE]

Not a red flag, keep talking to her see how it goes. Girls want guys to message them first I have a lot of friends that are girls who simply will not message a guy first but then I have plenty that will. Don't let one sided expectations get the best of you bruh

New here!

Short backstory: Im in Year 12, final weeks of school left& there's this girl I have started talking with between study/spare periods (when no classes are on if thats a thing in 'muurrrrica) we are both very sporty, shes apparently ranked #47 in junior women's golf while I play basketball, outdoor rock climb and previously an excellent track runner (long distance) so we have things in common.

Every study line I have she has english class, and she doesn't even go half the time to class. I study in the library because it's the only freaking air-conditioned building available for study, she comes and also studies/messes with my phone while I grab her essays from the printer and we talk and stuff. Only mild touching, I make her smile & laugh a lot but I don't know if I have the green light to go if ya get my flow? I haven't added her on FB or got her number yet (apparently not talking often to a girl makes them want you more...?) I discerned that she likes scary movies (fk that sh*t) like saw, final destination, cabin in the woods ect. I want to ask her over but would it be the right move? I'm not the sleep around type of guy, I dont want her to get the impression that I just want to fck her. How would I ask her? I haven't been in a serious relationship before. Im not ugly at all, not to boost my ego (i try to be humble) but i have been called cute, smiles at/had stares ect. I dont have a massive body, just mild chest, toned 6-pac and arms, huge calves from running ect. I probably sound like a dick now lol but help is much appreciated.

[QUOTE=AustralianJake;1401716663]New here!

Short backstory: Im in Year 12, final weeks of school left& there's this girl I have started talking with between study/spare periods (when no classes are on if thats a thing in 'muurrrrica) we are both very sporty, shes apparently ranked #47 in junior women's golf while I play basketball, outdoor rock climb and previously an excellent track runner (long distance) so we have things in common.

Every study line I have she has english class, and she doesn't even go half the time to class. I study in the library because it's the only freaking air-conditioned building available for study, she comes and also studies/messes with my phone while I grab her essays from the printer and we talk and stuff. Only mild touching, I make her smile & laugh a lot but I don't know if I have the green light to go if ya get my flow? I haven't added her on FB or got her number yet (apparently not talking often to a girl makes them want you more...?) I discerned that she likes scary movies (fk that sh*t) like saw, final destination, cabin in the woods ect. I want to ask her over but would it be the right move? I'm not the sleep around type of guy, I dont want her to get the impression that I just want to fck her. How would I ask her? I haven't been in a serious relationship before. Im not ugly at all, not to boost my ego (i try to be humble) but i have been called cute, smiles at/had stares ect. I dont have a massive body, just mild chest, toned 6-pac and arms, huge calves from running ect. I probably sound like a dick now lol but help is much appreciated.[/QUOTE]

do it or regret it lol

So this girl I have been friends with but want to go out for a while calls me buddy
What pisses me off is that she sometimes hugs other guys but never hugs me and she always calls me buddy or pal.

Should I ignore her and try to be alpha because I feel like a little beta bitch

[QUOTE=acaicedo7;1404957843]So this girl I have been friends with but want to go out /QUOTE]

What u mean by wants to go out? She wants to go out w/ u? U know this? Ask her to go to a nice dinner and chit. Otherwise, forget it and go for grillz who want u, dem aesthetics will get u what u want, and they'll be mirin. Just focus on lifting heavy weights and getting gains till everyone lookin @ u and people mirin that juicy physique

you guys have problems... how about you start doing things that are for the good of society so you would stop think about what girls like. like is it better to kiss her on the left or the right cheek...

[QUOTE=acaicedo7;1404957843]So this girl I have been friends with but want to go out for a while calls me buddy
What pisses me off is that she sometimes hugs other guys but never hugs me and she always calls me buddy or pal.

