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[QUOTE=livingforlean;1108619173]In the post above I meant to say SHE said "yeah that would be ace", but yeah I don't know. I'll ask her, just don't want to seem too keen. She has liked me quite recently, that's all I know.[/QUOTE]
Ideally you'd ask her if she wants to meet up again face to face rather than on the internet because you'd be able to read her much better.
It could be she was sat at home with her face like :| saying "yeah, that would be ace"
Or it could be that she was like :D) bouncing off the walls happy - but then she was put off when you didn't contact her for a few days, she then didn't want to look too keen and didn't message you. Then she had some work pop up.
If you speak to her in real life you'll be able to see how she reacts to the things you say and you can see what she really means by what she's saying. You'll know if she's really interested :)
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1109646973]Ideally you'd ask her if she wants to meet up again face to face rather than on the internet because you'd be able to read her much better.
It could be she was sat at home with her face like :| saying "yeah, that would be ace"
Or it could be that she was like :D) bouncing off the walls happy - but then she was put off when you didn't contact her for a few days, she then didn't want to look too keen and didn't message you. Then she had some work pop up.
If you speak to her in real life you'll be able to see how she reacts to the things you say and you can see what she really means by what she's saying. You'll know if she's really interested :)[/QUOTE]
I have to spread some reps before I can rep you again haha.
Yeah, that would be an ideal situation but the problem is that meeting up with her usually has to be arranged because I don't see her around much anymore. :/
Hopefully I'll find out what the deal is soon enough, but she's away just now haha.
Thanks again for the help though man. :)
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ive posted here a couple of times with various q's (most are about being friendzoned), anyway my best friend broke up with his GF like 2 months ago, and literally within 2 weeks of breaking up with her he hooked up with over 10 7.5-9/10 (srs, guy has like 9/10 facial aesthetics no homo). anyway he just said he started talking to girls he found attractive on FB, even if he didnt know them, got numbers, set up meetings, then profit. i thought 'fuark it, if he can do it, then i can too'. have gone from not making out with a girl in 7 months, to going to a girls (7/10 misc standards, dat ass) house tomorrow when her parents aren't there, gotten various numbers from girls, and the only thing i can think has changed is my attitude. just don't care if you get shot down by a girl, you're better than she is anyway, her loss. you see a girl that's goodlooking on FB (stay away from 8.5-10's, generally have huge bish shields and not worth the time imo) just talk to her, get her number (it aint hard to get a girls number on FB) and from there arrange to meet. also i have no better than 4.5-5/10 facial aesthetics, however have been told by girls lately my height/hair/clothes are a turn on. this isn't a brag thread, just a lil advice to fellow Tmiscers, your attitude makes a huge difference. peace
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[QUOTE=livingforlean;1109775363]I have to spread some reps before I can rep you again haha.
Yeah, that would be an ideal situation but the problem is that meeting up with her usually has to be arranged because I don't see her around much anymore. :/
Hopefully I'll find out what the deal is soon enough, but she's away just now haha.
Thanks again for the help though man. :)[/QUOTE]
No problem dude, just do what you can and don't get hugely hung up about it :)
[QUOTE=stayingpositive;1110108183]ive posted here a couple of times with various q's (most are about being friendzoned), anyway my best friend broke up with his GF like 2 months ago, and literally within 2 weeks of breaking up with her he hooked up with over 10 7.5-9/10 (srs, guy has like 9/10 facial aesthetics no homo). anyway he just said he started talking to girls he found attractive on FB, even if he didnt know them, got numbers, set up meetings, then profit. i thought 'fuark it, if he can do it, then i can too'. have gone from not making out with a girl in 7 months, to going to a girls (7/10 misc standards, dat ass) house tomorrow when her parents aren't there, gotten various numbers from girls, and the only thing i can think has changed is my attitude. just don't care if you get shot down by a girl, you're better than she is anyway, her loss. you see a girl that's goodlooking on FB (stay away from 8.5-10's, generally have huge bish shields and not worth the time imo) just talk to her, get her number (it aint hard to get a girls number on FB) and from there arrange to meet. also i have no better than 4.5-5/10 facial aesthetics, however have been told by girls lately my height/hair/clothes are a turn on. this isn't a brag thread, just a lil advice to fellow Tmiscers, your attitude makes a huge difference. peace[/QUOTE]
^this guy is aware. It is literally all an attitude thing. If you're outgoing, self confident and put yourself out there you normally get to reap the rewards. Could help you hit on random girls for sure, but I wouldn't go about hitting on girls you already know on ******** like that, that would be considered creepy.
