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beyond failure
06-23-2006, 04:26 AM
Titania...that's funny...I was JUST looking at some of your pics...I'll spare you the boring details of my personal history but..I just wanted to thank you...your pictures/comments etc. were really inspiring...I have been really frustrated with the lack of support in the media (i.e. mags/books tv) lately in terms of encouraging woman to adopt the bodybuilder's lifestyle and take their bodies to the highest level of optimum health/performance. There is so much focus on weight loss for aesthetic purposes, getting shinier hair, finding the perfect shade of lipstick...I know there is more to life than this. Anyway...thank you so much for keeping it real and just know that your dedication benefits others.

Titania
06-24-2006, 12:19 AM
Titania...that's funny...I was JUST looking at some of your pics...I'll spare you the boring details of my personal history but..I just wanted to thank you...your pictures/comments etc. were really inspiring...I have been really frustrated with the lack of support in the media (i.e. mags/books tv) lately in terms of encouraging woman to adopt the bodybuilder's lifestyle and take their bodies to the highest level of optimum health/performance. There is so much focus on weight loss for aesthetic purposes, getting shinier hair, finding the perfect shade of lipstick...I know there is more to life than this. Anyway...thank you so much for keeping it real and just know that your dedication benefits others.
Thanks BF :D Receiving messages that my efforts are inspiring others inspires me too!!

suchaprettyface
07-11-2006, 02:10 PM
Johnny_USA has been following every single post I make. I had to change my log in id just to try and get him off of my back. He has repeatedly lied about me and told others to not respond to my posting.

can you please delete this posting. I have asked him to stop trolling me, but he obviously has issues.

My thread is Suchaprettyface's weightloss journey
http://www.forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=841524

Titania
07-12-2006, 03:52 AM
Johnny_USA has been following every single post I make. I had to change my log in id just to try and get him off of my back. He has repeatedly lied about me and told others to not respond to my posting.

can you please delete this posting. I have asked him to stop trolling me, but he obviously has issues.

My thread is Suchaprettyface's weightloss journey
http://www.forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=841524
I believe Fitnessman has already responded to you ;)

white_ræbbit
04-13-2007, 05:48 AM
I'm new to the BB.com forums, but damn I feel sorry for the women on this forum! It's unbelievable the amount of idiot guys that just can't keep themselves contained.

Where did respect for women go to? Do guys think that just because you lift as much as they do that you don't have to be treated like a lady anymore?!

WTF?

Starlite
04-18-2007, 10:42 AM
Would my pm to you be deemed one of the annoying complaints?

I am not attempting to be rude, I just wondered why you hadn't responded to the pm. If it was inappropriate to send it to you, I do apologize.

This is the first time I complained about another member being grossly rude and aggressively abusive. Up until now, I was unfamiliar with the procedure for complaints.

MissThing
06-11-2007, 06:38 AM
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?p=50398931#post50398931

dortress
06-20-2007, 06:15 PM
OMG, I can't believe that's there....

Titania
06-21-2007, 12:57 AM
OMG, I can't believe that's there....

Link?

nyprincess
07-02-2007, 11:46 AM
Hello, titania

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=3452921

Actually a new memeber was asking a question about his ankle injury, ccoffey3303 decides to be rude. When i commented back this is what he says to me
ccoffey3303

Quote:
Originally Posted by ccoffey3303

why do u have a pic of your ass when its flat as a board .


This member already has a very bad rep. I am surprised that he isnt banned yet. I am sure i am not the only person he was mean to.

Titania
07-02-2007, 11:53 AM
Hello, titania

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=3452921

Actually a new memeber was asking a question about his ankle injury, ccoffey3303 decides to be rude. When i commented back this is what he says to me
ccoffey3303

Quote:
Originally Posted by ccoffey3303

why do u have a pic of your ass when its flat as a board .


