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[QUOTE=ThisIsMyAlias;1309634011]Why should some dude have to deal with your crotch fruit from some other dude you've phucked? They're not his kids, they're yours, you should be happy anyone is even interested in you.
LOL @ this entitled sloot mindset that some other dude is responsible for your past chitty relationships and the kids you spawned from it, what makes you think you're so great that some guy is going to take on all that chit just to smash?
lol dumb bisch[/QUOTE]
This OP. you gotta get it in your thick head that your value in the dating marked is drasticly sunked. You miiiight be lucky one time, but Ill probaably try to date other guys who have children themselves perhaps.
YOU choose to have children at such age, you stupid kent. You know knothing about life as a 20-21 year old, nothing! Now years later, where your children are truly in the victim zone for your selfish actions in creating them, you have made your life X times harder. Statisticly speaking, kids from broken homes often tends to do bad in shchool and life general. they will also likely to get depression and other mental illnessess.
I hate ppl who dont reflect enough. Ppl who thinks about only NOW, not what's up later years. Children are a huge deal in so many ways.
You are doing one thing right tho, and that is to shield your children from your prizes of cawks. dont let them know how much slut u are.
and hope u get negged to hell
good luck
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I wouldn't be too harsh on him, I'd be happy he told you straight out he can;t raise your kids.
I've dated a single mum and honestly to begin with I was right up for what it entailed, it was fun and different. But over time the responsibility dawned on me and I didn't want to be there any more, even though I never had any bad intentions.
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Married and with kids?
No thanks Melinda
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[QUOTE=Mulondingus;1309756671]Too long to scroll up and quote
Did explain the situation - took blame for not taking hints that he was crazy, took blame for not keeping birth control game 3hunna/nokids[/QUOTE]
God bless you Mami.
I think if you change your perspective of what you're looking for you will come across as more genuine and have better luck.
I understand that your kid comes first but what will benefit that child the most is if you find a healthy relationship with someone who connects well with YOU enough to look past the fact that you have a child.
I don't know anything about you but I have a friend who just had his first kid with a woman who already had a kid so don't lose hope.
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Single parents should just search out other single parents esp when you are young. Its too hard for a guy with no kids to take on someone elses kids at such a young age
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[QUOTE=SKIN__N__BONES;1309762591]Single parents should just search out other single parents esp when you are young. Its too hard for a guy with no kids to take on someone elses kids at such a young age[/QUOTE]
Here's the story of a lovely lady
Who was bringing up three very lovely girls.
All of them had hair of gold, like their mother,
The youngest one in curls.
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OK Melinda
I've got something natural to inject
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No man wants to raise another man's children. The only guys who are willing to do that are bottom feeders.
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[QUOTE=Mulondingus;1309637751]Last dude was father of kids - abusive - ended up hitting kids - not in picture any longer.[/QUOTE]
um got a question, hitting kids out of abuse. or doing his job as a father?
think carefully before you answer. when i was a kid i got my legs broke thru a spanking for taking the blame to cover my brother.
the spanking (5th grade) was for lieing and covering for him.
dont be one of them women who think everything is abuse. eventually have their own thoughts about you and your credibility will go out the window.
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Ok then Melinda
You realize we probably told him to go NC on you right?
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[QUOTE=Decisionzzzz;1309634711]Ok then Melinda.
God bless you mami.[/QUOTE]
died.
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Hope things get better for you! It's tough to be single so I just expect things to not work I don't expect Prince Charming I expect people to be flaky and am suprised if they are not! I don't take it too seriously! Take care of yourself and your kids and have fun kicking looses to the curb!
