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I started reading this at work, cuz I have no time to do it at home. Gonna continue tomorrow. So far so good. I could actually relate what went wrong with the last chick I was dating with what is mentioned on this guide. Apparently much of what I did was going well, but I ended up screwing it, and here it is explained exactly how and why I screwed it.
From now on I'll just stick to the knowledge shared from this and I'll see if it works. Not saying that all of it is great, but there are specific points that must be followed!
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Only one way and that’s to be aggressive
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**** the Haters, this works. And it's not a guidebook you need to study and execute to perfection.
Your mindset is what does it though, and it's the one part of the guide that could be improved.
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Great post.
Tons of value...
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[QUOTE=ElariaRose;1586888791]total crap[/QUOTE]
Yeah... good luck on your single life goals. Typical entitled woman BS.
Woman don't know **** about women. Everyone, please disregard everything she just said.
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[QUOTE=Frank Drebin;1591827671]is this real life?[/QUOTE]Yes it is...
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Was about to rip op a new naval then saw the post is 10 years old.
Point # 1 claims men need to remove hair between eyebrow.
Absolute BS. Women would see this as big time insecurity and un-maculine.
Heard some gen z goofball get humiliated by hot chicks, right in front of me for waxing his eyebrows.
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In on this, would love any advice from OP or anyone else.
I know it's not my looks, facially I'm pretty lucky (although I am short at 5'9"), but I think it's mainly around my confidence (which is improving) and not putting myself in the right situations.
I have high expectations for what I want to achieve - like I want to be able to have freedom over my sex life and have sex with a new girl every couple of weeks (if I choose), but I'm not putting myself in positions to achieve that as I usually just go out with my same group of friends 1-2 times a week and we rarely interact with anyone new.
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[QUOTE=MaesterSeymour;1610240111]PUA was so cringe.[/QUOTE]
Sup bud. Post is 10 years old and the ORIGINAL post was even older. While I agree the whole PUA movement became super cringe later on, the general advice of the thread was solid.
Over the years I've been able to fine tune what I learned at the time with a more balanced approach including greater maturity and self confidence. Use the original post as a basic guide, by all means.
There's no specific formula that will work for everyone but setting the tone early on makes a massive difference on how they treat you. Once you see the patterns, it becomes a routine where you don't think about all the little pointers and details anymore.
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[QUOTE=BiriusSlack;1609672411]In on this, would love any advice from OP or anyone else.
I know it's not my looks, facially I'm pretty lucky (although I am short at 5'9"), but I think it's mainly around my confidence (which is improving) and not putting myself in the right situations.
I have high expectations for what I want to achieve - like I want to be able to have freedom over my sex life and have sex with a new girl every couple of weeks (if I choose), but I'm not putting myself in positions to achieve that as I usually just go out with my same group of friends 1-2 times a week and we rarely interact with anyone new.[/QUOTE]
Well you need to network and that won't happen if you try to hook up with every girl you speak to.
The key here is to realise that you need to start somewhere. You might think said start is too small and therefore insignificant but that's the wrong line of thinking. Any small step that leans towards your goal will add up over time and the ball gets rolling. So here's some examples:
1. Start chatting up a few girls on social media. Don't hit them up for sex. We're trying to make friends. I've made a ton of new friends commenting on a girl's story on insta. Genuine comments. Turns into convos, and then BOOM. This works IRL too. If you show you can be a solid person, girls are very willing to be your friend. Again, don't smash. This is an investment to make new circles.
2. Ask your friends if they're willing to invite over new people to the group. If they are, you can invite new friends. Eventually that friend might like you so much they invite you to their event. Or:
3. Simply don't hang with the same group as much and hang with other people sometimes. Tell them why, if they're your buddies they'll understand.
The goal is for you to feel confident talking to new people and that confidence gives off an aura homie. Trust me, people see it and treat you differently when they do. And the only way to get that confidence up is through practice by talking to a variety of different people. I own a store but I'm often out on the floor interacting with customers and making sales. I enjoy meeting new people and just became really good at it over time.
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Still a great guide if you apply some maturity like Coal Man says. You can use it to f*** most girls you meet or you can use it to find the right girl.
Something I'd like to add (oversimplified here) is that girls want a "bad boy" that is good for them. They want a guy with the "bad boy" traits like insanely high confidence, holds his line against others,... but also has the skills to back up his words and is not worthless in our society.
Write down every bad-boy trait and you will be able to convert/interpret it to something the girls' parents will like. That's the real "key" in my eyes for attracting a long lasting relationship.
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Hey OP, in one of your posts, you say practice game on 13yr olds if you have too. Do ppl do this? Arent they scared someone might intervene and say "theyre too young"?
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well done for the effort lol
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Thanks for this tips. I try apply it. :)
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Necroing this thread before I leave as my final sigil of light for the misc :)
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Game over now girls step right up for your chance to eatmycrackers!!!
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Its been a hot minute, but wanted to blow the dust off this thread I started as 22 year old and reconnect with the BB.com community. Major props to @Coalman for keeping it alive.
There's no better teacher in life than our experiences.
There are certain foundational principles in attraction that will always be true.
However the time we live in now is drastically different from 2002, 2010, hell even 2015.
A lot of the current popular Youtubers paint a depressing picture on modern dating. I've watched a lot of their content over the past several years and started thinking......
[B]"This is my passion"[/B]; all my close friends know that I'm all about helping people, to me there's nothing better in life.
So I've decided to not only reconnect with my the BB.com community, where it all started, but will also be starting a Youtube Channel where we talk about: dating, fitness and building yourself into the best version of you.
I'll be creating content and posting links here to build up my following on Youtube, but also be active here to help out the OG's & new generation. Stay tuned!
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[QUOTE=Sauce-head;1652944983]Its been a hot minute, but wanted to blow the dust off this thread I started as 22 year old and reconnect with the BB.com community. Major props to @Coalman for keeping it alive.
There's no better teacher in life than our experiences.
There are certain foundational principles in attraction that will always be true.
However the time we live in now is drastically different from 2002, 2010, hell even 2015.
A lot of the current popular Youtubers paint a depressing picture on modern dating. I've watched a lot of their content over the past several years and started thinking......
[B]"This is my passion"[/B]; all my close friends know that I'm all about helping people, to me there's nothing better in life.
So I've decided to not only reconnect with my the BB.com community, where it all started, but will also be starting a Youtube Channel where we talk about: dating, fitness and building yourself into the best version of you.
I'll be creating content and posting links here to build up my following on Youtube, but also be active here to help out the OG's & new generation. Stay tuned![/QUOTE]
The internet, more specifically dating apps changed the dating marketplace.
You now have a situation where most girls are ****in 5-10% of the same guys in every city. It's either first or famine
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I think it's important to separate regular people from the niche internet people. In the US, 45 million of 330 million people use apps. Most people don't use them. They meet people in real life. Go outside. There's a metric ****-ton of couples out there that don't fit the narrative on dating that places like Reddit is pushing. Apps are 100% looks based. And guys tend to put 4% effort into their pics. Mirror selfies in front of dirty mirrors, them holding a fish, them with their car, or them with their arm over their arm over their dog's shouder. They're basics. No woman wants that.
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wow. haven't posted in almost 10 years and this thread is still alive.
