highschool crush

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 12:29 PM

well as stated above back in highschool i used to really like this one guy. but he was such a jerk to me all the time, he always teased me calling me "shamoo", and "big fat whale."

i always tried to have comebacks and say "your nothing but a big dumb jock". but that only inflated his ego. i always hated him but his body and his cute face always had me going. god i cant believe i had such a crush on him.

well now lets fastforward 2 years after we graduated, i got on trimspa and lost alot of weight and started to work out alot. well anyway i meet up with this guy at a party, and he is still the hunk he used to be. he comes up to me and starts hitting on me congratulating me on hot i have become and wat not.
but still kinda dissing me on how i used to look. he said he changed

but i dont know should i give him another chance

trims spa baby

cougarfootball2 · 10-02-2006, 12:33 PM

tell him, why dont you outside and play hide'n go f*** yourself

bootybabe · 10-02-2006, 12:34 PM

NO girl don't!!! He just wants a hook up he says he changed because you have changed. you should find a other guy who likes you for you and not your body.

Amris · 10-02-2006, 12:37 PM

Is this a joke?

He's still bashing you for how you used to look, but saying he has changed?

And you would seriously consider giving him the time of day?!?!

highwhey_14 · 10-02-2006, 12:38 PM

The guy's trying to get into your pants. Just think of the way he treated you before....treat him the same exact way.

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by bootybabe

NO girl don't!!! He just wants a hook up he says he changed because you have changed. you should find a other guy who likes you for you and not your body.

you sure, i dont know i really like him, the feelings are comming back stronger and stronger.
maybe you're right i think i wont go with him.
thanks sister.
us girls need to look out for one another

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

Is this a joke?

He's still bashing you for how you used to look, but saying he has changed?

And you would seriously consider giving him the time of day?!?!

he was bashing me in a joking way like flirting.
god but he is so hot. i wish he was nice.
plus i have never really a boyfriend or a man for that matter.
all i ever get are losers.
i just really want to lose my virginity

Amris · 10-02-2006, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

you sure, i dont know i really like him, the feelings are comming back stronger and stronger.
maybe you're right i think i wont go with him.
thanks sister.
us girls need to look out for one another

Trust me, in this case, your imagination of who he is, is 100% better than the real person he is.

Keep your infatuation for the imaginary prince. Lose your infatuation for this dickhead. They're NOT the same person.

bootybabe · 10-02-2006, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

you sure, i dont know i really like him, the feelings are comming back stronger and stronger.
maybe you're right i think i wont go with him.
thanks sister.
us girls need to look out for one another

You might really like him but he is out for one thing. ANd all that hard work that you have put your self thur to look better don't waste it on some one who dogged you. Trust me you will be thankful in the long run. Watch him get around a other bigger girl and see what he does.

Gibblets · 10-02-2006, 12:43 PM

assuming this isn't a joke, just go to a male strip club and pay one of the dudes to go home with you for $20 bucks.

with the amount of self-respect and dignity you have now, such an act wouldn't be so out-of-reach for you.

cougarfootball2 · 10-02-2006, 12:44 PM

girl dont you sell yourself short, your worth more then that !

Amris · 10-02-2006, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

i just really want to lose my virginity

Don't worry, emscr, I'm sure he can and will take care of THAT part for you.

Carry on now!

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Gibblets

assuming this isn't a joke, just go to a male strip club and pay one of the dudes to go home with you for $20 bucks.

with the amount of self-respect and dignity you have now, such an act wouldn't be so out-of-reach for you.

thanks jerkwad

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Originally Posted by bootybabe

You might really like him but he is out for one thing. ANd all that hard work that you have put your self thur to look better don't waste it on some one who dogged you. Trust me you will be thankful in the long run. Watch him get around a other bigger girl and see what he does..

i got a friend who is a little overweight do you think i should use her to test him out, i dont think she will have a problem with it she is pretty cool.

Amris · 10-02-2006, 12:55 PM

If you just want to divest your virginity, I am certain he'd be willing.

If, on the other hand, you want anything more than that, all you'd be doing here is setting yourself up to get hurt and badly used.

No sorts of tests are needed- his behavior is clear.

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

If you just want to divest your virginity, I am certain he'd be willing.

If, on the other hand, you want anything more than that, all you'd be doing here is setting yourself up to get hurt and badly used.