******** is a valuable tool if you use it right :)
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Don't know where to begin but... I just have problems with gf :(
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[QUOTE=Azteytik;1113176713]Don't know where to begin but... I just have problems with gf :([/QUOTE]
She sounds like a bitch
:|
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I can't understand the women and weather
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1113821393]She sounds like a bitch
:|[/QUOTE]
I've inboxed you before about her when we had problems before brah, fixed that but have different reasons for conflict now :/
p.s mirin delts
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I have a couple questions
1) What to talk about without being boring
2) How to escalate physically without coming off as a creep in public
3)How to make gf official
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[QUOTE=TheBoyBoyJesse;1114143723]I have a couple questions
1) What to talk about without being boring
2) How to escalate physically without coming off as a creep in public
3)How to make gf official[/QUOTE]
1) Assess your surroundings; eg. The weather is raining, say "love the rainy weather, dont you?"
Ask her questions about herself, talk about you when the time is right and she's finished talking about herself. Talk in a confident way.
2) If the time is right and all signs are GO, escalate as quick as you want.
You are in public, half the people looking at you have common thoughts inside their head which are perceived as 'normal' thoughts of disgust or jealousy. Do what you want, if you worry about what the public thinks about you then never ever ever become famous.
3) if she's your gf, it's already official.
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[QUOTE=TheBoyBoyJesse;1114143723]I have a couple questions
1) What to talk about without being boring
2) How to escalate physically without coming off as a creep in public
3)How to make gf official[/QUOTE]
1) Joke around and tease her sometimes. Don't just agree with everything she says.
2) It won't seem creepy unless you go all out all of a sudden which I don't think anyone would really do anyway.
3) Just ask her, literally ask if she wants to make it official if you need to. It will pretty much end up that way though anyway if everything is going well between the two if you and it will be natural.
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[QUOTE=livingforlean;1114211023]1) Joke around and tease her sometimes. Don't just agree with everything she says.
2) It won't seem creepy unless you go all out all of a sudden which I don't think anyone would really do anyway.
3) Just ask her, literally ask if she wants to make it official if you need to. It will pretty much end up that way though anyway if everything is going well between the two if you and it will be natural.[/QUOTE]Lol from the way he is asking i think he might ask her if she want to be his gf on first date xD
Atleat wait for a some weeks
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[QUOTE=wedo3;1114235713]Lol from the way he is asking i think he might ask her if she want to be his gf on first date xD
Atleat wait for a some weeks[/QUOTE]
Lol nah brah I mena after a while. Will get rep you guys on rc thanks
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[QUOTE=Azteytik;1114142543]I've inboxed you before about her when we had problems before brah, fixed that but have different reasons for conflict now :/
p.s mirin delts[/QUOTE]
Inbox me again? Or not worth it?
Cheers brah. I love training delts haha
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Will most likely be my last time in this thread for a while, after I check any responses of course. So, there's this girl whose stunning, absolutely beautiful. She has perfect skin, blonde hair, is down right gorgeous. She's super shy, so she barely talks but she has this really cute voice too ;). On her ask fm thingamajig she basically tells people to dm her on ******** or twitter to get her number so they can start talking. She's like the nicest person ever, by the way. Now, here comes the tricky scenario. So my friend, he's not the greatest looker and he's quite awkward, sent his phone number on the ask thing with his name and she never texted him. I'm pretty sure I'm better looking than him, and I'm more talkative/sociable - should I post my number and name on there, or dm her on ********? I have no idea if I should, I sort of have a f*** it attitude right now so I want to, yet don't. I don't want to be awkward as that'll definitely ruin my chances and this is like the perfect girl...
