Almost everytime me and my girlfriend don't have sex and we talk later in the day she asks me later in the day if I masterbated. She asks if I swear on our relationship that I didn't and thats where it gets me. She asks me where I did it and what I did it with, like the internet or whatever. I can't help it if I get teased and were not able to have sex. Now shes mad at me because I 'lied' to her about doing it. She knows I've used the internet before I don't pretend its the other girl, I just need a visual.
What should I do so she stops asking me all the time? If she asks me what am I supposed to say? I don't want to lie but I just feel that it'd be better for her to just not know. I love her and would NEVER cheat on her. Does anyone else have a gf and still masterbate? Please help this sucks.
11-07-2006, 08:56 PM #1
My girlfriend keeps asking me if I masterbate
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11-07-2006, 09:04 PM #3Originally Posted by ANiMaliZtIk
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from a girls perspective its a BIT odd to know your boyfriend/husband masterbates to other women, but at the same time its just a visual for them. unless your obsessively using the same girl in porn i dont see why it would be a problem.
i like animal's idea, ask her to give you somethign to use if she dosntl ike you using other girlsStephanie
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11-08-2006, 12:25 AM #11
okay..this sounds like how i used to be..i hated that my boyfriend watched porn and stuff cause i always thought that he would think about that girl when he did it and i would be all jealous and stupid..but ive watched the porn that he has and all the girls have features of mine..he picks them cause they remind him of me. he always tells me he thinks about him and i doing the positions and stuff like that. and i believe him now, took me awhile to get over though. maybe if you find some girls that remind you of her then if she sees them she will feel better? i dont know her at all so i dont know if that would help but thats what did it for me..
and yes like animal said..dont lie anymore cause then shes going to start assuming youre lying about everything else and your relationship is going to be crap.
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just tell her that you like to fapfapfap it ,and if she dont like that then tell her to give you some tail or bj ,or tell her to spank it for you.ask her if she masterbates ,im sure she does ,most women do it just as much as guys they just wont admit it.bug her about that.and shell either leave you alone bout it ,or shell assist you in your fapping endeavers.these weights are mine, they do what i say,when i say it,they will not defeat me,they are my property!!!!!!!!!!!
11-08-2006, 01:11 AM #14Originally Posted by LiLRyan
And she's being straight up WEIRD for harassing you about it. Come on - it's masturbation - everyone does it, just like Proud said. She probably does it MORE than you do. And it's proven that a lot of chicks think about other chicks when doing it, too.
Bring that up to her and see what she does.
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Your chicky has 'issues' bro.
Dude that's strange. What's with her obsession with masturbation? Did she catch her dad doing it when she was a kid or something?
Tell her it's none of her business. You love her, you're not cheating >>> end of story.
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11-08-2006, 04:34 AM #18Originally Posted by SPreston36
Guys need variation. Seeing and humping the same sh*t gets old quick. I can only think that young and immature women would take offense at their man wackin it to other women. Ridiculous
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11-08-2006, 04:45 AM #21Originally Posted by WeightedDips
From now on when she asks you tell her to mind her own fukkin business and say its got nothing to do with her.....
Tell her if she doesnt like it that you do it, she better start doing her fukkin duty as a girlfriend and have sex with you or at least get you off, and stop teasing you and leading you on getting you horny then leaving or whatever.
God if my girlfriend ever tried that **** id just put her straight on it.....and next time she asked about it, id conveiniently go deaf......and just leave her asking, better yet, if she asks you on the phone, EVERYTIME she asks......hang up immediately. If she rings back and asks again, hang up again.....she'll get the picture eventually.
11-08-2006, 08:44 AM #22
just tell her you thought about her... my ex used to ask me, but she got more turned on when i told her i thought about her. but she was into the porn as well. if she has a problem, tell her to grow up and if she holds out sex then shes being a baby. shes jealous... i dated a chick who once said "you better not be jo bc im the only one who should make you feel good" i laughed at her and just didnt tell her. next time she asks, laugh and just change the subject
11-08-2006, 08:52 AM #23
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11-08-2006, 09:07 AM #24Originally Posted by Worldwide
I spoke with her on the phone last night and she said shes not going to ask me anymore. This bothers me because I really don't want her to have in the back of her mind that I'm some pervert or that I think about other girls.
I promised her I wouldn't use the internet anymore and I didn't. I used a video that was on my computer already, and then I deleted it. I told her I used a video that was already there and she was upset. Now she says she doesn't trust me anymore, this reminded her of the time I lied to her when we first started dating. I lied about how many times I sex with my ex girlfriend but then I told her the truth. I have nothing else to hide and this little, tiny, small, microscopic problem reminded her of something else.
What should I do?
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Ask her if she masterbates when she doesnt get it before she gets a chance to ask you. Who does she think of? She how she likes it.
My G/F does when she doesnt get it from me and Ill occassionally tease her about it, but its all in good fun and she doesnt take offense, we joke about it.
Maybe she doesnt like the idea of you getting stimulation somewhere else. I actually had a jealous possessive G/F in the past like that. She would often put her hand in my lap while watching movies that had nude scenes to see if I was turned on by what was on screen. If so than yes shes immature because men are visual and it happens, all the time. My G/F works the same place as me, I remember once she came in my office, closed the door and sat on my lap. I had a boner and she said "whered that come from". I opened the window I had minimized before I knew it was her coming in - was looking at pics of Scarlett Johansson She just laughed. She doesnt care.
"I promised her I wouldn't use the internet anymore and I didn't."
Quite honestly, its none of her business, unless she wants to help you. as long as youre arent into some freaky ****, why should it bother her.
"tell her if she cares so damn much then she should have sex with you more"
Exactly. Tell her this next time she asks.I would give her answers like "yea I thought about you, a doberman and some peanut butter","I was thinking about you and Salma Hayek going at it" or "I was thining about you in a wonder woman outfit going down on (name of her friend here)"or whatever. If shes going to be ridiculous give her ridiculous answers.
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