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[QUOTE=Brdprey;1309765931]um got a question, hitting kids out of abuse. or doing his job as a father?
think carefully before you answer. when i was a kid i got my legs broke thru a spanking for taking the blame to cover my brother.
the spanking (5th grade) was for lieing and covering for him.
dont be one of them women who think everything is abuse. eventually have their own thoughts about you and your credibility will go out the window.[/QUOTE]
she said he hit the kid so hard that the kid had to get eye surgery
also, you got your legs broken by your parents? bro i have some bad news...that's straight up child abuse (srs)
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[QUOTE=Brdprey;1309765931]um got a question, hitting kids out of abuse. or doing his job as a father?
think carefully before you answer. when i was a kid i got my legs broke thru a spanking for taking the blame to cover my brother.
the spanking (5th grade) was for lieing and covering for him.
dont be one of them women who think everything is abuse. eventually have their own thoughts about you and your credibility will go out the window.[/QUOTE]
I'm against spanking full stop (IMO it's just assaulting children). But for people like you who appear to think it's cool, she stated that the kid got eye surgery as a result of the beating the dad give the kid.
Also, if you got your legs broken you were abused brah.
Edit: ^^^^ Wizard
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[QUOTE=Brdprey;1309765931]um got a question, hitting kids out of abuse. or doing his job as a father?
think carefully before you answer. when i was a kid i got my legs broke thru a spanking for taking the blame to cover my brother.
the spanking (5th grade) was for lieing and covering for him.
dont be one of them women who think everything is abuse. eventually have their own thoughts about you and your credibility will go out the window.[/QUOTE]
This poster raises a valid point. Not reading through the whole thread but has OP provided any proof/documentation that there was child abuse in the household or could this be a case of he said/she said to get sole custody of the children? Wouldn't be the first time a woman has done this. Typically, a spanking, is considered child abuse anymore when back in my day it was called good discipline. The father dealt it out more often because the mothers wouldn/couldn't and the phrase 'wait till your father gets home' was born. Heard too many women cry foul when the cards weren't in their favor.
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Having been on the dating world for over 6 months now I can say that when I filter through women I always remove those with kids... not that I don't like kids, I actually want a family but I want my OWN family not someone elses... so I can see why it would be hard for a single mom (or dad) to meet someone who's willing to raise kids that aren't his own.
Plus, the fact that you have two kids most likely puts you inthe camp of "Have kids, don't want more" and if I was to date a single mother, one day, I'd want one who's ready to have at least one more kid.
In any case, I agree with anyone who said that you should look at single father as dating prospect, they know what's up.
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Wood smash op..... that said single moms = hit it and run like you aint got insurance.
Anyone noticed how quick that guy said "yup" to op telling him they cant date cuz he wont raise another mans kids lol
From experience sounds like he was never interested on op in the long run.
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op you know the rules. negged for no phucking pics of bf
srs
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[QUOTE=heyyouwhome;1309769961]op you know the rules. negged for no phucking pics of bf
srs[/QUOTE]there were you moran.
the sad tale of 'damaged goods' melinda
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[QUOTE=BetaAsPhuck;1309768261]I'm against spanking full stop (IMO it's just assaulting children). But for people like you who appear to think it's cool, she stated that the kid got eye surgery as a result of the beating the dad give the kid.
Also, if you got your legs broken you were abused brah.
Edit: ^^^^ Wizard[/QUOTE]
Legs broken is child abuse.(glad his arms werent)
Eye broken is child abuse.
But spanking, spanking works.
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[QUOTE=cncman;1309770991]there were you moran.
the sad tale of 'damaged goods' melinda[/QUOTE]
jakes on u ****gaut, not reading through 8 pages of this shet, pics go in first post or at least edit post to where pics are
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am i the only one who was mad this girl came to the misc and asked us to find her funny gifs to cheer her up?
the entitlement is real
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Fuk is wrong with you miscers. No wk, but lets give it a rest, the dude she was with was violent and physically abusive towards her and the kids. Its a serious issue, lets be a little respectful.
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I dated a girl with a kid for 2 years. She tried to cheat on me with the used car salesman.
Negged.
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[QUOTE=Spartan#x;1309774901]I dated a girl with a kid for 2 years. She tried to cheat on me with the used car salesman.
Negged.[/QUOTE]
i remember that thread, what was the conclusion?