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[QUOTE=Achieving;1117769463]Will most likely be my last time in this thread for a while, after I check any responses of course. So, there's this girl whose stunning, absolutely beautiful. She has perfect skin, blonde hair, is down right gorgeous. She's super shy, so she barely talks but she has this really cute voice too ;). On her ask fm thingamajig she basically tells people to dm her on ******** or twitter to get her number so they can start talking. She's like the nicest person ever, by the way. Now, here comes the tricky scenario. So my friend, he's not the greatest looker and he's quite awkward, sent his phone number on the ask thing with his name and she never texted him. I'm pretty sure I'm better looking than him, and I'm more talkative/sociable - should I post my number and name on there, or dm her on ********? I have no idea if I should, I sort of have a f*** it attitude right now so I want to, yet don't. I don't want to be awkward as that'll definitely ruin my chances and this is like the perfect girl...[/QUOTE]
Inbox her bro, or talk to her in real life. Once you get in that zone where you've chatted her up a little you can ask for her number there. Hopefully she'll give you it then you can start texting/calling her from there. If not, wait for a week or 2(to make it look less weird or desperate) maybe then you may want to post your number on her ask.fm. Good luck.
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1116846463]Inbox me again? Or not worth it?
Cheers brah. I love training delts haha[/QUOTE]
I've made a thread about it bro check it out. Same with all of you guys, if you could help me out with a girl topic.
[url]http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=156186493&page=1[/url]
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[QUOTE=Achieving;1117769463]Will most likely be my last time in this thread for a while, after I check any responses of course. So, there's this girl whose stunning, absolutely beautiful. She has perfect skin, blonde hair, is down right gorgeous. She's super shy, so she barely talks but she has this really cute voice too ;). On her ask fm thingamajig she basically tells people to dm her on ******** or twitter to get her number so they can start talking. She's like the nicest person ever, by the way. Now, here comes the tricky scenario. So my friend, he's not the greatest looker and he's quite awkward, sent his phone number on the ask thing with his name and she never texted him. I'm pretty sure I'm better looking than him, and I'm more talkative/sociable - should I post my number and name on there, or dm her on ********? I have no idea if I should, I sort of have a f*** it attitude right now so I want to, yet don't. I don't want to be awkward as that'll definitely ruin my chances and this is like the perfect girl...[/QUOTE]
Some serious chit gets posted in this thread.
Sounds like this girl has a lot of guys chasing her - asking for her number and chit. You could try messaging her on ******** and go for a slightly different approach to make yourself stand out, but I wouldn't really advise it.
You're 15 brah. Eat clean, train hard, look after your skin, get a decent haircut, invest money in nice clothes, spend time with your bros, make as many friends as you can and try hard in school. Don't worry about girls for now. That way in a couple years time you will be the perfect guy all the bishes are posting about in female misc. You'll be aesthetic, invited to all the parties and going somewhere in life. You'll find that the guys who get girls now will be skinny sad kunts in a couple years. Don't be afraid to be different.
There's your advice brah.
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I had my first girlfriend this summer. I started talking to her in May. I didn't know if I liked her or not. She was really pretty, and shy. She's 18. I was only her second boyfriend. I kind of was a dick at first to her and I texted her a lil bit everyday kind of blew her off. I hung out with her a couple times and it was eh. Then one day I hung out with her all day and we swam and her mom took us to get her senior picture dress and we ate at a nice restaurant.before we left for shopping though idk what it was but something tripped in my head and I HAD to have her. She was such a nice girl. I asked her out that night. I knew she'd say yeah because it was obvious she wanted me. I would definitely say she wanted it more than I did at that point. We dated for 2 months every day seeming to be better and better for me. She was everything i wanted. I got way too attached to her. But that's just my personality. We talked all the time we were always texting or talking and I would go to her house everyday just about. We would make out and stuff. All the time before I'd leave. I really wanted to take her virginity. And mine too. But I didn't worry about it. She starts acting weird one day. Not talkative/caring. Invites me to come swim with her one day after work a couple days after shes acting different. She acted so weird that day. I called her that night asked her what the problem was she said nothing. Next day hardly talks to me. Breaks up with me that night...in a text. At 1147 pm. Tells me shes not ready for a boyfriend she hasn't been spending enough time with family(sick grandparents) like wtf right but I said ok and she TEXTED me three days later to apologize... how weak. Her papaw died like 2 days after she broke up with me. I said hey to her passing through the hall at school and she didn't know what to say she said hey back in a weird tone. I don't really give a finna now though. I wanted her back real bad at first..but now I don't care. I guess you can't trust anyone.