Should I ignore her and try to be alpha because I feel like a little beta bitch[/QUOTE]
If she hugs other guys and not you....AND calls you buddy or pal..That lights the bulb in my head that this girl isn't interested. She is purposely giving signals that she doesn't like you and doesn't want to hug you cuz if she did hug you, you'd get the wrong idea. Imo this girl isn't calling you buddy or pal to make you jealous or something, she is doing it because she isn't interested. She is hugging other guys because she LIKES those other guys, atleast more than you. Face the facts and find a real girl. Besides, a girl who tries to make you jealous isn't worth the time. I don't play those mindgames

Guys here's my story, When I just transfered to a new school I met this girl who was a solid 9/10 for me, I talked to her then we got really close, she also thought I was flirting with her but nah, I'm just a nice guy I'm friendly to everyone when she knew this she immedietely distanced herself from me what do I do we barely even talk anymore and she was a fun person.

thought for too long this was a thread about helping teen girls with bodybuilding

[QUOTE=Kanvus;1408303293]Guys here's my story, When I just transfered to a new school I met this girl who was a solid 9/10 for me, I talked to her then we got really close, she also thought I was flirting with her but nah, I'm just a nice guy I'm friendly to everyone when she knew this she immedietely distanced herself from me what do I do we barely even talk anymore and she was a fun person.[/QUOTE]
This sounds like a joke or something..You described someone you want as a FRIEND as being really attractive (9/10). So I'm pretty sure you WERE flirting with her. She thought you wanted to date her but you just wanted a female friend who is hot that you can flirt with (I see this often). So fine a different fun person

What to do when there's an akward silence? When you two don't have anything to talk about?

[QUOTE=MikeKimo;1417444031]What to do when there's an akward silence? When you two don't have anything to talk about?[/QUOTE]
id try to think of a question to ask her that you havent before, preferably related to what you were talking about earlier. or comment on something that you talked about that lets her share her input on your comment.

[QUOTE=MikeKimo;1417444031]What to do when there's an akward silence? When you two don't have anything to talk about?[/QUOTE]
Go after someone that u have something to talk about with. IMO

So I still kinda miss my ex. Shes dating a guy I know and sort of cool with. But we talked and she said there is a possibility of us dating again. But how do I fully cope and go. I'm interested in another girl who has had a crush on me all year. Shes cute 4,10 and fun personality. Are you guys going through a similar situation?

Any advice you can give me?

[QUOTE=RealCodyWayne;1424789761]So I still kinda miss my ex. Shes dating a guy I know and sort of cool with. But we talked and she said there is a possibility of us dating again. But how do I fully cope and go. I'm interested in another girl who has had a crush on me all year. Shes cute 4,10 and fun personality. Are you guys going through a similar situation?

Any advice you can give me?[/QUOTE]

This is a very interesting first you probably don't want to get back with your ex you guys broke up for a reason. My advice personally would be if you haven't already talk to the other girl and find out more about her and once you get to know her get some

[QUOTE=RealCodyWayne;1424789761]So I still kinda miss my ex. Shes dating a guy I know and sort of cool with. But we talked and she said there is a possibility of us dating again. But how do I fully cope and go. I'm interested in another girl who has had a crush on me all year. Shes cute 4,10 and fun personality. Are you guys going through a similar situation?

Any advice you can give me?[/QUOTE]

slay them both, then dismiss them and acquire aesthetics

Problem: Go to all boys school, no real interaction with chicks due to work/gym/school. In year 12, 17 years old feels like I'll never have a companion/girlfriend be around girls. Any tips, kind of annoying because all my mates have girlfriends and when we go out (I don't go out much as I drink minimally) I'm single and I'm not the best around girls. I feel awkward and not confident to talk to them, but my personality when not around them is loud/outgoing/don't give a puck attitude.

From straya, and I'd say i look decent apart from my ugly mug.

[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973427763]Got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.

Trolling and flaming will get you negged.[/QUOTE]

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I don't know if this question was asked before in this thread but to many pages lol
just wondering how to keep a convo with a chick going? it's easy to like introduce yourself but what to talk about after? what things should you ask?

[QUOTE=Studentgymnoob;1433379061]I don't know if this question was asked before in this thread but to many pages lol
just wondering how to keep a convo with a chick going? it's easy to like introduce yourself but what to talk about after? what things should you ask?[/QUOTE]
Just ask her about herself . It could be anything . Take help from surroundings . Also ask open ended questions like " what do you think about x movie " rather than " do you like x movie " .

Hey brahs I go to a small high school with absolutely 0 hot chicks. I fukn hate it but what can you do brahs.

Should I just go up to hot girls I see and ask em for their #?

[QUOTE=420Layers;1454997533]Hey brahs I go to a small high school with absolutely 0 hot chicks. I fukn hate it but what can you do brahs.