No sorts of tests are needed- his behavior is clear.

thanks for the advice
i think i will forget about him.
and find someone trullly nice.
i dont know i kinda found this one guy. he is alittle geeky but atleast he is nice
dont know if he is interested in me though

Amris · 10-02-2006, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

thanks for the advice
i think i will forget about him.
and find someone trullly nice.
i dont know i kinda found this one guy. he is alittle geeky but atleast he is nice
dont know if he is interested in me though

So ask him to hang out sometime.

Geeky guys will almost never ask you out, they're too scared and insecure.

If you like him, have enough courage to ask him to hang out. Especially with that type, a little initiative on your part can go a long ways.

Or, go up to him, and give him a flirty grin. If he grins back or looks like he got knocked over by a feather, ask him, "So, when did you intend to get around to asking me out?"

If he gets flustered, say, "Now would be a good time. X movie is out, you know." (Keep it simple with the scared guys

)

markedman · 10-02-2006, 01:05 PM

Geeky guy or jock guy?? Lets look at this if you just want to lose the Big V don't you want some one who knows what he is doing. Making him a **** thing and drop him and move on.

Amris · 10-02-2006, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by markedman

Geeky guy or jock guy?? Lets look at this if you just want to lose the Big V don't you want some one who knows what he is doing. Making him a **** thing and drop him and move on.

yeah, she really wants her first time to be with some jackass who won't let her forget she was once overweight, and STILL makes fun of her for it.

That way, when they're having sex, he can make snide comments about her body if she has any stretch marks or imperfections.

Rather than the geeky guy who would at least appreciate her.

That's just what all virgins need. A complete prick for their first experience. Especially virgins with low self esteem should pick some guy that will belittle her during the event. Uh huh, great idea, buddy!

JonZ · 10-02-2006, 01:12 PM

"but i dont know should i give him another chance"

Why.The.Hell. would you want anything to do with someone who treated you badly?????

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

So ask him to hang out sometime.

Geeky guys will almost never ask you out, they're too scared and insecure.

If you like him, have enough courage to ask him to hang out. Especially with that type, a little initiative on your part can go a long ways.

Or, go up to him, and give him a flirty grin. If he grins back or looks like he got knocked over by a feather, ask him, "So, when did you intend to get around to asking me out?"

If he gets flustered, say, "Now would be a good time. X movie is out, you know." (Keep it simple with the scared guys

)

thats some reall good advice i especially like the "So, when did you intend to get around to asking me out?" its witty and cute. i hope he likes me

Dr. Painburner · 10-02-2006, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

he was bashing me in a joking way like flirting.
god but he is so hot. i wish he was nice.
plus i have never really a boyfriend or a man for that matter.
all i ever get are losers.
i just really want to lose my virginity

its easy losing your virginity, you can prolly find someone on here that lives close to you ha, but not 2 some dood that wuz alwayz a dick to you, and then hes still sayin **** about the past. next time he talks to you just tell him to **** off.

Amris · 10-02-2006, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

thats some reall good advice i especially like the "So, when did you intend to get around to asking me out?" its witty and cute. i hope he likes me

He very well may, and be thinking to himself, "I wish she liked me, but probably not."

You won't know until you try. And making it fun may well sway him to give you a chance if he isn't already very interested.

Masu485 · 10-02-2006, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

He very well may, and be thinking to himself, "I wish she liked me, but probably not."

You won't know until you try. And making it fun may well sway him to give you a chance if he isn't already very interested.

whaaaat? geeks have feelings?? GET OUUUT!!

The Experiment · 10-02-2006, 02:19 PM

This thread is all kinds of awesome.

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Why.The.Hell. would you want anything to do with someone who treated you badly?????

Looks do crazy things to the mind. A lot of people are willing to put up with endless **** as long as they are respected for even a minute with an attractive person. Why do you think there are millions of men-pussies following hot women around? Why do some women treat their boyfriends like total **** but the guys keep hanging on? Same principle here.

How guys like Scott Peterson and Ted Bundy got hundreds of female admirers. Sure they butchered up women but since they are attractive, the letters flowed in.

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its easy losing your virginity, you can prolly find someone on here that lives close to you ha, but not 2 some dood that wuz alwayz a dick to you, and then hes still sayin **** about the past. next time he talks to you just tell him to **** off.

Riiiiiiight.

Imagine there was some girl who treated you like garbage but she was a centerfold for Playboy. One day, she is buck naked on your bed, spread eagle, telling you that she wants you in her NOW. Would you do it? Hell yes you would (I can tell you would be the kind to do so). Why? She is hot.

Why would she have a pick of people nearby on this forum? 99% of the people here have moderate to severe sexual issues. She might as well bang the jock. Better this ******* jock than a skinny 17 year virgin who whines about why all girls are sluts, the typical makeup of the Relationship Help section.

