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Happy birthday brah. Let me try to help with something:
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I've met some semi jaded 30+ women. Like I said many are really into their careers too and that's all. [U] I need a younger free spirited girl I think.[/U]
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My advice here is not to make categories in your mind, like 'young girl' 'middle aged girl' 'jaded girl' - why? Because there are women out there that are something like a mirror to you - they meet young guys who are too immature, jaded guys in their middle age that think "nah brah women are out there to use me" and so on. So it's not really about age or attitude etc. in isolation, it's more about the whole package. And if you haven't felt motivated to marry any of the women you have dated in long term relationships then it's pretty simple: she/they were not right for you.
I'm not guaranteeing that you'll meet the right person for you, but - imho - marriage should really be for people who feel that spark, because (and this is the first time I'm quoting Cass, I think):
[QUOTE=Cass40;1523103851]Because it will be hard for him to change his ways. If you've been single your whole life, [U]how will you get used to being married?[/U][/QUOTE]
And keep that in mind, because marriage is fundamentally about a loving partnership and differs greatly from the 'single life'. If you meet someone worth that kind of commitment - you'll know it, and you'll feel it inside. Until then, good luck on the search - and here's to many more birthdays for you brah.
Happy birthday, Texas fam!!! Hope you had a good time and partied within reason. 😁
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No offense but you're getting too old not to be married.[/QUOTE]
pls..auntie Monica.
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people get married because they feel that they have to. Or because society has hand fed them that BS for years; ESPECIALLY women. Don't fall for the trap OP. Not saying don't get married, but it isn't something that you need to rush because of your age
[QUOTE=dbluevette;1523102741]I always give you props in your threads and you never rep me. But happy bday anyway.[/QUOTE]
wow strong pathetic
c'mon man at least stop rep-begging for the brah's birthday
protip for social life: if you want something from it, don't do it.
Happy happy Birthday Sword! I hope you (had?) have a great day!
Haven't read all of the thread, but isn't your biological clock ticking? tick tock tick tock. lol JK.
[QUOTE=drvillain;1523108341]people get married because they feel that they have to. Or because society has hand fed them that BS for years; ESPECIALLY women. Don't fall for the trap OP. Not saying don't get married, but it isn't something that you need to rush because of your age[/QUOTE]
Couldn't agree more! Too many people settle and then end up cheating/divorced. Wait for the right one and make sure it's what you want. Don't rush into stuff because of your age!
[QUOTE=Aristotelian;1523107371]Happy birthday brah. Let me try to help with something:
My advice here is not to make categories in your mind, like 'young girl' 'middle aged girl' 'jaded girl' - why? Because there are women out there that are something like a mirror to you - they meet young guys who are too immature, jaded guys in their middle age that think "nah brah women are out there to use me" and so on. So it's not really about age or attitude etc. in isolation, it's more about the whole package. And if you haven't felt motivated to marry any of the women you have dated in long term relationships then it's pretty simple: she/they were not right for you.
I'm not guaranteeing that you'll meet the right person for you, but - imho - marriage should really be for people who feel that spark, because (and this is the first time I'm quoting Cass, I think):
And keep that in mind, because marriage is fundamentally about a loving partnership and differs greatly from the 'single life'. If you meet someone worth that kind of commitment - you'll know it, and you'll feel it inside. Until then, good luck on the search - and here's to many more birthdays for you brah.[/QUOTE]
Don't rule out women in your age group because you seem to think they're all jaded. Not all older women are fuddy duddies and jaded. I'm 48 and I live life to the fullest and somehow I'm not even jaded after all my bad experiences with dating! lol I'm not willing to play games or put up with bullchit, but I give people a chance.
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don't listen to these idiots who want you to get married. just lol.[/QUOTE]
I dont get that, but i am a well known whoremonger
happy bday brah
[QUOTE=sword_;1523102381]Eligible bachelor for sure. Moving around a lot + being a careerist sorta puts a damper in things.
Know any single ladies? My friends told me that I need a woman that is [b]in her late 20s[/b] and ready to settle down.[/QUOTE]
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find one preferably in her early 20s that never had a sloot/party phase, family orientated and values the family unit. i think they become harder to find as they get older but goodluck they are defnitly out there. dont end up like every other western man marrying someone they met at the bar and then wonder why their marriage didnt last.
Well darn, just missed it. Happy birthday my friend, hope it was great! :)
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Happy birthday!
Mirin your exciting life as always (srs). Happy birthday
Happy Birthday Dude!
[QUOTE=drvillain;1523108341]people get married because they feel that they have to. Or because society has hand fed them that BS for years; ESPECIALLY women. Don't fall for the trap OP. Not saying don't get married, but it isn't something that you need to rush because of your age[/QUOTE]
Agree with this op. Marriage is a huge life decision and for men there is no reason to rush it. Date younger girls and have fun until you meet someone you really connect with. As a man you can always get married later in life and still have kids later if that's what you want.
Congrats bruh!
How'd I know this thread would be derailed by that hag's snide comment.
Happy birthday fella. I remember you giving me lifting advice in 2011.
Happy birthday bro - have a good one!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRO!!!!!!! :D
enjoy some cake and chicken and broc****! if u go to eat at chipotle hope u don’t get E. ****! u going to a concert or basketball game at the ****seum for it?
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Happy Bday brother, time flies huh
Happy birthday dude! My 33rd is Saturday, and I can certainly relate to the points you made in the OP. Definitely agree that the older you get it doesn't take as much to make you happy if you're living your life with the right priorities.
[QUOTE=Legz422;1523112151]Don't rule out women in your age group because you seem to think they're all jaded. Not all older women are fuddy duddies and jaded. I'm 48 and I live life to the fullest and somehow I'm not even jaded after all my bad experiences with dating! lol I'm not willing to play games or put up with bullchit, but I give people a chance.[/QUOTE]
You're right..
[QUOTE=Cass40;1523102331]Happy Birthday! :)
No offense but you're getting too old not to be married.[/QUOTE]
What hell kinda mentality is this? We don't know nothing about the guy, why rush him into marriage?
Happy birthday Koli breh. remember, GMB take no losses
[QUOTE=****liShred;1523113361]find one preferably in her early 20s that never had a sloot/party phase, family orientated and values the family unit. i think they become harder to find as they get older but goodluck they are defnitly out there. dont end up like every other western man marrying someone they met at the bar and then wonder why their marriage didnt last.[/QUOTE]
Do it. I started dating my wife when I was 36 and she just turned 23.
All of my married buddies can't get it up for their 45 year old wives anymore and wish they were banging 30 year olds. I don't have that problem. That's not just because youthfulness is more attractive, but also because my wife is not a bitter old hag...her energy and enthusiasm is a huge turn on.
I am convinced men become impotent because the poon available to them is old and tired. You couldn't pay me to bang a broad in my age group.
Happy birthday man.
[QUOTE=EdwardTheGreat;1523131041]Do it. I started dating my wife when I was 36 and she just turned 23.
All of my married buddies can't get it up for their 45 year old wives anymore and wish they were banging 30 year olds. I don't have that problem. That's not just because youthfulness is more attractive, but also because my wife is not a bitter old hag...her energy and enthusiasm is a huge turn on.
I am convinced men become impotent because the poon available to them is old and tired. You couldn't pay me to bang a broad in my age group.[/QUOTE]
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LOL not sure exactly what it is the I am coping with? A good marriage and healthy sex life?
[QUOTE=EdwardTheGreat;1523131441]LOL not sure exactly what it is the I am coping with? A good marriage and healthy sex life?[/QUOTE]
Being old and ugly!