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02-14-2003, 12:35 PM
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Guys Opinion Needed......
I'm used to aggressive guys hitting on me...straight out, tell it like it is...
But now I find that I am attracted to this guy who seems to be giving me the signals, but I have absolutely no idea what to do about it...I am not insecure in myself or anything, just don't wanna make an ass out of myself incase he is just a player that flirts with lottas chicks. He has in the past told me that he is shy about women...so if he is interested, I think I am going to make the 1st move...
Any advice on signals I would be getting if he was interested...the subtle ones and not so subtle ones!
Thanks guys!!
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02-14-2003, 12:37 PM
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I'm really good looking.
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Is he more shy around you than around other girls?
Does he look at your ass when you turn around?
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02-14-2003, 12:37 PM
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Usually, when I can't see ma sausage, that means I'm into a chick 
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02-14-2003, 12:42 PM
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I say just go for it. A straight forward girl is a rare commodity. If he turns you down or makes you feel silly just let us know. Other than that you have nothing to worry about (as long as you know he is single). I've seen your pictures, he would be a fool or is gay if he turns you down...
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02-14-2003, 01:01 PM
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He is definitley not shy around ppl but he "states" he is shy with women in general.
I dunno if he looks at my ass when I turn around b/c I am turned around...but he does make some pretty touchy comments towards me at times.
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02-14-2003, 01:05 PM
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Like?
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02-14-2003, 01:15 PM
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Guys love nothing more than an aggresive girl. Just jump on him, he'll love it. And if he rejects you, believe me, it's not a big deal. Guys dwell on that kind of stuff for all of two seconds, he'll forget all about it.
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02-14-2003, 01:16 PM
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Jay, you're just too much...
I will see how tonight goes I guess when I see him...I just don't wanna waste my time thinking about something/someone that I really don't have a chance with...make any sense?
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Originally posted by jay1514929
I say just go for it. A straight forward girl is a rare commodity. If he turns you down or makes you feel silly just let us know. Other than that you have nothing to worry about (as long as you know he is single). I've seen your pictures, he would be a fool or is gay if he turns you down...
Good Luck
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02-14-2003, 01:22 PM
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Well I guess hands down...making the move is winner...take matter into my own hands...
"Jump on him"...that would be fantastic!!!!!!!! That part I have no worries about being aggressive...I'm a scorpio, If it was just lust then I'd be all over it...but it's not
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Originally posted by thegamecdr
Guys love nothing more than an aggresive girl. Just jump on him, he'll love it. And if he rejects you, believe me, it's not a big deal. Guys dwell on that kind of stuff for all of two seconds, he'll forget all about it.
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02-14-2003, 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by Brennylee69
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You'd best turn that frown.. upside-down  ...
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02-14-2003, 01:25 PM
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NO NO NO....Evil Grin!!! This better??
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You'd best turn that frown.. upside-down ...
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02-14-2003, 01:26 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Brennylee69
Jay, you're just too much...
I will see how tonight goes I guess when I see him...I just don't wanna waste my time thinking about something/someone that I really don't have a chance with...make any sense?
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You mean you weren't talking about me? 
And I got my hopes up and everything. Who knows maybe there will be a knock on my door tonight. It's only what 5....6.... hundred miles? lol
Just go for it, as Burnie said, even in the worst case scenario the guy wont even think of it for longer than a second. But the getting hit on part will make him smile for years to come.
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02-14-2003, 01:30 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Brennylee69
NO NO NO....Evil Grin!!! This better??
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ugghh. Better stick with the evil grin 
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02-14-2003, 01:34 PM
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Jay...I'd be all over you in a second cause you're agrressive and you're HOT! But the distance....lol! The phone sex is getting a little much.. :P *joking*
Hit on him and get regected ...I hate to lose, so I tend to watch my prey and then strike...that's why I am nervous about this one.
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Originally posted by jay1514929
You mean you weren't talking about me?
And I got my hopes up and everything. Who knows maybe there will be a knock on my door tonight. It's only what 5....6.... hundred miles? lol
Just go for it, as Burnie said, even in the worst case scenario the guy wont even think of it for longer than a second. But the getting hit on part will make him smile for years to come.