Should I just go up to hot girls I see and ask em for their #?[/QUOTE] just f.u.c.k those ugly chicks LOL

[QUOTE=Scrincher29;1434076011]Just ask her about herself . It could be anything . Take help from surroundings . Also ask open ended questions like " what do you think about x movie " rather than " do you like x movie " .[/QUOTE] if you'r shredded you can get away with anything bro hahahah just show her your aesthetics

[QUOTE=Qorx;1427442741]Problem: Go to all boys school, no real interaction with chicks due to work/gym/school. In year 12, 17 years old feels like I'll never have a companion/girlfriend be around girls. Any tips, kind of annoying because all my mates have girlfriends and when we go out (I don't go out much as I drink minimally) I'm single and I'm not the best around girls. I feel awkward and not confident to talk to them, but my personality when not around them is loud/outgoing/don't give a puck attitude.

From straya, and I'd say i look decent apart from my ugly mug.[/QUOTE] dont get sad bro those things happens just try to find someone the world is full of chicks :D

[QUOTE=MikeKimo;1417444031]What to do when there's an akward silence? When you two don't have anything to talk about?[/QUOTE]

Make an excuse to leave. Try talking again later and as time goes on conversation will flow easier the more times you talk to her.

How would you guys approach a girl that dislikes/hates you? She used to be quite friendly towards me but then my friends started being immature and she just acts annoyed when around me/us. From the few things I have seen we have commonalities when it comes to interests I just don't know how to approach her to talk about it because they rarely come up in conversation. I tried ignoring her for the longest time and I think this could be what pissed her off. First day of school she kept looking at me and I acted like she didn't exist now she gives me the ignoring treatment. I didn't mean to ignore her just was too scared (pussy) to look back. We always got along and I feel extremely comfortable around her we just didn't talk too much just sort of shared looks every now and then.

Sorry for rambling.

[QUOTE=MikeDerr;1457002803]How would you guys approach a girl that dislikes/hates you? She used to be quite friendly towards me but then my friends started being immature and she just acts annoyed when around me/us. From the few things I have seen we have commonalities when it comes to interests I just don't know how to approach her to talk about it because they rarely come up in conversation. I tried ignoring her for the longest time and I think this could be what pissed her off. First day of school she kept looking at me and I acted like she didn't exist now she gives me the ignoring treatment. I didn't mean to ignore her just was too scared (pussy) to look back. We always got along and I feel extremely comfortable around her we just didn't talk too much just sort of shared looks every now and then.

Sorry for rambling.[/QUOTE]


approach her like nothing happened and focus on it as if it were a fresh start srs. if she shoots u down keep trying the same approach for a couple days and if it still happens apologize and explain the situation truthfully and go from there

Why do teenage girls keep playing their stupid games on us? when or how do I make that **** stop.

NC or keep going thru?

How can I approach a girl I've never talked to in class she sits behind me and I've never really talked to her except for a group project but that was a while ago and before I liked her

[QUOTE=NattyNation;1482479751]How can I approach a girl I've never talked to in class she sits behind me and I've never really talked to her except for a group project but that was a while ago and before I liked her[/QUOTE]

Find something she likes and then make fun of it. Don't be a pussy about anything. If you show weakness she will think you're just another "nice guy". You don't want that my guy.

Alright, here's my situation. Me and a girl have been dating for around 2 weeks now, but recently it's gotten kinda stale and dry between us. Now i've recently heard from her best-friend (coworker) that she'd been ****ed up bad by her ex that she was with for 2 years, and that she is just holding back her feelings to not allow herself to get hurt again, (she also confesses major feelings towards her best friend but not as strongly as to me). Question is, should i just give her time and space to come to me, or should i at least nudge her a bit into spending a little amount of time with me.

Note: keep in mind, she doesn't like to initiate anything - what coworker/best friend told me.

any advice is appreciated.

[QUOTE=NattyNation;1482479751]How can I approach a girl I've never talked to in class she sits behind me and I've never really talked to her except for a group project but that was a while ago and before I liked her[/QUOTE]

I'd say start off with a question you have about an assignment and be like "hey, you know how to do this ****?" Then lead into talk about maybe school (if shes that type of girl) and dig around in her interests, hobbies, or just generally what she's passionate about and you can take it from there.

