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[QUOTE=MegaPump;1316514181]1:22
The guy must be so focused that his forgoten how man aunts his had die. LOL, what is it dude, 2 or 3?
[b][u]As for the WHY ?[/u]
I think there is only one or two reasons to do no fap.
1) It was a problem in your life. I.e addiction. (includes taking up your time)
2) Your ashamed of fapping.[/b]
Other people claim
- Confidence (I think that goes hand in hand with 2, which is actually ascence of shame.)
- Increased test (possible, and definitely in the short term, but does it increase test in long term ? Im not so sure. the more sperm and sex hormones you use the more you produce)
- Social anxiety (I dont know, maybe)
- Getting girls (yeah only if you had that ability to start with)
- Deeper voice (possible due to ascence of shame and increased confidence)
- More energy (yeah, i'll accept it, if your fapping a lot and quit you can have more energy)
- Increased eye contact (yes, refer back to points 1 & 2.[/QUOTE]
[b]My bad, some more reasons to do no fap. [/b]
[b]3)[/b] Porn induced ED
[b]4)[/b] Rebalance the brain, (but you can refer back to point 1 because unless your addicted your not going to be putting your brain out of balance by fapping a few times a week. It just depends how long you spend watching and how many different scenes or images you view. Id say the internet is to blame here. Back in the day of VHS it was no problem. You would watch maybe a scene or two at most.)
[u]The internet is the real problem.[/u] The WWW gives you never ending stimulation and [u]too many choices.[/u] If you where to say switch to DVD's and only do it say once a week, unless you link shame to porn and masturbation then you wouldnt have a problem.
What I heard from (lets just say) a sex therapist (wont mention her name) is that there is nothing wrong with porn and masturbation because men (and women) need sex and they will have to get it in one way or another. I'll add that its the excess thats the problem. Its when people get caught up in it and use it for too long and too frequently and they dont just take a scene and ejaculate. Professionals also says that people with sex addiction and porn and masturbation addiction also have a deeper issue which is an intimacy problem, and often the porn addict has problems talking with women.
A long while ago when I was looking into sex addiction (with great shame and non acceptance until I found this thread) the guy was saying that [u]porn and masturbation addiction is actually treated by looking at the deeper core root issue which is actually an intimacy problem. [/u]Just something to think about.
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[QUOTE=RadinRana1234;1316508491]Day 115. Crazy vivid sexual dreams the last two nights (not wet dreams though). My last longest streak was like 170-180 days, with very strong results... so I'm looking forward to getting back to that level.[/QUOTE]
Couldn't imagine breaking after 180 days.
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tomorrow will be
[size=+10]DAY 90![/size]
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Can't get myself to do cold showers this time of year.
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[QUOTE=mailo;1316694411]tomorrow will be
[size=+10]DAY 90![/size][/QUOTE]
Congrats! Close to approaching this point myself (November 31st), so hopefully if I'm up for it, I'll write in detail my experiences on this journey.
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Day 6. Ffs guys I feel like if a girl even touched my dink I would explode. Just the thought of women make my mouth water... Struggling bad right now.
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[QUOTE=mailo;1316694411]tomorrow will be
[size=+10]DAY 90![/size][/QUOTE]
Reached day 90 twice. Feels good man...hope to reach it again before long.
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Early this month I started my own tutoring business! I had one client but lost her tonight! :( *sigh* but I might have four clients by the end of the weekend *FiguresCrossed* :) Day 28 No Fap Day 14 No Porn! Two days from my first milestone for No Fap!!!
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[QUOTE=maori-rap;1316732121]Reached day 90 twice. Feels good man...hope to reach it again before long.[/QUOTE]
Ffs I've been so close to just caving in, this is a true test of willpower.
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[QUOTE=maori-rap;1316732121][QUOTE=mailo;1316694411]tomorrow will be
[size=+10]DAY 90![/size][/QUOTE]Reached day 90 twice. Feels good man...hope to reach it again before long.[/QUOTE]Its also my second time, first time make it to around 120-130 days, found a good FWB at that time, progress my lifts and ****, there is a few posts of how it went for me this time around, i will put them together later
day 90 today, day 180 tomorrow
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Day 0. Still striving forward.
