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When in doubt, wait for princess to respond.
;)
[QUOTE=speX94;978470993]when you said shes polite when she texts you.. it seems like you might be friend zoned which is both a good and bad thing. idk. but if she is a year younger than you and shes polite in her texts, i think jokingly saying what i said before might help with easing that politness and help her get more comfy.. then again.. ive never really texted any girl. or for that matter actually talked face to face with one other than being forced to.[/QUOTE]
Like we usually start out polite then it goes to casual texting, and she sends a bunch of emoticons (I think that's what it's called) and what not.
[QUOTE=tehblasian;978477643]Like we usually start out polite then it goes to casual texting, and she sends a bunch of emoticons (I think that's what it's called) and what not.[/QUOTE]'
didnt fit4aprincess say emoticons seem hella fake?
[QUOTE=speX94;978478463]'
didnt fit4aprincess say emoticons seem hella fake?[/QUOTE]
Well that's not reassuring lol :P but then again with my last GF she sent a bunch of emoticons before we started to see each other and even when we were seeing eachother.
[QUOTE=tehblasian;978480313]Well that's not reassuring lol :P but then again with my last GF she sent a bunch of emoticons before we started to see each other and even when we were seeing eachother.[/QUOTE]
i guess. But she said she doesnt like a lot of emoticons. IDK. sometimes i just feel like putting smileys all over the place because reading text is so hard to tell emotions... i.e. sarcasm and what not.
I personally don't like emoticons too much. I use em on here but never on texts. I'd just assume call the girl but there are certain girls that don't like calls
[QUOTE=RollTideNation;978483793]I personally don't like emoticons too much. I use em on here but never on texts. I'd just assume call the girl but there are certain girls that don't like calls[/QUOTE]
Well I'll talk to her tomorrow and try not to go full retard and let the butterflies take over :P
[QUOTE=tehblasian;978486183]Well I'll talk to her tomorrow and try not to go full retard and let the butterflies take over :P[/QUOTE]
lol going full retard.. jeez.. girls hav eno clue how hard it is for some guys to actually approach a girl :(
\another question
lets say you get this girls number.. then you set up a date, you met her only once, but on the date.. how do you greet her? Hug? Hand Shake? what happens? dat awkward moment i know all of you have thought of it.
[QUOTE=speX94;978486473]lol going full retard.. jeez.. girls hav eno clue how hard it is for some guys to actually approach a girl :([/QUOTE]
are you already a sailor? done with boot camp / a school etc?
to answer your second question, a hug
[QUOTE=Visagex;978486803]are you already a sailor? done with boot camp / a school etc?
to answer your second question, a hug[/QUOTE]
in DEP :3 it should be future sailor, but becoming a sailor won't be a problem for me. What will be is keeping a spec ops contract.
[QUOTE=speX94;978487733]in DEP :3 it should be future sailor, but becoming a sailor won't be a problem for me. What will be is keeping a spec ops contract.[/QUOTE]
when you get to make some close friends in the navy you will have plenty of time to go to clubs / bars etc
there you will get used to interacting / talking and becoming more comfortable with girls because you are around friends as well so it makes it easier.
don't think so hard about it so when you got ur first date just be yourself and everything will be good
[QUOTE=Visagex;978488523]when you get to make some close friends in the navy you will have plenty of time to go to clubs / bars etc
there you will get used to interacting / talking and becoming more comfortable with girls because you are around friends as well so it makes it easier.
don't think so hard about it so when you got ur first date just be yourself and everything will be good[/QUOTE]
thanks.
i do have some friendsi met in my DEP pool. They have more experience than me forsure in the dating world.. rofl today on veterans day when we went to get some free Texas Roadhouse, he was showing me pictures of the girls hes been with and he was like... Vu... i got some girls on call if you want a phucky phucky... they would do it no problem... and i was like.. nah man i'm good, but i get where you are getting at. Ever since i met these guys, i have been more social forsure.
New pickup lines guys
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[QUOTE=speX94;978522563]New pickup lines guys
[youtube]hfI-wozg2a0[/youtube][/QUOTE]
Another good pick up line...
"dang Girl! you so fine, I wanna have yo baby"
[QUOTE=speX94;978522563]New pickup lines guys
[youtube]hfI-wozg2a0[/youtube][/QUOTE]
Gold.
[QUOTE=tehblasian;978467193]Something I have failed to mention is that she's younger than me (1 year younger). So something like that may not go so well. The age difference may not be much but the level of maturity is. From what I see and have noticed from her texting me is that she's very polite and nice, which leads me to thinking that she's more mature than the rest of the girls I know in her grade. I am really careful with what I say because I don't want her to think I am some guy just looking to phuck, you know?[/QUOTE]
She could have just forgotten. If it was after a game, there's a good chance she had other stuff on her mind. Don't bring up that she didn't text you back. I'd say the most you can do wOuld be to say something like "how was your game this weekend?"
If she knows she was supposed to text you back after the game, hinting at it will either force a reason for not responding out of her, or make her aware that she didn't text back. Just don't bring it up directly- it might come off as creepy. I'm the worst texter in the world and I hate when people ask me why I didn't text back. I usually just don't have my phone or get distracted. She may be like that too.
Good luck!
