Got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.
Trolling and flaming will get you negged.
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Got the idea from splitt. Any questions relating to girls, relationships, dates, etc are welcome. Hopefully a mod can sticky this.
Trolling and flaming will get you negged.
Good idea, I don't know why nobody thought of this before haha.
STICKY
ALso you are ugly
'Bout time someone made this
[QUOTE=Getripor****on;973429633]STICKY
ALso you are ugly[/QUOTE]
[IMG]http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn8/samy43050/sad-face.jpg[/IMG]
I thought someone tried this before and they got mad hate and trolled? ... If I'm dreaming then I would've made one a long time ago.
Anyways, in to give advice to guys
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;973431163][IMG]http://i300.photobucket.com/albums/nn8/samy43050/sad-face.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
Lol, Wasnt at you brah youre chill. Kid above me. Cant STAND his chest. Straight gross looking.
[QUOTE=Getripor****on;973432303]Lol, Wasnt at you brah youre chill. Kid above me. Cant STAND his chest. Straight gross looking.[/QUOTE]
Lol
I gotchu, breh. We cool.
[QUOTE=Getripor****on;973432303]Lol, Wasnt at you brah youre chill. Kid above me. Cant STAND his chest. Straight gross looking.[/QUOTE]
Again? Haha when you gonna stop hating on a old avi. How about you post a pic of yourself with no shirt on? Lets see how great you look.
In. Have more experience than most and would be happy to help out some brahs in need.
[IMG]http://i967.photobucket.com/albums/ae154/grux12/will-ferrell-and-zack-galifianakis-are-on-the-campaign-trail.jpg[/IMG]
[QUOTE=Enficy;973445303]Again? Haha when you gonna stop hating on a old avi. How about you post a pic of yourself with no shirt on? Lets see how great you look.[/QUOTE]
OOOOOHHHH!! Drama.
But srs this is a good idea for a thread.
Thanks for the guys willing to help these jokers out.
You must spread some reputation around before giving it to grux12 again.
yo when should I go for a kiss? 3rd date? I'm thinking a cheek kiss on the third date and a hug ya feel me.
Cause im kinda suspicious/cautious of the girl im currently w/.
inb4 beta male
inb4 *******
inb4 fail date
[img]http://www.totalprosports.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/4-the_rock_clap_clap_gif.gif[/img]
cool thread OP. I hope that the traditional pics or negs rules will still be followed?
In to find out how to get 18 year old chicks....
Nevermind :D
A mod should sticky this thread. Seems like a great idea ;)
[QUOTE=400Lb Gorilla;973517863]In to find out how to get 18 year old chicks....
Nevermind :D
A mod should sticky this thread. Seems like a great idea ;)[/QUOTE]
Literally laughed out loud at that
Fellas, let me introduce you to the best moderator of this site.
To understand girls/women, you have to first understand yourself.
But then again, that's too far fetched for most teens so i'll be around if anyone needs advice. :D
Strong thread.
Lets start it off with the first qn:
How do you talk to a girl?
what do you do when girls are mad at you? do you apologize or not give a ****? say if you called her a bitch like a joke and she gets mad. should you apologize?
[QUOTE=OmgWtfNvm;973557623]what do you do when girls are mad at you? do you apologize or not give a ****? say if you called her a bitch like a joke and she gets mad. should you apologize?[/QUOTE]
post convo ..... just dont give a chit, if you feel like you need to apologize, keep it brief, and still give her some sort of hint that there will still be no phucks given
My gf went to a party when she told me she was hanging out with 2 of her friends. What should I do brahs?
[QUOTE=puremichigan1;973635653]My gf went to a party when she told me she was hanging out with 2 of her friends. What should I do brahs?[/QUOTE]
Ask her why didn't she tell you the truth?
Trust is everything in a relationship IMO..
[QUOTE=OmgWtfNvm;973557623]what do you do when girls are mad at you? do you apologize or not give a ****? say if you called her a bitch like a joke and she gets mad. should you apologize?[/QUOTE]
Well you shouldn't call her a ***** even if you're just kidding. I would apologize, make it sincere.
[QUOTE=OmgWtfNvm;973557623]what do you do when girls are mad at you? do you apologize or not give a ****? say if you called her a bitch like a joke and she gets mad. should you apologize?[/QUOTE]
Depends what she's mad at you for. Can you be more descriptive?