Edit: I'm really happy to have the whole girlfriend experience out of the way though. It's helped me focus on sports a lot more. And it feels good to actually say some things about it. I haven't talked to anyone about it.
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[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973518493]Literally laughed out loud at that
[B]Fellas, let me introduce you to the best moderator of this site[/B].[/QUOTE]
[img]http://i.imgur.com/OjADS0t.gif[/img]
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[QUOTE=de83;1118735933]I had my first girlfriend this summer. I started talking to her in May. I didn't know if I liked her or not. She was really pretty, and shy. She's 18. I was only her second boyfriend. I kind of was a dick at first to her and I texted her a lil bit everyday kind of blew her off. I hung out with her a couple times and it was eh. Then one day I hung out with her all day and we swam and her mom took us to get her senior picture dress and we ate at a nice restaurant.before we left for shopping though idk what it was but something tripped in my head and I HAD to have her. She was such a nice girl. I asked her out that night. I knew she'd say yeah because it was obvious she wanted me. I would definitely say she wanted it more than I did at that point. We dated for 2 months every day seeming to be better and better for me. She was everything i wanted. I got way too attached to her. But that's just my personality. We talked all the time we were always texting or talking and I would go to her house everyday just about. We would make out and stuff. All the time before I'd leave. I really wanted to take her virginity. And mine too. But I didn't worry about it. She starts acting weird one day. Not talkative/caring. Invites me to come swim with her one day after work a couple days after shes acting different. She acted so weird that day. I called her that night asked her what the problem was she said nothing. Next day hardly talks to me. Breaks up with me that night...in a text. At 1147 pm. Tells me shes not ready for a boyfriend she hasn't been spending enough time with family(sick grandparents) like wtf right but I said ok and she TEXTED me three days later to apologize... how weak. Her papaw died like 2 days after she broke up with me. I said hey to her passing through the hall at school and she didn't know what to say she said hey back in a weird tone. I don't really give a finna now though. I wanted her back real bad at first..but now I don't care. I guess you can't trust anyone.
Edit: I'm really happy to have the whole girlfriend experience out s rof the way though. It's helped me focus on sports a lot more. And it feels good to actually say some things about it. I haven't talked to anyone about it.[/QUOTE]
Meh I think it's stupid to get into a serious relationship without FIRST getting intimate with the girl. Most likely that meaning sex.
wtf at waiting 2 months, she's your girlfriend, she should giver herself to you.
[youtube]GdnYedTpToA[/youtube]
You shouldn't take any of that ****, because you could be ****ing a bunch of other girrls while she wastes your time.
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[QUOTE=Francis333;1119899773]Meh I think it's stupid to get into a serious relationship without FIRST getting intimate with the girl. Most likely that meaning sex.
wtf at waiting 2 months, she's your girlfriend, she should giver herself to you.
You shouldn't take any of that ****, because you could be ****ing a bunch of other girrls while she wastes your time.[/QUOTE]
Not sure I entirely agree with this.
Unless under exceptional circumstances, if a girl has sex with you before you're in a relationship that to me isn't an excellent sign... To me that isn't a girl you're going to be able to easily trust in the long run.
I don't see the point in hanging about once you are in a relationship though. My girlfriend wanted to wait 3 months but she got the D 8 days after our relationship went official... It is a little bit pointless going without it in my opinion because sex is part of what makes up a relationship...
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1120004623]Not sure I entirely agree with this.
Unless under exceptional circumstances, if a girl has sex with you before you're in a relationship that to me isn't an excellent sign... To me that isn't a girl you're going to be able to easily trust in the long run.
I don't see the point in hanging about once you are in a relationship though. My girlfriend wanted to wait 3 months but she got the D 8 days after our relationship went official... It is a little bit pointless going without it in my opinion because sex is part of what makes up a relationship...[/QUOTE]
Sex is the single most bonding thing you can do with a girl.