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02-14-2003, 01:43 PM
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Originally posted by Brennylee69
Jay...I'd be all over you in a second cause you're agrressive and you're HOT! But the distance....lol! The phone sex is getting a little much.. :P *joking*
Hit on him and get regected ...I hate to lose, so I tend to watch my prey and then strike...that's why I am nervous about this one.
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Hey careful about calling me hot... I mean my pictures are in here and all. People will go take a look and see the truth!
Phone sex? I have been missing out. Must have given you the wrong number. lol
Guess I'll just have to move... But I hear Canada sucks... just kidding. I've never even been there.
Yes, I am aggressive, always been that way. My life long dream is to grow up to be a dirty old man. :  :
I do understand your point though. Why not just take him aside and ask? Straight forward and little worry of getting hurt etc.
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02-14-2003, 01:49 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by jay1514929
Guess I'll just have to move... But I hear Canada sucks... just kidding. I've never even been there.
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CANADIAN GIRLS KISS ASS!!!!!!!
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02-14-2003, 01:52 PM
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This is pretty similar to what happened with me and my girlfriend. She ended up bringing it up cause im shyer than you can ever imagine. Anyways, it worked out good, cause if she didnt say anything we'd probably still be just friends right now.
Also, i think its good when girls get rejected by guys, so you guys can see what its like for us. And maybe have a little bit of sympathy.
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02-14-2003, 01:54 PM
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Quote:
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But I hear Canada sucks... .
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ur a biatch
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02-14-2003, 01:59 PM
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Hmmm....I bet you're glad she did then eh! What signals did you send to her to show her you were interested??
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This is pretty similar to what happened with me and my girlfriend. She ended up bringing it up cause im shyer than you can ever imagine. Anyways, it worked out good, cause if she didnt say anything we'd probably still be just friends right now.
Also, i think its good when girls get rejected by guys, so you guys can see what its like for us. And maybe have a little bit of sympathy.
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04-28-2003, 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by Brennylee69
CANADIAN GIRLS KISS ASS!!!!!!!
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did u mean KICK ass?
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04-28-2003, 03:16 PM
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did u mean KICK ass?
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or maybe LICK ass? 
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04-28-2003, 03:34 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Brennylee69
CANADIAN GIRLS KISS ASS!!!!!!!
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canadian girls are quite nice
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04-28-2003, 04:39 PM
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Ask him out.
What's the big deal? Afraid of getting rejected? WELCOME TO OUR WORLD BITCH!
(JK, you're not a bitch. I just wanted to make that sound good. )
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04-28-2003, 06:02 PM
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Re: Guys Opinion Needed......
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Originally posted by Brennylee69
I'm used to aggressive guys hitting on me...straight out, tell it like it is...
But now I find that I am attracted to this guy who seems to be giving me the signals, but I have absolutely no idea what to do about it...I am not insecure in myself or anything, just don't wanna make an ass out of myself incase he is just a player that flirts with lottas chicks. He has in the past told me that he is shy about women...so if he is interested, I think I am going to make the 1st move...
Any advice on signals I would be getting if he was interested...the subtle ones and not so subtle ones!
Thanks guys!!
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Are yall good friends? Cause I like this girl alot and I think she is sending me signals, but I am hesitant to make a move because I dont want to ruin our friendship - we have been friends since we were babies. If its something like that, I say go for it.
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04-28-2003, 07:03 PM
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Originally posted by Cerbinator
Ask him out.
What's the big deal? Afraid of getting rejected? WELCOME TO OUR WORLD BITCH!
(JK, you're not a bitch. I just wanted to make that sound good. )
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ROFLMAO!!! BUMP on the J/K though!
I think that would be pretty cool if you asked him out! You never know what may "develop" if you never give it a shot. Nothing ventured nothing gained...
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wow - this is old
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Reason: outdated - she probably married him already!
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07-20-2008, 08:11 AM
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bump
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07-20-2008, 08:21 AM
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wow - this is old
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Wow strong 5 year bump :-/
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07-20-2008, 08:22 AM
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What's with this poster:
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07-20-2008, 08:30 AM
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how bout a where are they now reunion?
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