This member already has a very bad rep. I am surprised that he isnt banned yet. I am sure i am not the only person he was mean to.
He's been warned! :)

nyprincess
07-02-2007, 11:57 AM
Thankyou Titania =]

question? His rep was all in red, but after i rated it its all green. why is that so?

Titania
07-02-2007, 12:01 PM
Thankyou Titania =]

question? His rep was all in red, but after i rated it its all green. why is that so?
Maybe someone else pos repped him. Are you certain you negged him and didn't accidentally pos him?

nyprincess
07-02-2007, 12:15 PM
Oh i think i negged him. But then i am not sure as i havent done this before.

terracotta
07-02-2007, 12:19 PM
Oh i think i negged him. But then i am not sure as i havent done this before.

Your rep power is 0, so it wasn't you ;)

abeachparty
08-13-2007, 07:04 PM
I thought this was was rather rude ...

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showpost.php?p=69049563&postcount=9

but, then, it is not in the Female section.

Are there any similar rules over on Misc, or does this kind of stuff pass muster over there?

Do_Somethin
11-03-2007, 08:54 AM
How does one do a positive or a negative? I'm going to guess that the post above mine (there was a negative one there if anyone reads this if it gets deleted) would fall under a negative rating and quite possibly a violation.

Beklet
02-01-2008, 06:53 AM
Oops sorry, posted in wrong section!

This thread, and Fappie.. no other comment required ;)

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=6990351

change35
05-11-2008, 09:34 PM
I'm new to the BB.com forums, but damn I feel sorry for the women on this forum! It's unbelievable the amount of idiot guys that just can't keep themselves contained.

Where did respect for women go to? Do guys think that just because you lift as much as they do that you don't have to be treated like a lady anymore?!

WTF?
I am also new here, but I have read here and there.

I would have to co-sign your post. We should all be here, man or woman, to share our experiences, learn from those more knowledgeable than ourselves, and have an enjoyable time.

Vitalshok44
05-20-2008, 12:25 PM
I was wondering what can be done if someone feels they had an abusive comment made towards them, as part of the reputation system? I feel this happened to me and wondered what I could do about it?

pensfan2006
05-23-2008, 07:01 AM
Could you please delete the post about all that porn in the following link:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=107215971
Thanks!

pensfan2006
05-23-2008, 07:05 AM
and this one too please:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=107691331
Thanks again!

chinchillables
05-28-2008, 01:51 AM
They'll always be around. The world is not a sugar coated place, so everyone should be used to this by now. The best way to deal with a post of it's nature is simply to ignore it. Commenting back only adds gasoline dipped paper to the fire.

http://b65.us/getbig/lol.jpg

Forge3
05-29-2008, 08:01 PM
They'll always be around. The world is not a sugar coated place, so everyone should be used to this by now. The best way to deal with a post of it's nature is simply to ignore it. Commenting back only adds gasoline dipped paper to the fire.

http://b65.us/getbig/lol.jpg

It is a good idea to put abusive members on ignore. At the same time these members may have a habit of harrassing or being abusive to other members so it is good to let the mods know. Some people are more sensitive than others and it is the mods job to keep this place safe for all users. I am referring to very rude posts but this is of course subjective. If a member feels intimidated or threatened they have the option to report...

wide lats
06-06-2008, 03:14 AM
Not rude at all, just non understandable - whats nazis got to do with a rude posts?

Whats a rude post? Personally i don't know i can handle anything this world can throw at me, some can't handle it i guess and i think the ignore is a good function for them. Anyways, the op titania dont come here often anymore so post what you like ???

BlueShoe
06-28-2008, 06:56 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by HeatherAC View Post
Right - but complimenting individually is different than saying that you think some asses are better than the others. That's not what they were put up for.

And yes, of course we check each other out for appreciation and motivation - but once people start to feel that their parts are being graded or compared to the others it will discourage many.

That's my whole point - and thanks, I like it too - sucks that they lost today.
No offense but you are the typical ______ ( fill in the blank ) chick who hangs around the hot girls and bitches about ****. It even shows on these threads.