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[QUOTE=JtotheIzzo;1317112281]Day 0. Still striving forward.[/QUOTE]
Do you think you could go for a no-fap December? 31 days?
Its the last chance we have this year to build up any kinda worthy streak.
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When you are going to, example, day 90 but a girl gives you a HJ/BJ, do you brahs feel cheated?
I know that's ok, it's not cheating on the No Fap.. but it still worries me...
I know that after some time, I will need to do something.. I will not fap by my self but I will still be able to get a girl do to something, will that be cheating?
I think in a way it is.. unless it happens spontaneously.
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today is day 1, plan on going all december no fap no porn
also day 1 of no smoking
yes doing both together, should become superman srs
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[QUOTE=maori-rap;1317127751]Do you think you could go for a no-fap December? 31 days?
Its the last chance we have this year to build up any kinda worthy streak.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I'm going to go for it!
Well, have to go back to school today. Have two weeks left of this semester before we are out for winter break. Final exams will be coming up soon.
Later everyone. Hopefully V6 will be up pretty soon and some old faces return:
TehAustrianOak
CSOleson
Gabriel Anton
Yashkovich
Anti-Globalist
xCody
mntbikedude
hopefully these guys come back and other prominent old faces
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The end of the day 1, determined to change something more in my life for the last month of this year. Right now it's exam session time so got to stay focused. Aiming for 32 days.
Totally zero libido, don't have any urges. Will post every single day for the first week.
Stay safe brahs.
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[QUOTE=Nole92;1317164861]When you are going to, example, day 90 but a girl gives you a HJ/BJ, do you brahs feel cheated?
I know that's ok, it's not cheating on the No Fap.. but it still worries me...
I know that after some time, I will need to do something.. I will not fap by my self but I will still be able to get a girl do to something, will that be cheating?
I think in a way it is.. unless it happens spontaneously.[/QUOTE]
Not at all. The whole idea of NO FAP is to stop fapping to superficial images and going out into the real world to get that interaction from an actual female, and that's what you're doing.
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Day 120.
Had relapsed earlier after a 90 day streak. So been on this for 210 days.
A lot of the benefits you'll see hee are mental. Anybody saying there are no benefits of no fap has no idea what he's talking about. I started this after my girlfriend left me. The benefits I have gotten are enormous and never in my life have I received so much female attention before.
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[QUOTE=Theory86;1317188961]Not at all. The whole idea of NO FAP is to stop fapping to superficial images and going out into the real world to get that interaction from an actual female, and that's what you're doing.[/QUOTE]
Yeah you're right.
Because I know that after some time I'm going to use Tinder/Real life to get a girl that will go down there, and that won't be a spontaneous thing, but a forced one.
Still.. it's a good thing I guess in the end.
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week one down. stay disciplined brahs...
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New PB for No Fap
30 days of No Fap b.k.a the one month!
16 days of No Porn
Keep it up everyone! :)
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I'm around day 40.
I haven't had a wet dream yet (wtf?) and I am not observing any boost in confidence these days. I find myself completely unmotivated and even tired the past two weeks (wtf?). I'm wondering what's wrong with me today so I looked at some hnnggh pics/vids and didn't even feel a thing (wtf?).
I don't know if I'm going to make it brahs. I'm scared.
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Hey guys, was thinking of doing a list for December as a Chrimbo gift but someone has already made a thread. With a trigger in the OP lol.
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One year without fap. It was hard at the beginning, I've had 2 or 3 wet dreams but now i can control it. Once i feel something weird is happening to my pennor in my dreams i wake up.
I feel good :).
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In b4 lock, ban, "invalid page. contact administrator"
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[QUOTE=DragonFireBrah;1317423101][img]to/images/3/18372.gif[/img]
Sorry guys, promises are made to be broken![/QUOTE] Enjoy your ban bro.
[QUOTE=illbleed;1317423491]In b4 lock, ban, "invalid page. contact administrator"[/QUOTE] Mods are aware, will just delete post and ban. And even if it is accidentally deleted, I'll just get in touch with pUni or any of the usual Misc mods and get it restored.
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In for the first time in a long time.
I'm gonna make it this time brahs.
No fap December and then onto the 90 days.