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[QUOTE=Francis333;1120096433]Sex is the single most bonding thing you can do with a girl.[/QUOTE]
lol I always wondered what it was like in here. ^^strong words of wisdom in this thread.
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[QUOTE=Francis333;1120096433]Sex is the single most bonding thing you can do with a girl.[/QUOTE]
Inb4 14 year olds take your advice
[QUOTE=Zedonkgirl;1120163753]lol I always wondered what it was like in here. ^^strong words of wisdom in this thread.[/QUOTE]
Age: 18
Pls go unless u want sum fuk
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[QUOTE=Nistrange;1120181893]Inb4 14 year olds take your advice
Age: 18
Pls go unless u want sum fuk[/QUOTE]
Please please please please please please shave your chest
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1120288693]Please please please please please please shave your chest[/QUOTE]
lame wk attempt?
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Don't listen to the sex freaks, just be nice and **** and don't be pushy about making her do sth.
Inb4 never take a girl's advice about girls
Inb4 ignore sex freaks
Inb4 don't take advice from someone younger
inb4 ?????
inb4 profit???
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[QUOTE=wedo3;1120321453]Don't listen to the sex freaks, just be nice and **** and don't be pushy about making her do sth.
Inb4 never take a girl's advice about girls
Inb4 ignore sex freaks
Inb4 don't take advice from someone younger
inb4 ?????
inb4 profit???[/QUOTE]
Wedo have you ever had a gf?
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[QUOTE=Zedonkgirl;1120377383]Wedo have you ever had a gf?[/QUOTE]
Not sure why the hell you keep asking that question, but yes *gfs
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[QUOTE=wedo3;1120392743]Not sure why the hell you keep asking that question, but yes *gfs[/QUOTE]
She wants the D
[IMG]http://i42.tinypic.com/15mh8v8.gif[/IMG]
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[QUOTE=Savanovic;1120398453]She wants the D
[IMG]http://i42.tinypic.com/15mh8v8.gif[/IMG][/QUOTE]Lol'd Epicgif/10 reps on recharge
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[QUOTE=wedo3;1120392743]Not sure why the hell you keep asking that question, but yes *gfs[/QUOTE]
I've never asked before...?
I was just curious...ya know, because I want the D.
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[QUOTE=Zedonkgirl;1120601433]I've never asked before...?
I was just curious...ya know, because I want the D.[/QUOTE]
K den, you did before i think and i told u i have been single for 2 month and u said you have been single for a year (Strongmemory/10)
Too bad den cuz it won't happen you ****bear, but u can try Pizza face aka spek578 he will be glad.......semi srs
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[QUOTE=wedo3;1120622733]K den, you did before i think and i told u i have been single for 2 month and u said you have been single for a year (Strongmemory/10)
Too bad den cuz it won't happen you ****bear, but u can try Pizza face aka spek578 he will be glad.......semi srs[/QUOTE]
I guess that goes to show how much I care.
Been single since April 2012.
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[QUOTE=Zedonkgirl;1120626053]I guess that goes to show how much I care.
Been single since April 2012.[/QUOTE]
Fish forget chit ever 5 mins or something does that show how much they care?
and dw we are all ganna make it.
@guy who said shave your chest: fuarrrkkk dude srsly can't stop laughing :D leave his chest alone he likes his hairs k? k
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[QUOTE=wedo3;1120628993]Fish forget chit ever 5 mins or something does that show how much they care?
and dw we are all ganna make it.
@guy who said shave your chest: fuarrrkkk dude srsly can't stop laughing :D leave his chest alone he likes his hairs k? k[/QUOTE]
Tfw I'm not a fish.
[img]http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6mg6dEuC01rygo7no1_500.jpg[/img]
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[QUOTE=Zedonkgirl;1120632373]Tfw I'm not a fish.
[img]http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6mg6dEuC01rygo7no1_500.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
You wish.
[IMG]http://www.hoax-slayer.com/images/fish-with-hands1.jpg[/IMG]
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1117868453]Some serious chit gets posted in this thread.
Sounds like this girl has a lot of guys chasing her - asking for her number and chit. You could try messaging her on ******** and go for a slightly different approach to make yourself stand out, but I wouldn't really advise it.
