that you a nice guy but your not getting any from her.
It means her and her friends sit around and say things like "Tom is so sweet, he'd make someone a really nice boyfriend...but not me" and then they all laugh. Welcome to the friend zone.
There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old's life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged.
One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world.
The other, of course, involves orcs.
Friendship b/w women:
A woman doesn't come home one night. The next day she tells her husband she slept over at a girlfriend's place. Her husband calls 10 of her best friends. None know anything about it.
Friendship b/w men:
A man doesn't come home one night. The next day he tells his wife he slept over at a friend's place. His wife calls 10 of the husband's best friends. 8 of them confirm he slept over, the other 2 claim he's still there.
hey wow be carefull your pushing it into the friend zone.
Two years he walks the earth, no phone no pool, no pets, no cigarettes.
Ultimate Freedom. An Extremist. An aesthetic voyager who?s home is The Road. So now after two rambling years comes a final and greatest adventure: the climactic battle to kill the false being within, victoriously concludes a spiritual revolution. No longer to be poisoned by civilization he flees and walks alone upon the land to become Lost In The Wild.
-Alexander Supertramp May, 1992
You look to far into it...when she says you're sweet, it means you're sweet, lol. Whether you're in the "friends zone" or the "b/f-**** buddy zone" will be determined on how much she really likes you...you don't have to be an ass all the time to get girls.
"Courage without a conscience is a wild beast."-Robert G. Ingersoll
Basically Everything Except Boyfreind Material.
Just Freinds Zone
Many Of Us Have Been Put In That Groupng So To Speak. There's Some That Say You Can Never Get Out ,others Say You Can With Alittle Patience And Trickery,others Just Say Why .
I've Been Doing A Study Of This For A Fictional Story.
What I Have Noticed Is That Many Guys That Are Truely Nice Guys Generally Are The Ones Sanctioned To This Group.
Your Sweet,nice Or Too Nice And Such As The Like. While All Along Saying In Effect They Don't Want A Doormat For A Boyfreind ,milktoast,and Other Various Discriptive Adjectives.
I Have A Therory I'm Working On For My Short Fictional Story And It Goes Like This.
Guy Meets Who He Believes Is The Love Of His Life, She On The Orther Hand See's Him As Just A Very Good Freind . So He Gets Dumped In The Zone. He Knows He's A Nice Guy , People Tells Him His A Nice Guy Ann His Parents Especially His Mother Raised Him To Be A
Nice Guy. Even If He Said Something Terrible To His Sister It Was Time For The Woodshed(for Those That Don't Have A Clue Thats A Belt Meeting The Back Side Of A Rear End Being Turned Red) Mother Tells Him Girls Want A Nice Guy When They Get Married Or Date.
Hmmm. Boys Thinking She Needs To Get A Life In Today Dating Scene
Because Girls If Ask Might Say They Want A Nice Guy But What Do They Do Instead Of Going For The Nice Guy . He Is Made Fun Of Because He Is Nice ,respectful Of A Girls Feeling And In Most Cases Taught That Sex Is Not Until Marraige . True Being A Teenage Boy And Rampet Hormones Some May Slip Up But There Are Ones Like My Character . He See's How The Proverbial Jerks Treats Girls/women In General .this He Finds Hard To Swallow Or Believe . He Can't Fathom Why Anyone Would Want To Be Treated In Such Fashion. Especially If Teh Girl Is Ask What She Wants In A Guy. Well We Already Know One Of Them Is A Nice Guy ,someone That Loves Them ,and Won't Mistreat Them...... My Character Is Thinking Dah....... This Does Not Compute So He Throughly Gets Confused As To Whats Going On. After A While He's Approached By The Girl Of His Dreams Ragging About Her Latest Jerk Boyfreind And Because You Want To Be Around Her ,you Console Her And Tell Her Everything Is Ok,and Everything Will Work Out. . Under All That Bs You Just Fed Her Your Screaming Why Do You Put Up With This Crap.