For real, damn you are annoying....STFU already. Don't you have to go to Curves or something?

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
This was posted by gamebred26 in the @ss thread in the Fem Misc section.

He has said several disrespectful things about girls in several different threads (which I think he has gone back and deleted) and has also negged a group of the girls that regularly post.


Here is the link just in case you need it.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showpost.php?p=184856781&postcount=1557

Thanks!

goldengoddess22
07-06-2008, 03:43 PM
I was browsing threads and made a wrong turn into a thread call attention whore threads (didn't know there were a misc for men and one for women) and i kid you not, these men are posting underage pics of girls, not women, girls, if you go look you would see that some look no older than 16. and they say stuff like, " guys look at this hot slut, i hit last week" or something like that, so i wrote them, telling them how i feel, got some heat from it, but nothing i can't handle from a bunch of pervs!

creddington
07-06-2008, 03:58 PM
I really believe the problem here is that there is like 75% really young (less than 25) people here in the forum. They just havent grown up yet! I would like to see them talk to the female members face to face with that crap. You know it would never happen.

martina92685
07-08-2008, 10:19 PM
Hey Mods -

I was attempted to be negged by another member (but he didn't have enough reps to neg me), but the comment he left was pretty disrespectful. Is there something that can be done about that? I hate looking at my reputation and seeing his crappy comment there.

Thanks!

erinlee01
08-02-2008, 05:55 AM
Here's one -

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showpost.php?p=200412551&postcount=4

steeldriver
10-05-2008, 08:42 PM
Women on this board who train should be given the same repect that the men get. I am married to a wonderful moman who trains just as hard as the men (She curls 75 pounds for 5 reps at 5'3, 135 pounds) and she she is a wonderful lady. I have met and PM'ed many wonderful ladies on this board and they are all class-acts. So, guys, I am calling you out!!!! If you can't respect the women on this board, then get the hell out of here! If you don't like it, my E-mail is on my personal page and I will be glad to give you my address and we can take to a higher level!

Dave, Steeldriver, Sixgun, Hammerswinger, Asskicker, The-man!!!!!!

GoutDeMiel
10-22-2008, 07:13 AM
Hey Mods -

I was attempted to be negged by another member (but he didn't have enough reps to neg me), but the comment he left was pretty disrespectful. Is there something that can be done about that? I hate looking at my reputation and seeing his crappy comment there.

Thanks!

I would also like to know the answer to this question. The member in question's comments on the thread I created was deleted, but he negged me because of it. I just want to get rid of the nasty comment in my box.

Thanks!

jaceeritchie
10-22-2008, 09:48 PM
Women on this board who train should be given the same repect that the men get. I am married to a wonderful moman who trains just as hard as the men (She curls 75 pounds for 5 reps at 5'3, 135 pounds) and she she is a wonderful lady. I have met and PM'ed many wonderful ladies on this board and they are all class-acts. So, guys, I am calling you out!!!! If you can't respect the women on this board, then get the hell out of here! If you don't like it, my E-mail is on my personal page and I will be glad to give you my address and we can take to a higher level!

Dave, Steeldriver, Sixgun, Hammerswinger, Asskicker, The-man!!!!!!

I LOVE YOU MAN!

humblegenius
10-22-2008, 09:59 PM
Women on this board who train should be given the same repect that the men get. I am married to a wonderful moman who trains just as hard as the men (She curls 75 pounds for 5 reps at 5'3, 135 pounds) and she she is a wonderful lady. I have met and PM'ed many wonderful ladies on this board and they are all class-acts. So, guys, I am calling you out!!!! If you can't respect the women on this board, then get the hell out of here! If you don't like it, my E-mail is on my personal page and I will be glad to give you my address and we can take to a higher level!

Dave, Steeldriver, Sixgun, Hammerswinger, Asskicker, The-man!!!!!!