[QUOTE=puremichigan1;973635653]My gf went to a party when she told me she was hanging out with 2 of her friends. What should I do brahs?[/QUOTE]
She obviously doesn't trust you enough to tell you the truth from where i see it.
What do you do when most girls in class ignore you and think your annoying? Srs
[QUOTE=Pandaepic;973734923]What do you do when most girls in class ignore you and think your annoying? Srs[/QUOTE]
What you do is do nothing. We can't please everyone in our lives and that's something we learn esp with girls/women. As life continues, we learn who's worth our time and who isn't.
[QUOTE=Enficy;973445303]Again? Haha when you gonna stop hating on a old avi. How about you post a pic of yourself with no shirt on? Lets see how great you look.[/QUOTE]
You still have a gross chest. Why would i shirtless photos while on bulk?
Just to stay on topic of thread becareful of the hook fellow miscers its hell
in on first page
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;973738643]What you do is do nothing. We can't please everyone in our lives and that's something we learn esp with girls/women. As life continues, we learn who's worth our time and who isn't.[/QUOTE]
But I'm talking about pretty much all the girls man. They act all nice when they want help with a question or something, then they either act like I don't exist or try their best to be jerks...it really baffles me as to why some people hate you for no reason.
[QUOTE=Pandaepic;973746303]But I'm talking about pretty much all the girls man. They act all nice when they want help with a question or something, then they either act like I don't exist or try their best to be jerks...it really baffles me as to why some people hate you for no reason.[/QUOTE]
I know how you feel. I'm going to assume you're young though. My advice to you now is just to let it be. You don't have control of how people act. The only thing you have control of is yourself and how you act. Says in your sig you're bulking. Get huge, get swole, and keep lifting, and these girls down the road will regret ever ignoring you before. Trust me.
This thread isn't even 24hrs old yet, and Mr.Lmnop has already contributed more than any other poster. GJ. R4L
Here is a good channel for you brahs with girl problems: [url]http://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup?feature=g-user-u[/url]
My problem isn't getting women, because they usually initiate with me. My problem is finding one that isn't a sloot and likes white guys. IKR im foreveralone, pretty much expected this fact oh wel $>Everything.
[QUOTE=SkitheEast;974098833]My problem isn't getting women, because they usually initiate with me. My problem is finding one that isn't a sloot and likes white guys. IKR im foreveralone, pretty much expected this fact oh wel $>Everything.[/QUOTE]
Gym>money>everything
[QUOTE=Getripor****on;974099303]Gym>money>everything[/QUOTE]
kinda blows though knowing you're going to be alone and the only hope is to be consumed in work and other hobbies such as golf/gym.
alright brahs got a question
Been seeing this girl for a month now. We're not dating. She broke up with her bf of a year, 1 month ago.
She's really shy and loyal, she isn't a slut and I could never see her cheating. I really, really like her and want something out of this.
We had our first kiss on friday after we watched a movie together, we cuddled a lot, played with each others hands and all sorts. Shes obviously interested in me, but I just got some sort of gut feeling shes not totally over her ex, which I can understand. I was yucky yesterday and started texting her:
Told her I was gonna text her till I fell asleep (she knew I was drunk)
I went on to say "I hope that peck on the cheek wasn't to forward!" <--- happened that night
She went on to say No it wasn't , she liked it
Now even though we had our kiss and everything, I still feel like shes not totally interested at the moment. I went on to say:
ME: "I'll have to be more forward next time we hang out then"
HER: "you don't have to be if you don't want to"
ME: "I want to, I just don't know about you"
HER: "Well I am interested in what this 'being more forward' brings then!"
Is she really into me or is this woman logic at its finest? [b]Shes the hardest thing to read[/b]
Also, when should I ask her to date? I'm not sure when to go about that either.
/dear diary
were hanging out again on the weekend, so I'll try to make a good move there.
Or am I just over analyzing things?
[b]edit[/b] I also want to talk to her about this, see if she really wants something out of this? Or should I not?
[QUOTE=puremichigan1;973635653]My gf went to a party when she told me she was hanging out with 2 of her friends. What should I do brahs?[/QUOTE]
That relationship is over. Your girlfriend lied to you, and now she can never be trusted again. A precedent has been set, and at this point there's nothing you can do except break up with her. Being as you can't trust your girlfriend you have to assume the worst; that she cheated on you at that party. By lying to you she's forced you in to a situation where you must assume the worst. If she respected you she wouldn't do that, and she wouldn't lie to you. She obviously has no respect for you. Don't stay with a girl who doesn't respect you, dump her. You'll find a girl deserving of you brah.
