Wow, you still have an amazing transformation and have come very far! And I really love your attitude about not caring what others think! I used to never be that way but now if someone is rude to me because of my changed lifestyle or the choices I make, I just let it go...I used to be the type of person that always held on to things and go to food for support, but never again!
I can totally relate to the competition too, that's awesome your family has changed also :) we do that too sometimes, but the difference was that everyone else did it temporarily and not permanently.
[QUOTE=Owlyx;1108144273]No prob! I feel you about the sitting down. I've got a good bit of my remaining fat in my legs and belly, so when I sit down I get mad despite the progress I've made. Still looks the same to me even though I know it's not. lol
My entire family has started eating more consciously since I began caring about myself and showing them how planning things out and knowing what I'm eating lets me achieve my goals and still eat food that tastes great, despite what they had assumed. Also my mom and dad randomly decided to get divorced after all these years (no sympathy, please, it's fine, I support them both, especially my mom!), and now it's like they're competing with each other to see who can lose the most weight. All my life I've been in an obese family, and finally they start to do something about it for the strangest reasons. lol
And as far as friends go, I tell them straight up that I'm going to do what I want for myself and if it bothers them that I don't eat what I can't count/don't need that day when we go out then they can go f*** themselves. Seriously, I don't see why you need to be less social or skip going out with people, as if you're obligated to eat in order to please the norm. F*** that, I'm all about becoming better, not eating a whole thing of chips and queso just because someone ordered it. (:[/QUOTE]