We have been together since last November 2005 and began to be sexually active in June 2006. She is on OrthoTricycline and takes it everyday at the same time, really she does. I have used a condom everytime, however I have inserted and thrusted a few times without one. She thinks we don't need to use condoms, I think we should use them. But I swear it feels 10000000000000000000000 times better without one and I am using Lifestyles Ultra Sensitive, but still a condom really dulls the sensation. She thinks so too.
What is your thoughts on this matter????? Condoms? No condom and pull out before coming? No condom and blow my load in her like she wants?
08-23-2006, 03:08 PM #1
Girlfriend doesn't want me to use a condom
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08-23-2006, 03:14 PM #4
Before I was Christian (or married), I used to contracept and never understood why women would prefer men not use contraceptives.
I think either women prefer to know they are giving the man maximum pleasure, or they see the condom as a barrier to the intimacy of skin contact.
I don't have much to add here, just wanted to share those thoughts as I have encountered this same situation in my past.
08-23-2006, 03:15 PM #5
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my gf is on b/c, and we still use a super thin condom everytime. can never be too careful, but ya feels good without one every once in a while. i however would not suggest purposely cumming inside her tho.My Journal: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=106385041
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08-23-2006, 03:23 PM #8Originally Posted by Jacked_J
I'm not going to argue the morality of using contraceptives, I was only speculating as to the reasons which girls desire men to not use condoms when even they can't explain it when asked. I believe it is subconscious and motivated by the reasons I stated. You can disagree with my opinion thats fine, but don't be an ass about it.
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08-23-2006, 03:34 PM #12
How the hell did it take you 7 months for sex? (unless you're a teenager, it's understandable then)
And realy it's down to how much you trust her. If you know she's clean of STDs and realy DOES take the pill every day (and would tell you if she had missed one), then there's realy no problem doing it all the way, that's the whole point of the pill for Pete's sake!
08-23-2006, 03:42 PM #13Originally Posted by Uriel_da_man
Isnt there some side effects from taking the pill too? I mean for the girl ofcourse, like it damages somestuff in side there body...I dont remember exactly thoRavens fan and Gators fan 4 life
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08-23-2006, 03:55 PM #14Originally Posted by RavensFan2k3
Side effects of birth control pills include weight gain, nasea, bloating, breast tenderness, irregular menstral bleeding, increased vaginal infections, and mood swings.
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08-23-2006, 04:08 PM #16
There should be some kind of procedure like a vasectomy, but easily reversable. That would rule.
That being said, I always blow my load in my gf and she's never gotten pregnant, been on a few different contraceptives. Of course, I jerk it every day so there probably isn't many sperm in there.
And 7 months? That's insane. I would wait, maybe 7 weeks tops. And only if she was my ideal woman.
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08-23-2006, 04:41 PM #18
With me-I run by the "dont' be a fool-wrap your tool" motto.
Even if the girls on birth control I will still wrap it up--even if you pull out there is still a risk.
Take the risk if you want....but I wouldn't do a girl without protecton unless she was:
1.) Pregnant and had no stds
2.) My future wife and we where planning on having kids
3.) She was "fixed" (vasectomy or whatever its called)
And 7 months to become sexually active?............
08-23-2006, 04:47 PM #19Originally Posted by katma201
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08-23-2006, 05:06 PM #22
Some of you are fairly ignorant. All pills have a minimum 97% or more effectiveness, with some top of the range ones 100% effective as long as they are taken according to instructions.
Whereby condoms are only between 85% and 98% effective. So if she is clean and takes the pill following the instructions to the letter, blow in her as many times as you want.
Really, if you aren't mature enough or ready to be having children, then you probably shouldn't be risking having sex at all now should you? Not that I am a god botherer or anything like that, I'm just saying if you think you are mature and all that **** enough to be ****ing like rabbits, then you should probably be mature enough to handle having a kid should one come about.
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08-23-2006, 05:17 PM #25Originally Posted by Gez
08-23-2006, 05:20 PM #26
Tell her to get a pap smear that's complete with all the STD tests and show you the results, and to get a Mirena IUD.
Mirena is the only thing that is 99% effective- more effective even than condom use.
Unless, of course, you're perfectly ready to have a baby with her. If so, then carry on, carry on!First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out -because I was not a Socialist.
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08-23-2006, 05:44 PM #27
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08-23-2006, 05:48 PM #28
so if she's on the pill, and as preventive measures, you can always use contraceptive gel as well. the one that works best comes in a tube with the gel inside, you insert it in her and push the gel out. then you won't have to use the condom and it'll feel good. i do this all the time, even came inside a few times and she never got pregnant.
08-23-2006, 06:45 PM #29
08-23-2006, 08:04 PM #30
I like to use ultra thin condoms even when my girl is on the pill. I've gone bare back many times before... I had too many pregnancy scares.
Yea, I know the pill is effective, but even the thought of kids scares the hell out of me. I like knowing my sperm has no conceivable way to enter her pussy, and even if it did, she's on the pill. But thats me, they say its (the pill) like 96% effective I think?