[QUOTE=livetoplay396;973489063]yo when should I go for a kiss? 3rd date? I'm thinking a cheek kiss on the third date and a hug ya feel me.
Cause im kinda suspicious/cautious of the girl im currently w/.
inb4 beta male
inb4 *******
inb4 fail date[/QUOTE]
You've got to kiss her man. I know it can seem hard at first, but it really isn't. Just stop overthinking and do it.
[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;974132693]alright brahs got a question
Been seeing this girl for a month now. We're not dating. She broke up with her bf of a year, 1 month ago.
She's really shy and loyal, she isn't a slut and I could never see her cheating. I really, really like her and want something out of this.
We had our first kiss on friday after we watched a movie together, we cuddled a lot, played with each others hands and all sorts. Shes obviously interested in me, but I just got some sort of gut feeling shes not totally over her ex, which I can understand. I was yucky yesterday and started texting her:
Told her I was gonna text her till I fell asleep (she knew I was drunk)
I went on to say "I hope that peck on the cheek wasn't to forward!" <--- happened that night
She went on to say No it wasn't , she liked it
Now even though we had our kiss and everything, I still feel like shes not totally interested at the moment. I went on to say:
ME: "I'll have to be more forward next time we hang out then"
HER: "you don't have to be if you don't want to"
ME: "I want to, I just don't know about you"
HER: "Well I am interested in what this 'being more forward' brings then!"
Is she really into me or is this woman logic at its finest? [b]Shes the hardest thing to read[/b]
Also, when should I ask her to date? I'm not sure when to go about that either.
/dear diary
were hanging out again on the weekend, so I'll try to make a good move there.
Or am I just over analyzing things?
[b]edit[/b] I also want to talk to her about this, see if she really wants something out of this? Or should I not?[/QUOTE]
Bro, you have to understand that a year is a [b]long time[/b] to date someone, and you have to understand that a month is not a long time at all. There's absolutely no way she's over her ex after a month. She probably won't be for months to come. You have to face the fact that you're the rebound guy.
Personally I wouldn't suggest pursuing anything with a chick who's using you for the rebound. It's unfair to you. I'm not saying that you should hold that against her either, she's not doing anything wrong. To get over someone you really need to move on to someone else, and that's fine. But for your sake, don't let that person be you.
[QUOTE=SkitheEast;974098833]My problem isn't getting women, because they usually initiate with me. My problem is finding one that isn't a sloot and likes white guys. IKR im foreveralone, pretty much expected this fact oh wel $>Everything.[/QUOTE]
When the time comes, you will find the girl. The thing nowadays with people is that they expect to find EXACTLY what they're looking for right then and there and if not, asap. After a while, you realize if you believe in something that much, you have to be patient. Just like learning how to play guitar, or bodybuilding.
[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;974132693]alright brahs got a question
Been seeing this girl for a month now. We're not dating. She broke up with her bf of a year, 1 month ago.
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She's really shy and loyal, she isn't a slut and I could never see her cheating. I really, really like her and want something out of this.
We had our first kiss on friday after we watched a movie together, we cuddled a lot, played with each others hands and all sorts. Shes obviously interested in me, but I just got some sort of gut feeling shes not totally over her ex, which I can understand. I was yucky yesterday and started texting her:
Told her I was gonna text her till I fell asleep (she knew I was drunk)
I went on to say "I hope that peck on the cheek wasn't to forward!" <--- happened that night
She went on to say No it wasn't , she liked it
Now even though we had our kiss and everything, I still feel like shes not totally interested at the moment. I went on to say:
ME: "I'll have to be more forward next time we hang out then"
HER: "you don't have to be if you don't want to"
ME: "I want to, I just don't know about you"
HER: "Well I am interested in what this 'being more forward' brings then!"
Is she really into me or is this woman logic at its finest? [b]Shes the hardest thing to read[/b]
Also, when should I ask her to date? I'm not sure when to go about that either.
/dear diary
were hanging out again on the weekend, so I'll try to make a good move there.
Or am I just over analyzing things?
[b]edit[/b] I also want to talk to her about this, see if she really wants something out of this? Or should I not?[/QUOTE]
Stopped right when i read, "Been seeing this girl for a month now. We're not dating. She broke up with her bf of a year, 1 month ago."