You're 15 brah. Eat clean, train hard, look after your skin, get a decent haircut, invest money in nice clothes, spend time with your bros, make as many friends as you can and try hard in school. Don't worry about girls for now. That way in a couple years time you will be the perfect guy all the bishes are posting about in female misc. You'll be aesthetic, invited to all the parties and going somewhere in life. You'll find that the guys who get girls now will be skinny sad kunts in a couple years. Don't be afraid to be different.
There's your advice brah.[/QUOTE]
There's been a lot of crap in this thread but this is a great post for the guys under 16.. and for a lot of others too. There comes a point where you're trying too hard to impress girls or get them/whatever when you should just go look after yourself and your future and enjoy time with your mates, naturally the girls will come after that. No need to chase them all the time..
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[QUOTE="Bugler666"]Some serious chit gets posted in this thread.
Sounds like this girl has a lot of guys chasing her - asking for her number and chit. You could try messaging her on ******** and go for a slightly different approach to make yourself stand out, but I wouldn't really advise it.
You're 15 brah. Eat clean, train hard, look after your skin, get a decent haircut, invest money in nice clothes, spend time with your bros, make as many friends as you can and try hard in school. Don't worry about girls for now. That way in a couple years time you will be the perfect guy all the bishes are posting about in female misc. You'll be aesthetic, invited to all the parties and going somewhere in life. You'll find that the guys who get girls now will be skinny sad kunts in a couple years. Don't be afraid to be different.
There's your advice brah.[/QUOTE]
^ This. Hell yeah. Seriously fck the bishes, don't give a damn about them, train like a mother****er and let them (the bishes) come to you not the other way around. My mind is 100% on training.
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[QUOTE=Iliander;1122348013]^ This. Hell yeah. Seriously fck the bishes, don't give a damn about them, train like a mother****er and let them (the bishes) come to you not the other way around. [B]My mind is 100% on training[/B].[/QUOTE]
It was going well until you said the last bit.
You do need some balance in your life brah. Your bros and school work should be be right up there in your priorities, you need to be careful about your life becoming too one dimensional. Lifting alone isn't going to fix all of your problems, make girls like you, get you invited to parties, get you a place at college etc.
The fact that you lift should be part of who you are, not the entirety of who you are. There's nothing very interesting or special about a gym monkey. Make sure your life has more to it than lifting weights. Winners go to the gym for sure, but not all that winners do is think about the gym. Nomsayin?
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1122400453]It was going well until you said the last bit.
You do need some balance in your life brah. Your bros and school work should be be right up there in your priorities, you need to be careful about your life becoming too one dimensional. Lifting alone isn't going to fix all of your problems, make girls like you, get you invited to parties, get you a place at college etc.
The fact that you lift should be part of who you are, not the entirety of who you are. There's nothing very interesting or special about a gym monkey. Make sure your life has more to it than lifting weights. Winners go to the gym for sure, but not all that winners do is think about the gym. Nomsayin?[/QUOTE]
Yeah bro I know what you're saying. You misunderstood me however.
I certainly have enough balance in my life, according to myself. Not everyone will agree with that, but not everyone is me. If there's anything that gave my life "balance" it's workout. Most currently useless crap like girls, parties, etc will only distract me from my main goal (I usually simply don't give a damn about it anyways, no-fap ftw lol). There's not [i]that[/i] much time in our lives and I don't want to waste any of it, [b]at this age[/b] where decisions are extremely important. Bodyweight training IS my life, it's much more for me than building some muscle just to get girls and make me feel better about myself.
Considering that obsessing (or better said DEDICATING) myself over workout literally restored my life, and got me from point A to B, I'll keep doing the same. Don't change the approach that works for the sake of NOT standing out from the crowd.
I have (received) this vision and I WILL fulfill it.
Peace.
PS: "My mind is 100% on training" was an exaggeration, obviously.
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[QUOTE=Iliander;1122476613]Yeah bro I know what you're saying. You misunderstood me however.