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That's just what all virgins need. A complete prick for their first experience. Especially virgins with low self esteem should pick some guy that will belittle her during the event. Uh huh, great idea, buddy!

Amris, quit ruining potential hilarious possibilities.

Admit it, the fact that she is still contemplating this means she will lose her V-card to him or some other ass means that this outcome is inevitable. She meets some attractive but arrogant dick, bangs him, he tosses her, and she whines here online about it. Then the flood of guys who coddle her but afterwards ask, "pics/n00ds lol j/k."

I got a Abraham Lincoln on the table that she will grow tired of the geek. Most do.

To be serious for a second, most geeks are insecure and standoffish as a result. An attractive girl hitting on a geek will make him really insecure. So tread lightly and you might just get in

TheBody7 · 10-02-2006, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by chrisy

well as stated above back in highschool i used to really like this one guy. but he was such a jerk to me all the time, he always teased me calling me "shamoo", and "big fat whale."

i always tried to have comebacks and say "your nothing but a big dumb jock". but that only inflated his ego. i always hated him but his body and his cute face always had me going. god i cant believe i had such a crush on him.

well now lets fastforward 2 years after we graduated, i got on trimspa and lost alot of weight and started to work out alot. well anyway i meet up with this guy at a party, and he is still the hunk he used to be. he comes up to me and starts hitting on me congratulating me on hot i have become and wat not.
but still kinda dissing me on how i used to look. he said he changed

but i dont know should i give him another chance

trims spa baby

no, don't give him the time of day, that's what he wants.

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by The Experiment

This thread is all kinds of awesome.

Looks do crazy things to the mind. A lot of people are willing to put up with endless **** as long as they are respected for even a minute with an attractive person. Why do you think there are millions of men-pussies following hot women around? Why do some women treat their boyfriends like total **** but the guys keep hanging on? Same principle here.

How guys like Scott Peterson and Ted Bundy got hundreds of female admirers. Sure they butchered up women but since they are attractive, the letters flowed in.

Riiiiiiight.

Imagine there was some girl who treated you like garbage but she was a centerfold for Playboy. One day, she is buck naked on your bed, spread eagle, telling you that she wants you in her NOW. Would you do it? Hell yes you would (I can tell you would be the kind to do so). Why? She is hot.

Why would she have a pick of people nearby on this forum? 99% of the people here have moderate to severe sexual issues. She might as well bang the jock. Better this ******* jock than a skinny 17 year virgin who whines about why all girls are sluts, the typical makeup of the Relationship Help section.

Amris, quit ruining potential hilarious possibilities.

Admit it, the fact that she is still contemplating this means she will lose her V-card to him or some other ass means that this outcome is inevitable. She meets some attractive but arrogant dick, bangs him, he tosses her, and she whines here online about it. Then the flood of guys who coddle her but afterwards ask, "pics/n00ds lol j/k."

I got a Abraham Lincoln on the table that she will grow tired of the geek. Most do.

To be serious for a second, most geeks are insecure and standoffish as a result. An attractive girl hitting on a geek will make him really insecure. So tread lightly and you might just get in

your a jerk i am not like that

Amris · 10-02-2006, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by The Experiment

Amris, quit ruining potential hilarious possibilities.

Bah, the vast majority of them never listen to me anyway.

I must just enjoy watching letters appear on the screen, for all the good it usually does.

minastra · 10-02-2006, 03:05 PM

Listen, you here all this about your first time should be special. That's because you should be special, to yourself and to the guy you give your virginity to. All of this new found respect you have for yourself as a result of you hard work to transform the outer you doesn't mean that you shouldn't make a man consider the inner you before you jump his bones. Make some stud give you an emotional pitch before you give him the honor of giving him something you can never get back.

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by minastra

Listen, you here all this about your first time should be special. That's because you should be special, to yourself and to the guy you give your virginity to. All of this new found respect you have for yourself as a result of you hard work to transform the outer you doesn't mean that you shouldn't make a man consider the inner you before you jump his bones. Make some stud give you an emotional pitch before you give him the honor of giving him something you can never get back.

i agree with you all

thanks for the advice.

chrisy · 10-02-2006, 04:19 PM

omg you will never guess what just happend

so this guy calls me up(the big jock that always made fun of me). anyways he calls me up and asks me out, and tells me that we should catch up on old times.
i tried to turn him down, i am not exactly the type that can be mean and abrupt, and tell him to **** off. but i think tonight on our date i will let him down easy.