Let me just start by saying, you DO NOT want to be pursuing a girl that has just recently exited a relationship. First of all, she is not over her ex in just a month. I'm sure you can figure that out. Second, how can she show any kind of love for another man when she hasn't found peace within herself yet? And lastly the most important, you do not want to put yourself in a position where you're loving a girl 100% when she can't love you back because of her scar. Why would you want to hurt yourself?
Think about it.
[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;974132693]alright brahs got a question
Been seeing this girl for a month now. We're not dating. She broke up with her bf of a year, 1 month ago.
She's really shy and loyal, she isn't a slut and I could never see her cheating. I really, really like her and want something out of this.
We had our first kiss on friday after we watched a movie together, we cuddled a lot, played with each others hands and all sorts. Shes obviously interested in me, but I just got some sort of gut feeling shes not totally over her ex, which I can understand. I was yucky yesterday and started texting her:
Told her I was gonna text her till I fell asleep (she knew I was drunk)
I went on to say "I hope that peck on the cheek wasn't to forward!" <--- happened that night
She went on to say No it wasn't , she liked it
Now even though we had our kiss and everything, I still feel like shes not totally interested at the moment. I went on to say:
ME: "I'll have to be more forward next time we hang out then"
HER: "you don't have to be if you don't want to"
ME: "I want to, I just don't know about you"
HER: "Well I am interested in what this 'being more forward' brings then!"
Is she really into me or is this woman logic at its finest? [b]Shes the hardest thing to read[/b]
Also, when should I ask her to date? I'm not sure when to go about that either.
/dear diary
were hanging out again on the weekend, so I'll try to make a good move there.
Or am I just over analyzing things?
[b]edit[/b] I also want to talk to her about this, see if she really wants something out of this? Or should I not?[/QUOTE]
DONT listen to people who are going to say that she's not over her ex in a month. Thats bull****. I was in a year relationship and my ex had a new guy the day after.
/dear diary
But If that is what she said about about the "being more forward" thing. Then she's definitely down. Don't sweat it bro. Just kiss/makeout with her and she is she comfortable (I could only assume she is ) Then if that works out then you know she likes you and you can go ahead and date her.
You're not over analyzing at all. You're perfectly in the clear dude and have nothing to worry about.
Also reps for have a well posted situation.
Edit: Don't talk about it with her, just let it happen.
[QUOTE=lkillen;974184463]DONT listen to people who are going to say that she's not over her ex in a month. Thats bull****. I was in a year relationship and my ex had a new guy the day after.
/dear diary
But If that is what she said about about the "being more forward" thing. Then she's definitely down. Don't sweat it bro. Just kiss/makeout with her and she is she comfortable (I could only assume she is ) Then if that works out then you know she likes you and you can go ahead and date her.
You're not over analyzing at all. You're perfectly in the clear dude and have nothing to worry about.
Also reps for have a well posted situation.
Edit: Don't talk about it with her, just let it happen.[/QUOTE]
Oh **** please don't listen to this kid.
When my ex and I broke up I was ****ing a new girl the same day, and she had a new boyfriend a few weeks after. That means nothing. You don't get over someone you've dated for a year in a day, or a month. No offense man but you're obviously a good example of this, because you're obviously still hurt by your ex.
Don't pursue a girl who's on the rebound if you're expecting anything more than sex. She won't be able to reciprocate feelings to the degree that you have, because she's damaged.
Alright brahs I've read over the replies, thanks for them.
The thing is that their relationship wasn't exactly perfect from what I could tell. I never seen them kiss, doing anything intimate, [b]at all[/b]; I should of mentioned that. I don't think she was happy with it after awhile and let it kind of slide, until she couldn't deal with it.
I knew her and talked to her when she was with her bf, and got a little bit of signs that she might of been interested. Before they broke up I seen a couple pics of her ex shirtless hugging another girl, so it was all coming to an end soon before they broke up.
Shes the one that starts cuddling with me and I go with it.
I understand what people are saying about the rebound guy being me, but I just can't comprehend why she would want to make me that since I've known her for over 2 years and we have A LOT in common. I'm taking it slow and I'm gonna go with the flow brahs
dat lack of girlfriend
[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;974224053]Alright brahs I've read over the replies, thanks for them.
The thing is that their relationship wasn't exactly perfect from what I could tell. I never seen them kiss, doing anything intimate, [b]at all[/b]; I should of mentioned that. I don't think she was happy with it after awhile and let it kind of slide, until she couldn't deal with it.
I knew her and talked to her when she was with her bf, and got a little bit of signs that she might of been interested. Before they broke up I seen a couple pics of her ex shirtless hugging another girl, so it was all coming to an end soon before they broke up.