I certainly have enough balance in my life, according to myself. Not everyone will agree with that, but not everyone is me. If there's anything that gave my life "balance" it's workout. Most currently useless crap like girls, parties, etc will only distract me from my main goal (I usually simply don't give a damn about it anyways, no-fap ftw lol). There's not [i]that[/i] much time in our lives and I don't want to waste any of it, [b]at this age[/b] where decisions are extremely important. Bodyweight training IS my life, it's much more for me than building some muscle just to get girls and make me feel better about myself.
Considering that obsessing (or better said DEDICATING) myself over workout literally restored my life, and got me from point A to B, I'll keep doing the same. Don't change the approach that works for the sake of NOT standing out from the crowd.
I have (received) this vision and I WILL fulfill it.
Peace.
PS: "My mind is 100% on training" was an exaggeration, obviously.[/QUOTE]
So long as you're happy brah.
Being happy is what's important. Normally once you're happy everything else falls into place.
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1122480553]So long as you're happy brah.
Being happy is what's important. Normally once you're happy everything else falls into place.[/QUOTE]
Exactly. I completely agree mate.
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[QUOTE=Achieving;1117769463]Will most likely be my last time in this thread for a while, after I check any responses of course. So, there's this girl whose stunning, absolutely beautiful. She has perfect skin, blonde hair, is down right gorgeous. She's super shy, so she barely talks but she has this really cute voice too ;). On her ask fm thingamajig she basically tells people to dm her on ******** or twitter to get her number so they can start talking. She's like the nicest person ever, by the way. Now, here comes the tricky scenario. So my friend, he's not the greatest looker and he's quite awkward, sent his phone number on the ask thing with his name and she never texted him. I'm pretty sure I'm better looking than him, and I'm more talkative/sociable - should I post my number and name on there, or dm her on ********? I have no idea if I should, I sort of have a f*** it attitude right now so I want to, yet don't. I don't want to be awkward as that'll definitely ruin my chances and this is like the perfect girl...[/QUOTE]
There are several things wrong right away.
1. You've already put her on a pedestal. You might as well give up now if you're gonna behave like that.
2. Obviously, you're asking us because you haven't spent enough time getting to practice on other girls. Here's the hint, to avoid "one-itis" (she is perfect, she is the one, she is the only girl for me), you HAVE TO TALK TO MORE GIRLS. Talk to at least 3 minimum. Make sure you can hold a conversation otherwise it's gonna be impossible when it comes to making a shy girl open up.
3. Shy girls. They're difficult. If anything, you're gonna have to have her warm up to you. But with the attention of other guys, you're gonna have to make yourself interesting. Don't be constantly available, when you're doing things, be vague or even make a joke out of it.
i.e.
Her: What're you up to?
You: That's confidential/secret/saving the world/etc
goofy/sarcastic/funny stuff like that.
4. Clearly you don't have a f*** it attitude if you're worried. Like I said, talk to more girls, keep the conversation going and, at the peak when you have her laughing, tell her you have to leave. She's gonna wonder why. You're busy. That's why. You've got something else to do. She is just another person in your life.
5. Physical meetings are 10x better than over ******** or twitter or text. Meet up with her. Talk to her WHEN YOU SEE HER. You should ideally save texting for meeting up with her. If you're not gonna see her for a while, text infrequently. Every other or every other two days.
6. Don't be afraid to tease a little (don't be rude, but if she does something stupid, bust her balls for it).
Those are just a few things to follow...
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[QUOTE=Bugler666;1120004623]Not sure I entirely agree with this.
Unless under exceptional circumstances, if a girl has sex with you before you're in a relationship that to me isn't an excellent sign... To me that isn't a girl you're going to be able to easily trust in the long run.