Dude, its only the virgins and the tossbags that give the ladies a hard time. Its a shame they make up a fair majority of this board.

jaceeritchie
10-22-2008, 10:19 PM
Please check into this site:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=111443451&referrerid=107502451

This guy Douche100 has made VERY offensive & discriminating remarks towards me, calling me a transsexual amongst other things, because of my height & weight. They then joined together to flood me with negative reps that totaly knocked my one & only green out of the water! (I haven't been a member long, I just got my first green) Talk about a defamation of character! I don't believe this is fair as I've only given positive remarks & comments to people (except him, whom I called a dweeb...) I'd appreciate any help with resolving this matter. Thank you so much...

humblegenius
10-23-2008, 06:30 PM
Please check into this site:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=111443451&referrerid=107502451

This guy Douche100 has made VERY offensive & discriminating remarks towards me, calling me a transsexual amongst other things, because of my height & weight. They then joined together to flood me with negative reps that totaly knocked my one & only green out of the water! (I haven't been a member long, I just got my first green) Talk about a defamation of character! I don't believe this is fair as I've only given positive remarks & comments to people (except him, whom I called a dweeb...) I'd appreciate any help with resolving this matter. Thank you so much...

My advice, dont go anywhere near the misc or teen section. Thats on the pale side of what I've seen there. Just trust me. If you came here for bodybuilding advice, go to the specific areas, if you want a convo go to the female misc, if you want to be harrassed, go to the regular misc and if you want teens to spank the monkey over your avatar, go to the teen section.

Im not saying its right, but Im saying its just the way it is.

FreeLove_dc
11-19-2008, 11:23 AM
yeah they do
how else to i sleep with them all every night
i get more sex than prolly all of this forum combined

quoted for hilarity,

beefcakefetish
11-19-2008, 11:25 AM
Please check into this site:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=111443451&referrerid=107502451

This guy Douche100 has made VERY offensive & discriminating remarks towards me, calling me a transsexual amongst other things, because of my height & weight. They then joined together to flood me with negative reps that totaly knocked my one & only green out of the water! (I haven't been a member long, I just got my first green) Talk about a defamation of character! I don't believe this is fair as I've only given positive remarks & comments to people (except him, whom I called a dweeb...) I'd appreciate any help with resolving this matter. Thank you so much...

id like to bend u over and take a couple reps

pics please

FreeLove_dc
11-19-2008, 11:42 AM
id like to bend u over and take a couple reps

pics please

you're banned, so **** off

mobofreeze
11-20-2008, 05:12 AM
Take it with a grain of salt sweetie. I've been here 20 minutes and already received a PM pretty much asking my number.

jaceeritchie
11-20-2008, 06:57 AM
id like to bend u over and take a couple reps

pics please

Wow, a couple reps ha? Thats a record!

JAWS22
12-11-2008, 07:21 PM
Yeah umm, I got unjustly negged by DiamondDelts because I called him a fatty.... I hurt his widow feewings.

/Grievance

levidity
12-18-2008, 06:47 AM
curious to know about who the mod is for the relationships board. I was attacked in there and they destroyed my rep and were just blantly rude regarding my opinion. I think its BS that people attack people for no reason. I don't understand how the rep thing works but can i go back and give the people who destroyed me a neg rep for the rude things they said?

cawagner01
12-18-2008, 06:53 AM
curious to know about who the mod is for the relationships board. I was attacked in there and they destroyed my rep and were just blantly rude regarding my opinion. I think its BS that people attack people for no reason. I don't understand how the rep thing works but can i go back and give the people who destroyed me a neg rep for the rude things they said?

Just added to your reputation to help get you back in the green.

levidity
12-18-2008, 06:56 AM
Just added to your reputation to help get you back in the green.

thank you, i apperciate it. Its something so ridiculous but I felt like I was thrown to the sharks. Thank you again :)

cawagner01
12-18-2008, 06:58 AM
thank you, i apperciate it. Its something so ridiculous but I felt like I was thrown to the sharks. Thank you again :)

Your welcome and good luck.