Shes the one that starts cuddling with me and I go with it.
I understand what people are saying about the rebound guy being me, but I just can't comprehend why she would want to make me that since I've known her for over 2 years and we have A LOT in common. I'm taking it slow and I'm gonna go with the flow brahs[/QUOTE]
Taking it slow is definetly a good idea brah. But, don't do too much kissing or intimate things quite yet, just to steer clear of that -possible- rebound thing. Don't get me wrong though, some is fine.
[QUOTE=lkillen;974184463]DONT listen to people who are going to say that she's not over her ex in a month. Thats bull****. I was in a year relationship and my ex had a new guy the day after.
/dear diary
But If that is what she said about about the "being more forward" thing. Then she's definitely down. Don't sweat it bro. Just kiss/makeout with her and she is she comfortable (I could only assume she is ) Then if that works out then you know she likes you and you can go ahead and date her.
You're not over analyzing at all. You're perfectly in the clear dude and have nothing to worry about.
Also reps for have a well posted situation.
Edit: Don't talk about it with her, just let it happen.[/QUOTE]
This advice might be of some help to someone who is only looking for a girl for the sake of having a girlfriend. For any guy who wants to be in a relationship with a girl that actually deserves his time, it isn't worth reading. Everything Jux and Mr.L are saying is 100% spot on. The girl does sound like she just wants attention and some form of companionship, so she is looking for any guy who is interested. I'm sorry if this stings, Alainn. The fact that she was initiating the cuddling and kissing moves just proves my case. Somewhere out there, there is a girl who is the one. Don't let yourself get involved with those who aren't worthy of your time.
[QUOTE=question4u92;974254463]dat lack of girlfriend[/QUOTE]
Thank you soooo much for your helpful contribution and advice. Tempted to neg you.
[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;974224053]Alright brahs I've read over the replies, thanks for them.
The thing is that their relationship wasn't exactly perfect from what I could tell. I never seen them kiss, doing anything intimate, [b]at all[/b]; I should of mentioned that. I don't think she was happy with it after awhile and let it kind of slide, until she couldn't deal with it.
I knew her and talked to her when she was with her bf, and got a little bit of signs that she might of been interested. Before they broke up I seen a couple pics of her ex shirtless hugging another girl, so it was all coming to an end soon before they broke up.
Shes the one that starts cuddling with me and I go with it.
I understand what people are saying about the rebound guy being me, but I just can't comprehend why she would want to make me that since I've known her for over 2 years and we have A LOT in common. I'm taking it slow and I'm gonna go with the flow brahs[/QUOTE]
Make no mistake my friend, you [b]are[/b] the rebound guy. You're unable to see that because you're not the one on the rebound; from your perspective a relationship does seem possible and plausible. You have to understand though that this girl is just looking for some instant gratification, and even if it led to a relationship it's not something that you want to get involved with. Too much mess, too much baggage. There are plenty of girls out there to give your heart to, so don't give it to a girl who has that much emotional baggage.
Alright well we were going to hang out this coming weekend.
I feel like I should somehow tell her I'd just like to be alone this weekend and slowly put this relationship under the radar for a bit. I think I'm going to give it a couple months before I even try to do anything with her if shes still emotionally attatched and schit.
Any clue how I go about telling her ?
[QUOTE]Thank you soooo much for your helpful contribution and advice. Tempted to neg you.[/QUOTE]
Well I was kind of joking around about something very serious to me, so excuse me then.....
[QUOTE=AlainnNeart;974322253]Alright well we were going to hang out this coming weekend.
I feel like I should somehow tell her I'd just like to be alone this weekend and slowly put this relationship under the radar for a bit. [b]I think I'm going to give it a couple months before I even try to do anything with her if shes still emotionally attatched and schit.[/b]
Any clue how I go about telling her ?[/QUOTE]
Perfect plan. You know why? Because you are thinking about yourself. You're thinking about what's best for not only you, but yourself and that's something i'm glad you're doing.
Go ahead and go out with her, absolutely nothing wrong with that. There's not really a "good" time to tell her about how you feel. It's just a matter of saying it. Just know that what you're telling her can scare her. And by that i mean push her away. She just lost her ex. Maybe you're giving her comfort, maybe you're making her feel alive again, who knows? But if you're going to approach her, be gentle and understanding. Don't force anything upon her but lay your feelings down, and see where it goes.