I don't see the point in hanging about once you are in a relationship though. My girlfriend wanted to wait 3 months but she got the D 8 days after our relationship went official... It is a little bit pointless going without it in my opinion because sex is part of what makes up a relationship...[/QUOTE]
We never even discussed sex really...now I feel weird about it lol
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[QUOTE=de83;1122665383]We never even discussed sex really...now I feel weird about it lol[/QUOTE]
you don't always have to discuss it it's more fun if there's some kind of spontaneity to it!
so one of my best friends and I have been really tight for years and before i went to university i basically lived at his house ... i have my own toothbrush and clothes there and everything. his parents love me and are always inviting me over to dinner and i get along really well with the whole family. now that being said ... i really like his younger sister. i've known her just as long as i've been friends with him (i met her first actually) and we have great chemistry and we like each other but i've never really made any advances because she's my friend's sister, but now that we're all older and adults i'm wondering if this might be a good opportunity to do what i've wanted to do for a long time. the only thing i'm concerned about is obviously my relationship with my friend and maintaining it if i were to date her. he used to become extremely irritable about it when other friends and i would make jokes about how hot his sister is but he seems to have mellowed out a bit and doesn't take them seriously anymore when it does happen. obviously if we broke up that could pose a difficulty for my friendship but since we've all known each other for so long i think it would still be salvageable, but i'm looking for other opinions! i definitely don't want to talk to my other friends about it as they'd undoubtedly go straight to him or her and tell them about it. thoughts tmisc?
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[QUOTE=APflyer;1122978513]you don't always have to discuss it it's more fun if there's some kind of spontaneity to it!
so one of my best friends and I have been really tight for years and before i went to university i basically lived at his house ... i have my own toothbrush and clothes there and everything. his parents love me and are always inviting me over to dinner and i get along really well with the whole family. now that being said ... i really like his younger sister. i've known her just as long as i've been friends with him (i met her first actually) and we have great chemistry and we like each other but i've never really made any advances because she's my friend's sister, but now that we're all older and adults i'm wondering if this might be a good opportunity to do what i've wanted to do for a long time. the only thing i'm concerned about is obviously my relationship with my friend and maintaining it if i were to date her. he used to become extremely irritable about it when other friends and i would make jokes about how hot his sister is but he seems to have mellowed out a bit and doesn't take them seriously anymore when it does happen. obviously if we broke up that could pose a difficulty for my friendship but since we've all known each other for so long i think it would still be salvageable, but i'm looking for other opinions! i definitely don't want to talk to my other friends about it as they'd undoubtedly go straight to him or her and tell them about it. thoughts tmisc?[/QUOTE]
First of all I agree with what you said to the guy above you, spontaneity is crucial, but if you're trying to progress and she's not letting you then you need to talk about it.
I think it will all be alright so long as you don't start putting the girlfriend ahead of your friend if you know what I mean. Going over to his place and spending the whole time with his sister will piss him off because it will be like he's lost a friend. What you have now where you're going over their place regularly and seeing your friend - keep it like that. Run the relationship with the sister away from the house to avoid making it awkward for your friend. Meet her at the mall, have her over at yours etc but don't spend a lot of time with her over at your friends house.
If you break up with her and she's upset about it that will probably be the end of your friendship, but if she dumps you or if it ends on relatively good terms then you'll probably be okay.
Good luck brah
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For some reason I thought things wouldn't be as bitchy and manipulative in college. Guess I was wrong.
So I meet this girl during the final couple of days of orientation. Right away she's flirting with me, asks me if I want to grab a coffee, go to the top floor's biggest window to take in the LA view. The next day school takes the entire freshman delegation to Disneyland, and she literally drags me to more isolated spots and onto multiple rides with her, and makes me take like 10 photos with her.
Signs of a girl obviously interested right?
I thought so too. So the next day we have a dance for all freshmen, and I meet her there and we say hi before she disappears and I see her chatting up another guy. So I'm like **** it, if you want to play that game so can I. I find another girl and start talking. We walk out of the hall and sit alone on a bench and get to know each other. I see the first girl walking past with that guy but I don't say a word, neither does she.
The next day she pretends she was trying to find me after the dance but couldn't.
I leave it be, and she starts calling/texting me all over again now that classes have started, and asking me if I can have lunch/chill with her/go to the gym with her. I relented and went to a Nike cardio training program with her today. After I went back to my dorm and got showered, I heard she was spending time with that OTHER guy from the party AGAIN today, right before she called me.
So either she's just a manipulative bitch or she's playing games, which do you think it is?
She's like a 6-6.5 maximum, there are better options, especially in LA, I know it. But it's kinda depressing to me that the first interesting girl I meet and get to know here turns out to be a disaster.
Advice?