One Day He Hears One Of Her Freinds Talking About His Dream Girl And Him. She Says Why Would Any Girl Want A Doormat For A Boyfreind Like (name Of My Character Mentioned) All Guys Like Him Aren't Nice All They Want Is A Piece Of Ass. This Shocks My Character So He Goes Home Gets On His Computer And Composes A N Email To His Supposed Girl Of His Dreams And Tells Her This. Info Which She Is Unaware Of About Him.
I've Just Learned I'm A Doormat To You, Someone That Thinks Very Highly Of You And Would Most Likely Risk My Life For If You Were Threatened Of Any Major Violence. However I'm Been Preceived To Be A Weakling ,unconfident , Doormat Which Is Way To Nice To Be Anything Better Than A Freind At Best. True I May Be A Doormat ,true I May Be Too Nice , True I Like You Probably More Than A Freind . True I Respect You As A Person True I Might Appear At This Time To Be Boring . But If You Knew What My Grand Mother Said About Her Departed Husband That She Was Married To For Over 68 Yrs Said Just Before She Died. She Said ,not Only Was He My Husband And My Lover ,but He Was Also My Best(repeat Here) Best Freind Also. So I Believe In Being A Freind . If You Wish Not To Be Freinds Or Don't Ever See Me More Than That Because I'm Nice Then Let Me Know So I Can Move On. I Was Raised To Be Nice By My Mother.
At Times Now I Wished She Hadn't Lied To Me. Because Don't Want Nice Guys They Prefer The Jerks That Mistreat Them, Cheat On Them,ignore Them ,and Basically Treat Them Like Whores.
Is I Hope If You Ever Get Married And Have Children And One Of Them Is A Boy Don't Ever Tell Them Girls Like Nice Guys Because You'll Be Lying To Them. I'm Outa Here For Now Just Let Me Know What Your Answer Is
The Defunition Of True Freind Is :
Someone You Can Always Count On In Thick Or Thin, Someone Who Will Always Love You Even Though At Times Your Unlovable, Someone Who Will Always Put You Before Themselves, Someone Who Will At A Moments Notice Drop What Ever Their Doing To Come To Your Biding If Needed. Someone That Will Allow His Heart To Be Messed With Simply Because He's Your Freind And He's So Nice.
The Defunition Sounds Alot Like What Girls Say They Don't Want When Young But After They Mature Late 20's To Earlt 30's And Realize The Best Freind They Had Was Probably The One They Rejected At First. To Bad They Could Have By Passed All The Abuse Physical ,mental And Anguish Of The Jerks She Dated And Was Sexally Abused By Only To Be Dropped When A More Attractive Girl Caught Their Eye. Generally Though By That Time The Nice Guy Has Most Likely Been Picked Up Be A Girl If Lucky That Actually Likes The Nice Guy Types.
Besides What Nice Guy ,unless Very Forgiving , Would Want A Girl Thats Been Sexual Used And Abused With Issues And In Most Cases Considered By Many To Be A Loose Women. Again Depending On The Guy And How Much He May Be Into Her . He May Forgive And Start Trying To Repair All The Damages Done By Said Jerks Of The Past.
Which Its Been Proven The Nice Guys Do Make Better Husbands And Fathers And Generally Better Providers.
So Moral Of My Story Is It's Up To You What You Want To Do.
How Much Are You Into To Her And How Long Do You Want To Hang Around.
Another Thing You Might Want To Ask Yourself . Is This Freindship One Sided Or Does She Reipercate(not Sexually Here) Has She Ever Set You Up With A Girl For Example Has She Tried To Help You Improve Your Image So You Could Get A Girlfreind , Has She Done Anything Except Complain About The Nth Numbered Jerk She's Been Dating That Might Make The Freind Relationship More Bearable , If Not Dude She 's Just Using You , Move On And Don't Look Back.
Just My Take On Things Take It With A Grain Of Salt.