Kohen, I thought I saw the world through untinted spectacles, and then you along came. This site has a very, very select few guys who give out the blunt truth and do so from from a worldly perspective. You are one of the elite. I thought I stood up for the truth, but you've outdone even me, and that takes some doing.
Not only that, you've made the time to give us your Alpha-male thoughts on countless occasions. This place is far better off with you than without, banning you is like closing the last window in a bureacrats office in July, and I will be making time to go through your previous writings - they're an absolute hurricane of fresh air.
Looking forward to your return, good friend - don't let anyone stop you dissolving the groupthink propaganda that is "equality".
Keyser.
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10-24-2006, 12:02 PM #92Originally Posted by Keyser Soze
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10-24-2006, 12:05 PM #93
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10-24-2006, 12:07 PM #94
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10-24-2006, 12:19 PM #95Originally Posted by Keyser Soze
Disagreement is good, because it stimulates discussion. Beligerant bigotry only stimulates the mentally weak. That, would be referenced to you and all of your aka's.Helping one person may not change the world, but it could change the world for one person.
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10-24-2006, 12:25 PM #96
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10-24-2006, 12:38 PM #97
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10-24-2006, 01:14 PM #99
Helluva thread! My only two cents for threadstarter is to continue to be yourself and live your life the way you, because we only get one of them.
fitnessman, nice catch man.~I'm an egomaniac with a inferiority complex...
~I love this crazy, tragic, sometimes almost magic,
awful, beautiful life.........
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10-24-2006, 01:23 PM #100
Is it a full moon or something? Anyway, Motiv8, don't let things get you down, and don't let any clowns mess with your head !
Don't compromise yourself for the sake of others, but don't hesitate to learn/discover/try new things about yourself either. There are good people out there, but finding them can be tricky, and sometimes you don't even realize it the first time around (my wife and I had to meet twice before we hit it off!)-----
"Beware the lollipop of mediocrity - lick it once and you suck forever." - author unknown
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10-24-2006, 02:25 PM #101
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10-24-2006, 04:44 PM #102
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10-24-2006, 04:45 PM #103
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10-24-2006, 05:38 PM #104
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10-25-2006, 08:18 AM #105
I was going to answer the question but then noticed the dozens of replies...I think that speaks volumes.
Women are a lot of 'forward' nowadays than before, so just go grab life by the balloons and do what makes YOU happy.
Being single isn't so bad anyways...I only want to get married (again) just for the kids.THUMP
"Be who you were growing up when you're older, and you'll always be happy" - George Lopez
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10-25-2006, 10:38 AM #106Originally Posted by Motiv8You
My wife can kick my butt and often does, she has studied Mui Thai since she was a child in Thailand. I've got her 100 pounds in weight and she's got way lower BF%. She's smarter than I am, highly educated and makes more money than I do, but I have more capital and net worth. We fit together well, form a great team and respect each other, that's what matters.
When you find the right person everything will even out. Men that feel intimidated, are insecure in themselves.
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10-25-2006, 01:33 PM #107
What do Women really want?
I'm new here but I couldn't resist tossing in my 2 cents.
Prepare yourself for my version of dating physc 001 (doesn't qualify for Physc 101)
If you go back and read between the lines of the ladies posts you will come up with common themes .... They are interested in how a man makes them feel inside.
If you're famous, wealthy, and a movie star, you might find it easier to get dates, but it won't help you to keep dating the same person for very long. To do that the Man has to understand how to make a woman feel good inside or vice versa. So, for the sake of argument, let's assume that we're not famous, fabulously wealthy, or a movie star and that we are just average, good to know, gym rats.
What makes a lady feel good inside?
There are a number of things ... but the simplest one to explain is confidence.
Let me repeat that .... Confidence.
If you want to screw up a relationship ... call her all the time, try to buy her affections with expensive gifts or dinners, act insecure, needy, and clingy. Just the type of behavior that most Mom's unintentionally teach their little boys from birth .... ie, lacking confidence. This will only work as long as you have enough money to keep them interested but expect that if they're hanging out for the cash .. I'll bet that there's another guy hanging out in the curtains somewhere that makes that lady feel good inside.
I'm sure the ladies could jump in on this thread and tell you other traits that turn them off as well.
For men: If you want a successful date/marriage/relationship, then follow several key principals ... 1.) It's ok to be a man, 2.) As a man, have confidence in yourself and your life (don't be insecure, needy, and clingy), 3.) have your life in order (women are always attracted to men who are interesting and who DON'T need them) 4.) relax, 5) Don't be an A_s.
From a man's perspective, it's not all that different. Although men are much more visually stimulated, the same basic rules hold true. 1.) Lose the drama, 2.) don't be needy, clingy, or insecure, ie... have confidence, (Don't be afraid to approach a man, it drives us nuts) 3.) have your life in order (men are always attracted to women who are interesting and DON'T need them) 4.) relax, 5. ) Don't be an B_tch.
Lastly ... I realize that statistics are a pain in the be-hind, but simply put, to have the best chance to meet people that you're likely to be interested in, you have to go to places that those types of people hang out.
If you like athletic women or men, go to the gym or spend time at the
coffee shop or juice bar next to a gym, take time to socialize after or before your training.
If you want a rich partner, hang out at upscale country clubs, expensive stores, or become a CPA.
If you like spiritual men or women, take yoga or meditation classes, become active in your church, or hang out in new age shops.
If you like large men or women, hang out at Weight Watchers.
If you want a fix-r-up project, hang out at AA meetings.
I'm sure you can come up with your own stats off the internet, but my research suggests that less than 4% of successful long term relationships start in a bar. Bars, however, are great places to start a very meaningful one night relationship. therefore, if you're looking for meaningful one evening encounters, then, by all means, hang out in bars.
But the real winner from a statistics point of view is this ... in our country today over 45% of successful long term relationships started when the two people were introduced by mutual friends, followed by on-line relationships and pickups in Grocery Stores (Saturday and Sunday are the local grocery store pickup days here in North Houston).
Meeting people on-line can be a touchy thing .. frankly, there's a lot of very weird people out there.
Start hanging out in Grocery stores and you'll either end up buying a years supply of cat food or you'll end up ruining that diet that you've worked so hard to maintain for so long.
Therefore, perhaps a better strategy for all would be to stop looking for love, dates, or potential partners and besides working on your own life, focus on making more friends.
If nothing else, you can never have too many friends, can you?
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10-25-2006, 01:33 PM #108
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Glad the thread is back in happy-land!!!
Thanks for your opinions... I SUPPOSE one thing about me is this:
I stopped asking men out.
About 2 years ago, as a matter of fact.
WHY?!?!? Well, it seemed really forward and most of the time they were married or had GF's - and it just got... weird. So I quit doing it. Maybe I should polish up my "lines" (I'm kidding!!) and make some small talk with men again. It might work.Lisa
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10-25-2006, 01:43 PM #110
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Originally Posted by Defiant1
ON second thought... I think I'll be studying anyway, so I'll just BOTLO for some new friends
~L.Lisa
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10-25-2006, 01:44 PM #111
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10-25-2006, 08:05 PM #117
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Originally Posted by Motiv8You
I have tons of theories on dating. Mainly because I suck at it and have time to develop theories. I think the types of guys who have enough "confidence" to approach you are probably not going to be the type of guys you want to date. The cool guys(who may be confident after you know them), may not be confident enough to approach. Thus, IMO, the best option for attractive women is online dating. You can post some pics that make you look average, or no pic at all, etc.
If you were in Va, I would take ya out for coffee
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