MISC APPROACHES/PICK-UP CREW (international) (tips) (GTFIH foreveraloners)

This thread is to motivate and push us men to actually be men. Lately, I haven't been doing much approaches and feel like I need to get back in the mindset of putting myself out there once again. Got myself caught up in a mess with my FWB and that got messy. Time to move on. By the way, this thread isn't for pick up artistry, so if you're looking for that, look somewhere else. This thread is to gather up all us men and improve ourselves for the better. Try to keep everything natural and give some of you guys some real confidence.

In this thread, the main direction is for every memeber to talk about their experiences doing approaches, tips they like to share, and logs they like to share. I also want to try a new method which I think would speed up progress of each miscer. So, in your first post in this thread, post your location so you can see if anyone would be down for a group approach crew in your location. This will be like a team thing. Noticed people are more comfortable and confident when they have a support system behind them.

Here's some tips I picked pu that worked for me...
1. Call, don't text.
2. Always keep eye contact
3. Touch is imortant (handshake, hugs, and etc)

By the way, I live in Toronto, ON. So, if anyone would like to meet up for a Toronto crew. Just send a pm and we can set something up. Going for 5 approaches a day again. Starting big.


Hoping this is a success. Will bump in the morning.


[B]If you can't commit to change and find excuses for your shortcomings. GET OUT. (srs) [/B]

I can approach girls but i can't talk to them for **** after.

[QUOTE=endofdays89;780795003]I can approach girls but i can't talk to them for **** after.[/QUOTE]

What do you mean?

the relationship duck approves,


personally i have exams so i'm disregarding females at the moment but will be gearing up for that when i finish

[QUOTE=cheeezles;780795783]the relationship duck approves,


personally i have exams so i'm disregarding females at the moment but will be gearing up for that when i finish[/QUOTE]


Bulls[I]h[/I]it excuse.


Your acting like a minicule approach is a full-time 9 to 5 job. Get with the program or continue to find more excuses.

In. I'll start with two approaches a day.

Stay safe errbody.

[QUOTE=TheHeavyG;780802273]In. I'll start with two approaches a day.

Stay safe errbody.[/QUOTE]

Make sure to report in, bud.

i cannot approach girls, never even tried (srs)

when they approach me i can't hold a convo

but in for good advice

I need to hop on this and better myself...or even up being mad and bitter at woman for life.

i can approach a girl, i just dont know what to say and i always get a moment of awkward silence which makes me look retarded

i just dont see how you can walk up to a random girl and say "hi" without coming across as creepy as ****

[QUOTE=Marzzz;780796973]Bulls[I]h[/I]it excuse.


Your acting like a minicule approach is a full-time 9 to 5 job. Get with the program or continue to find more excuses.[/QUOTE]

call it whatever you want but i really i want to do well, a big part of that is not leaving the house and studying and get a lot of sleep.

[QUOTE=Marzzz;781010663]I tended to talk about about school when I first started but now, I'm planning to talk about things I actually know and like when I do approaches. You should try out that method and report back. Might work out in your favor.



Real men don't blame others for their short comings. Have that mindset and I know you'll better yourself and have success.



If you don't believe in yourself, she won't either. If you feel awkward as hell, she's feel awkward as hell. Remember, she's a moral woman and not a divine being.

Well, it depends how you follow up with that "hi". Some will think it's creepy, others will see it as normal depending how you go about it. Here's an example of an approach I did months back.

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: I would have kicked myself in the head if I didn't come over to talk to you.
Her: Aww. haha you're so sweet. *blushes*
Me: My name is Marzzz. Yours?
Her: Random stranger girl.
*small talk*
Me: I have to go but I'd like to take you out sometime.
Her: 713-272-381-823-8123 (not real number)[/QUOTE]

I can do the first part no problem, but I have no idea what to say for small talk.

any ideas on what to say? like what would you say to a girl on lunch break in high school?

i'm going to approach a bunch of random girls every day after I finish cutting down. gonna aim for 5 or so a day.

What if they look disgusted and are super distant when u approach them

[QUOTE=anonymousbrahh;781025113]What if they look disgusted and are super distant when u approach them[/QUOTE]

then cry yourself to sleep brah.

In. Will post updates too.

most of these fukers are beyond help, but gl to those willing to try and become more sociable..

[QUOTE=anonymousbrahh;781025113]What if they look disgusted and are super distant when u approach them[/QUOTE]


You be a man and continue.


EDIT: No one interested in doing meet ups? Tried it before and it gives some motivation.

[QUOTE=benzz;780971553]i cannot approach girls, never even tried (srs)

when they approach me i can't hold a convo

but in for good advice[/QUOTE]

Advice: Get the fuark out there and do it or you will never learn. No amount of tips and hand holding can compare to you [i]just doing it[/i].

I'm in. Problem is el madre hardly lets me out of the damn house or lets me go anywhere so the majority of my game is done in school. Will post if I ever gtfo of this sh[i]i[/i]t hole though.

[QUOTE=anonymousbrahh;781025113]What if they look disgusted and are super distant when u approach them[/QUOTE]

Just kill yourself and improve the gene pool as a whole please.

in...

in on this....starting tommorrow

[QUOTE=iamdetermined;781096373]in on this....starting tommorrow[/QUOTE]

this!

op, fellow GTA brah this thread Already has given me motivation, wanna thank you and wish all you fellow brahs gl!