Whoa, I've missed a couple of pages (I'm new). As stated previously, the best first dates are not the movie theater, and something physical, one on one, mano a mano. Mini golf (putt putt), bowling, rock climbing (side by side, little competitive), etc. If these don't interest you, be creative. DON'T make the mistake of being 'submissive' and saying to her, "where would you like to go?" Sure that could possibly work, but women like when you take the initiative. Be in control, but don't be dominant.
If the lady doesn't text you back, don't keep texting until you get an answer (you won't get an answer, you'll be perma-ignored). Reply to what she said, if there isn't a reply for a long period of time, say something else, and that's where you should draw the line. Anything after texting twice without a response is borderline annoying/stage5clinger. Women, for the most part, thrive off guys not giving the attention they want/need. No, don't ignore her for hours on end, but genuinely reply without writing a novel, short answers (not just a few words). Don't act too interested.
Now for the butterflies, they'll go away with experience/time. My girlfriend tells me that she still gets butterflies when she's around me (it tends to happen when you're with/around someone who you can't stop thinking about). If you keep to yourself, and not try and make something happen, you'll always have butterflies. They're not a bad thing, they may not go away, but generally once you start a conversation, they go away. Eye contact from across the room, followed by a smile will somewhat break the ice (if she smiles back). That's basically the starting point.
[QUOTE=speX94;978486473]lol going full retard.. jeez.. girls hav eno clue how hard it is for some guys to actually approach a girl :(
\another question
lets say you get this girls number.. then you set up a date, you met her only once, but on the date.. how do you greet her? Hug? Hand Shake? what happens? dat awkward moment i know all of you have thought of it.[/QUOTE]
No handshake, half hug if anything (one arm hug) make it quick. Handshakes are to be used the first time you introduce yourself
[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;978569863]No handshake, half hug if anything (one arm hug) make it quick. Handshakes are to be used the first time you introduce yourself[/QUOTE]
Don't forget to compliment her on her appearance as you greet her. Keep it simple, you don't want to come off as creepy.
Oh and about emoticons.
The emojis are funny, I send those all the time. I think the "(:"&": )" smileys are fake. If a guy sends me one it's basically a deal breaker. Wink faces are fine if they're used to show sarcasm. Avoid the text smileys though, they're weird (imo)
If she's texting in emojis that's usually good. Even if she has nothing to say she's still trying to keep contact.
[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;978572703]Oh and about emoticons.
The emojis are funny, I send those all the time. I think the "(:"&": )" smileys are fake. If a guy sends me one it's basically a deal breaker. Wink faces are fine if they're used to show sarcasm. Avoid the text smileys though, they're weird (imo)
If she's texting in emojis that's usually good. Even if she has nothing to say she's still trying to keep contact.[/QUOTE]
So you're saying you prefer the guy you're texting to be serious?
[QUOTE=Mr.Lmnop;978649373]So you're saying you prefer the guy you're texting to be serious?[/QUOTE]
Some guys overuse it.
Brb putting :) after every sentence, ya know? I might be wrong though.
Ps fit, did you block the guy that sent you that msg on ig?
Lol'd at the reply that suggested telling him about bodyrock
[QUOTE=fit4aprincess;978572703]Oh and about emoticons.
The emojis are funny, I send those all the time. I think the "(:"&": )" smileys are fake. If a guy sends me one it's basically a deal breaker. Wink faces are fine if they're used to show sarcasm. Avoid the text smileys though, they're weird (imo)
If she's texting in emojis that's usually good. Even if she has nothing to say she's still trying to keep contact.[/QUOTE]
Smileys arent as cringe as when someone put 'ha' or 'haha' at the start and end of sentences.
Like what they are saying won't but funny without it [B]ha[/B]! <<< makes me do this >>>
[img]http://images.t-nation.com/forum_images/auto/r/786x0/4/8/48da5_ORIG-5df78_ORIG_cringe.gif[/img]
[QUOTE=TierAlpha;978683863]Smileys arent as cringe as when someone put 'ha' or 'haha' at the start and end of sentences.
Like what they are saying won't but funny without it [B]ha[/B]! <<< makes me do this >>>
[img]http://images.t-nation.com/forum_images/auto/r/786x0/4/8/48da5_ORIG-5df78_ORIG_cringe.gif[/img][/QUOTE]
clint is classic. he went to my highschool when he was young.
[QUOTE=speX94;978684193]clint is classic. he went to my highschool when he was young.[/QUOTE]
Clint Eastwood and Sean Connery are the two most alpha actors/men ever.
Boss.
Sharing my playlist. Keep in mind that some of these are very explicit...
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[youtube]ul1SH4xEccM[/youtube]
[youtube]DjeQQySzX4E[/youtube]
[youtube]HskVvfDeDDM&feature=related[/youtube]
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so. Curious. how do you end a date?
hug. say elts do this again sometime? or what?
[QUOTE=speX94;978688873]so. Curious. how do you end a date?
hug. say elts do this again sometime? or what?[/QUOTE]
"can I come in? "
Semisrs
[QUOTE=bogui94;978690613]"can I come in? "
Semisrs[/QUOTE]
what if your not into going all the way on the 1st date?
idk. i think i'm watching too much Hitch..
would you guys say that's a good idea? 3rd date would be where the first kiss is?
[QUOTE=speX94;978691353]what if your not into going all the way on the 1st date?
idk. i think i'm watching too much Hitch..
would you guys say that's a good idea? 3rd date would be where the first kiss is?[/QUOTE]
I was joking about that..
I have no idea tbh. RBN or fit might be able to tell you.