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I thought this said t-girl

so tmisc,there is this girl who i liked at gym and sometimes i caught her lookin at me.so i got motivated and went to chat with her.
everything went fine and today (not at the gym tho)i gave her my number.two hours ago she msged me that this is her number blablabla
ok so im 99% sure she likes me,what do i do to make her my girlfriend?give me the steps please
thanks

dont rush into the relationship it wont seem natural. just go workout out with her sometimes and take her out to eat or something.

I def need help with girls. I'm a junior about to be a senior, and I used to go to an all boys school so I transferred to a public school my sophomore year. Thing is, I haven't really talked to any girls during my time here cause I just don't know how. I used to go to a co-ed school in middle school and I had a girlfriend there, but now I just can't seem to talk to girls. Almost all of the attractive ones are "popular" and I'm still kind of the new guy so its not like I can get them or anything. Plus most of the time a girl has to come up and talk to me first, that's how bad I am. Even when that happens I end up doing some stupid **** and they walk away (this one girl asked me a question and I just looked away a nodded or some **** I don't know I panicked). Any advice? I can't just walk up to a girl in high school and pick them up, cause that's just weird and I'll look desperate. Any advice?

This still alive? I have some questions, but first is for those who were average looking and went in to great shape, did treatment from girls changed at work, school etc.? YKWIM

So my situation is a bit weird. About 8 months ago when I was a senior in HS I had a girlfriend and we had been together for about 16 months. I was very close with one of my teachers at the time bc she coached my sister in lacrosse. The teacher's daughter was very attractive and would accompany her mom (the teacher) to all of my football games even when her school was an hour away. I realized the only reason she came to the games is bc she knew me and now I want to start talking to this girl bc me and my ex broke up. How can I start talking to this girl? I know its a bit complex and convoluted but If you can make it out and give advice it would be much appreciated.

[QUOTE=Gymrat2000;973553813]Strong thread.

Lets start it off with the first qn:
How do you talk to a girl?[/QUOTE]

This is straightforward. They are human beings after all like us, to start a conversation with a girl, show that you're confident and give off that positive vibe. Ask how she is and if she asks you back, thats a green flag. If not, don't panic because most girls are crap at holding conversations that aren't about gossip. Then talk about anything small like the weather and ask open ended questions since girls like talking about themselves. Also, if shes not interested, don't take it personally and move on.

[QUOTE=BuckToothGoat;1506360621]I def need help with girls. I'm a junior about to be a senior, and I used to go to an all boys school so I transferred to a public school my sophomore year. Thing is, I haven't really talked to any girls during my time here cause I just don't know how. I used to go to a co-ed school in middle school and I had a girlfriend there, but now I just can't seem to talk to girls. Almost all of the attractive ones are "popular" and I'm still kind of the new guy so its not like I can get them or anything. Plus most of the time a girl has to come up and talk to me first, that's how bad I am. Even when that happens I end up doing some stupid **** and they walk away (this one girl asked me a question and I just looked away a nodded or some **** I don't know I panicked). Any advice? I can't just walk up to a girl in high school and pick them up, cause that's just weird and I'll look desperate. Any advice?[/QUOTE]

remember girls are humans and are the same like us.
I got rid of this approach anxiety by talking to more people like classmates and acquaintances or even strangers. The more you talk, the more comfortable you feel in conversational atmospheres with a girl.
I focused on myself first tho like getting into shape, improving looks and not being a freak.

[QUOTE=SkitheEast;974098833]My problem isn't getting women, because they usually initiate with me. My problem is finding one that isn't a sloot and likes white guys. IKR im foreveralone, pretty much expected this fact oh wel $>Everything.[/QUOTE]
bad mindset with that "foreveralone"
first of all, get rid of your limiting beliefs like the ethnicity part and demolish those insecurities
secondly, focus on yourself and make yourself happy because if you cant make yourself happy and better, then how can you make others feel the same way?

[QUOTE=SkitheEast;974916873]Ok fix my problem, how do I know if I'm good looking? I've had numerous girls call me hot to my face, but I really don't see it. Also I have a really high sex drive and a strong love for estrogen, I could use zero to no sex drive/attraction to the opposite sex. How would I go about achieving that?[/QUOTE]

if numerous girls say you're hot to your face, then take it as a compliment and make a move. What the F man? if i had compliments like that, i would make so many moves and initiate conversations. Also if they say you're hot, then they like you of course!

the sex drive issue, you can't do anything but maybe keep your mind off it