[QUOTE=endofdays89;780795003]I can approach girls but i can't talk to them for **** after.[/QUOTE]

Age 22. Man, you are so young, and you have tons of time. A lot of times, you can just keep talking to them, and other times, you are just knowing what to say. For example, in sales, some days you are articulate, intelligent, and even smooth with your worlds. Other days, you are struggling to tie your shoes, and this is the life of a salesman. Get use to "no." Just know there are "yes" and adventurous girls out there. This is your focus, weed out slobs, negative bitches, and women with a ton of debt. Be particular. More importantly, women should be apart of your life, they shouldn't make it, and you should have higher priorities. Women will leave and timing wont matter. You could lose your family in a tragedy god forbid. It wont stop a girl from going out and being a whore. If you have education, a great job, money in the bank, invested, traveling the world, and you got things going for you, it wont matter that much. You may not be happy she is a whore or dumped you but, you are knowing your capabilities in the work place and in the dating world.

[QUOTE=anonymousbrahh;781025113]What if they look disgusted and are super distant when u approach them[/QUOTE]

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there's a lot to learn from this thread.

[QUOTE=anonymousbrahh;781025113]What if they look disgusted and are super distant when u approach them[/QUOTE]

[B]Forever alone crew
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lol wtf man

[QUOTE=damlurker;781122503][B]Forever alone crew
Friendless crew
Ugly crew
Socially awkward crew
Virgin crew
Never had a female friend crew
Never kissed/hugged a girl crew
Dead by 30 crew
Been on accutane 3 times and still have acne crew
Awkwardly proportion body crew
Speech impediment crew
Wasted life crew
Depressed crew[/B]

lol wtf man[/QUOTE]And new heir to your throne appears,




just as the prophecy foretold. . .

Stay away from rolling with people who'll **** up your swag when picking up chicks. Usually stay with someone who's on your level or better, a bit worse isn't too bad they can learn from you. If you and your friends are both beginners making an effort that's the best way to learn. That's all me and my main partner in crime did starting last March or so and really ramped it up during the summer months.

I do this **** all the time no matter where I am. On my way to class, work, grocery store, shopping, clubs, bars, etc...

Do you ever feel like girls who are visiting are more DTF?? I don't know if it's because they're down for some fun away from home or girls from my hometown are more prudish. Anyway last 2 girls I smashed were both from out of state and hot as fk.

[B]My recent approach:[/B]
Friday night I picked up this hot blonde babe from Cali. She told me she was 30 but I wouldn't be surprised if she was 35 or something but she was still in college girl fit shape and I kept thinking about MILF fantasies haha.

I was trying to show this kid who always tags along with our other friend. Me and my main boy hate his ass so I had to do it extra big to show this kid who's boss. We were walking through the dance floor looking for chicks, one chick grabs me but I was pretty suspect, she was white skinny but no more than a 5.8. It seemed to easy and I'm kinda drunk so I ask this dude, "What about her??" He's like I've seen you do better... I'm like fk you're right so we look for more single good looking chicks. That's when we see my blonde in a striped dress and he's like there you go.

She had 2 friends with her, both brunettes (decent looking) not interested in them. I go for the blonde and make small talk about the huge ass line, blah blah blah their specials are great tho, alcohol pitchers blah blah blah music in this club blah blah and as we're talking I'm taking advantage of the loud ass environment and have my arms around this chick and pulling her closer and closer and talking in her ear. She kept giving me **** tests after **** test and wasn't readily down, asking how old I am and **** but I kept making jokes and even tho she was verbally playing hard to get she never showed signs of disinterest physically (I'm all over this chick, hugging her really close to me and whispering in her ear).

Juicy by Biggie Smalls starts playing, I say what do you know about Biggie? She's like I don't know him... giggles and starts singing the song. With a big grin on my face I'm like fk this line, let's go dance and we'll come and get drinks later. She agrees and I grab her hand and lead her to the dance floor close to my group of friends so they can all 'mire. I'm making her twirl, making her grind on me from the front, then back totally leading her and she was having irfun. Now I never buy girls drink unless I think I 100% have them so we go grab drinks then she takes me over to her friends and introduces me to them. It was her friend's bday but she wasn't really dancing it up coz she was single so I tell her I have just the right man for her and call my best bro and introduce them. Now he's dancing with the friend and I'm dancing with the blonde. Apparently that other dude we hate got shut down by her 2 friends lol.

Fk this is getting long so I'll wrap it up. The whole time I was dancing with her but still making small talk with her friends, dancing with them, giving them a hard time, etc. etc. Her friends were even telling me to keep dancing with her and **** and I tell them I like their friend. (It's amazing when the friends don't fking cock block!!) We'll usually invite people to after parties or whatever but they had their own party so just me and my main bro joined them. Didn't wanna take rest of the crew, they were mainly our other friends' friends and we didn't want them fking up whatever we had going on. Slept with her than night ;), in the am we exchanged numbers, she told me to add her on FB etc etc. Haven't seen her since but I did find her on FB so if I ever visit Cali I'll hit her up and she can hit me up if she's in town again.

[QUOTE=damlurker;781122503][B]Forever alone crew
Friendless crew
Ugly crew
Socially awkward crew
Virgin crew
Never had a female friend crew
Never kissed/hugged a girl crew
Dead by 30 crew
Been on accutane 3 times and still have acne crew
Awkwardly proportion body crew
Speech impediment crew
Wasted life crew
Depressed crew[/B]

lol wtf man[/QUOTE]

O your damn lurker. I've heard so much, everyone thought you killed yourself or something. lol