Regular bars isn't that bad. People aren't loud, etc. You can actually have a conversation.
But how do you do it at loud bars/clubs? You know, places where people are mostly dancing and you can't hear yourself talk?
Do you just make eye contact and if the girl smiles just start grinding on her? Or what?
07-02-2006, 05:25 PM #1
What's your approach for picking up girls at LOUD bars/clubs?
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Its hard to pick up girls at loud dance clubs. Usually you just start grinding on a girl you think is good looking and either she'll move away if she's already got a man or doesn't like you. If she doesn't move away just keep going and getting progressivly touchy feely. After a while if you get tired you can ask her if she wants a drink then you can go to a quieter place to talk.
That being said not as many people as you think pick up chicks at those clubs. Some girls r looking for dick but must just want to dance with their friends. Its much easier to hook up with chicks at parties that are friends of friends, IMO. Its also a lot cheaper to go the friends route. At the club, you could buy a few chicks drinks and find out they are all dumb****s, all those mixed drinks will add up at the end of the night. Also never feels good for a girl to dance away from you although its really not a big deal.
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usually eye contact = positive sign (unless she's actually staring at the hideous boils like the guy from harold & kumar on your face). it's never worse than 50/50, and approaching is the hardest part. so go with above mentioned approach
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07-02-2006, 07:54 PM #8
actually those clubs are the easiest in my oppinion... you cant **** it up with conversation.
Basically all you have to do is start grinding on every chick, and which ever chick deosnt walk away or tell you to go away, then u continue grinding on them, then they will probably start feeling you up, your vice versa, then start making out, then get name, then ask if she would like to get out of there.
But if you ask for a number at the end and u just know her name, and you call her the next day she'll be like WTF?!
so try to get some bootay the first night.
whats fuked up in my oppinion is the girls go there to dance, and have guys hit on them to boost their ego's
while the guys go there to bring home a chick or pick up some numbers.
its like positive and negative and it barely works out.
07-02-2006, 08:03 PM #9
07-02-2006, 08:52 PM #10
ya what is with the ugly chicks turning down decent looking guys?
Its sorta fcuked up. Its obviously an ego trip/boost for the bitches.
If you approch the same girl outside of the club enviroment (mall/somewhere else/grocery store e.t.c.) you would probally have a high chance.
The girls game is in the club/bars. They dress all slutty and they KNOW guys will be looking-its nothing new to them, and they get to totally boost their ego during the night.
Negging is a good technique. If you find out how to use it.
Just NEVER buy a girl a bunch of drinks! ****! Have her buy her own ****-whats funny is if she buys her own **** she won't even drink it.
SHe just wants the guys to give her a big fat ego boost, and buy her drinks.
I mean think about it--its a win win for her.
She gets free drinks, boost her ego madely with all the guys looking at her.
Guys go-spend hella dough, and usually come home with no pussy.
But I agree. Gaming girls at clubs is mad easy if you just grab one and dance.
Walk in club-look for eye contact, order drink at bar-chill for a min while drinking it-keep looking at that one chick once in a while, approch her-grab her arm/hand gently-and lead to the dance floor. Start dancing. If shes not into you---then fcuk her.
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